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christistruth01:
Ukraine would be too Painful for Russia to hold

Yea butter would hold it all the same

Christistruth00:
How long does Russia think it can hold onto Ukraine and it’s fiercely Patrotic Population


Remember Russia fled Afghanistan

Ukrainian soldiers are leaving their positions. Ukrainian air defences are down already. Nuclear plant captured... what else is Ukraine fighting for? Ukraine has lost the war in less than 24hrs

Only time will tell bro. Russia has decided to throw it all in damning the consequences. China is flying over Taiwan's airspace with the hope of attacking as well. Don't be surprised North Korea has plans to invade South Korea depending on what plays out with Russia.

It's going to be an interesting year

Lakesidegrey:
I actually posted this already in my last topic about me and my girl having issue about this ex of a thing about her telling her ex that she can’t resist him if they are together that something else will happen,which means sex,you will all see this in my last topic.,because she definitely don’t wanna admit that what she did is wrong…,so her mom called me yesterday and begged me that I should just settle it with her..we’ve being on this since Monday..,because she claims she’s always catching cruise with him with those nasty chats.,and this is the third time of getting them doing that,so I went to meet her last night and told her we need to talk.,I had to call her almost 3 times before she answered it was her friend that later tell her that atleast she should Answer..,so as I was talking to her yesternight trying to settle things with her..taking things calmly..,and I asked her in I and this guy who does she want..,she said i shouldn’t ask her that.,I leave that question to her even though she ask me not to ask her,I told her the guy is dangerous and can affect our future.,because I’ve known the guy to be a cultist.,so I told her can she just drop all this..,the next thing was that she just walked out on me and tell me I’m talking like a smoker and someone that doesn’t have sense….,so I went to meet her in the sitting room..she was removing her sim in her phone because I bought that phone for her, and want to start heading out that night…I was trying to stop her and the next thing that landed on my face was a dirty slap,I couldn’t see anything again that moment lol.,and off she go..,so I locked the gate last night and said wherever she wanna go she should be going..the next thing was that she called her mom that have locked her out and her mom was begging so hard.…she had to start knocking my door yesterday that she wanna pack out and was cursing., so I said I’m going to help her pack to make things easy,so my landlord ask me to stop that,because I was so provoked and angry,so my landlord came around and settle things and then ask her to say sorry to me..,she said she can’t say sorry that she doesn’t have fault..she find it hard to say sorry at last..,so the landlord left around 1am that night..just to settle things I still went in to beg her and hug her..,that I’m over it even when I know she has the whole fault..,so this morning.,she went out angrily again…she doesn’t even say anything or greet.,I’ve spent so much on that girl..,I’ve invested so much on her..,one of my friend says I’ve made her too expensive and make her see everything about me,that that’s one of the reason why she’s acting that way..,so Nairalanders I need your advice..,please even though I’ve begged her and she’s still acting this way even when I know she’s at fault.,what do I do about this issue?my parents already know her and see her as who I’m going to marry.,they aren’t aware of all this happening.,because my parents know her parents already..please help about this I’m feeling so bad..no insults please.,and I’m sorry if my grammars are not too good..,please help me move this to front page!!if possible ��

You see thunder... the one from heaven, the one from hell, the thunder from underneath the earth will fire you... bloody idiot given the penis of a man when you're just a useless slowpoke. You're begging the bitch for what?? After raising her status and helping her life. Ah! Ko ni daa fun e se. Wo, it will never be well with you if you continue with that broke leach that has nothing to offer but stress, headaches and intimidation. Ah! You say you're a man? You're not sir.

Well, if you would read and comprehend.

1. Get yourself another girl no matter what she looks like, bring her home often, you don't need to sleep with her but make sure that useless girl sees her. Give it time, the story will change.

Make sure you ignore her calls ad infinitum. She doesn't deserve you sir

christistruth01:
But Putin once did one Commendable thing

There was a time that Black People couldn't walk through some streets in Russia without being attacked

Putin Cracked down so hard on the Nazis that all that became History

That one he did well

But this invasion of Ukraine is Greed

Try not to take everything the media tells you as being true. Study history yourself and you'd see the justification behind the invasion.
A pact was reached where areas near Russian border ought not to be occupied by the US led NATO. If USA wouldn't allow Russia have its base near it, why should Russia allow USA to have it's own base just at its border?? Just think logically and read what happened to Cuba when Russia had a base there.

