₦airaland Forum

Nofuckgiven:
The same way your mother expired abi? Continue na yourself you dey do sha. Even your sisters and daughters are already expired products. My female relatives are not products sorry! At least we understand you have them in your family. You are an educated illiterate. Your school fees was a waste!

Kindly ignore the kiddults quoting you up & down to yarn trash.
All forming macho online, but in reality, na dem be worse asswipes to the female folk.

Greenbullet:
Good evening nairalanders and sorry for not giving you any updates and I cannot show you any pictures for privacy reasons and also appeal from friends and family,but I can vividly tell you what transpired between my mother and elder brothers wife, it is so sad that a mother can no longer be comfortable in her sons house, my mother who is a widow (forgot to mention) , has only stayed with my elder brother for three weeks which was marred by maltreatment, the wife was said to have engaged my mother in insults frequently between this period for any slight doing, I was also told she was abused in the form of songs, my mother was said to have confronted her on what she had done to her to deserve such disrespectful behaviour and my elder brothers wife said ,my mother presence is inconveniencing her and some of her family members who leave with my elder brother, my mother told her that she is in her sons house and cannot be thrown out by anyone, this statement was said to infuriate my brothers wife who pounced on my mother and injured her severely, my elder brother claimed he tried to restrain her but she was too strong ( CAN YOU IMAGINE!!!), I took my junior sister along with me to my brothers house and made sure my sister beat the hell out of her because if I did, I would have killed her, I arrested her (the wife), but my elder brother begged the D .P. O who called me and advised us to settle it amicably, the stupid beast was released, and HAS STILL NOT VISITED MY MOTHER TO SEE HER HEALTH OR EVEN APOLOGIZE FOR WHAT SHE DID WHICH SHOWS SHE SHOWS NO REMORSE AND WE HAVE HEREBY EXCOMMUNICATED HER AND MY ELDER BROTHER FROM OUR FAMILY.

Hmm, lol.

*Well with regards to another issue:-
I wonder why nairaland guys are always so quick to wholly believe any story narrated by any male against a female, without questioning the genuineness of the story. Whereas if a female post same kind of story, so much doubt will be expressed by the guys on this forum using common phrases such as "I won't comment until I hear from the other party/person"; "Picture or..."; "There can't be smoke without fire" e.t.c.

It seems ladies done do una strong thing abi?

Just treat her the same way you'd want her to treat you. Datsall!

Unfortunately so many irresponsible niggers roaming loose in naija presently.

Failure of marriages has more to do with the character & lifestyle of the parties involved, rather than the financial status of each Individual.

Therefore in my humble opinion, any man that feels threatened by financially successful career women is simply suffering from inferiority complex disorder.

olu77:
Some women will just hire a pretty, sexy, full breasted housemaid that has all the quality that they themselves lack. Well, they are called house helps and they help their madams all round

This is my judgement: the wife should look for another husband while the teenager occupy the other room.

Oh, so this is all you can say about a cheat & a paedophile simply because the perpetrator is a man right

What do I expect from a typical 'Yoruba' man

Papiikush:
I hate being tribalism but you make it seem like Ibos are professionals in kidnapping and brutality.

Inyamirai v. Yarbawa
Not my bizness...

ESDKING:
" If Igbos leave, the economy of SW will collapse"
Kemi: 2017.

In other words, she's desperately begging for unity because, she knows what will befall them after Igbos must have gone.
Afonjas are terrible.

........

Henrypraise:
our Nigerian hospitals are worse dan dis abattoir...

Wow, kinda funny but true. That is why our Presido prefers British healthcare to Nigeria's healthcare.

arena07:
truth is bitter

.

What truth? That the government has not failed to lead by example or what exactly??

We can refuse to comply with their fake policy of 'growing naija' all we want, but the reality remains that our so-called leaders are being very insincere to Nigerians.

arena07:
The government did not mandate it for citizens to school in Nigerian just work hard and find your way out of the country if u want foreign education

Smh

Wow, these Fulani herdsmen are a lot of negatives put together!!

They are kidnappers, terrorists, armed robbers & even rapists. Nawaoo

CROWNWEALTH019:
The All Progressives Congress (APC) has said that it is only the London doctors attending to President Muhammadu Buhari’s health will decide when the President will come back to Nigeria. The party also said that President Buhari is recovering fast from his illness contrary to allegations that he is on life support.

