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Martinez39:
Don't mind the op. Let her tell that to those that trained their girlfriends in school thinking they were going to marry her after everything only to be dumped cold for a higher bidder. Let her tell that to the husbands who trained their wives in school, furthered the education of their wives, got them high paying jobs only for the husband to go broke and reap insults, nagging, and cruelty in return. These husbands get insulted and are constantly reminded by their wives at the slightest provocation that they are worthless and that if not for the wives' money, they wouldn't survive. Any money they borrow from their wives is a loan that must be returned or else they are nagged and fought to repay. It does not matter what good these husbands have done for their wives in the past.

Easybela:
the way women of the world is today,I won't advice any man to invest in any woman,why the investment if I may ask ,like she's a business that will yield any profit in future. You can gift a woman you are dating if you like,investing is not right until she is legally your wife.
Some women that can carefully date 4 to 5 men same time......op get yourself busy abeg

HRHQueenPhil:
oh pls, it's called sacrifice... Something u will never understand..many refuse to drop d career, dats why we have so many children who are mannerless

Mogambo123:
It all depends mostly on how you present yourself to them in a conversation or action , you might not know it but sometimes our words wrongly insinuate judgment towards other people , now that triggers defense on their part .

ucheHapers:
Which clown wrote this, thank God I married after i was 30. You are financially stable and know the kind of woman you want.

Dimples0303:
No... I'd rent her a room at the hilton instead

CaveAdullam:
Not all men are dogs, some will always remain faithful to the call as much that the love they have for their partner is genuine. Same with the women, not all are sluts and will rather focus on their duties than chase married men or those in a relationship.

If your friend and your fiance falls into this category then you are good to go without worries.

Thanks.

God bless.

MrCork:

lilwetdick:
what is toxic here?

if a woman has a brain, two eyes, two nose, two legs and everything necessary to be a complete and mature woman

is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to get her hair done?
is it my job to tell the woman that she needs to take her bath or smell nice?
or is it my job to tell her how to be a responsible woman?

as long as she is not an invalid and disable, she can think for herself.

lilwetdick:
everything the man must do

like the woman does not have brain to take care of herself or think for herself

is she an invalid or someone with disabilities?

akinreals:
Why not, afterall there's love in sharing. What are friends for?

Juliearth:
Hey! The monopoly to make decision doesn't solely lie with you. You are free to draw whatever illogical conclusions you deem fit to draw, that only goes to prove how shallow you are. On a normal day, in a saner clime and dealing with an intellect, I'd get a PM...but this empty coconut head wants me to chase just to prove a point.
I don't bend in that direction, bro, neither do I need validity from someone whose pseudonym screams mediocre. My degrees and certifications are good pointers to show how sound I am. Degrees and certifications cannot lie. I don't run after misogynistic mediocres to prove a point. This social experiment has proven one thing: that most men who scream "women are numb skulls" aren't far from that as well. Have a lovely day, mister.

funmisticqueen:
Both cannot be compared. Ejaculation is commonplace, but ovulation is a more refined process

SendAbroad:
See Pot calling Kettle black...

What is this you wrote below? Does it appear correct to you?

One of the ways to prove that you've seen the four walls of university is by having excellent command of English language amongst other skills.

Jesuspikin8:
Says a virgin.

Orevaforbs:
Op don't mind the men above 30 ,still single deceiving themselves.
They think all ladies love marrying old men. Lol

I laugh!

I know of how many 40 and 50years old struggling men, I have said NO! to..


And my No! Is No!!!!

You can't be 40 or 50years and still be struggling and be inbetween broke and semi comfortable. Haba!

At least if we ladies can't enjoy the youthful skin, try and add wealth to cover up.

It's that simple!

Drops mic!

pansophist:
As usual, men by default, are monster who are terrorizing women's live, while women are some innocent, incapable of crime creatures that sinless, sugar and spice

Why not mention the reason of the 65% divorce? Dont worry I'll tell you, it's mostly because of money. Money is the major reason for divorce. When the man couldn't earn more or loose his financial foothold, instead of support him, he is divorced. And you still turn around and blame men and called them toxic.

What has happened to introspection? From my experience, it is hard for women to look in the mirror and tell themselves the truth, you need lie than woman-up and admit fault.

Also, policing thoughts never works. Grow up and learn to shrug aggression off. People will always be mean. I constantly receive yabbings here on nairaland by some idiots but you wont see me creating a thread complain about women being toxic. I just shrug it off, as their opinion and impression doesn't reflects me whatsoever.

Fyi0:
Nonsense!!!

EmptyCoconutHead:
kindly give me the contact of those few unique ones.
I need to see for myself before believing

bukatyne:
Ma'am, you are a lawyer so you should understand that you CANNOT legislate people's choices, thoughts and feelings.

If I feel that a divorced man is damaged goods to me, whose business is that? I can only ensure that I do not deprive him of his rights in line with the constitution. I have the freedom of association and I can decide a divorced man is not it.

Ditto single woman, married man, married woman, housewife, househusband, only child, working wife, Igbo man, Hausa woman, Yoruba child etc.

People will always shame others not like them, better than them, worse than them, or even like them sef. Peeps who know what they want out of life would focus on their path and shut out distractions and naysayers.

Like I always say, every woman has the responsibility to choose the man that works best for her.

lagosminded:
From the start of the relationship, men will tell you they’re looking for a wife material - which mostly means - good cook, manage a home, peaceful home take care of kids etc. Nigerian men don’t pretend this is what they want. Nigerian girls play this role well while dating and reverse when they get married.

lagosminded:
Why not read and understand comments in context? Does it make sense for me to say women should suffer and in the next sentence say “women are not blameless tho”

Let me make it clearer to you, modern women are increasingly initiating divorces because they don’t want to suffer like their mothers. Also as it becomes less of a taboo to be a divorcee more will have the courage to seek one. Women are not blameless though, (in why marriages fall apart) they have perfected the art of getting the ring (pretending while dating and marrying people they’re not compatible with to be called “Mrs”)