History never lies... I'm not justifying the invasion of any sovereign nation but the USA has been doing that to several countries, why the noise when Russia does the same? Libya, Iraq, Afghanistan to mention but a few.

Think sir, just think. I've been a pro-Us all my life but after reading the plans and actions of Gaddafi before he was killed, I realised there's actually something wrong with the USA and not with Gaddafi.

ShenTeh:
Thank God for His mercies, I have been in this situation several times on that Oyo-Ogbomosho expressway.

This often happens when the trailer doing the overtaking is performing better than the one in its front while on a hill. The downside for you would therefore mean than you are coming down a slope.

I have seen a so-called driving instructor saying the official instruction is that you maintain your lane. But my brother, that is suicide.

Often times, you flash your full-lights and indicate that you are going right. Help yourself to the kerb as far right as you can go. Reclaim your route once the road is clear.

Too, sometimes your immediate right is a ditch or too deep for any maneuver. I have been in that situation too and had had to make a very quick dash to the kerb on my left. One particular time the trailer on my left practically stopped for me. 2 nanoseconds is all your life hangs on.

3. One Sunday morning coming back to Lagos on that same highway, same situation, ditch to the right, ditch to the left, was with my brother-in-law and his newly wedded wife, who was screaming profusely. I kicked the car to reverse. Luckily no vehicle was coming. Still ended up in a little ditch. My silencer was gone and my first gear began misbehaving.

This is also one of the reasons you need a smart car, not cars that will 'go and set up a committee' before responding to acceleration. My loyal dog, my darling Infiniti G20 (I called her My Barbara), I miss you so much.

Most importantly, I am forever grateful to God.

That was some quick thinking. Ditch on both sides has never happened to me but I can relate to these scenarios on several occasions.

ShenTeh:
Thank God for His mercies, I have been in this situation several times on that Oyo-Ogbomosho expressway.

This often happens when the trailer doing the overtaking is performing better than the one in its front while on a hill. The downside for you would therefore mean than you are coming down a slope.

I have seen a so-called driving instructor saying the official instruction is that you maintain your lane. But my brother, that is suicide.

Often times, you flash your full-lights and indicate that you are going right. Help yourself to the kerb as far right as you can go. Reclaim your route once the road is clear.

Too, sometimes your immediate right is a ditch or too deep for any maneuver. I have been in that situation too and had had to make a very quick dash to the kerb on my left. One particular time the trailer on my left practically stopped for me. 2 nanoseconds is all your life hangs on.

3. One Sunday morning coming back to Lagos on that same highway, same situation, ditch to the right, ditch to the left, was with my brother-in-law and his newly wedded wife, who was screaming profusely. I kicked the car to reverse. Luckily no vehicle was coming. Still ended up in a little ditch. My silencer was gone and my first gear began misbehaving.

This is also one of the reasons you need a smart car, not cars that will 'go and set up a committee' before responding to acceleration. My loyal dog, my darling Infiniti G20 (I called her My Barbara), I miss you so much.

Most importantly, I am forever grateful to God.

That was som quick fast thinking. Ditch on both sides has never happened to me but I can relate to these scenarios on several occasions.

Opinedecandid:
It's called VIVAL (VIV)
It's less than 1 dollar now.
With the potential to become 10.
Only 2.5 million in total supply.

Any telegram group and backing projects?

JohnSin97:
Why didn't the albino monkey foresee his arrest when he went for gigolo work in Kenya?

He knew he would be in Nigeria to fight the battle from home. He said it in his broadcast. The broadcast was either made in April or May.

gidgiddy:
He probably saw his arrest and went for it. A lot of people dont seem to ever think that Nnamdi Kanu is exactly where he wants to be, a prisoner of conscience

Since Nnamdi Kanu's arrest:

His support, local and international, has surged

His fame, locally and internationally, has increased

Support for Biafra by his people has increased. Nnamdi Kanu is exactly where he wants to be

Those that listened to the teachings when he said that, he would be coming Nigeria to fight the battle from home. Many like me actually thought he would fly into the country... the guy knew how he was coming and didn't need to divulge the specifics. He had seen it all before coming this far.

danowena:
A beggar in a good location with high traffic and compassionate people will make over 2k comfortably. Assuming N500 is used for food, that comes to 45k monthly and over N540k in a year. So it is not surprising.
This doesn’t mean you should stop showing compassion.