The National Chairman of the party, Chief John Odigie-Oyegun, gave the assurance in Abuja while speaking with newsmen at the end of a meeting between the party`s National Working Committee (NWC) and state governors elected on the party’s platform.


“We are glad to inform you that President Muhammadu Buhari is recovering in a very robust manner.

“We hope he takes it easy and when he comes back, I have no doubt at all that we will have a new and active period of activities.’’

He, however, said only the president’s doctors abroad could decide when he would be fit to return to the country.


Gov. Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti State had recently alleged that President Buhari was on life-support in a London Hospital where he is receiving medical attention.

The national chairman, however, refused to respond to the governor’s comment, saying he would do that at an appropriate time.

“If I respond, I will be dignifying him.

“At the appropriate time, people will answer him; at the appropriate level; at the appropriate time.

“He is in a different world altogether.’’

According to him, the party’s leadership has confidence in President Buhari.

He added that the meeting x-rayed the nation, ongoing agitation for its restructuring and inciting statements emanating from different parts of the country.

Odigie-Oyegun stressed that such inciting statements are not good “for the nation`s health and have to be stopped’’.

According to him, the party maintains its earlier position on the restructuring of the country as clearly stated in its manifesto.
He further said the party’s leadership would do all it could at all times to ensure that the unity of the country was preserved.

He added that the APC leadership was ready to listen to whatever grievances any group in the country might have.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/06/buharis-london-doctors-can-decide-hell-come-back-apc/amp/

Baba being treated by 'infidel' doctors; Issorait..

It seems the supposed 'infidels' are most reliable afterall!

arena07:
nobody force u to school in Nigerian if you have ur money you can school anywhere in the world..

Really?

So why is the government deceiving Nigerians to patronise made-in-nigeria goods & services/businesses then

Clearly, they do not practice what they keep preaching.

PrettyCrystal:
Congratulations are in order for Bidemi, the 20-year-old son of Senator Babafemi Ojudu who recently graduated with First Class Honors in Account and Finance from Durham University UK. The University is A world top 100 University and coming out in First Class puts Bidemi in the group of the best scholars.

The distinguished senator is currently the Special Adviser to president Muhammed Buhari on Politics and a gubernatorial candidate for Ekiti State. Congratulations to the young chap.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/06/senator-babafemi-ojudus-son-bidemi-graduates-from-uk-university.html

Congrats to him.

NwaAmaikpe:


Charms are like gold in one section of Nigeria

Everyone has them or everyone wants to have them.

Hmm, funny but true... tir!!!

luveth:
The former Minister, who took to his twitter handle wrote:
@elrufai says that those calling for restructuring are "opportunists". If he had been 6 inches taller I would have replied him.

https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/880465060946206721

Hahahaha... Perfect description!

henryanna36:
The leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu travelled back to the land of Biafra origin,the Biafrans ancient home, where we all Biafrans are believed to have originated and prayed to the gods of their forefathers: the real OBU GAD in Umume, Umueri in Anambra state.

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/06/nnamdi-kanu-on-his-kneels-praying-to.html

Eyaah, I don't blame the Igbos for their agitation gaskiya.

iluvpomo:
Let me try and educate you in simple sentences.
Christians follow the New Testament as the as the sole guide for faith theology. The New Testament already quotes relevant sections of the Old Testament for required theology e.g. 10 commandments etc - this is referenced in numerous verses all over the New Testament.
The rule of marriage is very clear in the New Testament, it is between one man and one woman. If you want to have multiple sèxual partners sanctioned then stick to islam, Christianity is clear about it being monogamous.
Quoting Old Scriptures alone is erroneous if the New Testament has already ruled on that particular faith/practice issue.
Is this clear to you now?
Hope you finally get it or are you trolling?

Kindly ignore these pathetic lowlife Islamists attacking you bro. I wonder why they are obsessed with whether or not the Holy Bible (of which they even do not believe in) permits polygamy.

Its obvious they are desperately searching for something to justify their prophet muhammad paedophilic & amorous lifestyle; shikenan!

Unfortunately, the fulanis have succeeded in drawing bad blood towards themselves from most Nigerian tribes across the country.

