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Is that it? So the perpetrators of this heinous crime are somewhere chilling? What does Nigerian police department do? Why have the rapists not been brought to justice? Why have they not been arrested? What Nigerian police fails to understand is that as long as law breakers are left to roam the streets freely, more innocent people will be victims. I am sure the rapists are already recruiting another innocent soul. And sadly, that one might not survive. When will our security department start holding criminals to account and stop them from committing more crimes? Prison is not just about punishment, its also a place to keep offenders away from none offenders, in other to have a safer society. Nigerian security needs to get their eish together for peace sake. My Goodness!!!! ...and anyone talking about "konji". Please note that there is a huge difference between sexual deviance and sexual urge; One is out of control, and the other is within control. HUGE DIFFERENCE!! . These people are criminals and anyone's daughter or son can fall victim. Sad that we think everything boils down to a mans insatiable urge! Learn to condemn crimes when you see it. The ease at which we turn things into a joke is why our security officers and the government they serve never bother to persecute criminals. Because for most Nigerians, everything is a joke; rape, murder, pedophilia, domestic violence, corruption, every. Lets start taking crimes seriously. There is nothing funny about this girls ordeal. This can be anyone's child, and children by their very nature can be easily manipulated and are easy target, even with the most disciplined and loving parents. NO ONE IS SAFE WITH CRIMINALS ROAMING THE STREET!! |
Oloruntobi4382:This is Nigerian Youth Revolution Party not French Revolution or any other revolution for that matter. To all NYRP members, please lets keep our focus on achieving our goals and objectives and believe in ourselves. We will keep distancing ourselves from anyone clamouring for blood or violence by making sure no member with ego, pride, a sense of entitlement or with self interest is allowed. If NYRP has to make history for being the most peaceful REVOLUTION, then so be it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being unique and different. *no guns *no violence *no hate speech *no divisions *"Nigeria first" before "self-interest" #NYRP |
Our aim remains to bring peace, unity and prosperity in Nigeria as without this, there is no hope for our country. Please invite your friends who share NYRP goals and objectives to join our social media platforms instagram (@nyrp_official) twitter (@NYRP3) facebook (Nigerian Youth Revolution Party). *no guns *no violence *no hate speech *no divisions *"Nigeria first" before "self-interest" #NYRP |
Oloruntobi4382:Oloruntobi4382: So you people hate the truth when told one, 1NigeriaMyFoot a die-hard tribalist advise you to remove me just because i spoke the truth. You Igbos are damn funny. Hello Oloruntobi4382, Can you be more specific on the tribalism you experienced from the NYRP member so this can be looked into? Regardless of our differences, we are all facing the same misery in this country. If you have been wrongfully treated, we sincerely apologise and NYRP will stand by you. We stand against any form of divisiveness based on tribe, ethinicity or religion from any member of NYRP. Let us know if you had been unfairly treated and We will resolve the issue asap as every member must be treated equally; with dignity and respect. |
daclemx:Sure will, Thanks for your loyalty and commitment to the cause. I hope all NRYP member can show this level of dedication. Many thanks. We need to create a whatsapp group as it will help with more organisation and transparency. @ourchoice can you do this or request someone else to do it? Happy with all the suggestions from every one. Please keep them coming. This a relatively new movement so do not be dismayed with the lack of planning and control. All these would be resolved. I'm sure everyone who has been given a responsibility is doing their best. Remember that this is not the typical political movement which is always about money and self-interest. If we do more of the same thing, we won't get a different result. #NYRP is something new. Doing something new often requires a lot of courage and needing to summon courage is itself a benefit. So, do not loose the momentum. NYRP admins are not lazy and I'm sure they welcome being held to account and pushed when they need it, as this will help them improve. If you have any questions or want to offer a solution, feel free to express yourself. |
ourchoice:@ourchoice. Good to have you back. Hope your travel went well. To all, please follow NYRP social media platforms: Instagram - @nigerianyouthrevolutionparty Facebook - https://m./367166677053039/ Twitter - @NYRP3 Get your friends and family to follow the movement. NYRP - no guns, no violence and no hate speech. |
daclemx:I second this Never give up on your country. Nigeria belongs to all of us. If we lose interest at the slightest provocation or challenge, NYRP will never become a reality. When we notice divisive characters, we should educate and enlighten and if this fails, we must drop such entities as they will do nothing but slow or stop the momentum. Hopefully, the success of this movement will make them have a change of heart someday, but we can’t dwell on the negativity; we simply must move on from it. No one is truly happy with the conditions in Nigeria, even the rich and powerful. But if some people want to fold their arms and watch our country collapse in their very eyes, it’s the same as saying "My future is not important to me. My child’s future is also not important to me, and I'm happy to watch Nigeria destroy itself, because I have chosen to do nothing about it". I understand Nigeria is hopeless for everyone but why think the worse? Things can't get any worse, nor are things going to get better with the current state of affairs. I want to also remind everyone that Nigeria has more than 500 ethnic groups, 521 languages and is a religiously diverse society, with Islam and Christianity being the most widely professed religions These diversities are the root of Nigerians problems so if anyone thinks that “a better Nigeria for all” is going to come easy, I can tell them now that it is NOT going to be. But what will not help is selfishness, egotism, tribalism, dishonesty, religious divisions, sense of entitlement, corruption and losing hope. We should learn from each other and our diversity should be our greatest strength, but it should not divide or separate us. Please let us love our country and everyone in it because Unity is the only hope for a better Nigeria. |
