Romance › Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by lavylilly(op): 10:21am On Dec 09, 2019 |
 cooooooks: There are many girls that only have sex to offer.
There are many guys who only seek sex or/and only have money/things to offer.
There are, in my view, the majority who have everything to offer: wisdom, love, partnership, themselves.
When you find yourself a person with everything to offer, you will know. |
Romance › Our FIRST Date! by lavylilly(op): 10:21am On Dec 09, 2019 |
Our FIRST Date!
First and Foremost, let me put it out there that Mr. man DID NOT disappoint.
I arrived at the venue before him.
** Yes, I show up to dates early.
As soon as I spotted him some feet away walking majestically towards me, I froze! Mr.man had the confidence and swag that would make ANY woman melt. His ensemble was on point, and his smell? Enchanting.
Before he got to where I was sitting, I managed to snap back to my normal self, took one swig of my drink, propped myself against the seat, then mentally prepare myself for what was to come.
Finally, he made it, standing just few inches before me. I stood and embraced him. We sat, graciously if I may add.
We exchanged pleasantries then ordered drinks.
Our date officially began.
We talked, laughed, and stylishly brushed our bodies together.
None of us looked at our phone or even remembered that we had one as we were totally engrossed with each other.
He asked questions like:
-Given the choice of anyone in the world, who would you want as a dinner guest?
-What’s your most treasured memory?
-What would constitute a perfect day for you?
And I indulged him.
Needless to say, we had an amazing date.
Disclaimer.⚠️
I DID NOT go on a date o, but when I eventually do, this is how I hope to tell the story. |
Romance › Re: Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 10:20am On Dec 09, 2019 |
 biosystech: I'm curious, these statistics you're spewing, where did you get them from because I'm really interested in the stats?
Interested in getting a fairly used laptop, click on my username. |
Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 1:53pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
pocohantas: Lets not deceive ourselves, it is a general problem. Whatever the men have become, the ladies are not any better.
Moral values be dropping everyday. It really doesn't make sense to single out one and leave the other. From what I see, plenty people no just get sense these days.  |
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Romance › Re: Can A Woman With PHD Get Married To A Man With No DEGREE ? by lavylilly(op): 8:56am On Dec 04, 2019 |
hmmmmmmmmm MEGA4BILLION: A successful marriage is not a function of the number of degrees acquired but a function of maturity and understanding |
Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 4:53pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
na wa Martinez39: Lol. You typed this from a place of emotion instead of reason. So if a man's taste is for his wife to be educated nko? You don't think those men that trained their wives in school had the taste for an educated woman? Beside, why can't the lady improve herself? Why does she need to be spoon-fed like a child in kindergarten? Next time when you are replying, leave your emotions out of it. |
Romance › Re: Can A Woman With PHD Get Married To A Man With No DEGREE ? by lavylilly(op): 4:53pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
ogun kee you dia[quote author=EmptyCoconutHead post=84492294][/quote] |
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Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 8:07am On Dec 03, 2019 |
 excessmon: When will we have people that can actually read.... he never said you should train them in school he only said you should bring her up to the taste you want In A woman so you [wont be opening your opolo eyes to disturb the ones we have groomed....Biko quote author=Martinez39 post=84449889] Don't mind the op. Let her tell that to those that trained their girlfriends in school thinking they were going to marry her after everything only to be dumped cold for a higher bidder. Let her tell that to the husbands who trained their wives in school, furthered the education of their wives, got them high paying jobs only for the husband to go broke and reap insults, nagging, and cruelty in return. These husbands get insulted and are constantly reminded by their wives at the slightest provocation that they are worthless and that if not for the wives' money, they wouldn't survive. Any money they borrow from their wives is a loan that must be returned or else they are nagged and fought to repay. It does not matter what good these husbands have done for their wives in the past. |
Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 4:54pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
wht kind of analogy is this? addictiv: Guys b4 you invest in any woman, and ensure she's worth the effort.....else u re better off buying a goat that gets pregnant and births kids that you can sell for returns. |
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Family › Re: As The Year Gradually Comes To An End, What Are You Most Grateful For? by lavylilly: 4:29pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: 21 Sign Languages Guys Should Understand About Ladies. by lavylilly: 4:28pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
MUMU udder: But why not just say what they mean? Or are they dumb? |
Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 4:12pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
 themaestro08: It seems you are oblivious of the fact that you can't change anyone unless they actually want to. And regarding all this things you mentioned you forget that relationship is a two way street. And more importantly only special women deserve special treatment. |
Romance › Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by lavylilly(op): 4:12pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Sure joepepsy: some people don't really know when someone is playing around. |
Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 4:11pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
 bukatyne: With this awareness you should be a good SIL and not add to the Stats of evil SILs. |
Romance › Re: Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 4:11pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Lol Dreiwizzy: You've all these dirty qualities right? @Coconuthead |
Romance › Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 10:23am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Men aren't left out on this personnel hygiene, 50% of men suffer bad breath,body odour, mouth odour..as a man how do u take care of your body generally?
A clean and handsome guy turns me on like mad!..because i love sniffing a lot..I can sleep on your armpit if its odourles and clean..
You are wondering why after that girl came visiting and she stopped picking your calls,check your breath,body well before you call her names...
Most men are very dirty ....when I say dirty its an understatement,I've met a guy that has body and mouth odour,bad breath,3in1.I really liked him,in fact I loved him,I tried talking to him about it,I bought him cologne i made sure he brushes day and night, I placed him on food diet to know if the bad breath and mouth odour will go no way....it was follow come,maybe kind of hereditary or spiritual but Amaka can't tell.
Then when we want to play I avoid kissing and he must bath and brush at the same time,I will now give him cloret chewing gum to chew before we start...I tried for 1year but it wasn't treatable I had to walk!....
