Lexdino's Posts
Nairaland Forum › Lexdino's Profile › Lexdino's Posts
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 15 pages)
Kayoderebel:Right. There are minor exceptions that time didn't permit me to add to this writeup though. But then, that would have also increased the post length. I'm glad you guys got my point. God bless. |
QUICK POINTERS: * This post was motivated after reading several of the miseducation threads created by the NLer with the Ubunja username. I observed the way some guys/men refuted the reality of that guy's teachings in his threads therefore, I decided to create this thread as a layman's explanation of what I have learnt from the girls I've dated so far. * "Average girl" as used in the context of this thread means a girl who comes from a fairly stable home, has average or good looks, not older than 25, not a drug addict/alcoholic, has good relationship with her father, and probably makes her own money or supported financially by her family. Since I started dating again recently, after having to quit an abusive relationship, I usually screen for only the average girls. If you are the type of guy that commits to financially broke girls, understand that no amount of game will save you from the emotional, psychological and physical stress that is bound to befall a man under such a one-sided relationship. You are on your own bro. * Game is not the Be-It-All of being an Alpha. You also need to be financially buoyant or at least not the broke or lazy bro who is blaming govt and the world in general for his passiveness. Owning a good apartment, a personal car, a source of income and taking good care of yourself, all factors in to your alphaness. So try to work on your shortcomings if any, before trying to game women. NOW TO THE TOPIC: If there was a technology that could reset the mind of an average girl causing her to forget all her past suitors, here is what will happen in her dating life. Her first instinct will be to search for "man" she will love and ride his D whenever she's Hot(Box A) . The second instinct will be to search for the "men" who will love and worship her in exchange for a false hope of getting sex someday(Box B). This means she groups each suitor into either of those two boxes. Be aware that oftentimes, Box A is open to only one occupant at a time. While Box B is open to as many men that are interested. Good Game (and a bit of looks) are the primary determinants that qualifies a man into her Box A. While money and status are the primary determinants that qualifies the men into her Box B. The world over, all average girls have these two categories in their dating lives. The only difference is that some few will consciously Bleep both occupants of Box A and Box B simultaneously but the majority of girls will only Bleep Box A while golddigging the occupants of Box B. SOME NOTES: * An average girl is loyal, submissive and caring to the Guy in Box A. But she will be hard-to-get, bitchy and disrespectful to the guys in Box B. * Any girl that has you in her Box B will naturally be a gold digger in your eyes but the guy in Box A doesn't see her as one. * If you're the guy in her Box A, be aware that any of the guys in Box B is capable of screwing your girl if she happens to be high and alone with him or if your Game starts slipping. * When a woman is ready (or under pressure) to marry and the guy in her Box A doesn't seem to be ready, she will accept a marriage proposal from any of the guys in Box B who is rich and confirmed to be easily manipulate-able, and most likely continue her relationship with the guy in Box A as an extramarital affair. This is because a woman can only be truly happy when she can freely choose and replace the occupant of her Box A according to her emotional feelings. Marrying a guy in Box B only provides her a "man slave" to cater for her cubs and elevate her status in society while it restricts her from "playing with her Boxes" therefore, some women will selfishly attempt to get the best of both worlds through extramarital affairs. * Being her boyfriend or husband doesn't mean you're in Box A. An average girl that is unable to find a worthy alpha to occupy her Box A tends to have little to no sexual control. She will multi-date and have sex with a lot of the guys in her Box B(each one of these guys will believe that she's dating him exclusively). During ovulation, she is likely to go on solo trips in search of a one night stand. CONCLUSION: * If you're a red pill guy with game, realize that majority of the time, only those average girls with a vacant Box A are available for easy gaming. Because once an average girl has an occupant in her Box A, it becomes very difficult (not impossible) for you to game her unless the occupant in her Box A either dumps her or he slips off his game. * Your precedent during the early phase of courtship determines which Box she deems best to place you. If you are the guy that didn't spend a dime on her, bought her just a drink or nothing during your date, but meanwhile you gave her the best feelings of being with a strong man during the date and entire period of courtship, you made her open up on things she usually don't tell other guys, and you were confident and neither clingy nor needy in your actions towards her, you are most likely to get the ticket into Box A. But remember, she is also very likely to ghost you after this kind of date - sex or no sex involved - if she already has an occupant in her Box A that is doing fine in his Game. But if you're the guy that spends money lavishly on her in your attempt to woo her, displays high status in her presence, drives a cool car and lives in a cool condo, be 98% sure that she will never ghost you regardless of whether she has 100 other chasers who are richer or better than you. Remember, the capacity of her Box B is infinite, there will always be a space for new comers. Just don't whine about how hard she is to get or how she occassionally snubs you for a long period of time before she decides to start picking your calls again. FINAL NOTE: I'm aware that when observed from a gender-based perspective, the Box A and Box B analogy used in this writeup is kind of female-centric in nature: given that it portrays the women as being the more powerful gender in the sense that they are the ones who get to choose and dispose off men according to their own timing. This thread is not intended to affirm or dispute gender equality in any form. |
