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9niceguy:
If I hear anyone shout Afonja here.......

Admin401:
Nigeria, the land of hypocrisy.
i would have thought those guys that always shout "Igbo", "Afonja", "IPOD" or "Brown Roof Republic" would be here dishing out advice
but they are all one when it comes to cyber crimes and encourage each other.
how the hell are any of you different from those who push drugs in Asia? or those Armed robber on the street?
I tell you, there is no difference, the person you try to scam, although you might not see it, is a human being too with red blood flowing through their veins, you suck them of their hard earned money with whatever charm you use but come here to slam drug pusher.

Our Youths are certainly Dead.

Shortyy:
My fren wee u kip kwayet
Do you know what the dad did to warrant that girl to act that way? What if he has abandoned her and ignored her and all of a sudden wishes hbd on his tl without even tagging or calling her?? Wtf? What kind of a father does that? Well prolly a sperm donor.

bullabong:
whether @bullabong likes it or not, @limamintruth has exposed his hopeless hypocrisy as a foolish cheat, liar and pathetic atheist wannabe who can't even argue constructively without exhibiting how stu.pid he is
Surely in the name of OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST, that legendary hades awaits @bullabong and his entire miserable family

bullabong:
Valid proof that @bullabong is the sole hypocrite on this irritating thread of his;
A scum who falsely alleges that @limamintruth is a 'fornicator & cheat' has successfully shown that he, @bullabong, is the real fornicator & cheat in our midst thus:
https://www.nairaland.com/2094145/ladieswhats-ur-choice-man-cheats
See excerpts:- "What choice of Man cheat ladies would prefer?The chronic womanizer who will sleep even with a prostitute and never has any emotion towards them. Or the psychological womanizer who would make those ladies fond of him and would go to any length just to keep him. And guys,which category to u fall into? I (bullabong) am of the latter".

bullabong:
@bullabong the fool!! WHere you not told by your daddy the devil never to quote Scriptures you shamelessly do not believe in? Where you not told that Christians like @limaintruth are greater than your entire lineage put together Indeed, Hell fire awaits @bullabong & his co-satanic agents who are all a bunch of disgusting liars, fornicators, and unrepentant lost souls. Who cares what bullabong thinks, but believe it when we tell u that @Limamintruth is exceedingly better than the miserable @bullabong who keeps mast.urbating all over Christian matters. And the devil will keep bullabong a slave and a lowly scum. @bullabong will surely have a miserable life just like his pathetic dad.

bullabong:
Such hypocrites like @bullabong and werey Kemi deserve to die slowly yet painfully. The kind of death atheism guarantees bullabong on judgment day. I, Limamintruth assures everyone that @bullabong will be among those going to that lake of fire where his likes belong.

analice107:
Well, i think it's ignorance that will make a sister judge a brother by appearance and write him off.

Truth is, some sisters over do it. There's no way you can know a real man by just looking at him. Appearance is not the man.

Am not that stringent. Yes, i won't compromise, but am friendly. Am open to discussions, i can sit out in a descent place, a guy can visit me, i can serve him food if he cares for it. Just friendship. There's nothing wrong in being a friend.

God reveals things to me before they happen, especially when it has to do with any man around me. I know if i dare allow my emotions get too involved, i won't see. So, i keep clear.

analice107:
You haven't even approached yet, but you already know she's judgemental.

What i think is perception. Your own lifestyle may be judging you by the way you perceive the sister. You, from distance have observed her and has seen she's too good for you, godly speaking, so you just stand away and walk off thinking, she wont accept me. Maybe if you had approached you'd discovered differently.
Shakespeare says "There is no act to find a mind's construction in the face".

Approach first.

bullabong:
What will your so called saviour Christ expect the pastor to do? Persecute or bless? You lot are the confused ones who preach one thing and do another. Hypocrites describes you all.

bullabong:
Do you still believe those scary bible stories you were told in Kindergarten? Man, you really need to grow up by applying wisdom to you thinking.

davtosh:
Nairaland is a very good place to see display of ignorance by ppl who went to school to waste their parents hard earned money.

This guy can do the needful . File another case on behalf of Kemi for her release.

Ppl that wont take nonsense when ppl blackmail them suddenly will turn to angels preaching Mercy overnight on NL

bennyann:
The bolded is a very good point to be noted. But remember you used the word 'unintentionally'. Don't you think once the good girl feels connected to someone, and that someone genuinely loves her, he will stay and help her through the way she thinks?

There should be someone to help her out of what she's been fed with which won't help her eventually. At least in the whole wide world, there must be someone to stand by her and show her the way when others are running away from her.

And don't forget you've also judged her because you think or feel she's judged you.

And are you trying to say most good girls have serious issues compared to the other?

And I love your last statement. I concor with it

bullabong:
how many accusers did Jesus report to the scribes for slandering him? Instead Jesus kept praying for his accusers and wishing them well. Pls follow fake pastors/ motivational speakers with some sense.

analice107:
That is it my dear. But, we humans want to become what others have become without finding out if can withstand the pressure that comes with their assignment.

Our pastors are mostly to blame for this. Oh well, most of them have no idea of what we are saying here.