I can't deal please,when we go out together I make sure he's chewing that mint and stays far from his friends ...
So in his case it was something more to it....most men are so careless and lazy...dirty at the same time,you will wake up in the morning you will just brush or some don't even brush and leave the house.
some men will wear one boxers for 1 week before changing and most of them live in the public yard,they will go inside the toilet sit on the toilet seat and poo leaving their dick and scrotum dangling inside the water closet chai
later he will wipe his bum bum and wear his boxers...after all he's a man there is no hole for infection to enter he will say in his mind...he will invite somebody's daughter baby suck me,lick my balls�,aunty will suck and lick shit!
Before you sit on that toilet seat,wash or place toilet paper on top of the toilet seat before you use it...while pooing hold your dick or bring it out from the bowl after pooing you wash your bum with water or you bath...while bathing always endeavor to wash your under laps and balls well please because some men's own smells so awful,some you will see dirt strapping to the hairs on the genital areas or you will see that hair brownish or even white....you guys should help us because some men are most carriers of infection..because of sleeping with different girls
Always wear nice cologne,body spray and perfumes,brush at least twice in a Day..if you are having mouth odor you can change your toothpaste and eat right,if its persist visit the hospital...
Change your boxers and pants everyday ....shave your armpits regularly,some guys will leave it to grow like grass its so irritating,i learnt some don't like shaving if you don't like shaving keep it Clean and odorless....dont come and forming big boy while smelling like a he goat...cleanliness is next to godliness...
Happy week!!!!!!!!!!
Chiamaka Oprah Chibueze |
Romance › Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by lavylilly(op): 10:21am On Dec 02, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 10:19am On Dec 02, 2019 |
 merahki: And as usual, driven by hypocrisy Many people would not want to be the type of partner they want for their relatives and loved ones Personally I would love a man to provide for me like silly, but for my brothers I would want their partners to be helpers, sharers, bringers to the table  Gender wars are silly to me I don’t do it at all, I just live life, my own way. If I am in any union where I feel trapped or dehumanised? I bounce, no stories. (Well I may be slightly too wild and free? Who knows? I might be lying my head off, so that what now? Who knows?) |
Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 10:19am On Dec 02, 2019 |
smh MrCork: they taste sweeter sir!  |
Romance › Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by lavylilly(op): 1:12pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Lightangel65: I disagree, maybe you think this because you are a sex freak. Sex is not life.
I don't really know about women but they are good company, relationships are not meant to be about sex. If I was ever(not possible) to enter into one. Sex would be off the table.  |
Romance › Re: What Do We Learn From This Men? by lavylilly(op): 1:11pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
ScienceTv: I miss Jenny my ex, but man gats hustle. hustle o! |
Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 1:10pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6: Engaging with women in things like this is a waste of time, their aggressive nature won't allow them to heed advice and they've perfected the role of victim playing.  |
Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 1:08pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
DaddyRochie1642: How did you know that those women are now Fucking at an alarming rate in Abeokuta?....are now following them around?...Or are you the one doing the Fvcking?  he obviously following them around and keep records. |
Romance › Re: Can A Woman With PHD Get Married To A Man With No DEGREE ? by lavylilly(op): 8:53am On Nov 30, 2019 |
skylegend: marry a woman with a purpose
not a woman with education
everything you were though in school can be found on the internet.
so academic knowledge is not that powerful in our modern world.
for example you meet any billionaire
you will realizes they don't care about the academic knowledge but prefer self knowledge
no matter what type of high academic education she had
if she lack the self knowledge
just be care full hmmmm |
Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 8:52am On Nov 30, 2019 |
MyNation: How many deadbeat fathers are around you or how many children are fatherless ( father love )even when you know their Fathers are alive.
When most people think fathers are not doing their work is because of social media, internet and mostly irresponsible ladies around  |
Romance › Re: What Do We Learn From This Men? by lavylilly(op): 8:51am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Powersurge: hmmmm. That "hmm" really long oo. if I drag am Nairaland no go fit contain am. May God help me to make the right decision beyond my eyes. Amen. |
Romance › Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by lavylilly(op): 8:50am On Nov 30, 2019 |
EmptyCoconutHead: shut the hell up evening newspaper. even with my empty head my IQ, intellect and achievements in life are way higher than your whole generations combined together am glad you admitted that you have an empty head. |
Romance › What Do We Learn From This Men? by lavylilly(op): 2:55pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
2FACE IDIBIA;married Anne,after many years of flirting with other women,why? Because he knows no other woman contributed to his life as much as Annie.....
Van-Vicker The Ghanaian movie Star did the very same thing,marrying the girl he met when he was just 15 years old...
Peter of psquare did same to his girlfriend and Baby Mama of many years.....
What do we learn from this men? They have seen a lot of women in their lives,,but yet,they went back to that one woman who stood by them when they were nobody,There is nothing as sweet as the love of that woman who drank with you,who slept with you on your hard floor without a bed,who didn't care about what you had or what you didn't have...
Their love is pure, sweet and innocent. ..
They are obedient, considerate,understanding, supportive and submissive.why?
Because they know what you went through or is going through even before you make it in life..
Because they have become part of you and understand you even more than you understands yourself sometimes. ...
Be careful of ready-made women,
Most of them are Gold digger ,after the Gold,they are gone....
My advice is,if you have that woman that has supported you,Been there for you and never leave you even when you were rude to her...
Don't let her go!! She is priceless!! She is A Treasure!!
Not easy to find! !
She is rare...
She is what we call a woman of class,not a woman of money... |
Romance › Re: I Feel Like Walking Away But My Heart Is So Loving Her.. by lavylilly: 2:45pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
You have always wanted to dump her. It's okay to tie the heartbreak to something. Yes, you found something. So, move on. I hope she does too. |