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ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

Sorry about your situation.... l know how it feels!
YOU CANT OVERCOME SEXUAL URGE, ITS A NORMAL THING AND PART OF OUR LIFE!
BUT YOU CAN CONTROL IT, WHEN THE URGE REARS ITS BEAUTIFUL HEAD

1.) make up your mind, as in DETERMINE YOU WONT CHEAT (I hope your guy is the type that appreciates a faithful woman?).
Most things achieved in the "physical", are first achieved in the realm of the "spiritual". Your mind is your "spirit realm".
It is where FAITH works on. Even when people talk about the "power of positive thinking", they are referring to "the mind".

Once you put that "determination not to cheat".... no matter what.... in YOUR MIND, the rest is easy! You will have won 55% of the battle.

2.) after winning that battle (simply by determining not to cheat! Its that simple), the next thing to do is to KEEP AWAY FROM SITUATIONS THAT MAY COMPROMISE SUCH DETERMINATION. Dont "isolate" yourself with a male friend or colleague or anyone of the opposite sex. The tendency to "FALL/FAIL" is higher in such 'atmosphere'. You simply dont create the "atmosphere" for such event.
For example, you cant have sex in the public or when others are present.....so by ensuring that you are never alone with someone of the opposite sex, you simply make cheating with such impossible to happen.

2b.) Avoid watching anything/film that has to do with "intimacy".
Self-servicing is not right but at times, it can provide a "temporary physical relief"! dont club yourself to death because of it, right now. You are a victim of circumstances and the fact that you dont like it, means you will easily drop it once things/circumstances change.
I dont encourage it but l am "practical enough" to know that you cant avoid it at times..... just ensure it does not become the norm or habit. Avoid it as much as possible, using spiritual strength.
Hypocrites will tell you it a sin but in your case, its just a tool to overcome something even worse (cheating). Take it easy on your conscience....at least for now.

3.) Draw strength from your guy: Talk to him a lot, use any social App liek Skype, Viber with Video, e.t.c, especially when that urge becomes too strong. Express your frustration to him but very important, LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE DETERMINED NOT TO CHEAT ON HIM (I emphasised this because l dont want a situation where you "set-off alarms" in his head and he starts imagining whether you are already cheating and just trying to sound him out! I see that a few people have already followed that line of thinking, in their post! )
Tell him to give you words of encouragement, tell him to make your determination stronger. Ask him how he is also coping with such feelings......and together, if two of you are actually faithful to one another, you can pull your strength together to become stronger, for each other.
TWO PEOPLE, WHO ARE UNITED BY PURPOSE, ARE ALWAYS STRONGER THAN JUST ONE PERSON.

4.) Read your Bible/Quaran, especially those areas that speaks about chastity and rewards of a virtuous woman.
Pray a lot. Anytime your are feeling the "sexual urge", go on your knees and ask God to give you strength.
Tell God that you want to be strong and faithful for your would-be husband and you want spiritual strength (Dont go to anyone or any Pastor about this, they will simply TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. Trust me on that.....at least you dont know me and l have no intention of knowing you either ).
Fast for a few hours at times. Dont become an "S.U" o! Moderation is what the Bible preaches.
Fast occasionally. Pray like three times daily. When you wake up, at your leisure in the afternoon and before you go to bed.

5.) Sex is a way of dissipating "energy" and those who dont have regular sex, have an abundance of excess energy.
Some channel the "excess energy" into nagging and snapping at anything within their reach!
Some become "S.U" and work in the church and become very rigid in life;
Some clean and "over clean" the house so much it becomes an annoying obsession, e.t.c

But l will encourage you to channel the "excess energy" into your work (work that earns you income).
If you are a student, study longer hours and focus more on attaining better grades.
If you are already working, let your boss see you do more and achieve more than your colleagues. Take up challenges within the office, that others would grumble about ..... but dont let your Male Boss use that to seek your sexual attention.
Dont discuss your "sexual frustrations" with anyone that knows you or can come into contact with you: They will use it against you and you will likely FALL!

Finally Let YOUR GOAL (MARRIAGE TO THE ONE YOU LOVE) MOTIVATE YOU: Everytime and everyday, imagine you are an athlete (Call yourself Usain Bolt) and you are running a race.
Your Trophy is a pure marriage to your man .........and the end of the race is the day you are joined with him.
So, tell yourself that each day you overcome the urge to cheat, you are getting closer to winning your GOLD MEDAL!
Tell yourself that "if Usain Bolt can do it, l can also do it! Let the race carry-on, since it has already began.

Remember, every journey that has a beginning, surely has an end..... no matter how long the journey is.
Your journey will end soon, and l pray it ends well.

Also remember, NOTHING IS HIDDEN UNDER THE SUN!.
If you cheat, it will never leave your conscience and you will be surprised to hear that our "spirit" has not only a way of exposing us, it also has a way of punishing us, even without the knowledge of the victim (an unsuspecting spouse).

If you can, l will encourage you to print "COPIES" of this post and stick it to the head of your bed and virtually anywhere you will be able to read it at a moment notice, so it can encourage you. Shre it with your 'guy' as well. it may help both of you.

