Lefu-Swag!

My manz! You know say all those wolis dey tax all of dem wey dey find husband na. I even know one Woli wey dey action him clients upon tax. Woli business na lucritive business. Awon woli animashaun and co.

A woman proposing marriage to a man. Hmmm. Would she do it out in the public? Would she get on a bended knee and do it? Would she present him a ring? The questions are almost endless, but I, as a man, would be embarrassed and not feel comfortable with this at all. I think two years is enough time for me to decide whether I want to spend the rest of my life with a woman or not.

Orikinla:

The biological clock ticks faster for women than men.

To date for four years without getting married is not the best for any woman.

Two years should be enough to make up your mind to marry anyone you truly love.

You don''t have to break a bank to get married.

If you cannot afford a wedding party, you can still go on and get married.
A civil marriage ceremony can take place in any register office. And after that you can simply have a reception for only as many as you can afford.

Don't marry to impress anybody or society.
At the end of all the ceremony, only you and your wife would be left alone to face your future.

Only fools spend a fortune on a wedding and then end up with the misfortune of poverty.

See why your sweetheart does not want to delay any longer on "Why the biological clock is ticking for women aged 30" http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1246375/Why-biological-clock-ticking-women-aged-30.html

Bros,

I really like your posts. They are full of wisdom, clarity and are always objective, regardless of what some people who only read with "emotions" think.

E ku ise!

Dainy1:

Pls help me out. my lady wnts 2 quit cos she found out we r d same ag[/b]e. she [b]wnts us to marry dis yr, bt am nt ready.

@ OP.

Your story makes absolutely no sense. First you say she wants to quit because she found out you are the same age. Then you say she wants you guys to get married this year?

Can't advise you because you're story makes no sense. What exactly do you even want?

pendo89:

_{Are there other tribes in nigeria besides youruba and igbo? thats all I keep reading here.
Who are the boko harams? are they yorubas, igbos or both?}

Pendo Babes

Boko Haram are Hausa. Ladies n G's, here's another African American woman that represents the gorgeous, intelligent and educated ones, not the ghetto minority.

Shy-One:

Yoruba women are gorgeous and so are the men

Intelligent, committed, grounded

Jealousy and Very Low Self-Esteem is at the foundation and root of the reason PEOPLE POST LIES.

They ALSO WANT TO BE YOU!  They want what you have.  

Just pity them and move forward.

I SLAP A HIGH FIVE FOR THE YORUBA!!!!!!  

Hey Sister, thank you and we appreciate you. Keep representing the many intelligent, educated and classy African American women, and distinguishing them from the ghetto ones who are the minority.

Orikinla:

She is black and beautiful and graduated about five years ago from a local university.
She is from a very wealthy family and quire polite.

She became close to me and I liked her more as a friend. She wanted a physical relationship and did not hide her feelings, but I did not share her excitement. She thought I would be glad to date her, but the more she threw herself at me the more I felt harassed. I would have preferred to do the chasing and not her. Again, I was afraid of sleeping with her, because I thought she had other men and the most dangerous risk is to sleep with a girl or lady who has other men you are not aware of their backgrounds.

If you met the kind of men some women sleep with, you would be scared of dating them.
Many Nigerian men are fetish and I know those who do desperate things to hook girls and ladies.
That is why I avoid clubs to avoid strange men and women.

I must confess I am scared of dating black African girls and ladies, because they are promiscuous and unscrupulous in dating.

They don't take time to find out about the backgrounds of guys before jumping into bed with them.
The last relationship I had with a member of Nairaland made me to be more cautious of black women.

What they do behind closed doors have shown how evil they are.

They are very envious and jealous of others in relationships and can even kill over relationships.
A Nigerian girlfriend sees you eating with another girl and she gets upset before even finding out about her.
The one living upstairs sees another girl visiting you and she stops greeting you.
What Nigerian nonsense is this?
Hugging a girl to a Nigerian already means a relationship?

Then the ones posing and posturing as 'Christians" in order to hook you are even worse.
The wolves in sheep clothing.
They are the tools and victims of their fake pastors.

Many of the Nigerian pastors are not Christians, because they engaged in occultism behind the backs of their congregations.

The confessions of a partner about what he and his so called pastor did to help him hook a lady were enough to make anyone cringe.

The pastor did rituals on his behalf. And he pretends to be a nice man in public.
I have witnessed two marriages based on falsehood since I returned to Lagos three years ago.

Imagine someone taking your picture to perform rituals?
The "pastor" goes to a mountain to pray with it.
That was why I asked my last girlfriend to return the only picture I gave her, but she said she burnt it when we argued over my refusal of her request to visit me in Lagos.
"Why did you burn my photograph?"
I called her a witch for doing that. And she proved to be one later.
But she would pass for an innocent babe on Nairaland and Facebook.

You don't have to be flying at night on a broomstick to be a witch.
Any girls who does evil is a WITCH and any man who does evil is a WIZARD.
That cult guy is a wizard and his so called girlfriend is a witch.
Because only a witch will date a wizard.

The other one I called an expendable i-d-i-o-t, swore at me and never stopped harassing with calls until I reported her to the police.

These black Nigerian girls and women put me off.
I am even afraid of living with anyone of them.

When I talk of terrible lives of black Nigerian girls and women, I know what I am talking about.
I am yet to see a real and true Nigerian Christian lady I can welcome into my home and let her cook for me behind my back.           

Those damn wolis again!!

@ OP

How about the ones that sleep with filthy, fugly, pot-bellied alhajis or the ones that sleep with the humpty-dumpty-shaped lebanese men? They have better taste too?