Marriage wahala

Shouldn't have left home at a young age,Sometimes, I feel like a stranger in my family, the bond ain't there

Give it a week, if it doesn't show, you can test it again...be sure it's not infection

Church wedding is always the lady's church and not the man, if after wedding, you can decide to worship there or continue in your place of worship, the family can't do much then coz you guys are legally married.
Have a talk with your wife to be, you can honour her parents wish but you guys should decide on the church to be going to avoid issh

I would advise you go there first and survey the area. That way, you can determine what business to go into

I will suggest Canada or Uk

Congrats to you guys
Nairaland is the last place you should bring your relationship to....you guys owe no one an explanation and I seriously don't get why you have to reply every trolling comment
Kids everywhere.

I thought we left this tonto story in 2018?
Most guys are Bi same with ladies..
Any guy that loves anal sex is gay
A guy that wants a party with his male friend and a lady is gay! What happened to 2 ladies and him?
While I understand why a lady may be a led or bi, I can't seem to fathom why a guy will prefer his fellow guy's anus!
Anyway I suggest the government legalize only Lesbianism!!

I'm guessing the dude is a nairalander
He probably saw sth else from the pictures she has been sending and decided to Japa

BTW: how you go visit somewhere you don't know without a plan B?
What happened to collecting t.fare before traveling?

So sorry bro
I want to believe she has gone to rest, I know its not easy losing a love one but I pray God be with you all and grant her eternal rest
Eyin mama o da

Question is can you afford it?
If you have the money, nothing should stop you from giving your child the absolute best!!

See as grass just dey grow for this one's brain
It's obvious you are seeking for attention!!
Kid's everywhere!!

Kennedyiheme02:
First off.. pete edochie said this first.. its very wromg for a man to kneel and ask a womans hands in marriage, cos check the advantages women get in marriages compared to men.. I'm providing, I'm saving you from lonliness and menopause, you shouldbe thanking me for that . why on earth should a man eho stands as authority degrade himself to that level of degradation.. our culture never asked us to do this.. all we did was copy white people..

What do you think

My parents
I will pick them over anybody!!

Don't let your parent relationship dictate for you, you can still have an amazing relationship despite what you might have seen around you!
Congrats on you keeping your virginity!!
Sex is over rated, irrespective of what people might say, Formication is a great sin, those that had it before marriage all wished otherwise!
It's OK to be in a relationship and not have sex, once you get intimate, the feelings starts going and you may find out you don't even like her anymore.
Trust your partner, be open to her, tell her your fears, once you start doubting and comparing her,you start analysing every of her actions and that's where problem sets in.

I'm glad she has a second option
6yrs and you can't do the right and proper thing!!
You are single until you say I do!!
From your writeup, you sound like a boy that is yet to figure out his purpose!!
Stay away from her phone in order not kill yourself!

PS: I wonder why some of these NL alpha male are changing their gender to Female Does it mean that they are secretly in love with the gender they hate so much?

Broke men and their entitlement
Just 5weeks and you are already asking taxing her!!!
May I not jam your type!
Gold digging, broke, selfish and lazy men everywhere!!
I will never take a man that ask a lady for money serious
Tomorrow, they will be screaming head of the house
Your shame just dey shame me

Anything to degrade Christianity
Nothing you people do can shake my faith
My God can't be mocked!!!
I wonder if this was a mosque if the mods will leave the post?

Bbbwings:

We want practical
Not these theories we are seeing upanddan

You can meet the OP for practical

Pray for her, maybe there is sth you are not doing right.
Go on your knees and ask God to bring your wife back to you

Take combo
Soak ginger, garlic, clove,tumeric inside water for 3days, after that start taking it, it cures a lot of things...Do away with beer or drinks, go on strictly fruits and vegetables,cut your sugar intake, if you masturbate, stop it for now, too much excitement can also cause it, engage in pre-intimacy, relax, discuss with your partner, it's OK if you don't last first round...Nothing is wrong with you, lastly how old are you?

