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PrinceGeorge1:
Oga shut up there...Timi never made any such statement.

Guys pls feel free to google this, u won't find anything like that.

Stop the Lies abeg

Khaleell001:
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LizRapheal:
If she want us to believe her she should narrate how it happened from the beginning till the end. No sane man will just enter your house and rape you.

LizRapheal:
Ok but she should have just shut up like she has been doing for the past 20years...She just tarnish the man's image now that hes a changed person....i wonder whats gonna happen to that church now.

Khaleell001:
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Khaleell001:
This guy must be high on some cheap drugs of lies to be vomiting this rubbish.

This is how you go around accusing people without proof and when we ask for proof you start barking like a rabid dog because to you everyone must think and act like you.

I no blame you sha.
Emasculated white knight.

Khaleell001:
ItI have not really dated any woman and to claim or even suppose that I might or have had forceful carnal knowledge with a woman shows how ineptly shallow you are.
If Bosula likes, let her gather shallow minds like yours and talk from Mount Zion to Mount Everest. We all know that from what she narrated with her own mouth it does not even get to anything here rape.

You are just been emasculated by whoever is feeding you with those lies of rape.

How can someone come to your house in the morning rapes you(without even trying to find out who was inside and was not even afraid of being caught,whereas rapist use isolated places for their assault) after raping you, goes back to his car(which may take close to 30 secs max or 10 -15 sec min.) and your mind was so distraught that you did not run inside to scream for help or you didn't even shout or scream (which victims do) and you are coming here tell us that you were raped right in your house?

Haba bros, try something else. This one no carry na

I personally believe there is more to this than she is telling us.
But, wetin really concern me sef?

Khaleell001:
I have gone through your quote and I can tell you are one of those white knight or cockould as we call them l, who always look for cheap reasons to support women without thinking.

I personally do not support rape or women molestation, but if the story narrated by the victim does not logically follow then I have every right to question what she has said critically and analytically .

This days of easy acussation and the #metoo bandwagon I be the last person to be live every rape story without first looking at what and how it happened.

Tariq Ramadan and Neymar comes to mind when I read these sort of emotionally laden quotes without logic to flesh whatever claim that is being made.

Chi59:
Honestly, some people don't read.
Where did he write that the case should not be taken to court?
Illiterates.

Khaleell001:
Garbage

How can your wife withdraw consent when you already in the act and call it rape.

You people should simply say we should hold our breathe na.

This is the problem I have with the so called woke people.

Thank God we have not train our Muslim women to act this way.
You can keep applying that nonsense to your women.


Rape ko, consent no.

As her husband I have right on her body and I can have her anytime I want except for clear excuses such as medical or psychological reasons otherwise a wife has no damn right to refuse her husband his conjugal right.


What is this nonsense about rape and all these nonsense somwmif you are saying.

I may like certain things about the West and some. other things they do, but when it comes to morality and other salient issues I put on my thinking cap and scan through whatever filth they present dressed as cake.

OfficialAPCNig:
Yoruba moslem. Ignore the gay god worshippers.

partnerbizz5:
I will cut to the chase; straight to the point.

There was an intercours.e. Yes there was.

But it wasn't rape. She was spellbound, star struck or hypnotized. She was stupid too even at 17.

WHY IS SHE BITTER NOW?

She feels Fatoyinbo took her virginity without sweating or spending. This is same virginity she could have auctioned even on e bay. Yes, people sell it. Check.

She felt pastor got it very cheap. That's why prostitutes will ask you:

" HOW MUCH YOU PAY ME YOU WAN TOUCH MY BRESS"?

HOW MUCH YOU PAY, YOU WAN FUC.K DOGGY?

They (women) want you to pay well, suffer or work hard to get the pusssy; let alone a virgin pusssy.

So Busola now feels cheated. She reasoned that the man is happy now after cheating her.
And she came to this realisation not too long ago.

Now, the only way of paying him back is to hurt him too. And the most effective way of hurting a pastor is through seex scandal.

If you allege he stole 2 billion dollars, it would gather no storm.

BUT WHY COME OUT NOW?

The husband Timi, heard of the "rape" lately. Maybe Busola got depressed and mood swings after the RECENT realisation that the pastor cheated her.

Timi felt bad. He felt cheated too for being served a second hand pusssy.

He could have eaten the pusssy first. So he encouraged her to hurt the pastor. That way both Timi and Busola would feel a bit better.

IT WAS NOT RAPE PEOPLE.

