muyinet:


Wrong Wrong Wrong!

Marriage, like every other institution, is a place of learning and in learning, your patient, endurance, emotions and general character are put to test.
It's in your place, either as a man or a woman in marriage to make it work.
Marriage is not all about enjoyment alone, you must be prepared to make sacrifices and be willing to join hands in building the marriage so that you can enjoy.
The very reason why today's marriage don't last anymore is for this wrong teaching that the woman should abscond from a marriage once she's no longer enjoying. What are you turning this glorious institution to for God's sake!
and when she leaves a marriage during trials, she goes into another and she'd continue to leave and go into another because for a certain, each and every marriage will pass trough it's own test and trying period.
If a woman thinks the best way to handle trials in marriage is walking away, such a woman is best to remain single and umarried, Another name for marriage is a union of 2 people who are willing to make sacrifice for the success of the home.

Na so
Believe it or not, Nigeria marriage favours only the man!
Every time, they will tell the wife to endure and pray, after suffering with him, and things turn around for good, the man will decide to take a second wife forgetting the person that stood and toiled with him
Life is too short to live in bitterness and suffering
Enjoy every second and minute of it!
I still believe every woman deserves happiness in marriage, if your man ain't pampering you the way he should, take a long walk my dear!!

eni4real:
Yinmu
Those that got married after their separation are celebrating 10 years + anniversary now!!!

Let's not forget those that died due to domestic violence, STD and emotional abuse

Congrats Maami

This is how it should be, never manage a man, if it is not working, take a walk!
Marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured!
Don't let a man feel he is doing you a favour!!
If your marriage is not making you glow as you should, dump the guy
I'm an advocate for happiness in marriage!!
Its never late for someone to find love again!!

Nooil:


You know I've been to Woji and Gra2 in Port Harcourt and no I didn't like it.

The only thing good about Enugu are probably their cheap houses. I heard two bedroom flat is 420 K at their poshest location (forgotten the name).

My guy stayed one year at Kwara to pursue his basketball dream and came back broke. I'll pass all three states. Thank you.

Kwara state is one of the cheapest state you will ever find, except he had nothing doing or the extravagant type...I know what I'm saying, I schooled there and been to the other 2 cities...people's taste differs sha

FrankLampard:



God will help us someday.

Amen

Nooil:


Like what other cities? I want to relocate.

It depends on what you are looking for..Enugu, kwara, Port Harcourt and so many others, I for one don't fancy Lagos and I can't live there

Why are they running?
Tomorrow now they will come out to condemn the party
We just keep recycling them...who are the PDP and APC members?
Same set of thief's under a different name!

Every time Lagos
Last I check, Lagos is not the only city! In fact, there are better city than Lagos...why are people rushing to Lagos? Is their destined tied to Lagos??

You no pay bride price, give person child belle 5 times and still had the gut to cheat
Where I come from, just count yourself as someone wey no get child because the children ain't yours!!
I seriously don't have any advice for you, if you ain't ready to treat her right and paying her dowry, then let her go to the person that values her!!

Coz of the society we live in....A man will cheat and the only thing people will tell the wife is to pray!! Pray for what? Or maybe she is not doing sth right, some idiot will even go as far as telling her to dress sexy, pamper the man and start giving him scissors style

A cheat is always a cheat that's why it is good to have sth doing, or marry well sef because its an insult to you as a woman to marry a poor man and be managing garri with him while he goes out to eat Fried rice/chicken and spend lavishly on someone else!!

Funny enough, most men think they are the only one that knows how to cheat not knowing that women are good at hiding things!!!

drmikeadams:




Man::baby what do u want?I will be visiting naija on 8th.
Woman:can u get me some clothes for d kids?
Man:okay let me know the sizes

Man:by the way how is ur hubby?
Woman:mtcww,that one,,leave that useless man





U get d picture now?

Ehya, you did not tell us this is how your wife has been treating you
Sha use condom anytime you want to have sex with her, senseless fellow

Why will she go and meet her supposed friend for clothes? Is it that you don't satisfy her needs?
Is she a stay at home mom?
For the sake of her sister, I will suggest you take her home before she pours her anger on her and if you're the one sponsoring her education, you can do it from afar.
Caution her seriously, let her know the children comes first. Just try and forgive her, problems are bound to happen in any marriage, how we react to it is what matters.
Next time, she provokes you, just walk out if you can't control your anger. Raising your hand on a woman is a no no for me!

Na wetin fit all these cheating men!
God don catch am!

MODIFIED: Cheaters Association, please stop quoting me

Did the boy fill the bio data form?
There should be a register that has his parent information including where they stay, I really appreciate your effort towards the boy, you can trace the address to make sure the boy is safe, some people can be heartless even to their own child.

Graxie:
You truly need attention. You tried belittling the man's pain and you want to spin it around. I thought you claimed I wanted to marry the man. How come you are trying to give fake advice? I am married with kids and can never leave my kids with strangers. You are hanging on how he spoke to his wife, were you there? Keep your advice to yourself. You should learn and teach yourself and household before lecturing others. You are the bitter one here, you are judging this man because you are seeing him like your problem.

