depressionkills:

You are a disgrace and a self-proclaimed woman beater, trying to defend a 35yo mercilessly beating a 16yo he probably impregnated when she was 13, making him a paedophile. Yet you are here trying to pretend liKe you have any moral or a moral ground to stand on?? SMH!!

"the killin of a fellow human being is neva justified whatever the reason maybe."
Yeah sure, because SELF-DEFENSE that exist in EVERY legal code on this planet doesnt exist right??

So someone is beating you to death but you should take the beating, despite the fact that he is a man in his 30's and you are a teenage girl, so that means that he is probably stronger, bigger and fitter than you but mind you, YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAVE YOUR LIFE SMH
Your ignorance is startling, no wonder you defend domestic violence and stand up for paedophiles.

S beating the hell out of teenge girls forced into child marriage is justified but defending one's life is not SMH You clearly have no clue what fairness and justice mean.

As long as we will have too many of your kind roaming our streets and preying on our little girls and young women, the African female will never be safe and we will never prosper!

I feel for whatever woman that will have the bad luck of coming accross your Mike-tyson-wannabe, wife-beating, weak abusive ass. A disgrace and a curse. I hope your neighbors are reading this and protecting their young daughters.

what was i sayin. . Are you on ur period or you ar just wired to be ds aggressive?...you just proved my point.
Pls gal, next time you are your period just go find somebody to pick on.
I made my point based on facts around us which you chose to ignore maybe because of lack of support from your brain.
Anyway, you seem too much of a low-life for me to argue with.

lorretta u: really?

I bet you'll expect .maturity from a 16 year old.

Did u read the part where he pounced on her again after a neighbour seperated them?

I'm sure he's made it a habit.beating her blue and black.
To me it appears he got what he bargained for.

It was either that or he'd have killed her.it's just a matter of time.
We'd have been reading "35 year old man beat 16 year old wife to death"

I say let the table turn for once.

the killin of a fellow human being is neva justified whatever the reason maybe.
pardon me for bn a lil bit cynical. Ur premise was arrived at from the reporter's POV but what abt the things that are not said.
They might claimed the gal is 16 simply bcuz they want her to avoid jail time.
Mind you, im not in any way taking sides buh if you read between the line you would have noticed that the reports took a sympathetic angle towards the gal

Topefemi: iu got to be kidding me. Id*ot

wow! Lyk seriously?
U sound so pissed, did sombdy collect ur crayons again?

Babzilla:
I KNOW WATCHU MEAN
BUT NOT 16 YEAR OLDS

yeah, i know.
I empathised with her too. Jst lukin at ds from another perspectives. The union shld neva have stood, yet it did. Nothin u or i say cld changed wot has already hapnd.

iyobs7:

Common sense is not common. It is very wrong for that little girl to be married to that man.
Did you ever get to think of her age when she was given out as a wife and maybe against her will
The man always beat her. Whick kind bring out the stupid mike tyson out of a man. What do you think
a 16year old will nag about? two children already haba guy talk well abeg

sowi, my bad.
I jst dont like followin d crowd.

Deschil: Keep quiet if you have nothing to say!

so shld u

Sincerely, some women are programmed to bring out the mike tyson in you,

Annie2gud: @mr kill...im essence what am tryin to say is that...the op shud forget and let go.that was why i said....to hair is woman,to forgive is design.

lol. . .maybe he doesnt read the bible. . .
@OP, turn the other cheek man. . .and move on

My Mentor "bowin Out" Like A Boss

Annie2gud: To hair is human..to forgive is design.

this ur joke is too expensive. . .i cant afford to laugh

...

Oou den was a no go area for the faint hearted. Ryt inside d campus ur fone or files wld be collected by dem big bros and u will b told to com and bail it later.
When i first resumed schoolin i landed among some eiye guys in my hall who immediately took an interest in me They had to rat me immediately.
My first day of enterin d skul, abusi campus there was news of freshers bn "obtained" of their possessions.
as i was comin bak there was ds tall guy called "agali" who always walks wt a golf stick sharpened at d end by d skul gate callin me. I knew wat he wanted so i quickly called a bikeman sat on it buh d bikeman was beggin me to answer agali first bcuz he didnt want agali's trouble. I ran inside d campus, he followed me. I was panickin inside buh my facial expression was kinda cool. I was just lookin for a familiar face dat cld help me and since i was a fresher i got none. I knew d gate/security man cldnt help cuz he was there nd he didnt even say a thing.
Afta a while i tot i lost him so i was makin my way back to d gate when i suddenly saw d rest of agali's crew waitin 4me by d gate. I looked bak nd i also saw agali's comin behind me wt a wicked smirk on his face. Talk of stuck btwn d devil nd d deep sea.
I jst ran back to him sayin "bros, i swear i no know nah u dey cal me." he was jst lyk "e be lyk u don dey mad abi" he ordered me to pay for two crates of beer 1st nd i only had #30 wt me.
Then i suddenly rmbr dat i saw him yesterday wen we went to buy weed and he clawed nd covered for my gf (signs of respect for seniority) who bought him two wraps. I was not really O.T wise den so i jst said "bros, dat elebe ***** hs name ****** dat bought weed for u yesterday was my elder bruh.
He cooled down instanta, started callin me his boy while also blamin me for not sayin dat in d 1st place. We got along really well afta dat and i evn had to b d chief negotiator for lyk 5 of my coursemates whose bags and files were seized den by agali.

