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I got nice edo friends, but I hv to be very careful with them. Very careful. They r just too sensitive.

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Ricchcream:
. You sef you be wicked somebody , you tear rubber, chop her money finish, come dey threaten her with breakup . How she no go threaten you with sniper, cutlass and hoe join? If you no marry her, Jesus has a message for you...

Let her change her number , that’s the only solution, cause for her to totally leave those friends n stop talking to them won’t be an easy one, let her change her number , and she should pick one among those male friends she can communicate with. It’s a compromise.

Hussein01:
so u have to quote d entire post just to comment "true".



dis one weak me

lwkmd

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Tozic:
Ur chatting patten with Liliantalks is the same.

What is it na? Smh , can u leave me alone ?

TGMISKY:
You're lucky to have this kinda convo with an African mother. Maybe she exposed to the American culture.
But deep down my heart, I know that this is a lie

Lie ? Seriously, u must be a liar to even think I could make up something like this .

Eulalia:
What is morning pills?

Oh... I see. Yes whoever wants to abstein.

I'm a young lady but what has age got to do with being sexually active? Like is there a certain age a lady will get to and will be expected to engage in sex even when they are not married? Well... I don't think its right though.

my post was actually for matured men and ladies . Am not here to argue .

Eulalia:
Lord have mercy.
I thought they said this things later have effects on ones health? Huh.... You guys are trying mehnnn..

I still believe absteinance is the best. As for regulating the cycle, there are alternative therapies that works. Like combo. Anyways, what do I know?

nope it’s doesn’t do nothing to ur health ,, this is the best !! Better than morning pills .

Absteinance is the best , for who ever wants to abstein

How old r you ?

akinsmyk:
What about calls? We understand she doesn't want you see her house arrangements, does she feel same way about calls?

If yes then she's probably with someone she doesn't want to know about you guys and when you guys talk.

Maybe she's living a couple life with a guy

so u mean if a guy for example doesn’t like calls and video calls he’s dating someone or even married right?

Thought this would be a very intelligent thread

ghostwriter0147:
My only fear regarding this lockdown is that we might have more mentally deranged persons than dead ones after this whole pandemic... People are losing it everyday!

hahahaha u r very correct

Tozic:


have you replied me in that ur other account or you're still deliberating on what to say

which account?

Tozic:
women have indeed suffered on this forum.

you think ?

faith2kool:
In your late 20s, everyone starts getting concerned about your marital status. Your aunts, parents, older siblings, friends and even frenemies. Once you hit 30 and are still single, more pressure builds up. Ladies especially are subjects to this pressure more than guys.

Guess what, when these ladies appreciate that you mean well for them and you want them to get settled, sometimes it’s too much and wishes that you would just let them be. Check out these things that single ladies in their 30s are tired of hearing:

1. The clock is ticking

She knows this already but probably, she is yet to meet her match. So, you don’t have to rub it in.

2. You should just get a kid

First, not everyone wants kids. Secondly, maybe she has been trying to get a kid because she also knows that the clock is ticking but the efforts haven’t born any fruits, yet.

3. All your agemates are married

Really? This is the last thing you should tell a single girl in her 30s. She knows that her agemates are married but she can’t just marry a random guy because she wants to be like her peers.

4. It’s time you find yourself a man

Well, maybe it’s not yet time for her. You don’t know what her priorities are. Just let her be.


5. What are you still waiting for?

People wait for many things. She could be waiting to be financially stable or she could be waiting for a Mr Right. Because sometimes it’s not always easy to land on a man who matches your standards.

6. I know of a good guy who is still single

Unless she has requested to be set up with a guy, don’t try to hook her up with your male friends.

7. People will be thinking you are your kids’ granny

This is just mean.

8. You should join tinder, there are good guys there

By the time she is 30, she undoubtedly tried or considered trying online dating but for some reasons, she chose another route.