Success is not acquiring all the wealth in the world. Success is discovering your purpose on earth, pursuing it, and accomplishing it. This is what the Bible calls, ENTERING YOUR REST.

As long as we are wrongly positioned, we can never walk out of struggles. It's like a Seed planted in a wrong soil and in a wrong climate.

This is the reason many resort to seeking the aid of the supernatural, hence, inviting demons to help them out.

Anyone who remains in God's rest will not lack anything. His/her basic needs will be provided. All we need is daily bread anyways.

bullabong:
He is not the Nigerian constitution but who fueled the process of implementing the constitution?
Please you people should stop worshiping glorified mortal men like yourselves who can't even practice what they preach, its just so disgusting.

kingralph:
The question is what makes one a good girl or bad girl? Who is a good girl and who is a bad girl?

nsesam:
There is every possibility that the pregnancy is 60% urs, if she could keep her virginity till last year and allow you disvirgin her even with all her clubbing why would she open her legs now After engagement.
Don't forget there are Women that keep guys without sex , sometimes out of love and fear of losing the man the love can lie silly lies. If you truly love her go on your kneels and pray for God to show u sign if she's urs. You can't concluded because she went to club or deny who called her pls.

nsesam:
There is every possibility that the pregnancy is 60% urs, if she could keep her virginity till last year and allow you disvirgin her even with all her clubbing why would she open her legs now After engagement.
Don't forget there are Women that keep guys without sex , sometimes out of love and fear of losing the man the love can lie silly lies. If you truly love her go on your kneels and pray for God to show u sign if she's urs. You can't concluded because she went to club or deny who called her pls.

SWORD419:
fear south

neocortex:
Well, she is wrong in making up unfounded statistics to back up her point but some
set of men who accuses women of bringing nothing to the table will still be the one
to cry foul if the wife becomes wealthier.




Here you commit the same offence as the lady you quoted, how many Nigerian men do you know
to make such a baseless generalisation.



This trait is primarily a male one as you hardly find women who whine about not being in charge of
their home.



Please speak for yourself as you are not a standard of behaviour for all men.


You are right insecure and possessive men are found everywhere in the world.



You should have included the full reference here so that others can check. Mind you when a large segment
of women are working(60% are part of the workforce in the US), is it any surprise that those who are not
are less happier ?
It is called peer pressure and has nothing to do with gender but humans in general.



Since women wants control over everything as you claimed don't you think they should be ecstatic
that they make more money ?



It is normal for men who feel they are losing control of their home to feel unhappy.



Again context matters, please provide the full reference. But will you be surprised
that a full time housewife care more for her surroundings ?



Of course it is not, but that doesn't make it right either.



Of course her stat has no factual basis.



Sorry to burst your bubble you just picked out a statement that support your
position and excluding the context, here is a part of the forbes article I presume you
referenced:

So, if career women are bad marriage bets, so are career men.

And let me leave you with this rebuttal to your reference here:



At the bold, speak for yourself.



Again, you paint a picture of all richer women based on a subjective observation.

When wealth disparity is obvious, this behaviour may be exhibited by the family whether in a man or woman
as people generally tend to marry within their social group and those who don't may be resisted by their in-laws.
Then I ask if someone isn't welcome in a family , why try to prove himself when he can just walk away ?



The last time I checked women gets tagged as gold-diggers more often than men for obvious reasons.



An easy way to solve this problem is to marry an housewife and maybe get a written agreement
that she will never go into business so that your ego won't be bruised.



This is a false statement, control and dominance is the perogative of males,
some men can go to the extreme to exert control over their wife.
Are you aware that a third of women murders in the US is caused by their male partners ?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/09/men-killing-women-domesti_n_5927140.html
And it is primarily for ego, ownership and control reasons. So women naturally wants control theory
does not hold water.



Again, you break your own rule can you point to any survey you did that confirm your position.
You should never have responded if you also believe in making wild assumptions about people
you know little about.



This is a choice any woman can make.


It is as if you know her personally, but if you don't this is a misplaced advice as it
adds nothing to the discussion except to make your opponent look bad.





Because broke ladies got divorced doesn't mean a woman can't be sent parking because she is richer than her husband.
There are no rules on reason why divorce should occur. Someone could be divorced because of cheating while another
due to "lack of respect"or both, they are not always mutually exclusive.

So men should marry women that fits their description of a wife so as not
to end up as frustrated whiners who complain bitterly about how bad women are.

cheyi:
I'm just curious..Statistics showed that some rich men die early compared to the poor men..Even with all the money they have,don't understand what seems to be the problem. .

Get rich and die young,remain poor and live long..which is better?

GeneralOjukwu:
Mr Man...be a man & have some balls. Your family &your wife have marked you a weakling to toss around.

Most of the comments here are on the side of the wife. That's amusing.

There's a proverb - "What elders can see from afar, a youngster can't" WHY DO THEY UNANIMOUSLY DISLIKE HER? They might see something that you can't see due to Kama Sutra.

Whomever you decide to side, make a stance now. Just remember you would be a fool to abandon your blood. You would regret it

https://i.imgur.com/bD02rmI.gif

You can find another wife tomorrow...Can you find other parents? Vagina can be magnetic, walahi