I judged him based on his post, I don't have to be told to know he is disrespectful to his wife
A man that can't handle his home, comes to the public to cry is not fit to be married
Learn to call a spade a spade...it wouldn't hurt to be sincere for once ..one thing I will never do is exchange words with a kid, you can go with the 5mins fame!!
You have been noticed kid!

Graxie:
Useless idiot, I have been married for over ten years. Foolish thing, you think parenting is ashawo work. Fool

You sound too uncultured for a mother
And as a wife, does you husband humiliate you in front of your kids? Did you even calm down to read my comment before spewing trash?
Does your husband berate you in front of your children constantly?
When couples are quarreling, is that the best advice to give them?
You can say whatever you like but you and I know that you are single....As a lady learn to be cultured in your response!!!
I may be sarcastic but I don't showcase unruly attitude here!
And if you're truly a mother, biko mind the way you talk in front of your children... They pick up traits easily!!

Belafonte:


You are one of the most irritating nuisances on this forum. You really don’t have to make a comment of every topic. You are not married. You have no children. You have nothing valuable to add. Shut the f*ck up. Read and pass, you won’t die

I am not the cause of your depression
Try not to take sniper!

Graxie:
You are very stupid for making this post, do you have kids? You claim to be a woman and you are not seeing or reading how children are being expose to rapists and pedophile. What brand of stupidity is this?

Pele o wife material 1000yards
Your use of words shows how uncultured and ill mannered you are!
Why not be plain enough to tell the Op to divorce his wife and marry you since you obviously know it more than the wife?
I choose not to trade words with kids online!

buknija:


You jyst chatted the greatest shit of your lifetime, why are sexist so extremely insensitive like this? My daughter did the right thing by reporting that they were left with a stranger, if the kids were kidnapped, would this ur stupid statement you made come off ur head? Hell no. I work my ass out to make sure everything is fine, i take care of the kids too, we have an housemaid, she rarely does much for the kids, so hush up if you dont know more about whats going on around here. Says am nagging over insecurity of my children, i doubt ur married, even if u are, u must be barren.

Your reply just described the kind of man you're
I pity the poor woman that got married to you, bringing your problem here, shows you're not fit to be a man!!
Your last comment is quite insensitive to any TTC woman, unfortunately for you, I'm not so I guess you will kill yourself

I hate nagging husband
You think it's easy caring for kids and the home while one person sits in one place giving orders?
You are just being paranoid!
I bet if you should switch role in a day, you will collapse!
Lastly, mind the way you talk to your wife in front of your children. For your daughter to report the mum to you for chastisement is outrightly disrespectful and means she can't trust the mother to take care of them. Don't encourage her! Immediately she brought the tale to you, the least you could have done is to tell her, mummy has her reasons and not to bother then you can correct your wife in your bedroom without the children hearing!!

It's none of your business!
They are adult and know what they want!
Besides, having sex does not connote one is in love with someone. You can have amazing sex with a guy and have zero feelings for him!

Joy is one of the fruit of the spirit.
God wants us to be happy always!
An unhappy Christian is an Unfulfilled Christian!
We seek our happiness from God and in serving him.

Is it the side chicks fault or the man
What happened to the usual stabbing her mates have adopted?

White will be appropriate that is if you ain't married and with kids...you can't obviously ask you children not to enter your room

Hope you did not touch her bumbum?
Who knows if you even did sth stupid and trying to find out if she told mummy and daddy and when she refused to open up to you, your conscience told you to run to NL
Why will you send the older ones and left only her with you?
I just hope you are not doing anything stupid with those kids
Hunkle Agbaya that can't play with his agemates

So sad!!
I wonder why guys can't use condom

She is the best for you but are you the best for her?
If you truly love her as you have stated then you should let her go, don't let her suffer in marriage.

Marriage is not all about love, as a matter of fact, love is not needed, it fades but bills will never fade, you need to let her go now that there are chances of her having a better future and stop being selfish!!!
If you can't offer her the luxury that comes with marriage then you need to let her go and stop blocking her way!!

If I may ask, what happened to the girl you were dating before service?

A man that don't know how to keep quiet and not nag ends up being a wife beater, ordinary dating and you are already causing the babe heartache work on yourself Mr.

Men and their entitlement
So, because you helped her a few times, you expect her to totally hand over her money to you when you guys ain't even married??

I know I don't have a forgiving heart and that has been my major weakness
I don't forgive easily and I must revenge for any wrong before my heart is at peace

Are you particular about what people will say or what you want?
If you have passion for it, then go for it.
That you did Education, does not mean you will end up as a teacher, there are so many things you can do with it....just know what you want

By the way, hope you're physically fit coz them dey always exercise and which school are you considering?

Who did we offend in this country??
God have mercy!!
This ember month is something else.