9. How are you still single?

People will be like, ‘you are so beautiful, how come you are still single?’ But beauty is not all that matters

10. Maybe you are just too picky

No, it’s not about being picky. Sometimes Mr Luck is not on your side and you end up kissing a little more too many frogs.

Source: https://tigblog.com.ng/2020/04/26/10-things-single-ladies-in-their-30s-are-tired-of-hearing/

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Veefierce:
Wise woman .

Lol Thanks

see the way I rush enter this thread !! Aproko no go kill me !! Hahahaha

What will this do ?

Mstick:
Did you visit a health center or a hospital?

yeah I did . If u take those injection , u may get irregular periods , or low flow or no flow !! Daily pills regulate ur period. And if u miss it one or two days u can still get pregnant, injections r more harsher to the body.

emmaodet:
The modern woman is not realistic and heartless in her demands. Reason been that ladies are not forced to contribute to what they want.
If ladies know that they will have to shell out 50% of the money required to fill tgeir insatiable demands, they will become Reasonable instantly. From phine type to wedding cost to apartment cost to car ttpe to school the children will go. If they will contribute immensely, they will become reasonable.
Before i wedded 8 years ago, told my wife, in-laws and my parent to do a low key marriage since we are just starting our lives but Nooooo, everyone wanted elaborate wedding, talk of the town wedding.
Most acquiesced me of been stingy and doing baba ijebu, akagon.
Okay now, spent 1.2m on marriage. After marriage hunger set in, my wife and i come dey drink garri dey sleep for on top mattress for ground.
I don't know if we had done a quiet parlour marriage or 50 people marriage with about 400k and saved the 800k for starting our lives, furnishing the apartment and atleast setting her up since she was jobless but Noooooo.
Marriage is one time event in your life, it won't happen again so you need to spend even taking a loan from cooperative is okay.
Very wrong mindset.
I vowed never to do such stupid thing in my life again.
Spits*

Lol r u planing to get married again

emmaodet:
At the bolded - unfortunately, massive campaign for men employment will mean unemployment or not empowering women which will kill off the efforts of Women empowerment programs.
Life is not always blue and black, it's not always the way we see it.
The more you look, the less you see.
And most women will fight tooth and nail to keep their jobs and be empowered than see the men take it from them.
Let me shock you again with another statement -
Most ladies will rather keep their jobs and be single career women than allow men to take over the jobs and come under them as wives.
Lobatan

seconded !!

Ibraimgram:
Any body that’s interested in hooking up with just friendship with sexual benefit around Oyo town should drop his or her number in this thread
Preferably female there’s cash involved for females though

in this coro period ?? Ahhh so u no value ur life?

Mstick:
Why don't you go to a health center and get placed on injectable birth control? It better and in my opinion safer.

nah , daily pills r way better , from professional advice

ogorchimeizie:
How come there was no slap some where in that conversation

lol if I would hv said another word , that was the next thing she would hv done for sure

Youngpo413:
Ladies and skin to skin are like....please someone should borrow me that picture.

everything worth doing , is worth doing well

Dande55:
How does it work. Do you take it everyday?

yeah I do .

Tozic:
I asked because no Nigerian lady would want to come close to her mom with daily pills.

she actually saw it by mistake , she wanted to take my hand bag out and I forgot I left the pack in there . Won’t happen again4 sure

Ishilove:
You should also go for hormonal essaying. It will also help you to know if there are other issues you should address.

I am fine babe . Am not the only one taking pills , when there need for concern , trust me I would take care of myself .

Ishilove:
Hormonal imbalance is a nightmare, sis. Seriously. Kai. Are you going to stay on the pills indefinitely? I though initial treatment is 6months?

What are the names of the harsher pills you mentioned?

potinor 2 n the others, it’s not up to 6 months I hv been taking them tho , and I stop this month cause I know I would be at home thru out . I will stop times I know I won’t hv any interaction with any man .

Tozic:
Are you an American?

nah I am not , u know that