₦airaland Forum

SangoOlukosoOba:
You cannot intimidate Igbo’s. All shops will be locked for 2 weeks, and anyone that violates orders will be dealt with severely.

Mazi Simon Ekpa has spoken and it’s FINAL

That's a good move. We can get our market back from igbos. You can be sure that your competitors will open their shops. It will be good business for them. At least Lagos will breath a bit

malvisguy212:
you have a betraying spirit in you. you cannot be trusted as a friend. so , when she didn't have anything, she was in the same level with the guy. but the moment she got something, she finally discover she is above her boyfriend level? may God save your friends from you. you are evil and bad

You are so pained by the obvious things I said. Things that you even you had done severally but maybe in different situations. Continue
But dont be personal, let's address the issues.

thinkmoney:
You judged that guy friend. You made him look inadequate.
Your wife choose to remain loyal to you not that she hasn’t seen somebody well of approach her even after your marriage. It’s a myth to think you are the only one that can upgrade her.
That girl in the original post wasn’t loyal and faithful. This two qualities preserve order in the society. It’s the eroding of this qualities that is one main reason why we have divorce, domestic violence, murder and chaos everywhere now.
You are not the best for anybody. Who stuck with you made an intentional decision except if it’s an slowpoke or orc that you married

Bro, he can't force this girl who has moved on to stay. So my point is that if at the end she moves, you've got to move on too and stop sulking. In my earlier post, I told you a girl I paid for her education refused to marry me, so what can I do, I have to move on. I believe the OP will move on.
To avoid what you painted above, I married at my level, a girl who loves me. That girl has moved, he should let her be

oyalunasamuel:
You guys just settle down and support trash. What are we producing, and what's the cost of living in Nigeria. We are largely an import dependent nation so this logic doesn't hold water.

I won't join you in argument

FreeStuffsNG:
That's good news if you know about economics and the Afcta
There is no point having a strong currency when you are not producing for exports. Nigeria is taking over their markets with cheaper goods than the ones they import from France. The worst hit will be our immediate neighbor's

God bless you. We need to ramp up export like China and Vietnam did.
USA fought China severally because Yuan is weak compared to Dollar, that's why Chinese products are cheaper in the Western world.

thinkmoney:
There is something called loyalty. Where are your morals? Who raised you?
If everyone operated with that format , then society will go further into chaos. Do you say a man should always leave you for a better lady anytime one comes across his way?

Why can't you guys have debate without getting rude and personal?
Unfortunately that's the way the world is structured, including you, the manifestation is just different. I m sure my wife stayed with me because I'm her sure ticket. I stayed with my Wife because she's probably the best person to manage me. So I do not take it for granted that she won't get better vibes if I do not constantly up my games. So even though I have married her, I remained the Man in the house, her boyfriend, mentor, cheerleader and we have remained best of friends since a long while now. I have always been responsible for opening the next chapter in her life and she adores me.
So my point to today's men is to run a good game and if she wants to leave inspite, allow her, it means she's not for you. But you can't force her to stay or judge her. I don't judge because we all have our flaws

Lekan239:
yes. Like part of asking ur wife to go sleep with that baba alaji so you guys will see moni to pay house rent

Luckily I have a good wife and we are blessed by God. I once dated a girl of this attitude. I can't cope, I freed her, and we both move towards different direction, no qualms, no sulking.
As expected I have been served breakfast before, it's all part of life. I moved.

Pinkybush:
If it was the other way round and that guy was the one that move up with his current level, leaving his low life girlfriend behind, would you still vomit this thrash, telling the girl to look for a guy of her level? You are a clear idiot

Why is it so difficult for you guys to discuss without being rude and cursing. You guys lacked manners.
And why is it difficult to respect my personal views, you have yours. You don't have to agree with me, that's why we are all different personalty.

haybhi1:
No vex, sir.

Good virtue. Keep this up

Slynation:
So if your should start working for a serving senators and a salary 120K...Less than 2months into the job booOm...A fully rented furnished house just landed, and when you decided to ask, she responded with what the OP said...you will buy her pepper soup to celebrate abi...!!