Some people don't even know what's up... please enlighten them. A close friend told me about a time when he went to buy roasted yam and beans, while he was there these small hausa beggars came there... there were 3 of them. Each of them bought 3 pieces of #200 worth of fish and left. The guy was amazed because he has been giving these same beggars money. He has never for once gone to buy as many as two fish, talkless of three.

I also heard about a cripple who always stayed in front of a well known church. The guy has a two storey building with tenants in it.

The man got saved by the interview. He wouldn't have been able to stop the bandits.

On another note, the North is healing so no cause for alarm. FG should send more soldiers down south, the wave of attacks is getting higher... Ibadan, Enugu, Lagos, Imo, Anambra. Police aren't well trained for such attacks.

E kaasan

Edozie13:
Haba! Alaye no reason like that.. those men na people parent and benefactor.

Yes them dey do pass themselves, but first get empathy before you judge because nobody holy pass

Oga na simple matter... no one was attacking the military before they killed Ikonso and started using the air raids to kill people on their farmlands at Orlu. We only heard ESN was created and were in the bushes chasing out the fulani terrorists that had started raiding and pillaging communities. The security agents killed and are still killing innocent people everyday... now they formed Ebubeagu that has also joined the military in burning down houses.

Please let them fight their fight in peace... when both parties are through with each other, they will come to a round table. What I don't want is the killing of innocent people and burning of their properties because an attack happened around their locality.
Meanwhile, there's a huge difference between one that's working for the money he is getting and one that voluntarily joined.
Apart from that, the element of surprise is also difficult to fight. Imagine you're a soldier or police man at a checkpoint while checking the car of someone that looks suspicious, a bullet hits you from behind.

Make dem just divide the country biko, it isn't working... APC promised millions of jobs and fixing of refineries but today, the opposite is the case. It is well.

eldoradoxx:
I watched the news today where Governor Zulum after visiting President Buhari at the Vila inform press men that over 30,000 insurgents including Boko Haram and ISWAP members have taken the peace move of the Federal Government and surrendered and are to be rehabilitated, i mean as much as 30,000 criminals are to be pardoned and perhaps given some funds to start life again.
Why can't Federal Government try this same peace approach with regard to the criminals in the East called IPOB/ESN. If FG can forgive the criminals in Borno who have engaged the Federal government in an 11 year war costing Nigerian government trillions of naira in procurement of arms and ammunition and countless deaths in their tens of thousands, certainly solving IPOB/ESN insurgency in the East through similar carrot and stick approach is a walk over for FG. Currently, on almost daily basis in the East, Federal government security agents are murdered by insurgents and the FG pretends all is well.

The only thing that can stop all this is a REFERENDUM. Nothing else will work. Nigeria doesn't like the Easterners but yet don't want to let them go. The Easterners will eventually leave it's just a matter of time... MNK said the military are very short on man power even though they've moved most of their personnel and ammunition to the East. The video I watched yesterday after a supposed attack somewhere in the East simply proved him right. The soldier said he refused to allow them to take any of his men to a checkpoint because they were already short of Manpower only 10 of them. He also said the attackers already know this. Who gives the attackers such info??

luvyaself95:
Recently i bought Oraimo Necklace 5C and am impressed with it.
So now i want to buy power bank and am considering oraimo power bank.
To those that are using the power bank how good are they ?

Been using 22,500 new age for over a year and it's still awesome.

dauntless15:
Exactly what's happening to me rn, currently I have a text from her asking babe are we good? And I can't say yes because I know that's a big lie, I've been trying to breakup with her but I don't have a tangible reason, she's been good and everything there's really nothing I can use to breakup with her, then my conscience is acting funny because she predicted last week that I would break up with her when I texted her that we need to talk and it'll feel like I'm now discarding her because I used her( that's what they think sex is right? Using?) but that's not the case, I am the problem I know, but she won't understand, right now I just want to be single, and free, the calls and care is too overwhelming even though I loved her from the start and the relationship is barely two months old, I literally need space even though the poor girl doesn't deserve such bullshit treatment from me.

