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[quote author=SilverNorGold You are nit being blunt but iredeemably foolish. post=98375436]LOL! A mere N17.3 billion to run THE SEAT OF POWER? And some people are complaining? Chai, Nigerians, we should be ashamed of ourselves! This is an amount E-money spends a week! This is an amount Davido blows a month! In fact, go to Lagos... You will see big boys spending WAY MORE in clubs, like it's NOTHING! Yet some still complaining? Nigerians we should be ashamed!

I am really sad, I must be blunt!

But e go better![/quote]

My own be say who be the other idiot wey come dey claim military police with his square head.

Has the president repented from his own coup and the untold hardship bestowed on the nation during his military regime?

SilverNorGold:
The Nigerian government, headed by President Muhammadu Buhari, is TOO SOFT!... In saner climes, Sowore and his fellow coup plotters would have been sentenced to life imprisonment! But this is Nigeria.. A country where unrepentant coupists and opportunists are treated as human rights activists..

It's well.. Nigeria go better...

If the soldiers get sense they suppose beat up the babe and the fool who is demeaning their contribution to national security by engaging them to beat someone cos if phone screen.

Bold of you to include Markurdi as a northern state.

Common sense is far from you.

googlepikins:
Nengi ashawoo work is paying well. Cos the last time I checked she has not signed any multinational company endorsement deal. Only chere werey hair and bleaching pomade has signed her.

Wow. This is quite the turnaround and I'm happy for you. But please enh, just out of curiosity, when you were unstable from 2017-2019, can you remember things you saw or thoughts you had abi it's just blank in you head?

orookomama:
This story am about to tell you is personally about my life and I hope people will get some messages from it.

It all began 2014 during my school days, I was in a class reading for an exam when my friend offered me a drink. That day that drink was the beginning of my downfall. He offered me lacacera having no knowledge of the content I drank it bit by bit till halfway, OMG I felt like a stallion, my mood changed immediately, it was magical to the point that I smile and laugh for no reason.

I read my book from back to back I totally become free to the point that I couldn't sleep out of joy and excitement for no reason. Fast forward till the next morning I went for my exam and I wrote it well. I remembered everything I read and I am a kind of an introvert but that day I was very active I have no idea what am going to be.

Around 2 o'clock in the afternoon, my mood changed. I started feeling like am going to be sick so I went and take paracetamol which calm my body temperature and I went to look for him. I called him he said he was in the student center that I should meet him there so I met him and I told him I dont understand myself. He asked what happened. I told him common lacacera I took from him yesterday I felt like I was flying in the sky. I even told him how I remembered everything I read etc.

Then he told me are you stupid? How can you not know the difference between normal drink and a mixed one?
That question shocked me I became confused and I asked him please what do you mean. He told me that I used to criticize those that smoke, do drugs but I don't know anything about it so he wanted to tell me it's nothing bad that it helps him cope some challenges that he easily remember things he read when he take it. I was speechless, I told him am not happy that I promised myself not to join cultist activities drugs etc, he convinced me by telling me exactly how I feel when he gave me the drink. Fast forward i stop taking things from him until one day at the hostel we had a small birthday party and i collected a drink from him on my own due to what I felt when he gave me the first one I took it and it began to work. I became slow and very happy that I enjoyed my day very well.

From that day, I began to feel like to get high and feel good mood that was when he finally gave me tramadol 200mg. God I felt good very good and high from that point I started taking everything unserious even my school activities.

Finally, I became addicted to tramadol and it become hard to quit, I continued taking it everyday till 2015 that was when I decided to quit my God the first day I decided to quit cold turkey I nearly died I started vomiting felling cold hullecination and all sorts of sickness came all over me. I hard to go and take it again and instantly all my sickness stopped like magic happened. it become serious that I couldn't go a day without taking it twice or more I was expelled from school along side a guy that used to sell the drug to us. that was when my eye opened and I said I will do whatever it takes to leave it.

I started smoking cigarettes gradually just to be able to calm the urge of taking it. I know it was hell but I just wanted to stop I continued till I graduated to weed that was when I later started having mental issues I lost myself I lost focus and finally 2017 I totally ran made I didn't know what happened afterwards till ending of 2019 I started regaining bit by bit until I started becoming clean I started feeling shy and I changed untill am able to be here today to write this story.

Right now I know between good and bad but I know my life will never be the same again.

Please do away from drugs especially the cheap ones.

Have a conversation with the eldest 2 and get them to understand your situation and position.

Then with them on your side, call a meeting and officially welcome all of them, but tell them that Christmas this year would be low-key owing to the Covid and other issues, but that you're happy and grateful for life and the fact that you all are alive and healthy to experience the end of the year and see a new one together.

T817:
I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.

My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to
drain me.

Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.

What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.

My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.

Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.