Anyways, A wiseman once told me "na pikin wey no know e mama boyfriend dey call am uncle"

I had a boy who was a legislative assistance to the Hon Representative for my constituency, he made and still making serious money to date, infact his life changed as soon as he was appointed. It's because she's a lady that you concluded that she must have sold herself. She may, she may not. Judging with one side story is evil. Untill you hear her side.

Emotionss:
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Your attempt to sound mature and woke just showed how shallow and weak you are not just as a man,but as a human being....

A girl he was taking care of when she was jobless finally got a job and suddenly became unappreciative and suddenly lost interest in her man even to the extent of not allowing him visit her sounds ok or normal to you ?

Instead of you to ask how a Woman earning 120k a month is able to rent an apartment of 700k a year ( more than 60% of her yearly income) Excluding the money spent on furnitures instead you are here castigating the OP for not being supportive to such irregularities.

Weaklings like you are one of the reasons why accountability is in decline in today's society.
It's obvious you lack the guts to question irregularities and abnormalities in your home and relationships...

With the way you sound I am 100% sure your wife is the Bread winner and the Authority in your house...

Weaklings coming on social media and be forming something the are not.

I'm sure you red that am married, it has been for a while. I don't have anything to prove to you. Your views are yours

otino:
Your advice is good, but off point. May be u should read the post again.

Maybe you should follow my posts from beginning. Anyway your views are your views. Mine are mine.

Weathered:
poorly arranged damage control

Damage control for who? I stated my views, you don't have to agree with me. This is a faceless forum.

jagorinho:
You can't really blame that guy you responded to, your initial post was not well thought out.

By your analogy you are obliterating the need for honesty and loyalty just for material gains in the name of moving up the social strata, that is a bad trait, what if the president comes for the said lady, she will definitely leave the senator and the cycle continues, is that moving up or a girl that has turn to slave to her innate emotions and lacks the ability to be loyal and honest.

We should be able to have conversation without being abusive and rude. I have stated my opinion which is within my right. All he needs to do is to express his views without abusing anyone.
I'm entitled to my opinions, he is entitled to his opinions. He needs not be abusive

JASONjnr:
Come to think of it.... The handwriting is readable compare to some people with healthy hands....


You will see handwriting and your brain will shut down while trying to read through....


God is wonderful and I pray his efforts to learning will be fruitful.

You mean mouthwriting?

YOUNGELDER1:
Chinese not white.
Those dirty things are the worse amongst the worse.

Thank you for telling them that Chinese are not white

This one na old format. Sad you fell for this old simple scheme. The best is to track the account into which you made payment and collect your money. It's possible but it may take quite a while.
Best is to independently run your enquiries via the Embassy of the foreign company.
Chasr the account you paid money into. That's your best bet.
But this format is more than 30years on the roll.

This is very serious

WatchYourSix:
Baba..its easy to say when u are not the OP

Make ur wife start spreadig legs for another man...then up and leave u because he's richer giving her all luxury u cant afford .......baba...u go sulk...b4 u move on....because he go pain u....

And sometimes women do behave like this no matter how strong ur game is......

Anyway I opened my eye before I marry. I also chop breakfast in the process, no pains no gain. I moved.
I trained one for about 6years, she no marry me, today I'm great full to God for the one I marry. Sometimes disappointments na packaged blessing.
I wish him well, he should move on, that girl is not meant for him.

SalamRushdie:
The ship was probably just chartered to lift oil for a big NNPC thief

Don't defend them. They are culpable and MUST be punished

WatchYourSix:
Support?? Its not rocket science, His girl is already cheating on him..and u blaming him of no support.....

Being rich will always be relative....if u are sayin its okay for a woman to drop a man in the name of moving up becos the next rich man has showed up...then it wont matter what the sons u are training have.....because there will always be richer man....

Everyone expects a little bit of loyalty in their relationship men or women...

.na because e never happen to you.. make ur wife leave u because a rich man likes her and gave a house and a g-wagon....lets see if u will support her
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You got me all wrong, of course a woman should be loyal, my points are of two ways, get involve with the life of your woman, if you don't another person will
Keep working at yourself so that you as desired as always. I have met several young men with very poor games. You don't have to be a billionaire to be an A list man,. That's my point.
When a girl ditch you, move on stop sulking, you've just learnt another lesson.