#I am married to a woman who went through this process A FEW DECADES back. Back then, we dont even have all these Social apps and Phne call was a very long "whole day queue" at NITEL!
But she was strong and won the battle against temptation!
I treasure her till today, for remaining strong and l will always appreciate her till death do us apart.

Be open with your man and let him know you are fighting a battle as well as running a race...for your relationship.
Ask him if he wants to be your "running or jogging partner"!


TRUE LOVE CONQUERS ALL OBSTACLE.

I wish you well.
May it end well with you.

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Dreambeat:
Imagine people that ruled us in 1978,36 years after,are still jostling for the one position or the other.Fighting to be politically relevant when they should have groomed the youth to take over.This set of leaders failed the youth of this country,they should be held accountable for their misrule and mismanagement.They should not be celebrated.They mortgaged the future of the youths of today.Little wonder the country is in a mess,we had leaders that were not fore sighted.Unfortunately they are everywhere,Governors,Ministers,Permanent Secretaries.Leaders that never believed that you can write a letter in Nigeria and somebody in the US would receive the message in a twinkle of an eye.We need new faces,we can't continue the same old ways.This is the ACTUAL CHANGE we need.

Which YOUTHS are you talking about?

Is it Youths in just in terms of "AGE/FACE" or Youths in terms of "BRILLIANT IDEAS AND INTELLECT"?

Seriously, which "YOUTHS"?

*Is it the ones that belong to the 41 Laptops group?
*Is it the ones that sign-up to be SA-TANOIDs?
*Is it the ones that carry Cutlass and Machete to kill themselves on the promise of a few Naira Notes, from Politicians?
*Is it the Youths who are only concerned about their own "Stomach Infrastructure" (1 Kongo of Rice and 1Litre of Ground nut Oil)
*Is it the same Youths who dont know their History, talk-less of their Future?
Is it Youths who dont know the difference between a foreign RESERVE of about $60 Billion (at end of OBJ's tenure) and a Foreign DEBT of almost $100 Billion under this Govt?
*Is it the same Youths who in the 21st Century, think it is okay to vote for a failed President simply because he is "My tribe" or will not vote for another because he is "Not my Religion"?
*Is it the same Youths like Tompolo and Asari Dokubo who became Billionaires over-night courtesy of a very corrupt President?
*Is it the same Youths who do "follow-follow My Pastor" and cannot think with their own God-given brains, ...to make a decision that affects them?
*Is it the same Youths who sleep and wake-up in "darkness", without Electricity to achieve their dreams and yet say "All is fine"?
*Is it the same Youths that think SIX YEARS is not enough to build refinery or improve power supply or solve incessant strikes in our educational sector or even repair a major road like the Lagos-Ibadan Express or the Enugu- Port Harcourt road?

I have not seen the YOUTHS you are talking about, .......who are CAPABLE of TAKING OVER POWER AND LEADING THIS COUNTRY!

Granted, most of these things are not 100% their fault because this current Nigerian Govt, especially ensured that the Youths will continue to be "powerless and dependent on crumbs" from the table of their failed elders.

I tell you, the first thing ANY YOUTH who is interested in the PROGRESS OF THIS COUNTRY will do is to ensure that we put in place, a leader who has ZERO-TOLERANCE FOR CORRUPTION......Like Jerry Rawlings did in Ghana.

After then, we can gradually chase-way the "OLD CARGOES".....knowing fully well that we have "capable YOUTH" to continue the nation building process.

Its a "cyclic process": Bad leaders produce bad Youths who depend on the same bad leaders to survive, only to become "bad Leaders" themselves!
But we need to break the cycle at a point, ...by electing a "good leader" even if he is "old", as long as he is not going to produce "bad youths" with his corrupting influence on our Youths.

I want the Youths to "take over" but l dont want "bad Youths" to take over since they would be worse than their "bad old cargoes" simply because these "Bad Youths" already have the "advantage and knowledge" of Modern technology at their disposal!

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NB: Abuse me if it makes you happy but the truth has to be said.

SomebodyLovesMe:
lalasticlala and friends, please move this to the front page.

Nigerians must be made aware that this government is trying to prevent foreign journalists from covering the elections.

Raises a million questions about PDP's intentions. What have they got to hide?

Jonathan has no intention of allowing the elections to hold, ...so why allow Journalist to have Visas for an event he is trying to distrupt?

This Jonathan desperate die...

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Eluwilussit:
There's serious problem. Anyone who supports Jona has been bribed. Supporters of Buhari are progressives and ain't bribed.

A man who as head of state,voted for a fellow Fulani man from Niger abi Chads, against a fellow Nigerian because he's igbo, is not a patriot. He's deserves national disgrace, if the allegations were true.

Then again I am not surprised. Sir Ahmadu Bello said so in the 50s/60s; that they would rather hire a foreigner than to let an igbo man occupy any position in the then northern region. It appears not much has changed since then. Buhari is not a nation builder. He is bereft of ideas. He is a bitter old man.

God save nigeria from the clutches of Tinubu. He doesn't mean well for Nigeria.

Stop all these "Igbo-Victim-mentality" joor!
Igbos too need to "look in the mirror" instead of pointing fingers of blame at others, for their political failures.

