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Bradford111:
Hello NL so I got this friend of mine that is staying at my house just for the moment.. he has come to know my girlfriend as I talk about her often and when she do come around…


So he told me he knows her that they were neighbors and he is closer to her elder brother

Let me get straight to the point this boy told me straight to my face today that he would have fvcked my girl before but because at then he didn’t had money so he couldn’t…


And one time my girl have visited his dad and waited till he comes back from work


I’m not sure I can take this disrespect from him I’m thinking of telling him to leave my house in a couple of hours and never comes back

Stupid friends.

He wants ya p..

airsaylongcome:
The way you dey "attack" people in their 40s veering into tech no fair o. You go still reach that 40 years and realize that 40 is the new 25. (I'm hovering around that 40 and don't feel like I've lost my mojo one bit)

Leave that kid.

Stories!

And some people go say money no dey Nigeria.

Govt wicked, etc.

Govt th give money steady bit ya friends and fam won't tell you. They will take it codedly.

MonsieurX:
Idolatry isn't my origin, could be yours though. I was created in the image of the most high and I am a god myself. I no fit bow down for trees, sorry.

Stories. You are aGod and u no fit go fight Boko Haram? Be quiet!

They have brain washed you. They told you ur God's are idols and you believed them... Sorry!

Every other God outside most religious are considered as idols. It's just a marketing strategy.

Thanksful:
Please if you don't know what curriculum is, you don't display your ignorance.

Curriculum was developed in America as far back as 1949 by Tyler.

You just open mouth dey talk.

Britian and France colonized the world bf this your so called curriculum was born. It's obvious curriculum is not a necessity. What we need is will power.

And some people are happy...

Chai!

The human race is gone.

famozine1:
Am not asking this question so I can continue In one with least affect because both are very dangerous am asking to know how far I need to go spiritually to get my self back from this evil forces

None.

To make u need to get it right. Nothing can stop a man if e his at the right place, with d right people.

Imagine say ya Papa or Mama become president. No mata hw caused u are you must live the best of this life. You must fulfill, etc.

That same shell and Mobil wey dey reject people no go reject you.

Bleep all this nonsense beliefs

Craig24:
You think say spirituality na psychology abi?
You think say spirit get time to follow u reason what you believe in or not?

Just stick to your thesis and school of thought, leave spiritism alone kpatakpata

No mind Dem. Dem still b kids. Juju no dey make noise. If u Dem too strong make Dem go dare Dem.

MonsieurX:
Why didn't the dumb wooden idols your ancestors worshipped save them from slavery and colonialism? Mumu dey worry you.

The only thing satanism and idol worshipping can do is to destroy our society. Wake up and smell the coffee, no be until them use your family member do money ritual before you know say na devil dem dey worship.

How u go dey curse your origin?

Emancipate ya self from the bondage of colonialism.

Stop talking evil about our God's..

Ilamina:
I.was just wondering because I live in portharcourt

There is a high chance I would have been on that plane

U ment!
But I love u..

Let me tell u some cool tins I love about u in ur DM.

Great!

Op once again good luck. Life no easy for some people. I see u have been grinding. No body don gv u job for here or may. Life is crazy, but keep moving.

When u make ya money, no gv any body shisi.

Remember when u dey hustle no body gv u. This is a training ground for you.

Society is crap.

Once again good luck.

SeunWedsLinda:
So I have this administrative job that pays me 100k on the island in Lagos. The job doesn't actually afford me any opportunity to grow and I have done a serious introspection of what the future holds and I am not particularly pleased with my analysis.

I am seriously considering resigning from the job to venture into tech. This has been bothering me for quite some time now and it's even compounded by the fact that if I should decide to venture into tech, I would have to go from zero to hundred in six months(don't know how possible this is but I feel it's doable with intensive self learning)

On the other hand, I'm confused on which to go for between data science/analysis and web/software development.

Should I quit my job and venture into tech? In terms of having job prospects and getting employable in 6 months, which skill should I go for? Also considering my age.

I will also appreciate advice outside the scope of what I posted. I know a lot of people might have been through this one time. How were you able to surmount it?

No quit ya Jon for Tech.

You can handle both.

Best advice.

Admin is a great field. In Nigeria we unda utilize talents. Get a beta job while u learn tech by the side.. E no easy as you think.

But if you think you have guts, then be ready for frustration and depression until u make it. No guarantee for making it.

Good luck.

2Radii:
Ruminating on what @Sirseedorf said here

https://www.nairaland.com/7353985/lost-job-today-after-few

One tin i noticed about this wicked life is that life is like a woman..

...tho not always sha, but.....


Abeg wetin dey sup na... No be like this e suppose be na

Na so life b.

A reason I avoid religion and dia stress.

Let me live my life.

ublight:
Please read patiently

I happen to be one of the luckiest persons on this planet. Not because I was born with a silver spoon, intelligent, or handsome. Heck a lot of people could do better than me in those areas.

