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Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 5:01pm On Sep 26, 2007
@Willywilly a.k.a Freewilly,

Please do not quote me out of context. Highlight the entire post I made, state clearly the issue that led to that statement, before you take one sentence out of the whole piece and wave it in the air as if Christopher Columbus just discovered America. Anyway, that is the kind of mumu-ish thing you specialise in, so why am I not suprised?  huh

The entire sentence was:
laudate: Who forced you to come to Lagos and live there? Pack your bags and head back to your village, if you can't stand the people there, or you hate their language. Period!
Politics › Re: Youths Chase Women In Trousers In Abia State by laudate: 4:54pm On Sep 26, 2007
Babyosisi,

Chukwu biko!! shocked shocked Na you dey cause this kata-kata for here?? Hmnnn. . . . .now why am I not suprised? Now tell me, what happened this time, so that I can launch an appeal fund for your legal defense team? grin
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Wall Of Shame! by laudate: 4:42pm On Sep 26, 2007
[quote author=I-man link=topic=81474.msg1533511#msg1533511 date=1190820807]I nominate Laudate.The most insidious tribalist you will ever meet on this forum grin[/quote]Provide proof of Laudate's insidous tribalism, please. And stop hanging on to my coat tails. You are just dying for me to notice you. Tell me, were you starved of attention in your childhood? Is that why you seeking as much of it as you can get, from any quarters? Tell us the truth. Don't be shy. . . . . sad
Politics › Re: Youths Chase Women In Trousers In Abia State by laudate: 4:34pm On Sep 26, 2007
Afrodixie, you remind me so much of Militia a.k.a Babeelove. Are you sure you guys are not related? Na di same fire-for-fire style all of una get!! cheesy

Na wetin grafikdon take do you, sef? The guy dey waka 'jejely' go im own way. . . . before you come throw scud missile in his direction. Na wa o! undecided
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Wall Of Shame! by laudate: 4:22pm On Sep 26, 2007
hipernetix:
@londoner
I salute you my dear brother for this bold move. It is good to see that at least there are those Nigerians who are willing to come together irrespective of ethnic or religious divide for the sake of peace, unity, and progress for Nigeria.

Your wall of shame will not be complete without this addition:

DAVIDYLAN
Oh mi gosh!! This is so funny!! Am having so much fun reading all the responses on this thread. You guys are just naming members of the tribalistic cartel, one by one!
Culture › Re: Northerner Has Spoken by laudate: 4:16pm On Sep 26, 2007
davidylan:
Period? You are entitled to your own oppinion which may not be correct. You cannot expect us to accept them as the gospel truth.

The political elite do not represent themselves only, they represent specific ethnic interest groups. You can deny it all you want.
Nobody is expecting you to accept anything as the gospel truth. Do your own research and if it conflicts with mine, paste the evidence here and let the public be the judge. Don't rely on hearsay to fan anti-Northern sentiments in cyberspace.

The political agenda of the political elite has always been their own belly and their own interests, irrespective of what part of the country they come from or claim to represent. If they claim to be representing any constituency, it is only on paper and by word of mouth. No one knows the name of the House of Reps member that is supposed to be representing my area or your own sef for that matter, neither do we know who the Senator is or what he stands for. They all rigged themselves into office, and celebrate their so-called achievements on the pages of Nigerian tabloids! The masses are the ones left to suffer. Ask Saminu Turaki what benefits the talakawas of his state enjoyed, as he was pocketing the billions he looted from the treasury!
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 3:50pm On Sep 26, 2007
grafikdon:
Lol. . . I have noticed these funny guys always log on with 'dim' or 'cod' somewhere in their names. . . must be a weird coincidence.
Oh so you noticed that, too? Dimcod rhymes with xtycod. Wonder if they are one & the same person. And I guess the 'dim' in the name is short for dim-witted.

You know another thing that makes me laugh? cheesy They are too lazy to conduct their own research. Anyone can read the following books to update their knowledge base.