For every Igbo that have failed Politically, you have another Igbo man behind his failure.
From Zik of Africa, to Ojukwu, to Ekwueme, to Nwobodo, just name it and you cant trace his failure to an Hausa or Yoruba man, ....but to his fellow Igbo man.


Again, look at what is going on in the current dispensation viz-a-viz support for a "failed project"....and tell me honestly whether you see an Igbo President in 2019 or 2023?

Truth hurts but only "friends" tell friends the Truth.

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Sanchez01:
I hope the pastors who compromised their faith can see this

Ayo Oritsejafor
David Oyedepo et al. Please return it if indeed you received it in form of offering/honorarium

Dont mind Adeboye jare, i thought the said he is a "man under authority (of thieves)"?

He cannot exonerate himself now..... "a sheep that walks with the Dogs will as much as eat shyte in no time".

Thank God that at least he did not pretend Amaechi was lying...that much was evident.

May our good Lord "open the Gates of Hell" on this criminals deceiving the sheep of the Lord.

God will expose everyone of these PIMPS calling themselves "man of God".

The God of Heaven cannot be mocked.... not even for #6 Billion of stolen filthy lucre!

Latspage!

The desperation of Jonathan to RUN AGAINST HIMSELF is palpable!

He has ignored the Boko Haram massacres in the North so he can use that as an excuse to postpone th election or at least not make them vote in that part of the country where Buhari hails from!

Even Chad, Cameroun and Niger armies are routing Boko haram, talk less of the almighty Nigerian army?

I guess he already has a foreboding feeling he will loose this election hence the need to ensure he runs ALONE!

NEVER going to happen! Never!!

ONLY THE PEOPLE WILL DECIDE WHO GOVERNS THEM IN 2015

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This is what Charles Soludo, argueably one of Nigeria's best CBN Governor in recent times, said about Jonathan and Okonjo Iweala's economic mismanagement.

[quote author=Charles Soludo, former CBN Governor]My attention has been drawn to statements credited to the Minister of Finance and Coordinating Minister of the Economy, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, in response to my latest article and call for a structured debate on the issues. According to the report, she no longer wants to join issues with me. In the circumstance of the moment, I therefore withhold parts two and three of my promised three-part response.

Let me also state for the avoidance of doubt that I stand by every statement I made in the two articles viz: (1) “Buhari Vs Jonathan: Beyond the Elections”; and (2) “Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala and the Missing Trillions”.

In particular, I insist that over N30 trillion has either been stolen or unaccounted for, or grossly mismanaged over the last few years. This figure does not include the estimated $40.9 billion (N8.6 trillion at parallel market exchange rate or nearly two years’ Federal Government budget) which the African Union’s (AU) recent report claims to be “stolen” from Nigeria each year.[/quote]Hmmmm...That is OUR MONEY they are talking about o!

You can vote for Jonathan and continue this kind of brazen Corruption Stealing ...or....

You can vote for General Buhari and let him, like Jery Rawlings of Ghana, deal with these thieves decisively, ...and put Nigeria back on the path to greatness.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS but dont let anyone confuse and convince you, using SCAREMONGERING TACTICS like "Religion or tribalism".

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Gondonu:
This issue must be resolve appropriately .APC knows Buhari has no secondary schl certificate but frudulently chosed to field him while their best brains are helplessly looking silly.INEC electoral act amended demands that all aspirants attach this evidence.So why shld MB default,making it unfair to his co-contestants & above treating our revered constitution with impunity? This lawlessness should be well contained for histroy sake.

Let us "ASSUME' you are right, ...and he does not have WAEC certificate.!

*Does he also not have a Diploma (higher than WAEC) from the U.S war College? 9Or have you not read the confirmation from the University?
*Is he not a graduate of Officer's Cadet School, Aldershot, England? (higher than WAEC)
*Is he not a graduate of the Nigerian Defense Academy, Kaduna? (Higher than WAEC)
*Is he not a graduate of Defence Services’ Staff College, Wellington (India) (higher than WAEC)

Are you aware that the Constitution says it is EITHER WAEC (minimum) or any other HIGHER CERTIFICATE?
So, do you not agree that he has those "higher certs" as stated above and is thus QUALIFIED?[/b]

[b]If you people want to remain ignorantly foolish like your Otuoke fool, you can go on and on about this Certificate diversion but the people are wiser, they know Buhari has more than enough "qualified certificate" ...and would vote for him come February 14.

Jonathan has failed woefully and has nothing to show for his SIX YEARS of FAILURE thus, he is resorting to "cheap blackmail' so that he can be the ONLY CONTESTANT in the coming elections.

E nor dey work though.

Buhari until ALL TREASURY LOOTERS END UP IN JAIL.

Sai Buhari.

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Gondonu:
This issue must be resolve appropriately .[b]APC knows Buhari has no secondary schl certificate but frudulently chosed to field him [/b]while their best brains are helplessly looking silly.INEC electoral act amended demands that all aspirants attach this evidence.So why shld MB default,making it unfair to his co-contestants & above treating our revered constitution with impunity? This lawlessness should be well contained for histroy sake.

Let us "ASSUME' you are right, ...and he does not have WAEC certificate.!