Government needs to do something urgent about the division among Nigerians.

Naija, which way

R.I.P to the dead.

His inestimable love for his family.
Happy Fathers Day in arrears dad!!

gist212:
https://i0.wp.com/www.primebazemedia.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/Berger-Paints-allegedly-sacks-all-staff-1.jpg

All staff of Berger Paints have been dismissed. Information has it that, The staffs are said to have been on strike for the past 2 weeks because of the new living wage implemented by the company.

The new wage stops gratuity payment and adds the money to staff’s monthly salary, so that upon retirement, you get no gratuity. The new policy was said to have been implemented in 2015, which was used to create an impression of Salary increment.

Reports also has it that the management didn’t consult the staff on the matter before its implementation.

The staffs got to know about the policy recently this 2017, and then proceeded with the strike.

They have now been sacked and told to reapply if they are still interested in working for the company.

Source: http://www.primebazemedia.com/national/berger-paints-allegedly-sacks-staff/

Sai APC! Chanji dole!!!

chuksanambra:
Shoutout to the gullible ladies who are gonna take marital advice from the OP.

I hope y'all aware that the OP is a forty something year old single male unable to hold down a steady relationship and with a misogynistic outlook to life.

Don't let someone who isn't responsible enough to control one woman come and control your marriage. That would be the height of foolishness.

The BEST comment on this stupi.d thread really! Thumbs up!

snowlord:
Oga Lala,i no wan c dz tin 4 fp oo,evans stowi don tire me.

ps: can i get a snake up in here,gudmorn ppl

Abi ooo.
These Evans stories done too much abeg, mtcheww

Let the law just take its course on him, datsall!!!

Mallam ya ce "haka allah ya so"

APCheat at it again. So Nigerians voted for Buhari so that he gets the best of life's basic amenities while the citizens enjoy the worst of same right

Firgemachar:
The OP is really trying hard to tarnish Osinbajo's image.

Ag President Osinbajo is the reason for this thread.

Quite pathetic!

The OP, just like his almajiri brothers, are hell-bent in tarnishing the reputation of the Acting President so as to totally discredit him from ever having a chance to take over the mantle of leadership from their 'allah buhari'.

Well, he and his cohorts need to try harder because we ain't that shallow to get swayed by their usual propaganda.

Until we are presented with valid evidence to support the story/allegation, everything in the report is false.

Emerald557:
My marriage is 3years as we speak with 2 kids(a boy and a girl). I took in for my daughter when my son was 1 year 3 months old. Now when I told my hubby I was pregnant, there is nothing he did not say or do to me, he said that he has people looking up to him and I am bringing extra burden on him. ((This is a man that agreed with me that we will have 3 kids God willing)) throughout my pregnancy he tormented me to the point that he wanted me dead with the pregnancy or that I miscarried the pregnancy or that I die with the pregnancy.He told people that I always disturbed him for s*x and that I planned the pregnancy. I fought to stay alive for my son. He beat me twice with the pregnancy on one occasion he blinded me in an eye from a punch from him for one week I didn't go to work, my job was astake. I kept praying and hoping I sailed through this pregnancy. On another occasion I needed to go out to my school's graduation with my son considering that i was heavy and am going with my son who is less than 2 years old, so i needed to go with the car (we both contributed money to buy(the family's car)) and we had both talked about my going with the car for my graduation the previous day, only for him to take the car keys and zoomed off to the car when I was ready with my son to go out. I tried to remind him about what we agreed on, he said and I quote "if you don't get out of there, I will jam you with the car", I was perplexed, still looking at him, he entered the car drove it and hit me with the car. Came out, slapped me and went back into the car and he said that he will kill me and marry another woman. It then dawned on me that he wants me dead. I had to start threading with caution knowing that am alone in this world, with my son and with pregnancy. I became more prayerful and I paid alot of sacrifices to stay alive. Sacrifices in the sense that I never demand for money from him as that will infuriate him to pounce on me. From the start of the pregnancy to baby items, hospital list, hospital bills after delivery till date I never asked him for money and he never used his mind to help out with money. I promised myself never to ask him for money again, I spend my money when am in need and I don't have money, I borrow. In the midst of this saga, he was always having s*x with me whenever he wants to, which mouth will I use to say no. And most of the time, he gets rough really rough during s*x so as to make me miscarry. Prior to this pregnancy I never refuse him s*x, even when I am too tired. When I am sick, he wants s*x, I tell him I can't because I am not well, he will force me. We can quarrel throughout the day and not talk to each other, but at night he must have "his" s*x. I tell him am not safe, he will tell me he will withdraw until I got pregnant for my daughter. Now I have put to bed. My son is 2yrs 4months and my daughter is 5months. I pay my bills and my kids bills and now he wants more sex. I can't do family planning for personal reasons. I plead with him to use condom, he says he won't that he does not like it. He uses withdrawal method which we both know doesn't work, and then I refuse him sometimes but still he over powers me and gets his s*x. I fear I will get pregnant again. Now he is threatening, raining fire and brimstone over s*x. That he will bring in a woman who will drive me out of the house. Please I need your candid advice on what to do. I am going crazy

