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Hmm Nigerians can be nice too it's just the social effect ...it's just people if u try that in Los Angeles u won't even see the person again..and it can even be a small guy so... especially the northerers they re so lovely

See I repeat if we do not look beyond pdp and apc 2023 and if we continue like this I swear to God we are all fools...and no one should complain again...I come in peace....we now have to rely on bbn in other to be happy in the country..it's well I rest my case

Joshmodest:
Alaye leave wetin them write for bus enter bus !!
Are yahoo boys good role models ? No
Whether its coming from hush puppi or Magu doesn't matter ..
Our problem in Nigeria is that we always attack the speaker instead of looking into the truth embedded in the speech ....
So would you make Yahoo boys your role models cos dieziani is also a thief ??

my brother she is a thief I am not supporting yahoo boys but what right does she has to condemn another person....when she was in the office what role did she play ..was she not a role model of woman can also steal in public office so what is she now saying.. she should pack well...and all what she stole what did they do to her .. nothing... isn't that motivational enough...I can't even take her serious

Yes now what do u expect him to say..my own is ..let's everyone suffer abeg...we av not suffer enough...when it hits everyone...you that can't eat 3 befr isnow eating once ...then u will think beyond apc and pdp 2023 and u will do the needful and vote this coming election.. because it will all be new faces..if u like still shout apc/pdp it's ur wahala ...well I don't see the new people doing magic but the politics that will be run in the country will take a new turn....

So...after these now...some people will say he has done well like that. Well if that's wat his people wants .. kudos to him but no one should blame him....of corruption because you are busy prasing him now....

RichBoy247:
I am a Nigerian, not a Biafran nor a Cameroonian, I am begging the Jagaban Borgu Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu to please, biko, edakun, contest as President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria in 2023

I know this is your opinion and I respect it alot but I want to say something ..if you are not collecting apc contract or you are not tinubu aide and you posted like this. Then my own opinion to you is...you need to observe your environment and see what is happening around you

Natilolo:
To all of you who use the slightest of opportunity to say youths are lazy and all manner of things, did BBN stop you from achieving anything? The recent BBN Started some 4years ago. Before then how many revolution did you lead? How many inventions did you make? What bold steps did you take in transforming Nigeria in your little way? Do you watch Nigerian/ American movies where they kiss and even walk naked in some occasion after having sex? Were you forced to watch the program at gun point?

Thank you ooo....well am not saying the show is good or bad but don't blame youth problem on this show even if the show is ban it doesn't change anything...lol people are condenming the show...yt I think 5millions auditioned for it ...this is my first year washing it ...and I watched it with an open mind...they are not doing anything someone won't do ...if he/she is alone... Besides I don't think a youth of today will have work to do and would say he wants to be watching the program...it just to pass spear time...
And besides it's a social experiment...how you can cope with people of different taught and background...I watched it when am back from work or am not doing anything. It doesn't makes me lazy or change anything...but if you so much hate the show it's a normal thing.... just don't watch...or criticize people that do...

Lol imagine if it's otherwise what would have happened ...if I leave a sit...I would put something on the sit or tell someone next to me pls m coming back I am here ..to prove a point, I sat down on a sit...you re now coming back telling me that you were there before..pls what prove and on what ground ...well due to my personality and past experience. I won't touch her because of 'akoba adaba' but I won't leave that sit and I won't even mind her.... physical contact or not....I HATE RUBBISH...gender equality my a**

Nobody likes critics even me , but it do make someone concern about something and make them work more on that particular issue..so because you don't want issue you want to jeopardize your health.... talk to your brother let it out...and apologize later....she will learn more and take caution... U will praise and criticize her at the same time. Nobody loves critics but I believe it makes you a better person...since it's not a critics of personality or character....
This is just my opinion...
She might hate you ..even cause trouble self ...but the respect will be there. ...