USE your senses.

THAT'S MY ANALYSIS as a self proclaimed behavioral therapist.


LEGAL VIEW:

Rape or even any sexual assault case cannot be proven against Fatoyinbo.

You can't prove a rape case without proving that there was a PENETRATION. See the case of Upahar vs State. See S.357 of CC etc. And it's been long. No medical evidence too.

Nothing will happen to Fatoyinbo. The only damage has happened already. And that's to his reputation.

We will soon forget it. Life goes on.



FINALLY, I DON'T SUPPORT RAPE. IT'S TRAGIC.

That's why it's considered a crime against humanity in International criminal law.

#SAYNOTORAPE.

In many countries, having sex with a minor or an under-aged person, is considered a felony and classified as rape.

Harlem2:


Some IPOB miscreants once post some shit months ago

"No Afonja can touch our mazi"

GlossyG:
That means he attended the church just because of the Pastor and not for his own salvation, salvation as we all know is a personal race. SMH......

Sensiblerealist:
As much as I love Pastor Poju's submission and the efforts he said has made this far, something ticks me off with his use of some sort of undertones of an acceptance of guilt. This is premised on the fact that this is presently a subject of heated discourse across the various media, so any perception one holds can easily be misconstrued or manipulated especially as they are said to be close in the ministry and outside of it.
What we cannot dispute is if he has more knowledge of whatever had happened and he is just being diplomatic, but if that is not the case, then I'm totally uncomfortable with his positing , especially the last paragraph.
What some of us want is just for the truth to be established without bowing to the risks of sentimental alignment to either party.
May God bless his church. AMEN

Yankiss:
The story seems over sensationalized. I do not think there was rape, molesting maybe. But in any case, conviction is difficult because the evidence required to nail him has evaporated. A shrewd victim will report to her lawyer within hours of the rape and keep required evidence. It's obvious there's more to the rape allegation than meets the eye. If I were in Fatoyinbo's shoes and I am innocent, I will sue.

Ogaonos:
na u dey irrational do u know Wat is wedding 2 a lady. ask any lady no lady will allow a rapist pastor who rape her 2 Wed her and her hussy.even if d man manipulate her like u said she go remain 4 d church but wed outside ND Neva receive a wedding gift. 4rm d rapist think am. ask ur mama or sista wet in I talk ND c their reply. my guy u Neva c any.until u b in a scenario wer u date a lady dt I ex dey treat anyhow but Lara in d relatnship u b like no wonder her ex maltreat her.

Ogaonos:
go sit dwn wich kind manipulation.so let say u be guy if ur wife tell u say her pastor rape her ND dt she had sexual relatnship dt she was manipulated yrs ago b4 u meet her awhile na d same church u na Marry ND d said pastor na d G. O. ur mama hear d story hw u think ur mama go react no b Mumu e go call u

nosiebaba:
If only you took your advice you would be better off

Amanstailored:
Hmmm.... All i see and hear is u and i having this merry go round of attack and counter attacks and leading to the same conclusion. At the end of the day opinions and sentiments are not the same as JUSTICE. We have a woman who says i was raped by this man, we have a man yet to defend himself, should we become judge and executioners without a fair trial. Should we not pause for one brief moment and allow this man prove his innocence. Not too long ago three young men, students of university of portharcourt were linched and brutally murdered by a mob, a crowd who acted on the accusation of one of their fellow student saying they stole laptops. These boys were not given a chance to defend their innocence instead the mob went into jungle justice mode and brutally murdered these young lads infront of the entire world to see, for a reason and stupid and sensless as stealing a laptop. Even if their accusers were right at what point in human history do we compare d value of human life to the prize of a laptop.

Months after their demise inveatigations had it that the boys were falsely accused but lets say we had to go back in time and for a brief moment the mob just gave these kids 5minutes just 5minutes to speak their truth, wouldnt we hav had a different outcome today?

This is not bisola accusing a man of stealing a laptop this is her saying "he raped me". Rape being a heinious crime, a taboo my cultural standard. Should we all become a mob and burn this man alive like those three young men met their fate or should we as rational humans give this man the benefit of doubt and allow the law evoke a fair trial?

We all have to understand one thing that by law the consequence of a man of raping a woman is just as bad as the consequence of a woman falsely accusing a man of raping and that is a chance we dont want to take.

If bisola says she was raped. Let her lawyers drapft a subpoena, let the police be alerted and let this be handled in court.