Wodu89:
This one no Sabi talk. Go and write it. The same would happen to your son's. You'll feel his pains as a father since you can't discern truths

I engages with my son's regularly on how to be a responsible man, that's my job in Parenting. To spot evil women and how to deal with them. I will not expect my son to complain in this manner because he's trained enough to be the one calling the shot. That's what make a good man

Wodu89:
You don't have sense. Not just as a man but as a human being. If everyone keeps dropping people like that would society not be in chaos. Oponu.

Isn't it a nice British Naija lady working in Met police, came for reality show, saw a man, got married to him and today there's bliss and peace all over her.


You think like a wretched poor person. This is your thought pattern. That of wretched poor people. Disloyalty, wretchedness and betrayal.


E go meet you for front

You are completely mannerless. I'm discussing with you in a very civil manner and listen to your responses.
I can't join issues with your type. You lack home training.

nnamdizen:
There is no argument anywhere sir, you may have misunderstood my post, maybe out of spite for "Nigerian men" as you have categorized us, but my two cent about the matter at hand is that we men most times dont get our priorities right especially when we are involved with the opposite sex, but they on the other hand knows exactly what they came for and how to get it, when they sense decline or reduction in the benefit they came for, or get a better offer elsewhere, they switch without looking back. That my friend is called business transaction and nothing more!

I'm a Nigeria Man too and Married. Anytime my partner is into anything progressive, I get involved without even been invited, I offer advise, share significantly in the advancement and most of the time, they end up thanking and appreciating me for making it happen. But the fact is that I know I have to be part of that success otherwise another person will play my role and I will be left behind. Even if she's going to the wrong direction, I will usually championed her into seeing that the direction she's heading is headless.
The other part is that Men should consistently grow themselves. I am also praying for my daughter to succeed and marry a responsible and successful husband. You can't wish less

Wodu89:
Thrash. Is this what it's about. If it is, why can't she move up with him and not any other way ?


You go dey press your phone upside down. Yeye

Waiting be thrash. Move up, waiting you dey yarn.
The girl did the best thing. Wether it will workout for her is another thing. But I pray that it work out.
The guy will hopefully meet his level also. My advise is for him to up his game

john1101:
He just said she didnt allow him enter the house, which is init self funny.

He gave the summary, without stating what are chain of events that led to that.
One sided narrations

nnamdizen:
When you get to understand that, anything relating to women in general is all about what a man can offer her and nothing else, then you will know where your priorities should be as a man.

I don't get you guys argument. You mean she should remain at the same level and wait until the guy moves up before she moves too.
Nigeria men can't handle their women doing better than them, yet their games are poor.
A man should support her woman and become her champion. If you can't handle that, move on to the one you can handle

georgeakins:
Which one is your own?
BAIC auto parts from China are your own?
Keep fooling yourself.
Haven't you asked yourself why no Ibo transporter is using that substandard motors being assembled by Innonson?

Leave that one, Rome wasn't built in a day

endy69:
I should has responded to you but it is unfortunate that no one from lineage can afford the lowest model of innocent vehicles

Why do you respond to everything? You would have smelled his intention.
I'm Yoruba and salute Innoson motors, a great Nigerian. God bless him

jumokeadele:
I'm a yoruba, but only an uneducated Yoruba behaves like you plays this tribal cards. what do you stand to gain from this ?

What's tribal in openly feeling proud being a Yoruba man like Me. I join him in being proud to be a Yoruba. No apologies

HussenAdul:
U didn't mention Drug & money rituals

We have Leader in those areas

Britishcoins:
I am not a Northen o, recently my GF jokingly call me Aboki on the phone... And I did not find it funny... Infact she was thinking I just hate her.
Remember I know the meaning of Aboki but I don't like them...
How would you feel if your GF call you Aboki

Aboki means my friend in Hausa. So what else should she call you? An enemy.? Na wa for this generation