*Does he also not have a Diploma (higher than WAEC) from the U.S war College? 9Or have you not read the confirmation from the University?
*Is he not a graduate of Officer's Cadet School, Aldershot, England? (higher than WAEC)
*Is he not a graduate of the Nigerian Defense Academy, Kaduna? (Higher than WAEC)
*Is he not a graduate of Defence Services’ Staff College, Wellington (India) (higher than WAEC)

Are you aware that the Constitution says it is EITHER WAEC (minimum) or any other HIGHER CERTIFICATE?
So, do you not agree that he has those "higher certs" as stated above and is thus QUALIFIED?[/b]

[b]If you people want to remain ignorantly foolish like your Otuoke fool, you can go on and on about this Certificate diversion but the people are wiser, they know Buhari has more than enough "qualified certificate" ...and would vote for him come February 14.

Jonathan has failed woefully and has nothing to show for his SIX YEARS of FAILURE thus, he is resorting to "cheap blackmail' so that he can be the ONLY CONTESTANT in the coming elections.

E nor dey work though.

Buhari until ALL TREASURY LOOTERS END UP IN JAIL.

Sai Buhari.

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In 1999, nobody asked Obasanjo to present his certificate.....neither was Buhari orprevious aspirants like Falaye (UPN) or Azikiwe (NPP) or Shagari (NPN)
In 2003, OBJ for a second term, was no tasked for his Certificate
In 2007, Yar Adua was not asked to "present" his Certificate, neither was Buhari back then
In 2009 and 2011, Jonathan, despite his high level of cluelessness, was not asked to "present" his Certificate ...and neither was Buhari.

Does it mean all the above named people dont have a certificate simply because they did not present them ....or were they just given the benefit of doubt, based on what we know about them (Military General, Teacher (Shagari), Mr. "Lekiturer" (Otuoke teacher), e.t.c


Question: Why is it now in 2015, that PRESENTING SCHOOL CERTIFICATE by Buhari, has simply become the "most important factor" that will determine the outcome of an election in less than two weeks?....even when "Higher Schools" like U.S War College have stated openly that Buhari graduated from their school?

Trying too hard to disqualify Buhari would not and cannot work!
Jonathan will never get re-elected UNOPPOSED.

It is the citizens like me who will determine whether we want Buhari to come and clean the mess this country has been dumped into...or whether we want to suffer four more years of haemorrhage under the clueless Otuoke clown.

LET THE PEOPLE DECIDE.

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Togom:
Where are the civil right activists,ICPC,and all concerned citizens,is certificate forgery not part of CORRUPTION?
They have all kept quiet because na big man,if it is Salisu Buhari,all will shout crucify him! crucify him!!.
There is Godoooo!

Why dont you join that your "WHISKEY Lawyer" in Court, and present the fake Certificate .....abi the money wey dem share nor reach you?

The fear of Buhari is the END OF CORRUPTION!

All our money that is being shared now, Jonathan will cough them back when Buhari becomes President.
I can understand why Jonathan is jittery and afraid

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Infoman51:
The only chance Pdp has to win this presidential election is to stop buhari from contesting

GBAM!

You can see they are THROWING EVERYTHING, including Kitchen Sink, at Buhari!

*They have tried "Islamist Blackmail..... it did not work!
*They have given #6 Billion to Pastor Oyedepo and Ayo Oritsejafor to share, and then print "scare pamphlets" for their congregation...E nor work!
*They have tried his health (They say he will die in office, dont vote for him) ...... E nor jell!
*They have tried ridiculing him about his dead wife and daughter .......People still say "Sai Buhari" all the way
*They have tried to discredit his professional record........It did not work
*They have tried to claim he did not go to school....... Ended in Failure
*They have bribed AIT and Dokpesi to "doctor" the Polls and ask Jonathan "leading questions" in a Kangaroo debate....They still failed!
*They have tried to shift election date so they can perfect their rigging...... E nor work Ooooo!
* They have tried to aid and abet Boko Haram so they can use it to tarnish Buhari ..............People still stood with their "General"!
*They have tried so mnay Court cases and still counting ..... It ended in failure

Let me see, wetin remains sef?

HOW ABOUT KIDNAPPING THE MAN HIMSELF OR USING REMOTE ON HIM?

These PDP and Jonathan especially, are so DESPERATE to disqualify the General so that Jonathan can win unopposed, knowing that he could never win a free and fair election against Buhari!

I've got news for you guys:The more you victimize this General, the more Nigerians realize you are DESPERATE to HIDE YOUR CORRUPTION!
The more Nigerians will vote for him.

I cant count how many people in the last one week have said[b] "because of this nonsense they are doing to Buhari, l will cast my vote for him, as it shows Jonathan has nothing to offer than try to intimidate his opponent"[/b]

Sai Buhari

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Ideyontop:
Be careful before u enter the water that will carry you. Don't speak against God's DEVIL'S anointed. It is bigger than you!

Dont get it twisted.
More like that!

*When it was "convenient" for him, these corrupt clown called Jonathan was running mate to the same "Muslim-Hausa" people he is castigating now (as running mate to former President Yar Adua)

*When it is convenient for him, the Otuoke fool took another Muslim-Hausa man as his Vice President (Namadi Sambo)!