Need to link the Instagram with the facebook page. For now, please follow us on any of NYRP social media handles. |
For Instagram, Please click go to the link; https://www.instagram.com/nigerianyouthrevolutionparty/?hl=en. |
Koolking:You are right at some point but does not remove from the fact that the men that originally came up with these laws did so because of their own insecurities. No strong confident man will want to create laws that only appeal to them, neglecting the needs of others. Some people need to criticize you in order to drag you down. .... Some people can't function without negativity because bringing down others makes them feel better about themselves. That for me is weakness cause if a person is strong and confident in themselves, they would not feel the need to drag others down. I don't even have a problem with polygamy as long as its the woman's choice and the woman is allowed to choose to marry multiple men as well. I don't also have a problem with promiscuity as long as the people the person is involved with are informed and allowed to choose to be with the promiscuous person or not.. But problem always arises when there is an imbalance, in this case when one gender is allowed to sleep around and have multiple mates and the other is forbidden or stigmatized for doing same. Religion, culture or not, treat everyone equally, regardless of their gender. We must not swallow everything society tells us. Treat every human being the way you want them to treat you. |
Blackfyre:My sincere apologies |
Koolking:It's strange for me and a million other people in the world today. But for you, it is not strange because admittedly, we still live in a male-dominated society, so men still make the rules and it's their selfish interest first before anyone else. Stop shielding your fragile ego with numerous women. Fact is: A strong man will rise up to the pain in his relationship, face it, and not run into the arms of other women. He will slowly learn that when he is triggered by his wife, he has inner work to do in himself not use many wives as a form of defense. A weak man will defend himself and blame his girlfriend or wife, marry more wives and keeps blaming everyone and everything. He also thinks that the world owes him something, or that “it” should be easy, and uses any form of oppression to bring other people down while lifting himself up, including marrying numerous women. He wants what he cannot give. He has no respect for himself so makes every effort to disrespect or demean others There is a reason why weak men can't handle strong women. That’s because weak men lack everything it takes to be a supportive, adoring partner to a woman who knows her worth and her potential Are you a strong or a weak man? The choice is yours |
Hofbrauhaus:Yes, but we need to do the opposite of what they have done themselves which are; attacks, guns, violence and blame games. The priority should remain to sell our practical goals and objectives to the Nigerian public, and less about them. Let our social media platforms speak the truth. We will avoid inciting them at all cost as that's exactly what they will be waiting for and then it won't take long before they label us a "terrorist group". This has to be a peaceful revolution. Avoid word exchanges with them, avoid insults and no violence. They've turned us into animals and they will expect us to act like one. But we will lose our animalistic tendencies this time and we will be human again. They will wait for a reaction but they won't get any from us. Let's keep it peaceful knowing that peace and unity is their worst NIGHTMARE. |
shophut:I think @ourchoice should take it to the 1st page of the thread so all can see it. But we also need one that other selected members can administer and supervise to ensure transparency. Is this possible? |
MORNDEW:Did not mention any names or attack anyone. The point is about the nonchalance of all our leaders to our pains and suffering. I do agree that this should not be against any political party as they would use that as an excuse to attack. It's best to choose our words wisely without completely ignoring the decay in the system. |
majekdom2:Respectfully, please don't make jokes about this. While this will never affect me, the fact is that some women are still being killed or worse, for their lack of virginity. I can't be laughing at women who have been murdered in "honor killing" for losing their chastity belt. When things are serious, please don't play games as some girl may be reading through these comments and she may be on death roll for losing her virginity and I can't laugh at her. I can play and make jokes, but not on sensitive topics. Sorry if I came off too serious, but I believe there is time for everything. Additionally, If a man is discriminated against or killed for something this idiotic, I WILL ALSO BE AGAINST IT. |
majekdom2:Loose or restore your virginity if you choose to. A man with dignity and self-respect is a must for me. I don't have the time or patience for sex-obsessed men.. Take your STD elsewhere. |
