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 Romance › Re: For Ladies Eager To Marry Next Year by lindabon: 12:58pm On Dec 26, 2012 |
You don't need to modify yourself for anyone. In my lifetime, I've seen the best and worst of girls get married. There are no rules in attracting a mate except the one that we or our society make for us. Guys are different and different guys want different things, so definitely, there cant be just one general rule for dating all these diversities of men around the world.  For instance, Why you may think every guy wants and independent woman, their are others who want women that depend on them, as the woman's dependance on him gives him 100% control over her. . . .different strokes. Relationship is about having someone who you can be yourself around. Let a guy fall in love with the lady in front of him, not the lady you want to become or the lady you pretend to be. If he doesn't love you for who you are, why bother? .....well, unless you can keep up with the pretense FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE !! |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by lindabon: 1:52pm On Dec 25, 2012 |
Both men and women are s/exua/l creatures with temptations to overcome every now and then. Its human nature and Ideally, everyone loves intimacy. . . . . . . In life, you "get what you give" and when you judge a person by the same "supposedly" bad qualities that you are guilty of, it easily puts you in a ridiculous, hypocritical and compromising situation. Finally, whether you're a man or a woman, just live your life and do what makes you happy. If you need 1001men or 1001women to be happy (as long as its mutual and you're not hurting anyone), its your life and your choice. Enjoy it! Have fun! . . . . At the same time, if you need 0men or 0women and this is what makes you happy, its your life and your choice. Enjoy it! Have fun!  |
| Romance › Re: Pls Don't Judge Me Harshly But I Seem To Be Falling For Married Men by lindabon: 8:49pm On Dec 04, 2011 |
if you think what you're doing is right, well suit yourself. but if you feel you are not doing the right thing, just don't do it. Simples |
| Romance › Re: Stingy Boyfriends Will Make Bad Husbands by lindabon: 3:57pm On Dec 04, 2011 |
i blame Nigerian society! |
| Romance › Re: Men! Men! Why Are You Guys Selfish? Proberbly Ignorant by lindabon: 4:31pm On Nov 29, 2011 |
OP, who cares about their money and how they spend it ?  |
| Politics › Re: Senate Approves Anti-gay Marriage Bill! by lindabon: 4:25pm On Nov 29, 2011 |
REALITY101:Seconded!! |
| Romance › Re: Opinions: What Puts You Off In A Relationship? by lindabon: 4:06pm On Nov 29, 2011 |
a nagging, over controlling guy pisses the hell outta me. |
| Romance › Re: A Woman Of 41 Can Never Hold On To A Young Boy Of 25: Agree? by lindabon: 12:01am On Nov 22, 2011 |
coogar: Well, not really. It basically depends on the guy you see. Some guys naturally are attracted to older women out of preference. A cheat will always be a cheat regardless of who he marries. As for stamina, do you think a 24 year old obese unfit female, will have more stamina than a 41 year old woman who is physically fit?? I don't think so. Maybe at 55, age will catch up. A Woman Of 41 Can Never Hold On To A Young Boy Of 25: Agree?From what I've read, the writer advocates that women should marry while they are young, and age graciously. Bullcrap. Demi Moore is a very sexy woman and can hold down any young man she wants if she still desires to catch them when they are young. If she can afford to make herself look younger, why not go for it; why hate her cos she has enough money to make herself look more beautiful and radiant? The owner of this write up seems jealous to me |
| Romance › Re: Why Ladies Call Men "baby" by lindabon: 11:01pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
what a question!  |
| Romance › Re: How Come Girls Never Love The Guys Who Love Them? by lindabon: 10:50pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
OP, seems like you're talking from experience. . . . . https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-sad007.gifhttps://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-sad007.gif Don't worry, you'll find your own woman some day! |
| Romance › Re: Question For The Ladies. by lindabon: 11:15pm On Nov 16, 2011 |
Boyloaf:It wouldn't be a problem to go for a fertility test. But what are his intentions really?! What if the fertility test shows that I'm infertile? Does it mean the marriage is annulled? If he wants the test to see if i can fit into his wifey material group, then he has lost me. But if it's for genuine reason, then sure why not! This is just me, cos if my future hubby has fertility issues, I wouldn't sweat over it; As long as he can get it up, no probs. Later, if we really want kids that badly, we can explore other baby making options. |
| Romance › Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by lindabon: 9:19pm On Nov 16, 2011 |
Tizi:No I can't!! Well, I'm still single by choice. The thought of marriage and marriage proposals scares the hell outta me!! |
| Romance › Re: Girls And Their Fish Brain (they Always Love Backwards) by lindabon: 1:42am On Nov 16, 2011 |
Cos as Mr nice guy, you come out as boring and slow but with Mr player, you can play around a bit while staying cool and lively Maybe you need to combine your Mr Nice Guy and Mr Player skills together; and end up with Mr Cool in the middle.  |
| Romance › Re: Based On Different Religions, Is Marriage A Must? by lindabon: 12:02am On Nov 16, 2011 |
never allow anybody to manipulate you into thinking that marriage is a do or die affair! better be happy single, than land in a dry loveless marriage all in the name of tradition!! SO OP, marry when and if you want to, no pressure! nep2ra:I don't know much about the bible, but one needs to stay away from all sorts of s/exual gratification; mast/urbation, oral s.ex, and se.x it self, its all in thesame package. It's not easy to stay chaste; That is why people easily err. |
