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NoGender:
Capital NO!

What my gon be doing with Dre. Unless you use your Google, you would never guess this song right. Very few listen to them.

NoGender:
"...I know you make the fire, my bones would make it grow."

Zuluhead:
a friend of mine from a prominent family in nigeria,whose mum is a chief magistrate walked angrily into the bar one nite and was boiling. he said his dad asked him why does he think a young female law graduate would marry an illetrate man, he said because of love and his dad told him it was because of money, he told his dad does he mean his mum married him because of money and his dad replied yes and told him to work hard to make more money. he said his mum had other law graduates and finer boys but choose him because he was already successful back then. so a phd holder can marry mc oluomo.

Freehuman:
I'm good. You're so pretty .

Freehuman:
How are you?

EmptyCoconutHead:
ode ni e
better learn how to quote well next time.

Freehuman:
Hello

MyNation:
I doubt the figure of this post.

Almost everyone knows Nigerian men of this generation are becoming more fatherly, caring, less abusive etc than before. While the ladies are becoming not so motherly like their mothers.

The truth is always bitter.

Sambaby7640:
1.Beauty,both Inward and outward
2.Must be a good cook
3.Must be sexually appealing
4.Must have great fashion sense/have a taste for fashion
5.Must be famous
6.Must be a career lady
7.Must possesses great managerial skills
8.Must not be dark skinned
And lastly,must be able to manage both home and career

Martinez39:
As in. The only solution to this nonsense is when men, in great numbers, start waking up.

emmaodet:
But when they married men earning such salary they were not aware about these needs? they want him to perform magics? Most of them are inconsiderate.
You don't know the value of what you have until you loose it.

Pansophist
ubunja
Martinez39
franchasng

emmaodet:
Sure, of course but when the problem overwhelm the man nko? As is always the case, is the woman not meant to step in and they deliberate together? And also be considerate in their decision making?
Believ me lavylilly, on paper and in theory women will tell you the will support a man, they should marry and will manage with whatever is on ground but in reality and practical they can't and they won't.
You will be earning 100-150k as man but the woman will want you to rent a 3 bedroom flat, buy car, give monthly feeding money, shopping/clothing, vacation, buy land and start building, support her family, spend atleast 500k in family events like wedsings and burial of family members etc as if you are a magician
Funny enough, i have ladies earning between 80-120k who can't perfom these things even as single mothers, one even still staying with her parent yet can't buy a car not build a house despite still secretly fvcking men codedly to urgement their income.
Madam abeg.. Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown.

Martinez39
Ubunja
Pansophist
Franchasng

mzeefitz:
Well said...
Peace be unto you

Elvinho2244:
Na wa o

IyaTola:
Armed robbers raped a woman that has been barren for 20 years and she got pregnant, should she leave it or abort it?

Lets Discuss tonight
https://twitter.com/wilson_hackins/status/1199389406660104192

Blakjewelry:
she will only love her child more if you love the child less.
as me i dont see anything wrong in marrying a single mother as long as no be waka waka put her in that condition

MVPtesley:
single mums are the best but

AstroG:
GodForbid say ah Marry Someones Waste Bin

emmaodet:
Lol so you can tell her to pack out now abi? But told me am a weak man for staying in an abusive marriage that my wife will be insulting me, nagging me, drag me in the mud all just because it is a woman doing that, it is okay and the man should man-up and take all this insults.
Of course, he is designed for that. What is a man for?
But my aunt hubby slapped her and alas, she needs to pack out of the house because na man do am and not woman.
Only if you know the kind of marital abuse a lot of men are facing at home just because they are not rich, only if you know but nobody cares because it is not women.
If you want Real Men that are ready to take regular abuses from women, sis they are in the grave due to untimely death.
I have 4 cases of them close to me who are dead due to abuse, insults from their wives which lead to HBP-Heart attack-kidney failures.
And guess what? Those women are fvcking at an alarming rate now in abeokuta why the idiots callled real men are sleeping in their graves.

Martinez39
Ubunja
Pansophist
Franchasng

Ginaz:
Very foolish question and only a foolish girl would do that .

A man will never allow such to happen in his lifetime . Send his best friend to live with his wife to be. Lolz . Not in a life time .

Mosesxundae:
Hmmmmm. It's left for the ladies to decide

emmaodet:
hmmmmmmmmmmm.
It is well. i think humans generally are ungrateful.
That is why i have laid out a One Man Mopol plan for myself.
Now thinks are sweet and lovey dovey, if things go south and my wife starts misbehaving, na to pack and relocate jeje be that.
i can't come and kill myself and i don't have any high expectations from humans so won;t really get hurt.
Though am not a red pill man but a purple pill man so i go into relationship or marriage with my eye wild open and not carried away.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmmmm.
Bro, it's as if you have stayed with my family from a kid.
This is what is happening presently in my family.
My Aunty's husband sent her to college of education when my grandpa couldn't afford schooling her, after graduation my aunt got job as a civil servant (teacher) with lagos state govt.
25 years down the lane, the hubby lost his job and my aunt was always nagging, complaining, lamenting and groaning at any little opportunity.
It got to a point the man was pushed to sound her a dirty slap to reset her brain ( this is a gentle, quite man that am even surprise could do such - probably he was pushed to the wall)
Now my family are deliberating on whether to go move her away from matrimonial home pending when the man will find his feet. I felt bad because am a man and could have been me.
The hubby really tried for my aunt during his prime when she was Nobody.