Mindependent:

Haha some people need to realise money is also overrated

i neva said money is not overrated. Buh now dat u mentioned it; granted money is not everythin buh its almost everythin.
. . .i really hope u find ur true luv tho. U sound lyk a gal who deserve some true unbridled luv

Mindependent:

Overrated or not, it's all I want, I don't even care if he's poor

aite. . .i'll be waitin to tel u "i told u so"

Mindependent:

I don't think I'm asking for much at all, I mean I never said anything about looks or money because all I care about is true love.How is that too much?

luv is so overrated moi cherie. . .take my words for it

mondi_cheeks: no

ouch! . . .how disheartening

mondi_cheeks: I don't want phone calls, recharge cards, chocolates or flowers. I just want a man who can buy me alomo

ma type of lady. . .do u by any chance roll a blunt?

Mindependent: Ok so I've been on nairaland for a while, romance especially, countless failed relationships don't pity me. But now it's time for a fresh start.I know people always say good men finish last but I genuinely want a good man, is that too much to ask?

The type of man I want is
Someone who will call me every night before I sleep

Someone who will call me every morning just to hear my voice

Someone who would appreciate me as I am

Someone who will be there for me through thick and thin

Someone that would buy me roses for valentines day and a box of chocolates for my birthday

Someone who respects me, my family and friends

Someone I can trust enough to share my life with and doesn't judge me, I've been through so much, I find it hard opening up

Someone that is happy to lay in bed with me and cuddle up while watching sec and the city

And most of all someone that would cherish me.

Whoever you may be,wherever you may be. I am patiently waiting for you
Love,
M


Ladies and gents, apologies for been very soppy, I'm having a moment. Anyway feel free to add your own type of man/woman if you please

aint u askin for too much?
Anyway, im jst lookin for a gal who will be there for me when my xbox is broken

Almost sympathetic. . .i'm almost moved.

thanks alot inalechenu. . .jst got it now. . .highly appreciated.

Opeyemi007@gmail.com. Thanks

Seems lyk an hungry common thief

robonski15:

Empty barrel!!! Its guyz like u that women manhandles on bed.. I guess u can't even go more than a round on a woman... Its on nairaland most people claim what they can do and in reality they can't do shiit..

Mind you its not all the info I dropped, since she is a part of this forum..

ar u sayin wot i'm thinkin u r sayin.
Pls for pete sake b sayin wot im thinkin u r sayin.
I knew it! I knew it! I knew it!
Good ol attaboy son of a gun.
Chop knuckle joor!
*in my best impression of Dj zees*
ori e o fokasibe
(ur head dey dia joor)

Shit hapns. . . Paul can be plantin while Apollo is waterin.
Buh no a serious note dude, if this gal has agreed to be ur gf den u shld tel her point blank that you dont want her havin anythin to do wt dat guy no more. If she truly value d relationship as u seem to value it she will comply buh if she doesnt then she probably doesnt deserve to be in ur life afta all.
Some things ar jst not meant to be no matter how much you really want them to.

gunners160: mst everybdy b lyke u.k let us assume e hmm wit d ladi wat next.does it change anythi hell no d guy still remain a sex monger.but gistin nd talkin all through d nite dat shows e is man nd can cntrl his libido. Evn i 2wuld do dsame thing nt bcs i am a saint bt atleast slf respec nd discipline

all sentiments aside. It doesnt bode well tellin ppl a gal came from another state to spend d nite wt u nd yet u still didnt hit d jackpot. If i were him, i wld jst say we had a nice time. If he was so holy he wldnt hv stalked her in d 1st place let alone let her spend d nite in his crib.
Buh i see ur point bruh. . .i shld neva hv bn so judgemental lyk dat. I meant no offense, hope none is taken tho