The ‘New’ Lagos Town Council 1950-1953, in Falola, T. & Salm, S. (eds.) Nigerian Cities (Asmara, 2003), pgs.255-270.

History of Lagos State, in Odumosu, T. (ed.) Lagos State in Maps (Ibadan, 1996), pg:7-10.

The Central Awori Group, in Odumosu Ibid. pg:36-41.

Rural Settlement and Development in Modern Lagos, in Odumosu Ibid. pg:51-55.

Stages in the Economic History of Lagos, in Noah, A.O. (ed.) Fundamentals of General Studies (Lagos, 1995), pgs:147-151. (With S. Ologunro).

“The Career of Seriki Abass (Faremi Williams) in Badagry, 1870-1919,” in Ogunremi, G.O. et al; (eds.) Badagry: The History, Culture and Tradition of an Ancient City (Ibadan, 1994), 354-364.

Donzman: Quote from: Donzman on September 24, 2007, 10:28 PM
@Laudate

I never said it's a no man's land, all I'm saying is that it's not Yoruba land. We're all Nigerians, I should have as much claim to any place in Nigeria as anybody from any other ethnic group, end of story. If this is not the case, then you will have to redefine what it means to be Nigerian. There's no reason why a Yoruba man born outside of Lagos can become Governor while an Efik born in Lagos cannot, what is the reasoning behind that?

It's either One Nigeria or not, no ifs and buts.
Donzman needs to learn about how Lagos came into existence, know the original inhabitants like the Aworis, Egun, 'Saro' etc. and acquaint himself with the fact that Lagos stopped being a capital since 1991, over fifteen years ago. Someone also needs to remind him that only Lagos Island up to Iddo terminus alone, was the former colony of Lagos. Other areas like Ikeja, Epe, Mushin, Ogudu, Yaba etc. were all firmly under the old Western region in the sixties, just like other parts of Yoruba land. Lagos as a state came into existence in 1967. In fact many historians classify Lagos as "an old Yoruba town." Anyone can read Encyclopedia Brittanica online, as well as many other articles about Lagos, to get a clearer picture. Yet, he still wakes up and says "all I'm saying is that it's not Yoruba land. . ." Well, only God knows what it is then, since Donzman has declared to us, what it is not. As a non-Yoruba Lagosian, I wouldn't make that kind of silly remark without proof. One needs to be sensitive to the feelings of the indigenes of a place, and live in mutual harmony and respect with them, by recognising their history and acknowledging the fact that they arrived there before you did. Last time I checked, Mercy Eneli an Igbo woman from Obosi in Anambra state, was a Mayor in Lagos City Council in the 'sixties and even has a popular street, named after her in Surulere area of Lagos. Maybe Donzman can tell us the names of all who prevented her from standing for election in Lagos, during that period and how many non-Yoruba Lagosians offered themselves up for election and were denied a chance to contest, based on their ethnic background.

I often tease my Yoruba friends who hail from Lagos & Isale Eko, as[i] 'Eko for show' [/i] or party rockers, as a joke, but I wouldn't insult their sensibilities by denying that their area is not part of Yoruba land, or trying to act as if it is a so-called 'empty' region located in the middle of God-knows-where.
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 2:12pm On Sep 26, 2007
dimcod:
Laudate no doubt is a Yoruba. He/she is only pretending otherwise. Now laudate, abi kini oruko re. Shut the Bleep up.
Another slowpoke. I can't help laughing when I read responses like this. Provide proof to show conclusively that Laudate comes from Yoruba land. And please state what part of Yorubaland that Laudate comes from o! Tell us the name of the town, local govt. area and the street, too. Don't forget to add the name of the traditional ruler, while you are at it. Every correct answer gets twenty marks!! wink Mumu!
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 1:45pm On Sep 26, 2007
Donzman:
@Laudate

Nobody is obsessed with Lagos, Lagos is at the core of this issue because it is a MULTIETHNIC state. How can you say it is right for only one ethnicity to have the right to lead in a multiethnic state?. . .You need to go and look up what it means to be a country of different constituent ethnicities, you dumb bigot.

