thats his mode of operandi

so? me here sef dunt knw you...cause I've never for once watch that ur BBC abi bbn

I understand ur plight ur sacrifice, reading all comments above not everyone get what u mean being a virgin and loving wife...in all ur being pure and sacrifices u want is a soft landing but now it other way round.....anyway no advice or whatever to give u jst wants you to knw someone understand what you are going through and all I can say is that's life will never be rosy for everyone do what ur will pleases you, in between I hate lazy partner

preshpraiz:
It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.

My whole world is crumbling.
I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations.

I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades.

While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much.

Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken.

He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man.

Now my regrets...
* The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19.

He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals.

I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no.

I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep.

Now our rent is due, no money.
I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these.

When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now.
I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house.

Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio

unessesary , married ones sef looking for a way out...see them praying as hell when they get the man next is frustrate his peaceful life

you said a good thing but if left for Nigeria Fisher men alone they will wants to become a billionaire overnight..in other way Nigerian takes advantageof scarce commodity instead of little increase it goes high to 10 times

Blakjewelry:
I think Nigeria needs a lot of fishing trawlers, I don't see reason why we should be importing fish.

swt story, better when no family(kids) involved,

police and thief at the same time

see who dey talk

you will surely continue this for good 8 years
nothing you and your post can do

Quenncee:
They said he have experience and that he will turn Nigeria into Lagos state(Chicago). This is four(4) months and still counting but still Nigeria economy still getting worse than past administration.
Cost of living has turned something else.
Businesses going down south
Naira turning in cowries
Insecurities on the rise
Purchasing power diminishing
Transport hmm
Just to get passport hard pass waec
Visa denied on thee rise
Etc

Bobo Chicago
Drug baron
Certificate faker
Emilokan
Ready to fight dirty
Election coup plotter
And the title keep going on and on

they will clean it after opening and put them self to order before they start selling again

BloomingDale:
But that place is still dirty na. Why did they close it initially?

story

in this present economy, keep spending money without making any intentions? this girls will f¥¥k ur life up....na mumu they like

who statistics help?

listening

karma ko kambad ni....nothing like karma

Fearyourcreator:

There is karma... if you like go dey do evil... Kardashian wey dey do rubbish those times ... her pikin jam her porn playing online game...

lie who told you there's another life? ....life ko lie ni

ezewealth:

Because he don't really understand karma,
The Hindu religion that believed in karma believed in rebirth or next life. Karma maybe not found on your present life, but will surely visit you in your next life, u will just be suffering for nothing sake, not knowing the kind of atrusity you committed in your past life

see this u just type is 1k1% fact, wish a thread is open for it to emphasis seriously on

DND069:
There is no KARMA. Evil people prevail, even their generations still excel.

Guy u seriois or this joke ....seriously here is their mode they use to sell this fake phones

loud ooooo, many will prefer letting go the parent to get those papers forgetting they also have kids, and a time is coming they will be in positions of those parent and they won't love such being done to them......this life sef

idiots people above....imagine kind comments dem dey post

and the battle ain't easy fighting alone

at least for now make he rest, cause of death is buried bloggers will jst be dragging traffic anyhow

how is it your problem? is lagos your state?

PrinceOfLagos:
Intimidation is all that they do In Lagos

All the language in Nigeria should be added

means be like say u no dey listen, make hin kuku end am with you....next time here is a simple way to shut him up jst tell him his own is better he should nt let you start urs or else he will leave the ride fare for you and dash you few change sef...guy man no go wan short nah to shut up straight

thats why u are a failure, cause you can't study a simple course....olodo rabata

Karen2024:
Because they don't know how broke and stingy how all useless Nigerian Men are..
Nigerian Men are a course.

I only see airport on TV and Internet

see where the woman hand is in the first pics, kpekus is itching her....she initiated the act

interest or no interest the toy belongs to the original owner....case dismissed

man i feel this your write up you need to open a thread for it people needs to learn, same with me mine is not even academically but being serious minded, focused hustling when my friends use money to buy lands, cars and some kind things I see unnecessary at that moment me i keep doing business to make more money so I can aquire more of those things in future my brother today this guys hv more of those things while I keep struggling to aquire one......anyway that is life

franchasofficia:
Academic success is not a guarantee that someone will be successful later in life as adult.


I happen to be one of the brightest pupils during my growing up; starting from nursery to tertiary, I always came out in flying colors and I find it easy to understand anything I read even if people are shouting while I am reading, I will still understand everything. I can be gisting with you and be reading and still comprehend everything I read without much stress. I was so academically gifted to the extent that even though I attended ill equipped government Primary and secondary schools, I still excelled better than those that attended good schools.


Guess what?

I struggled for too long before making headway in life when compared to my mates who weren't academically bright.


It took me several effort, dedication, relearning, rediscovering myself and praying to God for me to finally see light in my life.



I am in my late 30s now and some of the most successful mates and friends I have today who are doing excellently well in different careers, business, etc are the olodos during our school years. Some are now big company owners. Some are getting closer to becoming Billionaires legitimately not through fraud or criminalities. These were guys that barely know what ABCD is during school days yet they are huge success in life today.



I am like the poorest among my friends who use to depend on me academically in school. I finally succeeded in life by the special grace of God almighty and through self development, hardwork and consistency and not even through my academic performance or excellence.


My point, appreciate your son because it is not his fault that he is not as bright as his mates, these things are gifts from God and mostly not learned from attending best schools even though they help.


One thing you must try now to inculcate in him is the habit of being disciplined. Let him learn to be disciplined and not end up wayward and arrogant through keeping bad companies.


Do the best you can for him to catch up, pray fervently for him daily and always bless him and leave the rest for God and his destiny.


Destiny matters most not academic excellence.


Our destiny and God's mercy is the only surest way to being successful in life, not by our academic excellence or hardwork or wisdom.