| Romance › Re: Lol How Do Pretty Girls Make Friends? by lindabon: 7:53pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
tellwidow, i could hug but i'm afraid I might feel that tiny thing in between your legs in the process of the hug. Arrghh, i'm allergic to extremely small willies;sorry! Even my doctor confirmed that its not good for my health! SO I'll pass! No offense . . . .  |
| Romance › Re: Lol How Do Pretty Girls Make Friends? by lindabon: 7:31pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
tellwisdom, do you get an e.rection posting hopeless comments on NL or what; really would like to know the joy you derive from sharing your dull comments here.  |
| Romance › Re: Male/female Visitor In Your Connubial Home by lindabon: 7:16pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Hell NO!! Unless its Boris kodjoe! https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-hug003.gifhttps://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-hug003.gif |
| Romance › Re: Lol How Do Pretty Girls Make Friends? by lindabon: 7:08pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Some feel normal and are able to handle the attention while others become dumb and blinded by their beauty. Depends on the individuals though?! |
| Romance › Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by lindabon: 6:54pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=803395.msg9556233#msg9556233 date=1321291771]In othewords, you are complaining too[/quote]i think he is. Well, i think if all the men do is nag, then you will agree that both parties have issues. Most nigerian guys dating western women keep complaining about the womans over bossiness . . bla bla bla, while those dating Nigerian women can't stop complaining about Nigerian women's materialistic nature . .bla bla bla. So i guess that majority of the Nigerian men are not normal sha. Who says the girls don't want to complain about Nigerian men as well. Nigerian men and women have their issues. But most Nigerian man will rather complain and make excuses, than share in the blame. All the ladies can do is to let them whine and keep deceiving themselves. If the men really think that absolutely nothing is wrong with them, then lets just allow them to enjoy their denial! Hopefully they will grow a pair!HOPEFULLY ! |
| Romance › Re: Guys, How Do U Feel When A Woman Turns Ur Proposal Down? by lindabon: 6:28pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
move on. But if you wanna bury your sorry behind in shame, be my guest! |
| Romance › Re: Who Is A Prost.itu-te? by lindabon: 6:15pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
I would rather think that people who patronize p.rostitutes make pr.ostitution business to prosper. But then such individuals are here to stay so why bother about them? The only problem i have is when guys who patronize p.rostitutes still go out of their way to condemn the p.rostitution business But a p.rostitute and her client are two different people. Yes, both parties may be equally disturbed but they are not thesame in anyway. |
| Romance › Re: Just Discovered She Drinks (alcohol) by lindabon: 5:36pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
I actually find non drinkers boring. Aint life funny. Well OP, a little wine every now and then is good for the soul. There is nothing "God forbid like" in it. |
| Romance › Re: To All Ladies: Beware! by lindabon: 4:54pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Once in a while, one needs to do some background checks especially when there is a hint of suspicion in his actions. Too much trust is not good. Better safe than sorry |
| Romance › Re: Who Says Women Dont Ever Pay On Dates? by lindabon: 4:18pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
I will dress very well for a date but I'm paying for my own meal also. Who needs their money? |
| Romance › Re: Must You Eat Or Drink On A First Date? by lindabon: 3:32pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
iyatrustee: I swear, most of them are boring and unromantic loons, and the worse is that they can never stop complaining! These fugly, whining 9ja guys need to make way for our good brothers abeg. |
| Romance › Re: Gay Son Or A Prostitute Daughter by lindabon: 3:29pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
if i must choose, then a man lover son it will be |
| Romance › Re: Are There Miss Independent In Nigeria? by lindabon: 2:59pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Here, most of the guys that go out with independent western women always complain about how over controlling and individualistic they are and how the girls can't take s*hit from them. In 9ja and on NL, most of the men complain about how 9ja women are too over dependent on their men . . bla bla bla So I wonder; Do most 9ja men derive pleasure from complaining and whining!? Okay. OP, to answer your question; yes there are independent Nigerian women. The problem is that most Nigerian men are ever so ego defensive to even want to have one for keeps. And honestly, when many Nigerian women will begin to have this independent mentality you men crave for, you guys are going to be the first to loose your minds. Cos just like the western women, when you don't need anything from some one, you can't take s*hit from that person. Its a vicious cycle, and with the number of whining and egoistic Nigerian men on the rise, trust me, most of them will go gaga |
| Romance › Re: Marrying For Love Is Wrong by lindabon: 2:14pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Oh My God!! whats all these!! So now, everyone should marry someone they despise and hate? Most times, all you need to do is to use common sense to figure somethings out! C'mon OP, wisen up a bit! This is the 21th century for Christ sake! SERIOUSLY |
| Romance › Re: Are Nigerian Men Cheap? by lindabon: 2:04pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Who has time for their money? I'm too busy making mine. |
| Romance › Re: The Virgin Ones Are Not Yet Born? by lindabon: 1:43pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Parisgoodman:cos they don't want anyone who is s.exually overused. |