By your reasoning, Irish folks who expressed disgust at a Nigerian becoming mayor over a town over in Ireland are right. Stupidity!
Since you were the one who turned it into a multi-ethnic state and relocated it across the Niger, kindly point us to the part of the constitution that deals with the demographic composition of Lagos. Going by your reasoning, obviously Lagos was a vast, empty wasteland devoid of people before it became a multi-ethnic state. Last time, I checked nobody was preventing anyone from any ethnic group from standing for elections in Lagos state. Or did you offer to contest for elections into any office in Lagos, and someone denied you the ticket because you were from a particular ethnic group? Tell us o!

As for the Irish folks, please go to Ireland and debate their stupidity with them. Am sure they would give you a standing ovation!
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 1:37pm On Sep 26, 2007
willywilly:
hope sey everyone don see wetin that Goat head Champion of one Nigeria pretender dey talk.
Una don see their Education and Civilization!!!.
the guy don turn new Mr Anthony Enahoro.
Ijaw, Ogoni, Ibo,Ikwere,Ibibbio,Anang, Adoni,Efik, and all they people that comes from the Former Eastern region, the former multiethnic capital you helped developed with your sweat and resources, they are telling you now, your Obsessed with it, and that you have no right there.
Remember, this people were they Champion of one Nigeria (the New Mr Anthony Enahoro). They have made it clear to you by saying " pack your luggage and go". They are sounding the warning, the earlier you people carry your luggage and go the better before another wave of Genocide will start. Already Fulani/Hausa Military and their Western Nigeria Collaborators are carrying out systematic killing of Ijaw and The Ogoni youths as of this moment.
Everyone on this forum knows you are a paranoid slowpoke. So there is no point talking to you. Since you are already having nightmares of genocide in your sleep, let me give you one piece of advice. Write your will. Do it before it is too late! It is obvious that you will die of hypertension over nothing, due to your imaginary nonsense.
Politics › Re: The Problem With Nigeria by laudate: 6:32pm On Sep 25, 2007
mazaje: Quote from: mazaje on September 15, 2007, 03:09 PM
christians too spend millions on pilgrimage, my state spent about 120 million niara last year on pilgirimage alone so its not only the moslems the christians too indulge in such activity.
Mazaje, if na play make you stop am o! angry

The governor that approved the expenditure of such an amount on pilgrimages, should be prosecuted by the EFCC. What a silly waste of money! How many schools did he build, how many hospitals did he upgrade or equip, how many roads were tarred, how much food was provided to the citizens, how effective was the waste disposal activity in that state and how many scholarships did he offer to indigent students before he decided to spend that colossal amount sponsoring people for pilgrimages, that won't add any value to the state's resources?

What is the name of that state by the way, eh? I want to know the profligate governor . . . .
Culture › Re: Northerner Has Spoken by laudate: 6:21pm On Sep 25, 2007
davidylan:
Hate is a strong word and i should point out that i do not "hate" the northerners. It is not so much what the northerner represents as an individual that rankles but what they represent as a group that has consistently remained a stumbling block to Nigeria's progress.
And just what do they represent as a group? huh

Please note: In Nigeria, the political elite represent only themselves and their own belly or selfish interests. They cut across every ethnic group or region. Period!
Family › Re: How Long Will You Wait? by laudate: 5:34pm On Sep 25, 2007
See a doctor & try IVF. Medicine can do a lot, these days.
Family › Re: Can Your Parents Choose Your Spouse for You? by laudate: 5:27pm On Sep 25, 2007
BABEELOVE:
Yes Laudate---It is a "village" minded thing! This thread is a rhetorical question! Of course parents choose spouses for their children--but it will be more interesting if you comment on your personal experience instead of going the "kparakporic" route of comparative ethnic studies! tongue