majekdom2: Chukwudi4naija: Blackfyre: PierreDeFermath: STILESGANG:If extra-marital sex is forbidden for both men and women, according to those who claim that Islam/Christianity/other religions treat the two sexes equally, then why not “seal” or “restrain” men too? The answer is that the illusory chastity belt serves no purpose but to deepen discrimination between the sexes and prevent the sexual maturity of young women while unleashing the sexuality of males. Thanks to patriarchy. And all these despite the fact that plenty of women don't even bleed the first time they have sex? ! So much fuss over a little flap of skin right! I mean, really. It's no wonder that, with these kinds of stakes, there have been as many ways to fake one's virginity throughout history as there have been ways to prove it. Like taking the bladder of a fish, filling it with pig's blood and pop it in your vagina before the big night so that it would burst when you had sex. And today, there are doctors who will actually reconstruct a girl's hymen. The practice is called hymenorrhaphy and, in some cultures, it is done using sheep's membrane while others use catgut to stretch across a young woman's vagina. Occasionally, they will pop in a gelatin capsule full of blood-like liquid that is meant to burst when the girl has intercourse. Please, worry about yourselves and your virgin bride. Don't worry about other women who choose to be disvirgined by "preeks" . They are doing just fine with their boyfriends, husbands, partners or one night stands. It's their bodies NOT YOURS. Stop obsessing over women that don't belong to you; VIRGIN OR NOT. Virginity is an outdated standard that has been used more to shame than mark sexual initiation. Please keep living in the past and allow others to move on. |
omoharry:Optimism is key. You noted the problems; greed, pride, ego, religion, and tribalism. We have started this on a non-profit basis and no one with self-interest is permitted to join this movement. Please go through the thread and notice the amount of positivity that has been poured on here. Currently, your future, as well as the future of all Nigerians, is decided by failures. If you go through all the comments and you are convinced about this movement, we humbly welcome you to be a part of it. With your experience at YDP, you can help advise on what lead to their downfall, so you can help us learn from their mistakes and not repeat them. Never fold your arms and allow your country's future to be decided by selfish, recycled politicians. Only an ignorant Nigeria will still be stuck on tribalism and religion at this point. Let's join hands and bring unity and prosperity in Nigeria. |
ourchoice:Sure. Will do my best Anyone that can bring ideas on how to go about this, your contribution is welcomed. Please, the beneficiaries of the current political system are not welcomed here. Only patriots willing to ride and die for this great nation. We need to start with a clean slate. No lies or deceit. No more division. No more lies. No more deceit No more division. |
103 days for treatment of an "undisclosed ailment" 103 days without our leader. We elected him to be our leader. But yet, we don’t have a right to know his ailment? They don’t care about our cries or sufferings. They only care about themselves. Nothing they do is done in the interest of the nation. We cannot be taken for this ride anymore. Our children deserve a better future. |
majekdom2:Of course, I'm not describing all men. Just the few who think they are entitled enough to eat their cake and have it. |
In reality, such expectations are not realistic because if the men are taught to zip up, there will be female virgins. God bless the men on here that realize the holes in double standard. To the virgin hunters, please learn to zip up and practice what you preach. Find your own virgin wife, and stop obsessing about other women; virgin or not. Disgusting! ....moving on |
How about investigating to find the actual cause of the explosion? Until we stop using spirituality as an excuse and explanation for all natural and man-made disaster, Nigeria will remain a jungle. |
michaelisaiah:It's the sufferings of Africans that have made them black inside (some of them). It's the desperation, the hunger, the starvation, the bad leadership, the exploitation of their natural resources by others (which still happens today). The decay is at the top, and until these evil leaders and their cronies are uprooted, Africans and the black race will keep behaving like monkeys in the jungle. This is something we are yet to realize. We are blaming the wrong people. Don't blame the average man to whom human suffering has pushed to the wall. Blame the corrupt, clueless and ruthless leaders we have today. |
EWAagoyin:What dream are you talking about? You mean the one the Nigerian government has stolen from everyone? 80% of Nigerians have no dream; Dream is for the rich and famous. @post Sad story. Hope she gets the punishment she deserves and subsequently taken away from the society so she does no harm to others. But trust Nigerian justice system. A small ransom will keep her out of jail and back in the public eye in no time. That's what we've come to know of "justice" in Nigeria. |
AgroLogistics:I think there may be a need for more urgency actually, but of course, even urgency requires a certain amount of care and deliberation. Patience is also of utmost importance and as much as I would like to appeal for patience, we need to understand the country we live in. The truth is that Nigerian's have lost patience and if we don't have plans in place, we will look unserious to them. We are up against these vicious pythons called PDP and APC, who will be on the other side drafting all these policies that they come up with in the toilet. It's not that Nigerians have been stupid to accept their crooked promises, it's always because there is a hunger for change even if its one that is lacking in substance. Waiting is if we are pessimistic. Waiting is if we do not think this will work. …and most importantly; Waiting is if we don't realize that this is Nigeria and Nigerians are desperate. Optimism, on the other hand, is