I am lucky cos around 2019 I was opportuned to have a billionaire become my mentor. I had always known this man from 2015, but he didn't know me. We never had met until July 2019, but I always read about him and engaged him online until we met in 2019.

When I met him, I was broke and had almost nothing. He on the other hand had just lost 800 million naira. He just took interest in me irrespective of ethnic difference (he is yoruba, I am Akwa ibom)

One of the first things he said to me about himself in July 2019 was that he doesn't go for his secondary school re-union. Without waiting for me to ask for the reason he told me.

According to him, he had gone for his secondary school re-union many years back, and didn't like what he saw. Many of his colleagues were living fake lives. They only came to compete and measure their level of success. (these are people above 50. I thought this was a madness for young adults)

My mentor said even though he was the richest amongst all of them by all material indices (standards), yet he felt uneasy in their midst.
Many had to cook up lies, pull up in rented cars etc just to sell a false image.

I had finished secondary school since 2010, and because life was rough, I never bothered about secondary school re-union. Truth be told I was secretly hoping for when I would blow so I could go and show off. U get?

Working closely with my mentor started shaping my mind. I stopped hustling for the competition. My mentor always asked me, what if by d time u finally made it, u realize that all ur contemporaries had already made it??

I finally started seeing some good money last year. Majorly this year. I could literally give out 300k and not feel it. Of course I make a minimum of 30k to 40k weekly with my fone. Excluding my major source of income. In a month, I make more than 400k from my agro business, and I have not even mentioned my education business.

My cousin who went to the same sec. Sch with me convinced me last week to join him let's attend our sec. Sch re-union. At first I hesitated, but my cousin is not some1 who gives up easily. So I finally obliged.

Guess what! De ja vu.

What my mentor told me is exactly what I saw. Competition at its peak. Twas crazy Mehn! If I were still broke maybe I would be depressed.

Everyone was elegantly dressed except me. Everyone came with bolt except me. I felt out of place Mehn!
My only consolation was that I knew I was doing better than most of those guys there so I just kept my cool and sat behind.

I always came 2nd 3rd or few times 4th. So I knew I would be among those that would be on the spot light. A few friends came around, did a little bit of chit chat and exchanged contacts and that was all.

Some of us were married, the single girls didn't even come close to me cos I didn't look flashy. I didn't even try to force myself on anyone. I just sat one place observing.

After everything, we decided to contribute money to renovate a part of the male hostel that had gone up in flames some weeks ago.

It was at this moment that I became very keen and attentive. The first person to donate was our head girl. Very modest and nice person. She was married now and exhibited maturity more than the rest of the girls. She did 20k, but promised to transfer the cash by first week of next month. The head boy followed. He was well dressed. He did 20k too and promised to transfer next week Friday.

Me I was just shocked that after the whole packaging the guy still wan transfer 20k after 1 week. Wonders shall never end.

Some other guy on dread lock transferred 12k. I was impressed. First guy to actually give cash. Other people followed suit. Some gave 2k, 5k, 1k. Etc. Look I am not looking down on anyone, but after all the packaging no body could even do 50k.

We were only 51 (our set was ss3a and ss3b) everyone had done their donation and I was left. I beckoned to my cousin (who was d anchor) that I would do mine in private. My cousin (foolish boy) rejected d idea and everyone supported him. They wanted me to say my donation openly for everyone to hear and also take account.


There was a dead silence when I said I was doing 500k. It was like they didn't hear well. I asked for the account number immediately and made d transfer. ( I no get time 4 chere ka mbia. Forgive me I am not igbo)

To cut the long story short, I humbled everyone (for just 500k o).

Na once every body just get sense o. While we were about going na so everybody dey drag to carry me for dia car

Come see as all man rush to collect my contact. As I dey like dis, my WhatsApp don full with messages. Both from naira land and from my mates at the re-union.


I dey plan to even blow their mind join when I invite them all for my birthday this December.

My mentor got this 1 wrong. I don first my mates hammer. Na grace sha.
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Their messages on WhatsApp don show me say country no balance o. I am planning to create a WhatsApp group for some of tgem that would love to venture into my line of business and mentor them.

Do you think that is a good idea?
Please let me know. Thanks

Lies and fantasy, but it was entertaining.

U sef go show off.. In ya mind.

Olodo!

And this petty Amechi wanted to be de presidio on Naija.

Nonsense!

DaddyCK:
I no this babe nah....I use to yansh her back in the days & I use to call her fruity frankly!(REALTALK)

Mumu talk.

Righteousness2:
This is a confused man that has confused and deceived so many people, now boldly getting married to someone's wife, with a confused pastor as his best man.
GOD have mercy on all the people he has confused and rescue them from the Broadway before it becomes late.

You are d confused man... Quiet!

Sulele04:
I need your advice boss.

I am currently learning Asp.Net, I can write C# well already, and I know that C# is very similar Java so I can pick up Java.

But I don't know if I should continue with Asp or switch to spring boot of Java considering job availability and pay.

