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Romance › Re: As A Lady, Can You Date/marry A Guy Younger (age Wise) Than You? by lavylilly(op): 10:01am On Dec 16, 2019

zexy2030:
It's easier for a guy to marry a younger girl than a girl or lady going for a younger guy. The guy may need to be extremely submissive to make the marriage work. But if he's got financial prowess than the wife then he can act as the man otherwise he will act like the woman throughout the relationship. Women love to be in charge if they have the resources to be so.

Not in Nigeria

Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 8:59am On Dec 16, 2019

efficiencie:
Does it matter what "you people" call a lady? Does it matter for how long she will last in her marriage? Does it matter whether she will be married at all? I strongly believe one thing. No hardworking, sincere and godly man will put anything but character, purpose and destiny ahead as a criteria for choosing a spouse. Why will I pay bride price, dole out money for wedding and drain my finance on setting up for family all for a lady who will spread her legs for a neighbor who didn't even buy her bottle water as a gift during her wedding... If you are a good thing, an asset, a blessing as a lady, men will fall over themselves to marry you and you would sieve the chaff from the wheat and get into a blissful marriage!

Romance › Re: As A Lady, Can You Date/marry A Guy Younger (age Wise) Than You? by lavylilly(op): 8:57am On Dec 16, 2019

rottennaija:
When they are in their desperate years, can will date and even marry a 20 years old.

Romance › Re: As A Lady, Can You Date/marry A Guy Younger (age Wise) Than You? by lavylilly(op): 6:15pm On Dec 14, 2019

Ariza:
I can't.

I can be bossy

Romance › As A Lady, Can You Date/marry A Guy Younger (age Wise) Than You? by lavylilly(op): 6:03pm On Dec 14, 2019

As a lady, can you date/marry a guy younger (age wise) than you?
State your reason(s)

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Romance › Re: Have You Been Sexual Harassed Or Molested....? by lavylilly: 6:02pm On Dec 14, 2019

My dear this my experience is tough o one night,about 11:22 pm something happened, i was just there in my room,since the compound i stay is close to the major road,the next thing i heard is tunuu,tunuuuu,tunuuuu,

lo and behold fire service,i said evn wassapen,after a little while another passed,and another and another, and 6:30am another passed and am like something is wrong,only to find out yesterday that fire entered peoples shop in oron road,can u imagine it burnt more than 7shops and heard there was a little boy that was burnt too,my dear u know how that fire service pple molested my sleep. Thank you.

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Romance › Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by lavylilly: 9:40am On Dec 13, 2019

I do beg too when I was a student but I beg my family members mostly.
The problem is that these students depend on males that are not family members with their 'exaggerated' problems.
Even when given, they have poor management skills.
They really don't want to do anything to make something of their own.

Some are hardworking but some are serious liabilities and we all know that some men run away from extra responsibilities.

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Romance › Young People Must Copy This by lavylilly(op): 9:31am On Dec 13, 2019

I understand how it feels sometimes to see your mates ‘outshine’ you in this race of life. Being utterly broke and seeing them spending money luxuriously. I understand this feeling..

But,
Dwelling on those feelings will push you to regret, sadness, depression, and even negative vices, just to meet up.

I've come to a point in my life where I'm so in love with every single thing that has happened to me; good and bad. I love my delays, my denials, my rejections, everything!

I do not regret being this person I am.
I do not regret the experiences I've been through..
So when I see someone doing well, maybe my mate or younger, I cheer them, I celebrate them, and I appreciate them because I know that nobody can shine my shine.

When I see their success, I remind myself that mine is incubating. I see my reality in people's progress. I don't get eaten up by envy and anger.

Young people must copy this...
Celebrate people because you'll soon be celebrated. It's turn by turn and nobody will be left out.

Love yourself enough not to be like anyone else. Accept your past, find reasons to love the fact that you were delayed, denied, and rejected.

Nobody can shine your shine. Always remember!!!

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Romance › Re: Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 9:29am On Dec 13, 2019

Dbeautyy:
You have spoken well. Personally, I can't stand seeing bushy armpit from both gender not to talk of bushy south south. We have some ladies who prefer to trim their eyebrows and leave the armpit dirty, likewise we have some guys who will prefer to wear one boxer for days. Hygiene should be personal irrespective of the gender...

Health › Re: Bitter Kola Boosts Libido, Beats Osteoarthritis, Researchers Confirm by lavylilly: 1:54pm On Dec 11, 2019

Romance › Re: Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 12:52pm On Dec 11, 2019

Kakamorufu:
100% sure

Music/Radio › Re: Drop A Line From Your Favorite Song, Let Someone Else Guess The Song. by lavylilly(op): 8:55am On Dec 11, 2019

jaszplus12:
Don't worry I'll send the song to you...it's a very interesting song. Note some words in the song and observe how the words were used to describe situations!
Let's have your email

Romance › Re: Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 8:55am On Dec 11, 2019

are you sure?

Kakamorufu:
thank God i ain't on this table

Romance › Re: Say NO To Boyfriends That Wants Husband Privileges. by lavylilly(op): 8:54am On Dec 11, 2019

Riele:
Lavylily . Oneday , you'll get sued for always writing the truth .

Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 8:53am On Dec 11, 2019

Sierusvirus:
Nice reply.
Why won’t a wife invest in her husband?

No man wants to marry a liability, if she doesn’t have the wife material let her go and develop herself before marriage.