Laudate answer the question--Can your parents choose your spouse for you? tongue


na so fight dey take start! wink
Choose wetin for who?? huh Lai lai!! Na how that kind thing wan take happen? Dem no choose ordinary school for me, when I be teenager, na life partner them go wan choose for me?? God forbid bad thing! angry
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 12:09pm On Sep 25, 2007
willywilly:
Ijaw, Ibbibio, Ogoni, Oron, Ibo, Adoni, Efik, etc, that comes from the Former Eastern Region.Listen!, The Former Nigeria Capital you people help built with your sweat and resources that comes from your family land, it is clear now that you people have no share on it. This shows you are not wanted, it's now really clear in your eyes, they have said it,the ball is now in your court. Another Ethnic cleansing is soon on the way, your properties will be confiscated and 20 pounds will be given to you.
Abuja will soon turn Hausa/Fulani personal property.
Ijaw, Ibibbio, Ogoni,Ibo,Efik, Adoni, Ikwere etc. you people have to think twice before it's too late
Spoken like a true slowpoke! Of course, all those people of the South-West & old Mid-western region merely folded their arms and watched while the Ibibio, Ogoni, Igbo, Ndoni, Ikwerre carried all their resources to the former federal capital to develop it! *Hiss* Please tell us the names of those who do not want these other ethnic groups, you propaganda junkie. And let us know your dirty plans for provoking another round of hatred and blood-letting, you mumu!!
Family › Re: An Arranged Marriage: Is It Right? by laudate: 12:01pm On Sep 25, 2007
Ivvie:
I see nothing wrong in it. Abraham did it for Isaac and it has been done for ages. Parents care for their children and wouldn't make wrong choices (in their understanding) especially in this aspect.
I guess if you and your parents had identical tastes in everything, had the same experiences, same views on every subject, and lived in the same medieval times. . . . .yeah, they could choose a spouse for you. Afterall, children even if they are full-grown adults, are not expected to have a mind of their own, right?? huh
Culture › Re: Northerner Has Spoken by laudate: 11:54am On Sep 25, 2007
@Davidylan,

Why do you HATE Northerners so much??! I have read a lot of your posts on this forum, and while you have a lot of valid points most of the time, those points often tend to get warped in the cycle of Northern-hatred that colours your vision. Let it go. We are all humans under this same skin, with faults, flaws, vices and virtues in varying degrees.


Hipernetix & Sookie,

You guys have made some very interesting points. I do hope it would be possible to transform those ideas into reality. Wishing you guys all the best.

Ehm. . .on a last note, please don't take Willywilly serious. He is one of the resident chief haters on nairaland who believe that nothing good exists in other ethnic groups, except his own. His view is so distorted that it would take millions of years to straighten it out. Its a sheer waste of time responding to him.

Peace!
Romance › Re: Is It Ok To Meet The Father Of A Girl You Impregnated And Not Willing To Marry? by laudate: 11:42am On Sep 25, 2007
theopops:
It is as much your fault as it's the baby mama. If she was dumb enough to sleep without protection, she should be ready to face life. If she made a decision to not abort. She should be ready to face life as a single mother. See, what I am trying to point out here is this, we all choose the way we want to live. She chose to have a baby out of wedlock and she will have to live with that decision.

Yes, people sleep with others. Heck, the sex is sweet and you know deep down, you feel nothing for her. That if push turn to shove, you'll go with your GF. Believe me, girls know this, but some are stupid enough to think the guy is going to leave the GF for them. Yeah, wishful thinking.

Abegi, carry go jo. If her family wants you to marry her, tell them you will, when their daughter starts to tell the truth. I so hate liars!
Yeah, people sleep with others. And when they decide to do so, they should be straight-forward enough to take responsibility for their actions, accept the blame, acknowledge their error and stop trying to lay the reasons why things went wrong, at the doorstep of the other party, or start acting like a victim. It takes two to tango. Did the baby's momma impregnate herself? Gamers finished his misdeed, and had the guts to suggest an abortion after he was found out. Assuming the chic didn't bcome pregnant, he would have continued 'chopping' her for free. So where is the 'lie,' in this whole thing? Most women will tell you, that having a baby out of wedlock takes even more guts, than having an abortion. They think of the shame, the costs of bringing up the kid, the chances that anything could go wrong with the pregnancy or during childbirth etc. Yet, someone is here blaming the girl for NOT using protection and telling lies, instead of telling the guy to stop digging himself deeper into the hole in which he has found himself. Or did the girl hold a gun to his head and force him to sleep with her?? Men who decide to use women for sex, should be prepared to face the music when things go wrong, instead of offering cheap excuses. sad