First if all am not a smoker and I hate smoking but don't just judge because someone is smoking u think he/she is not realiable... second of all the girl feels free with you..that she thinks she can tell you anything ... having this tought now shows u can't handle it..as a relationship...it's better u guys stay friends...that is just my taught

wamide042:
99.9% of the people commenting here saying they don’t watch BBN and should be Banned are currently sitting and typing this infront of their TV’s watching channel 198 / 29 ... You’re all hypocrites and that’s why the nation is not moving.
Someone said it’s going to pollute the youths shey the youths that have been polluted since birth .....
Anyway I do watch it and so far so good I haven’t seen anything bad in how they relate with themselves..

thank you...I do condemn the show too listening to news and people's ideology..this is my first time watching the program and am not seeing anything bad it's a social experiment how people of different background and personality can interact together and share views of there tough and believe if anyone wants to criticize it no problem it doesn't stop them from making there money our real fight should be the politicians looting money and other things

Acme45:
That is if your votes counts

yes true but let's still vote first then we will know if it counts or now...

This country will be better once again....they will start realizing what they have done

We have over 2millions suscribers here and I believe we are learning something already 2023 is coming let's vote wisely our thinking should be outside pdp and apc now ...

I think they have said it all and with the way nlanders comments it really means Nigeria is getting better and wiser people are now free to post there problem without feeling judge( well little judgement but still) am really happy for these all those people that said u should go back to ur cousins house hmm..I rest my comment ...if not for the bad system of Nigeria at d age of 21 should u even still be living with your parents ..I salute ur hustling spirit dear keep it up...and like they said be careful... because we men well....

EgusiSoup:
This are result of this APC government we were deceive to vote for as a Yoruba man. PDP would have done better to manage the protest but who does not knows where we are now. We knows who is to blame for this protest. By 2023 we shall collect this mistake

why can't we think beyond apc and pdp

Period007:
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Induction day with my parents

yes I remember.i was in futa then when. I saw d news the first uniben female president wow so u av gone thru alot.... hmm

Hmm . politician looting money I don't think that's new anymore..am not even surprised ...we that are talking let's ask ourselves if we were there would we make a change...2023 it's on his way let's know what to do then if we vote this people in again..then we are the problem not them...

Ladylite:
Wow, you have really suffered.
But are you sure you don't have low self esteem?

For you to cope and continue with a burden of a man, with a man who is proud enough not to hustle.

Babe, you should really study more books on relationship so you know that you are not in one, you are in a disaster waiting to happen.

Don't waste your time. Walk away, he may blow later or become rich... It does not matter. Go and watch the movie ACRIMONY... Then you will receive sense.

You are in a relationship with Covid19 in human form. Pls have self respect enough to leave and stay single till you meet a man that complements you.

hmm I don't think that film is a good reference

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

This sex before marriage thing I don't understand...is she not your wife to be..and wait u guys re playing on d bed..what do u expect...she is just feeling insecure that ..is this guy capable? Or is it a defense mechanism?... Since you will marry her in three weeks time ...and you really love her let her see what u re capable of..blow her imagination...trust me .. she won't forget...anyway what do I know .

And someone Said ekiti people are not one of the brilliant people in Nigeria

My comments might look somehow..but other countries re trying to find cure of certain diseases like cancer etc they re making d art world better and improving their country and we are here talking about pre marital sex ..so .what if someone does it and someone does not what changes... please dats d person life ..u that u re not having d so called pre marital sex how re u sure u re d Divine one.. please let's leave this and talk about how we youth can make the economy of Nigeria great and a better place for our children to leave..ok what if I don't have premarital sex and I masturbate..so....my opinion though..

firstbornson:
Haven't done this before, but I want to know your honest, experienced and well thought out opinions. I'm really depressed but I won't take Snipper (that devil is a liar). If you don't have anything serious and reasonable to say, please, just read comments (I know as e dey be for here, sometimes).

Its quite a long read. Apologies for any grammatical or typographical error encountered.

Here is my story.

My younger sister who is staying with me disrespects me alot, and she doesn't take my advice. My parents stay very far away and I feel responsible for her. It frustrates me whenever I tell her something and she will wait to do it at her own time or not do it at all. She even sometimes abuses me indirectly.

She is 19, came to stay with me last year November, for a Predegree program, after staying at home for two years without admission. After the first semester of her program, her result was released and it was very disappointing. She made 51% in only one course of four courses, while others are below that. To be honest, I felt I failed in my responsibilities of giving her the right counsel, motivating her, and all that. All she does is press her phone all night long, that's if she isn't watching a movie with her phone. She'll sleep and wake up the next morning by 8 or 9am.

