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Mstick:
You can't say what a woman's"nature" is because you're not a woman. Even our natural features are different so why do you expect every woman to act and think the same?

We see news of men raping their own kids, killing even their own family for money ritual, internet fraudsters and cultists everyday but no woman creates a topic saying that's the nature of men.

God bless you!

bodybuilder:
Women don't understand your struggle.

The earlier some men realise that women are wired not to recognise the sacrifices you make the better for you.

A woman does not genuily care if you are giving her half of your salary.

A woman does not care that you're trying hard to satisfy in bed.

A woman will always leave you for man richer, more good looking and confident than you.

The moment you recognise this fact that women just care about value not intent or been sacrificial the better for you.

In a nutshell, don't put your self in great inconvenience for a woman.

Don't spend money you can't really afford.

Just spend what is really comfortable with you.

Here is an illustration.

If you earn 200k, and give her 100k

She will leave for a man that earns 1 million and gives her 200k

You get it, women naturally can't relate your sacrifice and struggle.

This is not just about money. It about every other thing.

A woman will not still stay with you because of the effort you put in to making her cum.

All she cares about is the orgasm, not the amount of work you put in.

In conclusion. Don't kill your self, she does not recognise effort. Women does not recognise effort, just value.

Don't forget this!

I'm not bashing women, it's their natural trait. It's not their fault. That's how they are created.

You just have to be aware of this truth as man, so you expect it, and don't cry like baby, when she leaves you anytime.

This is no hate on women. Don't get it wrong.

Brother! Next time ehn use "some women"!

Most people coming here to talk about Women make that mistake and its quiet annoying!

Y'all keep forgetting that we are not the same!

The fact that some people have been unfortunate to meet with Delilah doesn't mean you should tag all women as evil!


So pls ehn next time use " some women". IRE O

babyfaceafrica:
my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!


If you pay for any other thing.... I will tell amadioha, Sango and Thor to deal with you.. You never learn your lesson.. This type of gals that ritualist are looking for.. Nansense and ingredient

Those people you are calling are too small!
Send the while gods after him maybe then he will have sense!

LegitGirl:
Exactly. Or depending on the circumstances at the time. There are times when there’s an activity going on you need to be following up on.

But aside these, at least once everyday.

Once everyday
If we ain't following up on any thing, then it's thrice daily!

Kingdray123:
Lammylam! Hmmm. I bet guys have used lamer lines to get you laid. By the way what kind of fuc.k.e.d up user name is that?

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dude! Work on your pickup lines and don't come and engage me here pls! IRE O

NiceMen:
Stop the blackmail.

Girls who really like their man do not want them to spend.

After I left the leech I met here and just before she came with her shocker, I had moved to another girl.

The new girl told me she is not my responsibility and has tried to keep things that way. Recently I discovered through her friend that her mother's legs are bad and this she hid from me for long.

I had to quickly release money so that they can save whatever is left on the leg.

Girls who don't love u are the ones that will bill you heaven on earth and watch u spend anyhow without caution.

How am I blackmailing anyone?
See this thing is simple!
Sit her down and talk to her and if she doesn't change then you move on!

The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know! IRE O

I love this

My friend's saloon

Lame!

Good job op! Now, tell us why men marry late! Aside from wanting to be financially stable n waiting for Miss right! Try and list it as you listed the wowen own. IRE O

why do I keep typing "if" instead of "of"

dairykidd:
When u are in a serious relationship with ur guy who's supposed to be ur lover,best friend and confidant but u end up giving too much sharing more than enough information, giving attention & entertaining ur admirer(s) then u don't know what ur doing... And yes cheating is not just a thing of the mind, it starts in the mind.

Do u think every cheat already had it in mind to Or that they really wanted to cheat on their partners You don't play around water and expect to not get wet.

Cheating is a thing if the mind! If you don't give it a thought it won't come to reality! Some just wait for the best option before they do cheat!

No matter how tempting the person may look or be! If you can fight the temptation! You won't do it!

But if you had said just nursing the thought (without cheating) is cheating! Then I would have agreed with you. That means , cheating with the mind and not the body! . . IRE O

We are human o! And this flesh is a big temptation we fight everyday!

You have a bf/gf doesn't mean you can't admire someone else oo! The fact that I am in a serious relationship does not mean that I will see/meet someone who is intelligent and not admire! But that doesn't mean I don't have control over how I feel or what I do! (I stand to be corrected o)

This cheating of a thing is a thing if the mind! If you don't wanna do it you won't do it!

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent, After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decides to let her go.


just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earn but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise. So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decides to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

OK! Sorry oo but did you trying talking to her?? Have you ever sat her down and made her realise you are spending too much and that has to change??

It's just a question oo

No go use wife do girlfriend o!

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

See op! Just be yourself!
Whether you are badass or all loveydovey! What is meant to be will be!
Focus on yourself! Focus on what you want, and try to be a version of you that you can be proud of!.

But then ladies differ! Because you were all loveydovey before, and it didn't work out, doesn't mean you change completely!
Be loveydovey today! Be badass tomorrow!
Just let her know you can't always do lover boy every time!

Naughtysite:
Women are naturally stupid.

Never change your lifestyle or try to impress a woman.

They are users.

Women are naturally stupid? Like all women!!! OK!

As the spirit leads.

Nigba ti won o fi ori mi gba paro! Shioor

Friedturkey:
Lol.. Dem don show me better pepper tire. Now if anything just affects my piece of mind small, if I can't fix it, I ignore it or totally cut it off. Life is too short to not be at peace.

Hahahahahaha eyah Pele!

Las las una go kill una self ontop Nigerian woman matter! Shioor

Friedturkey:
mtschew... How many ladies these days give a guy this much peace of mind to enable him be as free and playful as this?
Before you open that nail polish, u go hear "ehen baby, remember that wig I asked you to buy for me...?"

Lol! That " ehen baby" part got me laughing! Dem don so you well well abi

NeduLuiZ:
Here we go ...Day20 which is today!

Ahn ahn! That your smile ehn!

Chai! Op! Did that make you feel good Mtcheeew things I see here self!

Neatly shaved beard! (beard geng)

BillionPAGE:
Willingly to learn. But How else do you think I should it?
I think she's just manipulating the whole thing.

Well! She is your woman! You dont have to wait for her to do something before you appreciate her! Do u compliment her meals? Do u tell her she looks good randomly? (when she change her hair do u compliment her?) do u surprise her? Dont wait till she does obvious things before u appreciate her! Even when she doesnt do anything! 'brown sugar! Thank u' that isnt to much. (my opinion tho)

Maybe she feels you are over doing it! This is something you dont do before (according to her) but then you changed after she accused you! She might feel you are just doing because she complained and not because you mean it (i might be wrong tho) yorubas call it 'gba je n sinmi'. Maybe you should change your method of appreciation.

chariisGRACE:
Dangote Spaghetti is 120 sticks. �

Is it really up to 120? This is a good idea o i will count golden penny spag tomorrow. As for me sha o there is nothing new! Even without the pandemic! I am always indoors! (when am home from school) bedroom to kitchen to sitting room! Thats my daily routine.

Mayorkun

crackkhaus:
What else does the 1980-upwards generation of Nigerian women need in a man other than his money and/or díck?

Y'all should continue deceiving yourselves there.

Anyone of you who meets a man ready to offer those two things and you're not satisfied it, please bounce...

so you are saying money and sex is everything? We need love, attention, respect! We dont wanna be in competition with ur numerous gfs!

oh! so now una no fit shout Afonja abi! awon hypocrite radarada

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God bless Nigeria!
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