Gamers said he loved his girl-friend. So why was he banging another chic? Ooops, he was trying to prove. . .just what exactly? That he was virile? huh So why didn't he use protection with the other chic? And am sure those banging sessions must have taken place more than once, over a period of time. This story reminds me of what happened to my neighbour's only daughter, last year. That young girl is now in the shoes of Gamers' baby momma. Simply because she was stupid enough, to fall for a smooth-talking dude who used her. If Gamers knew he loved his girl-friend so much, he should have kept his pants zipped, like I said earlier!! Period. angry

Who knows what other kind of excuses & stories, Gamers gave to his girl-friend each time he had to be with the other chic? Abeg, make I hear word. If you are man enough to sleep with a chic, you should be man enough to marry her, when push comes to shove. Or was Gamers' girl-friend denying him sex, when they were dating? Was that what led him to take solace outside? C'mon, let's hear more excuses!! undecided
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 11:08am On Sep 25, 2007
Donzman:
@Laudate

I never said it's a no man's land, all I'm saying is that it's not Yoruba land. We're all Nigerians, I should have as much claim to any place in Nigeria as anybody from any other ethnic group, end of story. If this is not the case, then you will have to redefine what it means to be Nigerian. There's no reason why a Yoruba man born outside of Lagos can become Governor while an Efik born in Lagos cannot, what is the reasoning behind that?

It's either One Nigeria or not, no ifs and buts.
Oh yeah. . . .I forgot, it is not Yoruba land. Lagos is now Ibibio land, Igbo land and Idoma land. It has been uprooted from its' present location and placed firmly across the Niger, not so??

This obsession with Lagos, is what I can't understand. Last time I checked, I did not see where the map of Nigeria had been re-drawn, to place Lagos firmly outside the South-west. When it suits you, you claim one Nigeria. When it doesn't suit you, you guys claim other ethnic groups are bad and the nation should be divided along ethnic lines, because you don't like the present arrangement. It would be nice if you all could make up your minds, once & for all.
Culture › Re: Where Are You From? by laudate: 5:16pm On Sep 24, 2007
dada22:
I LOVE NAIRALAND & ALL DA NAIRALANDERS,you're da BOMB!!! MEEEEEEEEENNN grin grin grin

ma dad 's from Enugu & mum from Edo wink
@surugede, man i feel u nwanchuka wink hope 2 know u man, i'm from Ikem, isi-uzo LGA,Enugu
Good combination! wink That's the best political union I have come across!

ThoniaSlim:
am from Akwa Ibom, but my mum's from Anambra.
Gimme five! Another correct merger! Na from which geo-poilitical zone you go marry from, so that the equation will balance? cheesy
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 5:12pm On Sep 24, 2007
The same people that claim Lagos is a no man's land, earn a living from there, and shout that it is a capital so therefore everyone has equal rights there, are the same folks that will go on cyberspace to spew filth about how people of the South-west especially those in Lagos, are thoroughly bad. As a non-Yoruba person who has spent several years in Lagos, such comments make me wanna puke.

Who forced you to come to Lagos and live there? Pack your bags and head back to your village, if you can't stand the people there, or you hate their language. Period!
Romance › Re: Is It Ok To Meet The Father Of A Girl You Impregnated And Not Willing To Marry? by laudate: 5:01pm On Sep 24, 2007
salsera:
You are not under obligation to cater for the mother, she is not your responsibility. She was very aware she could get pregnant

Maybe this time you'll appreciate your GF and with time and a lot of work from your side she will forgive you.
And if his girl-friend marries him, she will be a really dumb broad. The guy was supposed to be in a 'serious' relationship with her, and he kept fooling around with another chic, until he left a calling card in the other babe's belly. Why didn't he keep his trousers zipped, if he loved his girl-friend so much? Now he wants to marry his GF out of guilt! What a pity.