What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please

At least I get mama. What is your mother? [quote author=pepperdemzombie post=97384419][/quote]

� you nor get sense. [quote author=pepperdemzombie post=97370310][/quote]

Don't be foolish

pepperdemzombie:
Why didn't you sing your "ukwu" or "Looking yansh" for him?
Stupid child!

How do they buy petrol for their numerous bikes?

Pay bride price.
Do a simple court wedding.
Get her pregnant if you want.
Keep yourself for her and pray she does same.
Hustle and get shit popping.
Come back and do a nice cosy wedding.
Get your beautiful family to join you outta of this country.

Lol.. Work on your self esteem and ego.

1) Love is not transactional. You cannot be with someone because you've "invested" in them. That's not love, that's business.

2) If you give love and you don't get it in return, move on to where you're wanted.
My half cent.

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

Everything no be gragra. Wisdom no be by muscle.

Nazgul:
Beat hell out of him. How can your younger brother openly disrespect you? As long as you keep quiet he'll continue deal with him by teaching him a lesson he'll never forget in his life.

Technologist wey never produce anything but bad belle.

Sanctimonious hypocrites. May you see the light and understand the meaning of love.

SilverNorGold:
My brother, read properly - one of the reasons, not all.. And no, we won't tolerate such nonsense here. Nigeria is not US/UK.. And who told you God is not angry with America? How God operates is different. And how he chooses to punish each country is different too.. Don't expect a monotonous punishment for all.. Everyone will be punished uniquely and at the appropriate time.

When God Almighty punished Israel for their sins - sins committed by some Israelites - there were many nations living in worse sins, at the time, that were not punished alongside the Israelites. However, it doesn't mean God wasn't angry with them.. Just that their time of reckoning wasn't ripe.. At some point, God even commissioned some of those sinful/pagan nations to punish the Israelites - who were more righteous than they - for the sins committed by some/most of them.. Does that mean God was happy with those sinful/pagan Nations? No.. His ways are different..

Same thing is happening to Nigeria.

Just say you don't believe in God and move on..

God bless Nigeria.

Overhype. I can see the "big" but not the "gest"

This is not necessarily true. With good diet, exercise and a healthy lifestyle, she would look as beautiful and youthful as she wants. She can also do some enhancements if she's into that kinda thing. But then, everything is hinged on money, so he's got to be packing for her to have the luxury of taking good care of herself.

Kobicove:
The major con is that in the next 10 years she will likely be looking far older than you and you may be embarrassed to introduce her as your wife

The path of least resistance usually leads to less reward...unless your grace is different.

Pray about it and have faith in your decision.

What happened to covid and social distancing?

Bros, no be every man that this applies to. Na men of high value. These women would rather be a 7th wife if a wealthy man that be the one and only of a struggling man. Get right.

Karlifate:
Look no further, the prophecy is being fulfilled.

LMAO!

So what? What does their colour and gender have to do with their competence for a job?
CNN na just script actors.

What was her response?

tillaman:
I once asked my fiancée how they feel when ever the put on them g strings abi thong them dey call all those catapult looking stuffs that goes directly into their arse crack

These people are so clueless and inept even in the simplest things. In one breath, they said Nigeria now generates 13,000megawatts while transmission capacity was still under 5000 due to poor transmission facilities.

Now why would they want to engage in building more power generation infrastructure when they are not able to adequately evacuate the already generated power, instead they sell the much needed power to other countries. These leaders set reason from their belly buttons.

You who is brilliant and not stupid, what is your contribution to your family talk more of the country. Olodo dry disguise

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
]Nigeria is a nation of illiterate and stupidity.
What did she do for Nigeria in terms of development nothing what did she do for Africa in terms of development nothing. How can you have somebody for one of the most backward countries in the world trying to lead the wto please let her come and build our country before taking her illiteracy to other countries. You cannot destroy your country and you want to go and destroy another person's country. Nigerians are suffering from mass illiteracy[/color][/b]

This post lacks any modicum of common sense.

Juliusmalema:
When cowards leads protest, that's what you will see at the end..

lilly livered sissies

Lol. Western garbage propaganda. The same way Africa has always been portrayed as a shithole that needs saving by the west. The same way Libya was portrayed as being doomed but as soon as America got in, look at their core fiction today.

Truth is, NK's dictatorship is terrible but the living condition if the citizens are not nearly as bad as being portrayed by STATE controlled western media. Our own na just accept whatever garbage news and information are fed to us.

Jss3 holiday, I was shocked by electricity and had to undergo surgery. My school being a Catholic one started praying for me during our daily masses.

Came back a mini celebrity and miracle student.

God is Great.

Look at them...all blacks. They haven't emancipated themselves from the whites controlling their economy and owning their lands, instead they are focused on fellow blacks trying to erk out a living like them. Clowns.

Let's hope they get appropriate response and action. Goodluck to them.

It always pays to be a sycophant in this country.

Everybody just dey hustle to escape poverty, even if na to join or praise the oppressors, so far as they have a place on the accursed table.


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