Stewpid people like Oyedepo did not see "vision" back then that Nigeria will be islamized!
Just reflect on this for a minute!
So God only allows a Muslim VeePee but He does not like a Muslim President, huh? I know Bullshyte, when l see one!

Even Redeem's Adeboye felt it was okay to "dine with the Devil" ...but now that the people have had ENOUGH of the Corruption of Good Badluck Jonathan, that is when evil men like Oyedepo starts lying tjat God spoke to him and that clown Adeboye suddenly developed 'amnesia and follow-follow syndrome"?

Nigerians are wiser and God is actually using current events to show and expose these so-called men-of-devil as nothing but Chalartans and tricksters.


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berem:
Nawao! Upon all the money Oledepo has,he's still collecting bribe? Or is he not part of the compromising pastors?

Do you not know the "ANTECEDENTS" of this Pastor Oye "Ole"Depo?
*Who started this "cash-and-carry" Christianity back then? Oyedepo!
*Who started this idea of Pastors cruising Private jets when church members are finding it difficult to even feed? Oyedepo!
*Who started this idea of using Church money to build business and University...which even church members cant afford to send their own children? Oyedepo!
*Who was it back then that drew out a gun, to kill indigens of Otta town, when their vehicles were been driven recklessly and killing them? Oyedepo!
*Who was it that slaps women on the pretext of casting out witches? Oyedepo!
*Who was it that started "Commercial Christianity" in Nigeria? Oyedepo!

The sad thing is that we Christians, who are supposed to be the yardstick of enlightenment, have been turned to "Muguns" by "Sharp con artists" of the likes of Oye Oledepo.

Even looking at how he blasphemes the name of the God of heaven, claiming God told him that we must vote for Jonathan" is more than enough for any right-thinking Christian to know that "He is on a mission" inspired by filthy lucre!
Yet, God 'could not' reveal to him that 250 Christian girls will be kidnapped nor tell him where the girls are located, up till now? SMH!

Oyedepo, you and the likes of Ayo Oritsejafor are criminals because you aid in the lotting and mismanagement of our treasury.

RETURN OUR #6 BILLION now.....
Those who "love money" ...like "Ole-depo", NEVER have enough!

BTW: Did it surprise you that the Catholic Church has washed its hands of these corrupted Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), headed by that "Gun-Running" Ayo Oritsejafor? That tells you something.

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vigasimple:
Only in Nigeria a semi illiterate visionless person lead a a senior lawyer SAN and the followers shout sai messiah at everything he does.

Read your history of uthman dan fodio, the sokoto caliphate and the born to rule Fulani man and their 'bullying' that power belongs to them, then go into the polling booth and vote.

Only in Nigeria does a supposedly PhD holder cannot even give a Speech of-hand.....and when he even reads a pre-written one, he reads it like he is about to convulse!
Only in Nigeria does a Clueless Goat, a moronic and imbecilic dolt who fell down from a Mango tree when he was young, a man like a castrated mongrel perpetually under the control of an over-bearing "Chei-Chei-Chei" of a wife, a shoeless Canoe-paddler who budgets #1 Billion for food, ruled like a rudderless canoe for SIX YEARS .....
..............Only in Nigeria does that kind of slowpoke ask to rule for another four years!

Of what benefit is this Bible-thumping, treasury looting, clueless PhD degree holder, to me or anyone in this Nation, be it South, East, North or West, in the last six years?

When you go into that Polling Booth of February 14, ask yourself: Do you want to continue to live in darkness for another four years, after the last six? Do you want children to continue in empty classrooms, University without equipments, Graduates without jobs who dont even have the option of starting a business due to failed infrastructures all over the nation, Do you want unbridled corruption to continue with a leader who says "Stealing is NOT corruption", do you want more of the same perpetual failures of the past six "locust years" to continue in your life?

If your answer is "NO", ...then you deserve a CHANGE by voting for the ONLY MAN in Nigeria's history who has never been tainted with a single case of corruption and who under his short stint at Governance, was on the path of turning this country around, with his Vice (Tunde Idiagbon), back in 1985.
You will achieve that CHANGE by VOTING FOR BUHARI/OSINBAJO Ticket....and you can be rest assured that it is no more "business as usual" with all the thieves in Government.

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brownlord:
...Okay but too busy to attend a debate and clear the certificate allegation right?

smh

When he is not as dumb and dumbo-Jonathan?

How can Jonathan pay AIT #5Million/Hour for adverts, Jonathan resurrected a dying AIT, Dokpesi owner of AIT is from his South-South, AIT tried and failed in manipulating an "ordinary" Online Poll in favour of Jonathan and eventually abolished it when it was obvious that Buhari was leading by a very wide margin....................

............................................................AND THE SAME AIT IS THE ONE THAT WANTS TO ORGANISE THE DEBATE YOU ARE INVITING BUHARI TO ATTEND?
Are you truly dumb or just acting "Jonadumb"?

Buhari has said it a million times that he is ready to attend a national Debate, within ten minutes of invitation.....Iff, it is organised by AN INDEPENDENT BODY. Shikenna!

SMH sha.