The same way you've written this post, copy it and send it to her.

immortalcrown:
EDITED

I respect, love and fear the word of God. But the trending story that a Bible was spared in a car that totally got burnt in Anambra State does not mean Bible is nonflammable. God can do unbelievable things for a purpose. Maybe God miraculously saved the Bible in the burnt car for a reason. Maybe the fire did not so much affect where the Bible was kept. It could also be that the Bible is fortified with fetish things. But people are using the story to establish or justify religious fallacies. Many claim the (man’s) Bible was not destroyed by fire because God’s word is permanent. I disagree with those people. Our wrong interpretations of some things are why some people ridicule Christianity and disrespect God. If you claim that God protects the holy Bible from fire because his word is permanent, what will you tell people who often say God is wicked for allowing death on humans? Maybe you will tell those people that God loves Bible more than He loves humans.


The Bible, though containing the word of God, is a bunch of paper made by humans. God will not make humans flammable and make the Bible non-flammable. A man can do it to brag about his power. God will not save the Bible and allow the car to get burnt just to show that His word is permanent. God is not irrational and wicked like a man. The car is more expensive than the Bible. What is more expensive than the car is the word of God printed in the Bible, not the Bible (papers) itself. God can make Bibles nonflammable but He is not like humans. A human will do everything he or she can do just to show his or her power. If God does everything He can do, He would have physically shown Himself to the whole world so that atheists will no longer doubt His existence. If God does everything He can, the consequences of human actions will not be meaningless and purposeless. God can make me dumb when I want to lie against an innocent person. God can paralyze a man when he tries to rape a woman. God can even make the woman impenetrable against the rapist. But God does not do these things because He made us with freedom of action. He gave us freedom because He has predetermined the consequence of every action. So, if you leave your Bible where fire can touch it, God will not save the Bible to prove that His word is permanent. The biblical statement that the word of God shall not pass away does not mean the holy Bible is non-flammable. When some houses containing copies of the Bible get burnt, the bible copies also get burnt depending on how the copies are kept in the houses.


If you set your Bible on fire, the back covers and the edge will definitely get burnt. The Bible may not get completely burnt because the pages are air-tight. Burning is difficult or impossible without air. Only a very old Bible with deformed edges and loose binding can easily get completely burnt. Dictionaries and other thick books are not different. The only way to make a thick book burn completely is by tearing the book into pieces or by socking the book in an inflammable liquid.


So, none of the houses that got burnt in this world contained a Bible or the Bible was not destroyed by the fire? Or, was God uninterested in the Bibles that got burnt in houses? Or, is this man's Bible different? Why will God spare the Bible and allow the car to get burnt just to prove the permanence of His word? Can't the man purchase another Bible? Is the Bible printed in heaven and brought to earth by Angel Michael? Or, is the Bible more expensive than the car? For your information, God does not love the Bible. God loves His word and the Bible is not the only thing that can contain God’s word. The Bible is not even the original version of the written word of God. You can write the word of God on the walls of your house. It will not make God love the walls. The only thing God loves on earth is human and good human actions.


APOLOGY
I apologyze for these statements (But this incident is not a miracle by God. Either the fire did not affect where the Bible was kept or the Bible is fortified with fetish things. God does not perform this kind of miracle.), which appear in the unedited version of my comment. But for those who sentimentally attack me without presenting any logical or factual explanation as to why they hate my comment, I owe them no apology.

You're shooting yourself in the foot. You believe that if the Bible is protected with fetish things, the story could be true. You also claim it can never be a miracle from God.
If I may ask, those into fetish dealings, where do their powers come from??

In case you don't know, all powers come from God. Know this and know peace!

Kellzzyy:
You are very mad and you have no one to tell you.
Look at what this idiot is saying.
You're now questioning his love for her when you should be questioning the girl for having an abortion and lying about it.
You are very very mad.

Your father and mother are mad, you're a true definition of "being born by mistake". Your LovePeddler of a mother and a bast.ard drunkard of a father didn't teach you how to respond in public, I'll teach you so that your stu.pid mum and dad can start giving you home training.

Do you know what marriage means? It seems you're from a broken home and don't know what marriage means. Isn't it too early for a man that just got married to come and start crying on social media? What solution do you want to give him? He should divorce her? You're a big fo.ol when you come of age, you'd know better imbe.cile

Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.