What is the proof that he won't repeat the same thing with another chic, after she marries him?
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 4:48pm On Sep 24, 2007
Donzman:
No one is trying to steal Lagos from you, people from all ethnic nationalities should be treated as equals in Lagos. You can't say One Nigeria with exceptions when it suits you.
Here we go again!! Who is complaining of inequality? And who has been accorded unequal treatment?

All people are saying is that, when you come to a place, kindly accord the hosts some courtesy and relate with them on the basis of mutual respect. Period. You cannot go there and claim it is a no man's land, simply because at one time it was a federal capital. Those who were indigenes and lived there before it became a capital, nko? Did they become extinct, all of a sudden? And since it stopped being a federal capital, have those indigenes and their descendants moved, disappeared or gone into oblivion? Can a Kanuri man go to Onitsha and claim it is a no man's land, because it is the commercial gateway to the South-east?

It is like Christopher Columbus saying he discovered America, or Mungo Park saying he discovered River Niger. So what were the natives who lived on the banks on the river, doing? Folding their arms and waiting to be discovered?

Last time I checked, no one was preventing any Nigerian from owning property in Lagos. Go to the land registry in Alausa and see the names of those who have applied for Certificates of Occupancy, or title deeds to properties in Lagos. They cut across the length & breadth of all ethnic groups in Nigeria. So this issue of some folks whining about lack of property rights & inequality in Lagos, is nothing but sheer childishness.
Romance › Re: Is It Ok To Meet The Father Of A Girl You Impregnated And Not Willing To Marry? by laudate: 9:36am On Sep 24, 2007
Gamers:
This is very understandable. No one is, really! I've thought about leaving my GF but I can't bring myself to do it. I won't allow her to suffer for my mistakes and it'll be the last thing that I'll do to her.

Care for Baby mother too and I wont allow her to do this all alone. Can't abandon her. I've thought of a million and one reasons like she planned this, trying to trap me and all. But I just can't act like a typical guy faced with this situation.

The question remains - based on my resolve to take care of both women, how do I face her dad with these intentions? I'll marry my GF but hope to compromise and accommodate Baby mother if she doesn't get married in future! Nasty move but coming from guilt!!!!!!
Just listen to yourself. When you were busy sleeping with the Baby's mother, you didn't think she was trying to trap you then, abi? Now that there is a bun in the oven, you are ascribing one million and one reasons to her actions, as if it didn't take two to tango. Now, you want to marry your girl-friend in addition to having your cake and eating it, and you think things will work out between you two, despite the fact that you have cheated on her and there is living proof of your 'escapades'. How do you think the baby's mother will feel seeing you say 'I do' to someone else, after you have left her as a single mother? You even had the guts to suggest she should go for an abortion, in order to cover up your mistakes. You are really pathetic.  sad So you hope to compromise and accommodate Baby mother if she doesn't get married in future?! Gosh! You need help! Just listen to the garbage you are spewing out. How exactly do you propose to accomodate the baby's mother, pls? Kindly let everyone know. And if she gets married, you will stop the accomodation, abi? Kai! See wonder! Oh I guess, if she gets married, you will automatically abandon your duties to your kid.