Recently, there's this guy who happens to be my late landlord's first son in the compound where we stay that she has been spending too much time with in dark corners and I can tell in my gut that he's up to no good. He doesn't go to work, school, church, nowhere. He just seats at home all day, smoking weed and any other smokable substance he can lay his hands on. Sometimes, his friends come around and they smoke and play PES 2011 on a laptop. Lest I forget, he's also a cultist. He has tried on several occasions to make me a yahoo boy, but I had to consciously refuse.

My apologies for the long read.

About a week ago, this guy asked her to cook indomie for him, and she did, using our gas, without telling me. This got me really up set. I had to take several deep breaths. I calmed down and allowed her finish. After she was done, I asked her to seat down and we started talking. While we were talking, she started responding rudely to me.

This made me hit her for the first time in 19 years (I hate hitting them). To my utmost surprise, she hit me back. That singular act made her receive a very hard beating that she sustained lots of injuries. She immediately called home and my parents where now shouting at me on phone. My dad came the next day and said lots of things. My mom said lots of things on phone which just piss me off the more, called me all sought of names. Said I shouldn't allow the devil that is controlling take me close to my sister.

Right now, I hate all of them. My dad, mum, and sister. If I was financially buoyant enough, I would have moved out of this house. I feel really depressed, being having nightmares and I so much hate the fact that am still living here.

By the way, am male, 24, studying Biochemistry, should have finished my first degree last year but I'm having an extra year (3 spill over courses).

How do I move from here? Advice me.

bro the problem is we the first born we command respect which is unnecessary if she disrespect u...leave her alone and you face you studies and build your life other than fighting with her trust me when u re successful nd don't argue with her anymore u will earn re respect same thing happen to me and my younger sis too 3years ago...i was force to beat her she beat me back ooo...but since then i left her with her issue....nd face my path she is d one calling me now...nd begging though that spirit enters her at times to fight but i will just leave her because i have other things to think about than to hit her....she will come around trust me...dont command respect...EARN IT...

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

hmmm...this is tough....in my own little opinion... chasing the girl out of the house is not the best solution he should talk to her and explain life to her...but if your father do not listen my brother you av a lot to do...in her life.....go and meet her talk to her pick her up....and...explain to her....and even show her some life experience.... we all had d story of the girl that got mad at ijebu ode...that is a lesson...you re d best person to talk to her now....as for your dad...just leave him....if u love your sister my brother....take d responsibility in your hands and guide her......

Obainoneandonly:
he didnt rape dem but he fvcked dem anyhow...dem go fvck him own too anyhow

honestly bro u were trying to make sense but fortunately u didn't...

Sisijetue:
Abeg can that plate number take me to heaven and come back

abi....or maybe it a free ticket... to heaven straight

so someone is telling mW that..she is 3 years older than tobi bakre....and 4 years older than coco ice.....interesting world qw leave in

henroe2k2:
I no dey like hear this kind story!!!
Na ur boy friend!
U love am!
He is exducatedl
He is financially OK!
U don't offer sex!
U allowed him too close!
U bleep am or he raped u!
U didn't raise alarm!
He now wants to marry you!
But u no want am again!
Yet u no want tell am to go!

My sister, na serious mumu dey worry u!!!

lol....please ignore the abuse.. but am sorry i kinda agree ......u love him. and he loves u...nd he is ready to marry u.....so...

hello please listen to the story critically this is not some random rape....or some....stranger.....u called him your boyfriend.....am I right... well...am not saying he didn't rape you.....am not just buying d idea he did....because the way u described him. u said...he wants to marry you...and...to me the guy does not seem like a tout or something..... he cant just throw u on d bed and start tearing your cloth. nd start rapeing are u Sure u didn't allow him to have is way.....or while having fore play.. u were in d mood then he took d advantage.

hopefulLandlord:
I like how this conversation is made on the base that Christianity is true and Islam is false so everyone is telling him to convert the Muslim to Christianity because, you know, OP would gladly leave Christianity too for islam if the girl asks

This is another reason to be an Antitheist, remove religious discrimination, racial discrimination, tribal discrimination and OP would've been asking "Can a Man marry a woman?"

All religion does is divide us and give us one extra reason to antagonise each other as though the reasons we already have aren't enough

thank you brother