Why cheat on a woman you pledge to love for eternity?
It's ok for a man to cheat but once a woman does the same, she is sent back to her father's house?
God forbid if you should leave your husband as a woman or even complain to people, God forbid you should introduce yourself as a divorced woman or a single mum, your fellow woman judges you, your family view you as a failure, your church members sees you as someone that is spiritually weak, your neighbor sees what the man shows them and not the beast he is to his family...all you get is pray pray pray, he will change, go down on your kneels, nothing prayer can't solve
And then, the woman goes home bitter, no one to talk to or even confide in, she takes it all in, frustrated, unappreciated, tired, unloved, unsexed, bittered, worst of it all the society expects her to smile, take it all in because you are a woman!!
Then the man gallivants around, strutting like a peacock, grooming a bitter and unappreciated woman, what do you all think will happen when she can't take it again? Of course she will strike back in any way and anyhow she knows how to...until we change our mentality about a woman, until we start giving our wife's audience, a listening ear, a helping hand, being appreciative, and kind to them because we are all equal, no one has the monopoly to cheat in marriage while the other endures, until then...

May God not put us in a situation where we have to choose one of the above
Something's are better left unsaid!!
Don't tempt the gods

For better for stay for worse...
One thing people fail to realise is that marriage is not a do and die affair and not everyone can withstand poverty and suffering!!
It's better how she left, at least you can focus more on how to stand on your feet very well then you can go and beg her to come back to your house!!
On no account should you send for your kids!!
Don't let those innocent kids suffer with you, they deserve so much more!!
I'm glad how your wife decided to put her happiness first
Oga go out there and make money like how a man should and stop crying like a sissy!!

There is nothing wrong in being single!
Don't let the society pressure you!
There is no latecomer in marriage!
It's better to be single than to be with all these sissy that are everywhere on nairaland!
You achieve more of your dreams single than married!
Most married women are suffering and enduring in their marriage, their only solace is their children!
It's better to be happy and single than to be in a miserable relationship!
If your man ain't treating and pampering you, sis take a walk!
Know your worth! Learn to value yourself!!
Don't let a man to treat you as a second option!!
You are a queen to be worshipped at all times!!
You deserve a king that knows what he has and not some silly broke ass fool!!!

Loud it mama

Your main guy will want you to look good for him, wear designers and wouldn't want to drop real cash!!
Most married men finds solace in the arms of their side chick, they are 100% what they can't find at home!!
As long as we all know our role, I'm not against it!
If your happiness is with a married man, I see no reason you shouldn't pursue it

There is nothing wrong in being single!
Don't let the society pressure you!
There is no latecomer in marriage!
It's better to be single than to be with all these sissy that are everywhere on nairaland!
You achieve more of your dreams single than married!
Most married women are suffering and enduring in their marriage, their only solace is their children!
It's better to be happy and single than to be in a miserable relationship!
If your man ain't treating and pampering you, sis take a walk!
Know your worth! Learn to value yourself!!
Don't let a man to treat you as a second option!!
You are a queen to be worshipped at all times!!
You deserve a king that knows what he has and not some silly broke ass fool!!!

I sure hope he is treating her well!
'Nairaland Alpha Male' is boldly written on him!

I only see a beautiful woman that is not shy about her own body!
We've got to appreciate our body coz you don't expect a guy to worship your body if you ain't even comfortable with your own skin!
I applaud your boldness ma'am!!
Most ladies/ women would want to do sth similar but are scared of the society!
Celebrate yourself coz no one will!!!

Loud it mama

Your main guy will want you to look good for him, wear designers and wouldn't want to drop real cash!!
Most married men finds solace in the arms of their side chick, they are 100% what they can't find at home!!
As long as we all know our role, I'm not against it!
If your happiness is with a married man, I see no reason you shouldn't pursue it

Greatdre:
God bless you bro...Nigerians can be so judgmental. If only they know how married men suffers to get good sex from their wives, they wouldn’t blame this man for sleeping with a prostitute. Nigerian ladies and women have sex for a purpose, either for money, procreation or to lure a man to marriage. After marriage and delivery of a kid, they become uninterested in sex. The reason is because majority of them have been circumcised at their early age. Most married men are not happy sexually with their marriage

Taa mechie onu gi there
It's very obvious when kids talk...its clear you are a product of second marriage, imagine the trash a boy that is trying to sound woke is vomiting
Imagine the society we live in??
When a full grown man cheats, his wife is to be blamed!!
I pity ladies that turn to a man's slave just to please him!!