Oga just cool down learn only one Lang. Wen d Lang pay u can learn more... No go confuse ya sef.

Sulele04:
I will start learning Java and spring boot, and I will update you.

Also do I need to learn Kotlin too cause I thought Kotlin is just for Android dev.

Lolz

qtguru:
It depends, for Nigeria both will get you jobs, but Java/Kotlin is a more relevant language because:

1. Java is more popular and established libraries Apache Commons
2. Android Dev and Spring boot at once
3. and other Java dialect platforms.

But I would advise picking Java so I can forward your resume to Interswitch they need a lot of Java Engineers.

To do wat?

Thanksful:
No nation develop beyond it's curriculum. If you know what curriculum means to education, you will understand.

Stories!

Wia was curriculum when Britian and France dominated the world? The illetracy level in their country was so high at that time.

Nigerian excuses.

Great!

Lowkeygee:
Money has a way of revealing the ugliness of humans.

A colleague of mine who is an engineer, helped his girlfriend get an interior decoration work with our organization, and after she made money, she dumped him.

She made over 3million naira profit for a job she did in a month. That's her boyfriend's salary in a year and some months.

The things is, she went to an interior decoration school in Lagos, and improved her skills by following architects in Lagos.

As the brain behind the design, I had wanted to recommend someone, since I can't collect contract as a staff.

It was one of the smallest projects, and of course, it was easy to consider a Nigerian for its furnishing.

He approached me and begged me not to give a negative criticism of her status when she arrives for an interview:

"Guy, I wan marry this girl, and the mama even sabi me. I wan propose next month.

Guy anything you fit do -- I know say you get person, but please."

It was an opportunity for him to prove he wanted her progress.

I helped when the boss told me the idea of trying her. Because I wanted a brother's happiness, I covered up her lapses any time the boss asked me what I thought about her.

The project was in PH, and it was the only design I had done for the organisation there.

After the project, she told him her profit, and said "thank you."

She ended the call abruptly, and sent him a text never to call her again. He was hiding it from me, because it would make him look stupid, until another female colleague told me.

"No wonder I you've been avoiding me," I told him.

Then, I saw a man nearly weeping. After showing me a text where she told him never to call her again, he showed me her other text message, and it was this:

" Thank you for everything. I can't continue dating you. You can't even enter flight to visit me in lagos. Since I relocated to lagos 4months ago, I've checked it. You're not the guy for me so find another girl."

I gave him a deep hug.

My female colleague hugged him too.

I gave the lady a call afterwards, and she sincerely told me she could no longer date someone like him.

"Please, is there something he did?" I asked.

" No, I just can't date someone I earn more than. You know say I no go fit tell am this. I still like him o. But I have eyes on better people. This is the first time I am making up to a million and I appreciate him for that. I don send am 100k sha. Send me your account number too."

" Are you really pulling his legs or what?" I asked.

" I am being true to myself," she replied.

The saddest part of it all?

The fact that they've been on many lovey dovey calls before this happened.

As I am typing this, the young man is in the hospital. His blood pressure was triggered.

On my way out of the ward, I remembered he sends her 40% of his salary every month. He even handled a certain personal project, and sent her 600k a certain time.

Honestly, he's the type of Boyfriend that deserves a medal, because I remember having told him not to send her money for long,and see her reaction. He exclaimed " I just can't." He's having a rough time now and hasn't sent her money in two months. Could this be the reason?

I think some humans don't even deserve hell -- the Devil's punishment will be too mild for them -- if it exists. There should be another place for more terrible humans.

In all your dealings, try to surround yourself with kind people. Sometimes, ask God to reveal the true nature of that person you're dating.

May we never make sacrifices for people who are undeserving of it.

May we never encounter heartless people in the guise of living their truth.

May we never build fruitless foundations. �

#copied

Nfplmod
Mynd44
Lalasticlala

Op make u and u friend just rest...


His tenure has expired.

He shud move fwd.

Let him make the money, his money will not betray him.

1TripleC:
I have dated this Yoruba girl for about 5 years now.The mum is an Igbo Christian from Anambra and so am I.The Dad is a Muslim based in Anambra.The mum is late.Both the maternal and paternal Uncles are wealthy.She is a Christian but hides it for fear of the family.we have been there for ourselves in all ramifications but the challenge is that the family doesn't want to even hear about me coming to marry their daughter due to differences in tribe and religion.i tried going through the maternal side but they feel they do not have much say and that am not wealthy enough.i have been there for her ensuring she achieves her dream including her becoming a graduate.Now she is about to serve and I attempted going to pay her bride price but the Dad is threatening to kill her is she dares mention my name.Out of fear of losing me we opted for secret court marriage cos we really love ourselves.The family have been threatening us with everything since I asked her to let them know I want my people to come and meet them. I have not been myself for days now ,bad thoughts upon thought.Religion, tribalism and poverty, I don't even know which is worse

U no get problem.