And tomorrow, if these kids he has stylishly abandoned refuse to have any dealings with him when they become independent adults; the same him will start wailing that the mom has poisoned the minds of the children against him.

Madam, I really don't know what better advise to give you. Thank God you even have job to sustain yourself & cater for the kids.

Emerald557:
My marriage is 3years as we speak with 2 kids(a boy and a girl). I took in for my daughter when my son was 1 year 3 months old. Now when I told my hubby I was pregnant, there is nothing he did not say or do to me, he said that he has people looking up to him and I am bringing extra burden on him. ((This is a man that agreed with me that we will have 3 kids God willing)) throughout my pregnancy he tormented me to the point that he wanted me dead with the pregnancy or that I miscarried the pregnancy or that I die with the pregnancy.He told people that I always disturbed him for s*x and that I planned the pregnancy. I fought to stay alive for my son. He beat me twice with the pregnancy on one occasion he blinded me in an eye from a punch from him for one week I didn't go to work, my job was astake. I kept praying and hoping I sailed through this pregnancy. On another occasion I needed to go out to my school's graduation with my son considering that i was heavy and am going with my son who is less than 2 years old, so i needed to go with the car (we both contributed money to buy(the family's car)) and we had both talked about my going with the car for my graduation the previous day, only for him to take the car keys and zoomed off to the car when I was ready with my son to go out. I tried to remind him about what we agreed on, he said and I quote "if you don't get out of there, I will jam you with the car", I was perplexed, still looking at him, he entered the car drove it and hit me with the car. Came out, slapped me and went back into the car and he said that he will kill me and marry another woman. It then dawned on me that he wants me dead. I had to start threading with caution knowing that am alone in this world, with my son and with pregnancy. I became more prayerful and I paid alot of sacrifices to stay alive. Sacrifices in the sense that I never demand for money from him as that will infuriate him to pounce on me. From the start of the pregnancy to baby items, hospital list, hospital bills after delivery till date I never asked him for money and he never used his mind to help out with money. I promised myself never to ask him for money again, I spend my money when am in need and I don't have money, I borrow. In the midst of this saga, he was always having s*x with me whenever he wants to, which mouth will I use to say no. And most of the time, he gets rough really rough during s*x so as to make me miscarry. Prior to this pregnancy I never refuse him s*x, even when I am too tired. When I am sick, he wants s*x, I tell him I can't because I am not well, he will force me. We can quarrel throughout the day and not talk to each other, but at night he must have "his" s*x. I tell him am not safe, he will tell me he will withdraw until I got pregnant for my daughter. Now I have put to bed. My son is 2yrs 4months and my daughter is 5months. I pay my bills and my kids bills and now he wants more sex. I can't do family planning for personal reasons. I plead with him to use condom, he says he won't that he does not like it. He uses withdrawal method which we both know doesn't work, and then I refuse him sometimes but still he over powers me and gets his s*x. I fear I will get pregnant again. Now he is threatening, raining fire and brimstone over s*x. That he will bring in a woman who will drive me out of the house. Please I need your candid advice on what to do. I am going crazy

And tomorrow, if these kids he has stylishly abandoned refuse to have any dealings with him when they become independent adults; the same him will start wailing that the mom has poisoned the minds of the children against him.