Socia media is no court of law!!!

Khaleell001:
I believe you have are under some zombized (my word) form or spell.
Rape in a matrimony is not known under any law because it is expected that as husband and wife you have free and unrestricted access to each other whenever the need arises.
And if you read my statement carefully you would see that I said except when there a valid reason for not allowing your husband to sleep with you.
Even at that you can't still call it rape
I don't know any civil or even customary law that will even allow such suite to hold
It will be promptly dismissed because it lacks any legal muscle for any kind of hearing.

Angelfrost:
Thank you for making the simple all too clear distinction... How many witnesses with similar experience as Mrs. Dakolo have come forth with testimonies for a class action against the man?

Do we condemn him based on a single accusation?...

Victims that are proven to be unconnected to one another, and clearly proven to have been associated with an accused can create reasonable ground for indictment, and subsequent conviction... Was that the case here before most people tried and condemned the man especially on social media, even going as far as staging a protest in front of his church?

asanwafo:
UK is not Nigeria

Khaleell001:
Husband rapes wife? Is this some sought of joke or wwhat?
You don't call forceful sex with your own wife rape
You don't!
The reason for marrying her is mostly sex and a wife denying her husband his conjugal right without any reason is close to being a witch.

You guys keep twisting words to suit your ever contrived leanings.

itsme01:
I will say it and say it again... reporting a rape case have no specific timeline or time frame or constraint , her logic, her business... if she knows how the mind works or how psychology work with female especially abused women.. then she wont utter such nonsense as to what took her so long

Abused women can sometime take decades to speak up, others may defend the abuser, while some would remain with the abuser till their death ..

so Sexual abuse may or may not be reported immediately that doesn't change the fact that it happened or not

Angelfrost:
Please, stop making emotional assertions... I don't support nor condone rape... I'm just as detached as a smart person should be in a case of allegations of rape with no substantial evidence or witnesses...

glowingflame7:
If she was paralysed by fear, she should have told after. She instead entered several situations where she can be re-raped several times. Sat in the same church for years, worked as a chorister under the rapist for years, got married under the rapist. All these due to paralysis? Was it Benny Hinn that finally healed her of this paralysis or who?

czarina:
See cusses flying everywhere in just one comment.

Nawa o

czarina:
I can only imagine. But throwing cusses everywhere like a sailor is not right either.

Tame your emotions. E ma binu (not sure it's the correct spelling )

nosiebaba:
Oga shut your stupid ass up.. Relevance seeking minute spec. You obviously aren't okay spewing trash from your trash filled brain. If you don't want to he mentioned then shut the Bleep up on other people's post. Dumb Bleep you think the desperation to get pregnant after a miscarriage is a joke. Or you think miscarriage is a normal pleasant occurrence or experience or some medical condition that can always be diagnosed be treated by observation? You retarded Bleep better learn to shut up so others can have the impression that your dumb ass is wise e justven though u are a stupid ass

sweetrace:
Poju Oyemade is a motivational speaker who talks about the Bible like it is a text book for only the schooled. He is obviously more interested in being on the good side of public opinion. He and other pastors should have gone to meet pastor Biodun as brothers and friends. They are the ones to get the truth out of him. If he is innocent, they should fight with him. If he is guilty, they should correct him in love and help him get through this as he makes tries to make amends. They should stand with him when he apologizes. The wives should help strengthen his wife. That’s what love is. Imagine he got in touch with the person Pastor Biodun reports to! Haba! Poju oyemade, remember the Bible says let he that stands take heed lest he falls! Satan attacks everyone: believer and unbeliever. When it is your turn, may you find people who’ll join the court of public opinion and publish their opinions instead of treating like a brother. Exactly like you’ve done!!!!

Angelfrost:
Let's get serious here, and not pretend... Does statutory rape truly exist in Nigeria? If you say yes, what instances have people been arrested or convicted for such?...

I raised that question in an earlier thread, and most people started rigmaroling... If consensual sex between a grown man, and a lady of 17 is rape (which should be in a developed country), why are most Northerners not in jail?.

Is Busola claiming statutory rape or rape in the real sense (forced act of sex against her wish)?

Angelfrost:
Of course he is... Even some of his church members probably have that suspicion... That's why this will be a hard case to sell for the plaintiffs, were they to seek judicial redress.

You can't convict a man of rape based on his randy nature... That would make nearly all Nigerian men, including most of the hypocrites here on Nairaland, rapists or aspiring rapists.