ubunja:Thanks for bringing the above to my conscious thought. It was one of those things in my subconscious that I couldn't really figure out exactly until now. |
Logan95:My guy, it's over 3 months now and I am still recovering from finally having the courage to dump the lady I had proposed to marry. She is exactly the definition of your girl. A lot of people have advised you but I believe experience will be your best teacher. A hoe will always be a hoe, no matter the amount of deliverance or self-development they are subjected to. You are still at the honeymoon phase of your relationship therefore, it will be nearly impossible for you to take the decision of dumping her because hoes already perfected their spouse-manipulation techniques, you're just a learner where she is. Just wait until the honeymoon phase fades off and watch as her hoe-ish tendencies begins to resurface. The distrust and pains will slowly eat away at your motivations and self-confidence. A word is enough for the wise. |
I'm 99.9 percent sure that if we hear the guy's part of the story, he would be the one who deserves pity. Guys don't just walk away from an engagement for dumb or silly reasons. In all the situation where I have seen a guy walking away from an engagement, and I repeat "all", it was because they found out the woman was cheating. Period. |
Noblejay7:Please endeavor to make constructive criticisms in a way that will help the school authorities get their acts right. Not by tarnishing the entire image/credibility of the school and its degree programs like you just did with this post. I'm also a student of NOUN and although I'm not happy with some parts of the school's system, I also believe that the school is still a work in progress. The school's site has been improved. They replied the last email I sent to inquire about my graduation problems. The POP exam has been going on smoothly so far without any postponement. The issue of missing results have also reduced, Please learn to criticize in a way that will help the school improve on its weaknesses. Just my observation. |
Students that were able to graduate from this school before now should consider themselves lucky. From my observation, this school is suffering from maladministration. Students who experienced the Tenebe Era will understand what I'm saying. Dead website, no response to students' emails, No adherence to academic calendar, and too many other irregularities. I pray we all graduate and get our certs successfully |
The course registration link is still active on my portal for 2019/2 registration |
Baba God abeg, pick my call this time around Samisha500: |
This NOUN website is becoming a joke for real. Is the school not having enough funds to hire professionals that can manage the site efficiently? Nairaland, a site owned by one individual, is one of the most visited website in Nigeria yet the site is up online 24/7. If the NOUN management does not have enough money to host the school website on a reliable server, they should please move the site to a reliable free hosting like .com make we the student kukuma know where we dey |
Coming soon |
SmathGate:thank you very much |
livinsoul:the announcement Said "student who wrongly registered" what about students who already have gst301 results in their portal? |
pyruvateluv:Please I've a question. During my 300 level year, the available gst course on my portal was GST301 which I wrote. My name didn't appear in the last graduation list and I'm trying to register another semester to see if I can register a few more elective courses to increase my TCU but I noticed that the gst course available for 300lv students is now gst302. Is it advisable that I register the new Gst302, despite the fact that I've already written Gst301 before? |
Edusportal:Thanks for the information. I have read the guidelines as explained on that page. Below, I quote a paragraph which listed the documents that an applicant should submit when applying for their transcript of academic records The application should include all necessary details of the applicant (full name of applicant, matriculation number, programme, faculty, year of graduation, full address of destination, and designation of recipient (e.g. the secretary, the dean).How do I get the bolded documents if my name is not yet on the school's graduation list? Please help, or is there something that I am not understanding? |
Anthonyo15:Bros, please is it true that you can't request for transcript of your academic records from NOUN if your name is not yet on the graduation list? |
Desmoothvee:Congratulations bro. |
Danke fur de motivation. I wish everyone of us the best of lucks. SooCute: |
shegzyzee:You can register it at ets.org (website of the TOEFL organizers) or through the BY Mafit which I registered through. ets.org charges $195 while BY Mafit charges 45,000 Naira. |
It has been resolved.