seeing ourselves at the finish line and then looking back at how we got there. If we don't have certain plans yet, we need to let people know why and when we can come up with the plans. For example, if we can't register NYRP because there are requirements such as needing more members, then that should be our response to anyone asking questions. Otherwise, if a Nigerian shows interest in the party and asks these same questions and we don't give them concrete answers; the conclusion of an average Nigerian in their desperation will be that "WE ARE NOT SERIOUS". Yes, there should be a need for patience, but we have to tick faster than a clock. The most important thing is that we must make our policies credible and workable, and without lies or deceit. But my dears, with the hunger and desperation in our beloved country, we have to be VERY FAST, even if it means getting into the Guinness Book of World Record for the party that has come up with the fastest workable policies, so be it. If we sleep or slumber, we risk waking up to 2019 with PDP or APC again. Fact is: Nigerians today don't hear wait Nigerians today don't have patience And sadly; Nigerians today don't know tomorrow So this I think, is why most people are a bit in a hurry. So the question is, how do we do this, taking into account the impatience of Nigerians (thanks to our failed politicians), setting things up, the tasks at hand, mapping out our policies, and the need to hit the ground running. Nigerians are desperate, and desperate times will lead to PDP OR APC in 2019 if we don't make ourselves a credible alternative. That is definitely a concern we cannot ignore. |
RationalTV:If you show credibility and accountability, you may be put into consideration. Please note that: No one here has demanded any positions but you. No one here has mentioned Christianity or any religion but you. No one here has asked to hold political power in their state or region but you. ^^This is what we see with the current political parties and we are tired of it. Its done way too much harm than good. If anyone wants to hold any position, they MUST work for it. This is not PDP or APC. That's the reason for all the positivity on this thread. We are not here for ourselves or for power, instead, we are here to fight and die for this great nation. We are here for unity and equality. Bring your ideas and contributions just as everyone else here is doing at this initial stage. It may not be too late to be part of this movement. But if you want to work with us, you have to do so SELFLESSLY. Ask not what NYRP can do for you - ask what you can do for NYRP. Being part of NYRP is A PRIVILEGE - not a right. |
daclemx:More disappointing is that the females are virtually silent. But, it's not their fault. Nigeria leaders have left everyone feeling useless and hopeless. It's the job of the few we have to give encouragement to the many who may have lost hope in the leadership of this country and in Nigeria as a whole. No one should get discouraged by the lack of numbers. Real change requires a policy that can give people hope. People are hopeless at the moment, but with resilience, determination and the right policies, we can give them the hope of a brighter future which they have been denied time and time again. We can get everyone to believe in Nigeria again. Don't give up. |
oyetpel:the whatsapp group and Telegram group need to be sorted first in other to accommodate more members, so please keep coming back for update on that. But for now, the facebook and twitter are up and running; Twitter handle is: @NYRP3 (follow via this link: https://twitter.com/NYRP3) Facebook: https://web./367166677053039/ Careful deliberation will have to be taken before creating some of these groups as rushing will lead to mistakes and errors. A degree of patience will be necessary, but all will be sorted in good time. The aim is not to rush and come up with myopic unsustainable short-term goals just for the sake of getting into power. So we must deviate from the current trend of rushing and coming up with mumbo-jumbo plans and policies just like the present parties we have now. If we do the same, be become like them. If we must get this right, then Patience is vital. So don't be discouraged; Its a work in progress. Also, your ideas are welcomed. |
@RATIONALTV You started off your second unoriginal thread by saying this: I stumbled upon this newly formed organization and decided to raise alarm to alert the world what is going on in secret. According to their website (www dot his website is unworthy of posting on this thread), RYFFRON is a an organization which simply means Rational youth for future revolution of nigeria. Now here you are saying: As for the website (again www dot his website is unworthy of posting on this thread) I am a web developer. I design websites. That is my job. Yes, you are popular just like the present crop of failures we have as leaders today, and that's what this movement is about; stopping the lies and deceit of the bad eggs and failures, determined to drag this country to the ground. And no, you don't know the moderators, nor do you go out drinking beer with them as one of the topics you started about Biafra was closed by one of the moderators. No one cares if you are a Christain or not, if you lie, you are a liar PERIOD, irrespective of what religion you practice. Keep up with the lies and deceit but I can guarantee you that you are going nowhere stealing people's ideas on nairaland and I will keep coming after EVERY recreated thread you start with the idea of @ourchoice by letting other nairalanders in on your fraudulent ways. But I won't discuss you anymore on this forum filled with positive minds of well-meaning Nigerians ![]() |
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plus i did not call out any woman i was just making a simple post in contribution to the topic which is; females as well as males should understand the importance of virginity and/or chastity/celibacy.
I can help restore. 