Madam, I really don't know what better advise to give you. Thank God you even have a job to sustain yourself & cater for the kids.

obikirinoni:
Guys please read carefully


WHY FATHERS ARE NEGLECTED IN OLD AGE.
-ITS A MUST READ FOR ALL FATHERS! (and mothers too!)

Take ur time and read through.

1. In the lifetime of most Nigerian family settings, there are 3 Dispensations of Power.

2. The 1st is the first 25 years in the life of the family (father, mother, children) where power indisputably rest with the father.

3. The 2nd is after the kids have grown & started working when the power shifts to the mother.

4. The 3rd is when the kids move out of the family house or start their own families when the power moves to the children.

6. We'll start from the 1st Dispensation. Total dominance of the father. He is the Lion of the Tribe of his House. The boss.

7. During this dispensation, the father rules with an iron fist. He barks orders & determines what does or does not happen.

8. The father often mettes out corporal punishment to the recalcitrant children. They grow to fear him more than they love him.

10. The father is the provider for the family & everyone is aware of that fact with all attendant consequences.

11. Then the 2nd Dispensation sets in. The children have finished school and have started working. Power shifts to the mother.

12. When the children start earning their own money, for some reason, it's their mothers they decide to look after. They are closer to her.

13. While the father was in charge, he was busy with the business of providing. He didn't have much time to be a friend to the children.

14. They spent more time with their mum and invariably grew closer to her. They also see their mum as co-victims of the father's tyranny.

15. The mother takes centre stage at this point. She is the first to know what's happening with the children & she has advantage.

16. Should any of the daughters give birth, she is the one that goes for babysitting and the children spoil her with gifts.

17. At this stage, the father is wishing for some bond with the children like they have with their mother but that boat has sailed.

18. Because the mother doesn't rely much on the father for her needs at this stage, she is less likely to tolerate his lordship. Friction.

19. Then the 3rd and last dispensation. Power has shifted to the children. They are self-sufficient, live on their own & have own families.

20. More often than not, whenever there is a quarrel between father & mother, the children side the mother.Years of joint-victimhood at play

21. Children have been known to come to the house to warn their father not to 'disturb' their mother. Next thing, extended visitations.

22. Woe betide the father if his finances are precarious at this stage. You will be humble by force. The gang-up is real.

23. This causes most men to fall ill & develop different complications. By the time the forces are arrayed against you, you will think well.

24. Stroke, Hypertension, High-Blood Pressure. The man has a large family but no relationship with them in later life. Troubling thought.

25. Moral, dear men, while the power lies with us, let us wield it with posterity in mind. It won't be with us forever.

26. With the way you are treating your wife now, how will she treat you when power shifts to her?

27. What relationship do you have with your family? Loving dad or despotic, tyrannical provider?

28. Remember, the children always side with their mother. Aim to do enough to at least get a fair hearing in future moments of family strife

30. Invest wisely for the future so that you won't have to beg to be taken care of if despite your best efforts, you find yourself alone.

ADVISE TO CHILDREN:- IT IS NOT GOOD TO ABANDON YOUR FATHER WHO DENIED HIMSELF TO GET YOU PREPARED FOR LIFE & WHO SACRIFICIALLY SOWED TO MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE. HONOUR YOUR BOTH PARENTS AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM IN THEIR OLD AGE. THAT IS HOW YOU TOO WILL SOW INTO YOUR FUTURE. DONT LET NEGLECTING YOUR FATHER (PARENTS ) BE A CURSE ON YOU INTO YOUR FUTURE.

ADVISE TO MOTHERS :- DON'T INCITE YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THEIR FATHER.

*Parenthood is not easy despite its joys. There is no manual on how it works. May God help us

This is an insightful piece. Nice one OP.

hiidee:
Is it right for your wife or girlfriend to know everything about you

Lets discuss on this, why is it good or bad

Sure. But that is if true love & understanding exist between the couple.

Modified:
On second thought, I doubt if its even possible for spouses to know 'everything' about each other.

scarletkinq:
This wedding of a thing must it be crowded all da time why not something like family and friend not up to 100 persons

True. There's no need inviting so many people if one knows he has limited resources.

BTW, it is after the wedding that the marriage, which comes with much more responsibilities, begins.