They have processed my TOEFL registration today March 21, 2019.
Thanks to those who contributed. |
Gentile700:we all regretting joining the school oh. I finished my program since 2017, 2 years and still not on the graduation list. Their disregards for students welfare is already telling on the school. Imagine a school that is graduating 20k+ students while matriculating a mere 17k fresher in it's recent matriculation (majority of these freshers are going to run away after experiencing only one semester of the school). let NOUN keep frustrating their students and expect the school to progress. They don't know that majority of intending applicants to the school first make enquiries about the school from we the existing students before they decide whether to apply or not. |
I called another one of their line and the agent responded with more clarity.
I will just have to wait for now. |
emmahoney:I'm cool. Before I made the payment yesterday, the lady that I called on 07063376616 told me that I will receive a confirmation email containing my registration details by yesterday evening. I didn't get any email and I called her back today, now she told me to call her back if I didn't get any email after 10 minutes. I waited 30 minutes, still no email. so I decided to call her back. I have called thrice and she just allows the phone to ring without answering. |
And they stopped picking my call. I thought they were legit after visiting their website at gregmattoeflnigeria .com and finding out that they have an alleged physical location in Lagos(I stay in Benin), and reading testimonies from other Nairaland members who claim to have registered their TOEFL through them. so yesterday, I paid 45,000 Naira to their GT Bank account (Account name: B.Y Mafit Limited, Account number: 0051522264) for the TOEFL registration and they promised to send me an email after registering the TOEFL. I didn't get any such email and I called them back today, they stopped picking my call. Update They have processed my TOEFL registration today March 21, 2019, the delay was due to the high volume of applications that they had to handle (according to the explanation they gave me). They are legit and I will recommend them to others who intend to register the TOEFL CBT test because it is cheaper (45,000 Naira compared to $195.00 on the ets.org website). |
Anthonyo15:Na wa oh. Couldn't find my name on the list and I'm not in Benin city at the moment. Now that the list has already been compiled, is there any need for me to journey back to visit my study centre to see if there's any possibility that my name can still be included in the graduation list? |
Okay |
I was against this "jibril" propaganda but after seeing this pix, it is beginning to seem real. if you look at the neck of this 'new' Buhari, it appears to be fuller at the back compared to that of the old Buhari. if you also look at the nose tip of this new Buhari, it curves downward while that of the old Buhari points straight out. This new Buhari's face also seems bigger than the face of the old Buhari. When you also look at the old Buhari smiling, you see a wrinkled cheek muscle but this new Buhari has a very smooth looking cheek. Just my observations anyway. |
ezenwajosh:@ the bolded is the most sensible political statement that I have read in a while (though I am not convinced that Biafra is the way forward). Nigeria was built on a foundation that only provides for the survival of the fittest(those in power). Reason why our leaders can loot any funds available at their discretion, without having fear of repercussions from the embittered citizens. And having being dominated to inhumane levels of poverty, the embittered citizens will happily offer their conscience in exchange for peanuts during elections. The cycle can only keep getting worse. Reason why a common basic amenity such as 24hr constant electricity supply will never be possible in 500 years if the status-quo is allowed to remain. Reason why those with guns can brutalizes civilians without any fear of repercussions. Reason why we spend 4 years in our so-called unis studying stories and theories that are of no use in real-life situations. Reason why religious leaders make billions from preying on their sheeples because the sheeples live in a quiet fear of poverty due to the fact that government doesn't care about the living conditions of ordinary Nigerians. (Imagine the present ongoing agitation over an ordinary minimum wage of 30,000 Naira? 30,000 Naira that isn't enough for my monthly feeding expenses even though I am a single guy that does his own cooking jejely. I don't like hearing people referring to my motherland as a shithole but in reality, it is what our leaders have made it into. Only a well-planned forceful revolution will be able to successfully alter the present faulty foundation upon which the present Nigeria was built, and set the country on a path of prosperity. Unfortunately, I am not willing to risk my life by partaking in any of such revolution. |
beatmonster:thanks. |