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modhream:
Case won't fly,Jonathan is legally qualified to contest.He only completed a term for which Yar'Adua had already taken the Oath for 2010.
Now,whether he's qualified intellectually and in other ramifications is what Nigerians get to decide February 14

I dont think you have read the cited "relevant sections" of the constitution. Try read it first and then comment.

FYI, that section states that no one can occupy THE SAME elected office for more than a maximum period of eight years.
This is what OBJ tried to change, during his Third term agenda. This si why everyone can only serve TWO TERMS.

That law never said whether you are using someone else term or not. It just says "maximum for one person for a particular office is 8years.

Again, the same law was applied in the Nyako case and you know what happened.

It is this same constitution that informed Jonathan to swear that he would not seeka second term, during negotiation for his installment in 2009 and 2011.

But our Judiciary is SO CORRUPT otherwise, such important "legal matters" should have been dealt with IMMEDIATELY so as not to leave room for a judgement beclouded by "Fait accompli"..... just an "academic ruling", without legal effect, once the accused has been sworn-in, if re-elected.
The Judges know exactly what they are planning by not fixing a hearing date

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ishar:
I hope the wedding ring has APC logo engraved on it and their undies have APC logo for the Honey moon. OVERSABI !!!

The moment Buhari refused to come out and face a debate i stopped supporting him and started suspecting him. What kind of evasive attitude is that.

Buhari has said that "he is ready for a debate, any day, any time".... if organised by an INDEPENDENT BODY!

...Not one organised by a Raymond Dokpesi (Does that name sound South -South?), whose TV station wants to organise the Debate, was revived by President Jonathan, ..and has shown Partisanship even during a common thing as the "Poll", when they saw that Buhari was leading and way ahead of Jonathan.

Let Channels of any other independent TV organise one and lets see if Buhari will not feature

Buhari may be a Mallam but he ain't that stewpid!

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krispycash:
I don't think you understand the gravity of your words? There will be what u call a religious war, anyone who isn't practicing Islam will be subdued... probably jailed or killed... then it's just like legalizing bokoharam... and u say it is better? You really need to watch what u say or wish for... the reason Nigeria is the way it is now is because her people lack understanding...

We are the cause of our own misfortunes... it is hard enough for a teacher to take charge of a class of nigerian students, how much more a country filled with Nigerians? It is easy to talk and say things but most of us cannot do any better ...

Right now in Nigeria, everything should be taken I to consideration... Christians are very tolerant of what ever religion u practice. .. but Muslims or extreme islamists see u as an infidel because u do not believe in what dey believe in, they force u to believe in it... wonder where the freedom to religious belief ran off to....!

My people perish for lack of understanding. ... Having a Christian as a president will do us a lot of good... Buhari should not be allowed in, don't be fooled by his calm mien, that man is as devious as the word itself...

Rome wasn't built in a day, but you expect sudden changes? The u need someone who can perform a miracle... progress is slow and it takes a life time... with the help of the people... without the support of the nigerian people, Nigeria can never progress... so until you realise that as a nation, it is not only the president who should be held accountable for whatever situation the country is in, the citizenry should be held accountable too... what have you done for your country

Gosh! You people are a disgrace to Christianity, with the way you spread lies, peddle rumours and espouse deceit!


Buhari was the Head of State of this country from Dec 1983, to August 1985 (when he was over-thrown by Babangida).

In those period, NONE OF THE THINGS YOU POSTED UP THERE EVER HAPPENED!



I am a living Christian that voted Jonathan in 2011 while supporting his emergence in 2009, as De facto President!

Curiously, do you know that all those things actually happened ON A VERY LARGE SCALE under the rulership of President Jonathan, between 2011...till date?

These are the FACTS.


Its a shame that Christianity too, under the Leadership of these current Charlatans calling themselves "men of God", is breeding religious fanatics like you who dont think or use your brain at all (much like the suicide bombers of Boko harams!).

Read your history before regurgitating the nonsense your Pastor is telling you here.

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BTW: Rome wasn't build in a day but if in SIX YEARS of Jonathan's administration, he cant point to a single PROGRESS he has achieved, then another FOUR YEARS will make no difference, just a continuation of the same corrupt, inept and clueless leadership of the last six years.

olumidazz:
If GMB has a grand agenda to eventually Islamise Nigeria let him islamise the country, living in Nigeria now after all, is worse than living in hell. It's better to live in an Islamised Nigeria and enjoy the basic necessities of life than to be a freeborn and live in destitution.

Relax My Bruv, Islam is actually not our worst problem in Nigeria!
Poverty and Corruption are worse problems.

Is it not the same "Islamic countries" like Kuwait, Dubai, e.t.c ......that these Charlatan-Pastors go to, to invest their stolen wealth and have a "nice time"?

Islamic Country has steady power supply, good roads, good medical facilities that you also run to, even India that worships idol has better Hospitals and has launched a mission to Mars...... and here is Nigeria that is "Not Islamic" living on Generators and decayed infrastructures!

Go to Oyedepo's or Adeboye's church and ask: How many of them will like a FREE RETURN, ALL EXPENSE PAID TICKET TO DUBAI?