A woman like that the OPs mentioned can only offer sex and nothing else.

Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 8:52am On Dec 11, 2019

DenreleDave:
So. Bcox he spoke the truth, he is toxic... U ladies ehnnn, u always feel men shud please you...

Guy, if you do all what she stated there, aswear na you mumu pass... She go leave u for one guy wey no even get head after all u av done.

Lavylilly, you failed this time

Music/Radio › Re: Drop A Line From Your Favorite Song, Let Someone Else Guess The Song. by lavylilly(op): 7:52am On Dec 10, 2019

jaszplus12:
Naaaaaaa...
You have to go back to music of the 60s/70s!

Romance › Say NO To Boyfriends That Wants Husband Privileges. by lavylilly(op): 7:41am On Dec 10, 2019

He is your boyfriend and not your husband!
So.Stop.Giving.Him.Husband.Privilages.

What are husband privileges? You ask. I will tell you, just keep reading. Boyfriend and husband privileges are NOT the same. Almost all the ladies here have MISTAKENLY given their boyfriend 'husband privileges'. If you are guilty of this atrocity, don’t sweat it, you can still redeem yourself.

Here are the difference between Boyfriend and Husband Privileges.

1. Husband Get Sex but Boyfriend DO NOT.
Giving up your VAGINA and doing very intimate things with a man that may not end up marrying you is improper and downright NASTY!

Instead of allowing random men access to your precious punany, it is recommended that you build a connection outside sex.

2. Husband Get Home Catering But Boyfriend DO NOT
Cooking and cleaning for your boyfriend is a total TABOO.

Many have cleaned and cooked like pros yet they were jumped and forgotten. If he wants you to cater to him, let him first “put a ring on it”

Disclaimer
I strongly encourage you to stop giving your boyfriend ‘husband privileges”.
Note, doing so will most likely cause him to flee, but don’t worry, you are now in Nl and can easily find a husband material.

Say NO to Boyfriends that wants Husband Privileges.

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Romance › Re: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by lavylilly: 7:40am On Dec 10, 2019

Wenkivincent:
number 5 is what i am planning to get... nothing b like Mummy

Romance › Re: Invest In Your Woman! by lavylilly(op): 7:39am On Dec 10, 2019

excessmon:
Pls try to read and understand
I don’t mean train her through life I mean groom her to ur level
Baba abeg learn to read properly

Music/Radio › Re: Drop A Line From Your Favorite Song, Let Someone Else Guess The Song. by lavylilly(op): 7:38am On Dec 10, 2019

Da grin

jaszplus12:
No...try again!

Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 7:36am On Dec 10, 2019

CAPTIVATOR:
Am a man but this points you raised is true. So pathetic

10nks for your truthfulness.

Romance › Re: Can A Woman With PHD Get Married To A Man With No DEGREE ? by lavylilly(op): 7:35am On Dec 10, 2019

aytuns:
Nope. The hypergamous nature of women would not allow it.

Family › Re: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by lavylilly: 2:58pm On Dec 09, 2019

OMG..... Imagine what some women go through all in the name of Love and with most stories I read here the only True love you have is your FAMILY anything outside that I consider as fake. I felt the pain and cried at some stories. Indeed women are the strongest creatures.
May God strengthen all single Mums and give you long life to enjoy the fruits of your labour....Amen

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Romance › Re: Can A Woman With PHD Get Married To A Man With No DEGREE ? by lavylilly(op): 2:55pm On Dec 09, 2019

Shugavee:
Well I can’t !! But others can

Romance › Re: Can A Woman With PHD Get Married To A Man With No DEGREE ? by lavylilly(op): 2:55pm On Dec 09, 2019

ImaIma1:
For someone that likes to interact, very skilled in sarcasm, likes to discuss issues and several topics, marrying an illiterate would have been a mismatch. I would have probably ended up closer to other men who I can relate with and discuss better with than my husband.

Everyone needs to know what they need and what appeals to them before they answer this question.

True.

Romance › Re: Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 2:54pm On Dec 09, 2019

isyourboy:
Why will u date an ugly guy? date Good looking guy so u can be successful in life, u won't hear

Romance › Re: Our FIRST Date! by lavylilly(op): 2:52pm On Dec 09, 2019

inspirator1:
Recently i had two successive date within the last two months with same lady. I just flow with the moment. Weird enough, i ate both my chicken both and hers. On first date, she was like what a Bleep? And i was like that's calcium!
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Imagination is truly great but can really disappoint. For me is good to flow with the moment.

Romance › Re: Can A Woman With PHD Get Married To A Man With No DEGREE ? by lavylilly(op): 10:38am On Dec 09, 2019

MEGA4BILLION:
Any problem?

Romance › Re: Men Aren't Left Out On This Personnel Hygiene, by lavylilly(op): 10:37am On Dec 09, 2019

Riele:
So true !

Most men be smelling like corpse .

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Music/Radio › Re: Drop A Line From Your Favorite Song, Let Someone Else Guess The Song. by lavylilly(op): 10:37am On Dec 09, 2019

Westlife

jaszplus12:
The couple in the next room
They're bound to win a prize
They've been going at it all night long
I'm trying to get some sleep
But these motel walls are thin
Lincoln Duncan's my name
And here's my song....

Family › Re: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by lavylilly(op): 10:36am On Dec 09, 2019

Breaststroke:
Honestly, that wasn't me

I wait out all bans on my moniker. I don't open a new account.

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