Let us hope her father gives you the tongue-lashing you so richly deserve, and let us hope he turns down any offer from you to feature as a 'daddy' in his grand-child's life. Afterall, you didn't show his daughter any respect by using her, and getting her knocked up, then turning around to suggest an abortion. So I fail to see why the girl's dad should show you any courtesy. Go and see him. But be prepared for the worst. And don't blame him if he reads you the riot act, because you truly deserve it for being an ass.
Family › Re: Infidelity In Marriage, Is There Any Cure? by laudate: 4:27pm On Sep 21, 2007
[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=75152.msg1493711#msg1493711 date=1189729775]I don't see a cure, but i think, would be nice for the couple to always sit down, take a break, take time out and make each other feel like the king and the queen, ladies, treat the man like nothing else in this world matters, make him feel like a giant, let him feel like he is the president, the VP, the petroleum minister and even the finance minister, a man ( and when i say a man, i don't mean a man that think he is a man, all because he has a mimi-willy between his legs oh ) a real man is one with a heart and a feeling, a real man that cheats on his wife after being made to feel like all listed above, should be snapped and have witness and send him to sharia court.
A man that is treated nice and well taken cared of by the wife has no reason to want to creep, what you looking for is at home, you want sex, get it for ya wife, if the ladies outside are dressing skimpy, buy your wife skimpy dresses, if the babes out there sucks your privates, teach your wife how to lick da banana and be patient till she is perfect with it, if the babe out there is skinny and ya wife is over weight, take her to the gym and be willing to help her through it, just thnk of her as your sister or mother, how would you feel if she is being treated the way you treating your wife, let us have a heart and treat them how we will like to be treated, what do i know? i am just a virgin rhino[/quote]There are too many women who have done that, and yet the man still leaves them to fool around with anything in a skirt. I know a particular guy whose wife is a top-notch beautiful elegant lawyer. She rushes home to cook his meals and does all she can to give him the best. Yet, this guy still picks up street girls anytime she goes away for a two-day conference or if he has some time to spare. those girls are not even in his wife's class.

Some men. . . .na only God fit save dem!
Family › Re: Can Your Parents Choose Your Spouse for You? by laudate: 4:08pm On Sep 21, 2007
All of una just dey talk grammar for here, as if di thing no dey happen for una side. Look, in the North, it is very common for parents to choose wives for their sons, especially the first sons. It is also common for them to arrange marriages for their kids, with or without the kid's consent. I had a female classmate that was married off at the age of 16, several years ago to a guy her father saw her talking to, on a few occassions. At first he warned her. But by the 3rd time he saw her saying hi to the same chap, he just went behind her back & married her off to the guy. Chikena. grin They now have four kids. She continued her education in her husband's house.

Another of my friends from the South-East dated an Efik girl for many years, without the knowledge of his parents. At that time, he had nothing. The girl stood by him and shared the little she had, with him. When he finally made some money, and decided to marry the girl, his parents refused flatly. sad

Later, he started dating a Yoruba girl, and again his parents refused to approve of their relationship. She wasn't from their place, was the excuse they gave him. It was much later his aunt introduced one girl from the next local govt. area to their own, to the chap. That was when the guy's parents finally gave their approval. smiley Tell me, have they not suceeded in (directly or indirectly) choosing the guy's wife for him?

It also happens for girls, as well. They keep parading different guys before their parents, and the dads & mums keep saying "No," until they finally see one that they like. Then they will quickly say yes, giving reasons that range from the sublime to the ridiculous, in order to make their pleasure (or displeasure) known. undecided Now, have they not successfully chosen a spouse for their kid, while managing to give him or her the erroneous impression that that he or she made the choice?
Politics › Re: Nigeria: Ndlea Arrests Seven Drug Peddlers At Lagos Airport. by laudate: 3:54pm On Sep 21, 2007
Your friend Oyl-D and Willywilly will soon be here to respond to you!
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 3:11pm On Sep 21, 2007
[quote author=Red_Lips link=topic=79457.msg1518682#msg1518682 date=1190382948]laudate you should know when im on this name, the almighty crazy clown has started his male PMS[/quote]Am lost! Who is the almighty crazy clown? huh
Culture › Re: Change Of Tribe by laudate: 3:09pm On Sep 21, 2007
jayon:
angry angry angry Nairaland users please try to understand, am a yoruba boy but my mum is a delta igbo woman and stay much with mum, and really as far as have seen yoruba life, to me its bunch of nonsense to me .Period angry angry, not asking for suggestion from anyone ,was just asking for procedure because am coming home soon,so will need where to go and change that name lanre to emeka wink or Kanu wink grin grin grin
ROFLMAO!! grin grin

Abeg, where are all the Yoruba people on this forum? Na wey dem dey, sef? Can they come and hear dis guy? Chei! cheesy I beg, make I laugh well, well!! Nothing wey person no go hear for dis place!