Na that time you go know say, "Poverty No get Religion"! (Rofl)


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I am a Christian and l endorse Buhari. Its not about Religion or tribe, its about "PERFORMANCE AND CREDIBILITY".

emmatok:
I am waiting for CAN and PFN to deny these allegation.
But if it is true, CAN/PFN finally lost their credibility in Nigeria.
Because GEJ won't be president for ever, and we will have new king over Nigeria, which knew not GEJ.

I thought men of GOD should be able to see the future, but not in Nigeria.

That is why l call these "Nigerian Men of Gawd" Charlatans!

They see nothing, they know nothing.....except fleecing the SHEEPLE (Sheep People)!

Why did they not "see and prophesy" that the Boko Haram criminal, (Shey-Cow) will KIDNAP OVER @%) CHRISTIAN GIRLS, soo Govt can quickly evacuate them to safety?

Abeg, l would really have to be very stewpid to still trust these charlatans..... despite overwhelming evidence that they are just a bunch of leeches!

Anyway, each man to its own foilly sha.

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FOLLOWJESUS:
Everybody is intitled to his own opinion,Religion or no religion every normal human been will know who hate and who loves him,a year old baby christian knows that muslims hate christians and believe that every christian is an ifidel and don't suporse to live, this is why northern muslems keep on killing christians at zero provocation with this stupide ideology that when they kill a christian they are rewarded with seven virgins this is the reason for the imagence of boko haram,al qaeda etc,Using Osinbajo to lure christians into voting ANTICHRIST is an isult to the inteligent of christians,and it will be very foolish for any christian to fall into this deadly trick .the issue of Oic is a fact, CAN knows what they are saying,It is their responsbility to guide the sheep against wolfs, this suden rapor Buhari is having with christians a well known religious bigot a fanatic and using Osinbajo as a baith is very very dangerous and laughable,Christians should shine their eyes don't be deceived or carried .away.Leopad can never change its spots

Hmmm...... My People truly PERISH for lack of Knowledge!

At the bolded: Are you aware that Jonathan also has a Muslim (Namadi Sambo) as his Vice President, now and back then in 2009?
Are you saying Jonathan just put a Muslim (Sambo) as his Vice just to LURE and TRICK Muslims into voting for him..... or is it a different rule for Jonathan, on that matter?

Truly, "RELIGION IS THE OPIUM (DRUG) OF THE MASSES"..... give it to them and they will loose all sense of reasoning!

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watchman111:
you are one of the most sensible persons I have met on naira land.because you argue with good points,not with abusive words like others....back to our discussion..do you mean you can take the risk of voting buhari into power knowing that he could be an Islamic extremist

Now we are talking!

Please pardon me if l have offended you in my post but let me answer this your question with a very simple and direct question:

As a Christian (l am one too), will you place your life and that of your family, in the hands of a Muslim?

*If your answer is YES, then l put it to you that you love Muslims and Muslims have nothing to fear from someone like you.

*If your answer is NO, then l put it to you that you dislike Muslims and would probably do them harm (and vice-versa) if given the opportunity.

Finally, BUHARI is a Muslim yet he did put HIS LIFE AND THAT OF HIS FAMILY IN THE HANDS OF "CHRISTIANS" by employing a Christian as his COOK (Food matters) and another as his DRIVER! (Road accident matters).......despite the millions of Muslim Cooks and Drivers available in Nigeria!

I for one, will not allow "any of my enemies" to drive me or cook for me and my family, NO WAY! Will you?
This is what we call "hard evidence",...not "dem say".

Do you still believe those PROPAGANDA that he hates Christians and will do them harm?
Just pause for a moment and think about what l wrote

BTW: Umaru Dikko that he put in a Crate bound for Lagos, was a staunch Muslim!

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derecho:
Never call men of God names. Leave them to God.
.Pastor Adeboye said and did the right thing.

And wetin go happen if l did? (l actually did, l have done and will continue to do, like Prophet Nathan, speak truth to Power)
You think someone like me is under bondage to any of these charlatans masquerading as "Tin gods"?

Let me share with you, this simple fact of life: [size=14pt]You are A SLAVE to that which YOU SUBMIT YOURSELF TO![/size]
I am not under their authority and if they like, let them curse from now till eternity, l am completely immune!!
I submit "directly to", ONLY CHRIST'S AUTHORITY! .....Not some smooth-talking con-man.

If they think their curses work, why did they not curse all the looters who make Nigerians poor?
Afterall, they all run abroad to enjoy what other people and leaders have laboured for...instead of cursing those who make their own country unworkable.
Just pause and "think out of the box", for a moment.

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Anas09:
Only a stupid person who calls his/herself a christian can see something wrong with what CAN has done. The Noortherners called for the entire north and Muslims to vote for buhari. They admitted Buhari was not a right candidate, but he is their son. You didn't see any thing wrong with that. Am so disappointed in Bakare. They stand by their own weda he is dying or not. U toss ur own out. You guys think we will fold our arms and watch u use violence to intimidate us.

It is not the "NORTH" as you claim, it was Jonathan's Vice President (Namadi Sambo) who made those comments..... but WE ALL CONDEMNED IT.

So, now so-called CHRISTIAN LEADERS are also making the same type of comments and[b] it stands CONDEMNED![/b]

No one should introduce RELIGION and TRIBE into an election..... moreso, No Religious Leader of Tribal Leader should use his/her "Position of TRUST" to coerce his "sheep" into voting a certain way.

Either say "Let God's will be done....of Shut-da-phuck-Up"

This is why we are still under-developed when Countries like Malaysia, Brazil, India, Indonesia, e.t.c, that started-out about the same time Nigeria started-out, are miles ahead of us...while we are still being deceived by our Pimping Religious and tribal leaders.
Though l cant blame these Religious leaders...l blame the "Muguns" like you who have abrain but cant reason independently for yourself.

senator2b:
you lack understanding and you are not fit to be a Deacon, woe unto the church that made u a Deacon for u r spiritually blind. what will u say if u heard that NASFAT endorsed GEJ. ur opinion doesnt count but God's words count. cast out the son of the bond woman.

And what da hell does it mean or do, if NASFAT endorses GEJ?

Would that make every Muslim to vote for GEJ?
We have a lot of educated but mentally illiterate people in our midst!

So because he does not agree with Adeboye now, he is not "fit to be a Deacon", he is spiritually blind?
What a gargantuan Eediot you be sef, huh?

It is silly and brain-washed people like yo that get "led-by-the-nose" like a band of SHEEPLE!

In 2009, we all voted for GEJ because he is a Christian and holds a PhD! Of what benefit has that translated, into the CITIZEN"S LIFE?

So, it is evident, RELIGION AND TRIBE has NOTHING to do with performance on the job.
Jonathan is only whipping-up TRIBAL (amongst most Igbos)...and RELIGIOUS SENTIMENTS (amongst Christians) because he knows he has failed and has nothing to offer....Not even "good lies" to deceive the people about.

I am a Christian and would vote Buhari.
All the CAN, Oyedepo, Adeboye and Oritsejafor of this world can kiss my arze for all l care.

If they can scare enough Christians, if they can muster and deceive enough Easterners and Southerners to get a bigger vote, then all well and good...

....But remember, when your children stay at home for two years, when price of Petrol is raised to #200/Liter, when all oyur roads become big pits and death traps, when you dont even get Electricity for one hour in a week, when all your business collapse and your treasury is completely looted to buy houses abroad......DONT BLAME YOUR PASTOR or CAN or ADEBOYE or OYEDEPO......BLAME YOURSELF FOR YOUR STEWPIDITY!

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aigboeben:
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Please, think before you talk.If this story were to be true do you think Pa Adeboye would have asked them to choose Buhari knowing fully well that some of them there could have been under the influence of presidential gifts? It was a tactical move by Pastor Adeboye.Whatever the decision of CAN is,God's verdict is supreme.We might have nairalujah pastors,but we still have some who shout hallelujah.

I wan think-die?

That is exactly what l said in my post. Read it again where l said "he should have said LET GOD'S WILL BE DONE".....

Instead of saying "I am under authority and will go along with whatever those "criminal duo" (Oritshejafor and Oyedepo) say!

Cheers.

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AlphaGentleman:
Rich North. But they still cnt help their people,only wanting to steal more for themselves.

So Folawiyo, Mike Adenuga, Dan Etete, Mrs Akinlaja (richest Nigerian woman), Emeka Offor, e.t.c are ALL from the North, abi?

If this post was meant to portray Buhari as bad, ask yourself: Did Buhari award any Oil Block to anybody?
Even Jonathan did award Oil blocks to his cronies, that we know.

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No one can force you to bring your kids to school ...or not keep them at home on that day.

No big deal....some people sef don "export" their children overseas since this weekend, abi you/we no see them for airport on Saturday?

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felifeli:
LOL LOL LOL I just dey laff you and the foolish ugly old man Obasanjo . You will both become uglier after Feb 14

Gerrout with your moronic "LOLS".

I dont have time for "paid imbeciles" like you.

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It is unfortunate but apparent that almost all who support GEJ, do so based on "ethnicity"......He is "our Brother syndrome"

We did it in 2011 and we are seeing the result but only foolish people do the same thing over.... and over again, while expecting a different result!

"A CHANGE" can only give a better result, it can never get worse than what we have already.

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felifeli:
LOL See him mouth "When Buhari wins the election.." Go steal am make we see. If you don't want Christians to follow their leaders' advice, whose advice do you suggest they should follow ? Guru Maharraji ? Better stop dis igbo wey you dey smoke, de ting don dey make you kolo well well.

No need to froth from the mouth!

I said "WHEN", .....that means "a possibility", right?

As per Christians listening to and following the advice of their "leaders"..... you are on a long thing!
How can a Gun-Runner like Oritsejafor be a "Christian Leader" for any "sane" Christian?
How can someone like Oyedepo who says he will "open the gates of hell" on nay Christian that votes Buhari, be a "leader" to any Christian who is still in his or her right mind?

Just hold-on and watch how the "real God" exposes these "Fake Christian Leaders", come February 14th>
God has exposed the "Traditional Leaders" as men-of-the-belly and has shown that their word carries NO WEIGHT...
These Charlatan Christian leaders are next!

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