How confused can a person be? Is this a case of someone suffering from self-hatred, or has he been brainwashed by other people?

Truly Jayon, does your mum think Yoruba life is a bunch of nonsense, too? And if you are so convinced it is a bunch of nonsense, then why not ask your mum why she gave birth to you through a Yoruba man, instead of having a baby for someone else from any other tribe, eh? *Please o, no offence meant to your mum. Am just trying to understand what led to your strange kind of reasoning.

You sound like you were brought up in one of those decadent slums or ghettos, and the way of life in those places has shaped your thinking and has formed your level of exposure.

Grow up and educate yourself, kid. Learn to free your mind.
Culture › Re: Calabar Women Awareness. by laudate: 2:57pm On Sep 21, 2007
Willywilly, you don't see anything wrong in insulting other ethnic groups, deriding them, poking fun at them and rubbishing them. But when it comes to your own ethnic group, you come out in full defence. You still have a lot to learn, but then since your brain is empty. . .it will take a long while before anything meaningful comes out of it. You and Dimka a.k.a Okoroamadi a.k.apilas and chichi81 as well as docokwy are birds of the same hate-filled feather, on the prowl! sad
Culture › Re: Is Port Harcout Not An Igboland? by laudate: 2:49pm On Sep 21, 2007
[quote author=Red_Lips link=topic=79457.msg1518624#msg1518624 date=1190382039]Well you do have people like DonzMan who are trying to steal it from us.[/quote]Chei!! Chei!!! Chei!!!! shocked shocked shocked

Na who I dey see so? Red Lips na you, abi na anoda person? Wey you dey since? Kai! How body now? grin Wetin dey happen??! Better tory don waka pass o!
Politics › Re: What Do U Think About Madam Speaker? by laudate: 7:15pm On Sep 19, 2007
denex:
This is very true. All Nigerians, must ensure that this woman does not survive this.

This should be the Nigerian peoples first major action against corruption and our first warning to those that want to corrupt public office.

You can imagine that this woman must have borrowed a N500 million loan to celebrate her birthday in the USA.

I was looking at this a an error on her part, some kind of mistake, but no, this woman must relinquish that position, leave the House of Representatives entirely, and finally be tried and face possible jailterm.

The former Speaker of the House of Representatives must also be probed. How could he have vandalised that Government Residential facility to the extent that it will require hundreds of millions to Renovate?

THINGS MUST CHANGE.
When did she take a loan of 500 million naira to hold a birthday party in the US? And where exactly in the US, did the party take place? How much was spent on venue hire, decorations, catering, gifts etc.? All these things are easy to check in the States.

As for the amount quoted for renovation of her official quarters, has it been approved, disbursed, allocated or expended?

Was there a need to tear down the old structure and build a new one to replace it?

Will the 'new' house be built with marble, or coated with diamonds and platinum? Because to my mind, that is the only reason why such a huge amount can be voted as renovation costs for an ordinary house. Even at that, all those millions of naira is still way TOO much for the construction of an ordinary house, talk less of renovating one. Or are we  talking about renovating a ten-storey multi-purpose hotel plaza, and not a two-storey building used by the Speaker? Don't forget, the Deputy Speaker's house was also to be renovated. So both of them should be probed. I guess the Deputy Speaker will hold his own birthday bash in Switzerland. Who knows?

What baffles me most sha, is that of all the erudite, sensible ladies in the House of Reps. that hail from the South-West (like Abike Dabiri, Gbemi Saraki etc.) you mean this kind of woman was the only one that could be picked to preside over the entire House? Chei! shocked

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