On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.

She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.

Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

Newly wedded you say? Chai! Na after wedding dem reveal the package to you... didn't you guys court? Oga, na your package be that, just manage am. Congratulations on your wedding sha as you no gree invite us.

felixalida:
Good morning all!

Please I need your advice on what to do over an issue that came up recently between my wife and I.

I dated my wife for about 9month before our wedding late last year and since we got married, she hasnt been able to conceive. She went to the Hospital and she was diagnosed with Ovariann Cyst and pelvic inflammatory diseases.

I was shocked and I tried to investigate her past again from those who were close to her and I discovered that she was quite loose and reckless while she was in school. She finally confessed that she even had an abortion for someone some few years back and this was someone who denied ever doing such when I asked her during the courtship.

Please help me.
I need your advice.

Are you sure you love this wife of yours? She hasn't cheated on you so you have no right to divorce her... did you tell her all about your own past too?
I really don't think you love her sha... I hope after here, you won't go telling other people how bad your wife was. Suck it up and get her fixed, that's why she's your wife. Did she force you to marry her?

Amb1045:
This was sent in by a lady from Lagos. She is in her early 30's and her husband is 35yrs, a lawyer also based in lagos. They have a baby girl in a 5yrs marriage. She complains that her husband is too handsome that girls find him irresistible. He is talk, solidly built with a perfectly sculpted body with natural red lips, exudes such a wonderful charm that makes ladies take more than just a second look everywhere he passes and on top of that, he knows how to choose his clothes and perfumes to make up that unmatchable appeal to the opposite gender. She agrees that her husband is wayyyy finer than her and this hasn't helped matters at all instead it has fueled her insecurity. She also opines that he is liberal, he likes to listen to people and take their problem as his own and he is the type that is open minded. He helps people a lot and doesn't really say NO.

She checks his phone on the daily and scoops all his chats, she always want to go out with him everywhere he goes, it's driving him nuts that his wife can't seem to stop suspecting him. In all that 5 yrs, she hasn't seen anything yet to suggest that he is having an affair but that has even made her more suspicious that perhaps he is very good at covering his tracks. He has been continously reassuring her that he loves her so much and given her access to all his devices to check on at any time but that only made issues worse.

Now the husband travelled abroad for a 1 month course and she can't stop video calling every hour even when he is in class. If he can't answer, she starts sending him text messages that he knows he is screwing his side chicks and that she always knew he can't be trusted. The man has now gotten fed up with all of it and wants out of the whole marriage.

She is writing to me to tell her what to do. Oya na
over to your court of public opinion. I listen

She's seeing what she wanted to see... at least now, she can stop suspecting him after they get divorced... mumu woman.

Austinboy:
I purposely opened this thread so i can let out all I'm passing through and feeling because I've been having suicidal thoughts. Right now as i speak, i can't even use my own original sim as a result of constant threats from people i owe.

Let me start this way. I used to be a very upright person who detested gambling. Even back in school when my then room mate used to, i looked at him somehow. Fast forward to after NYSC, just by hearing a discussion of how someone made 300k with 100 naira. I decided to try. I started out with 100 and then when 1 game cuts it, i will say i have hope. 100 sooned turned to me staking 1000 then i went out of control from there.

I started gambling on dog racing and before i knew it, u did the one which eventually wrecked me. I started gambling on instant virtual first on bet9ja before i moved to sportybet.

Last year was the worst. I made millions of naira but all when down the drain on virtual bets. There have been days when i can finish 500k in just an hour on virtual.

Right now I'm indebted to so many apps. My name has been broadcasted severally and people who used to look uo to me are wondering what went wrong. I don't know if i can ever build my image again. I'm so ashamed of myself that i don't know if i should live again. The problem is anytime i have money, even after saying i won't go back. Once I'm credited, i go straight to it. It won't be an exaggeration to say i have lost over 15m within the last 5 to 6 years I've been into this shameful habbit. Please i need help, i need advice maybe from someone who has gone through this phase successfully because I'm at the verge of ending it all. I used to be so responsible and now my life is not worth emulating at all right now.

Mods please help me move this to front page as i need someone, just anyone to tell me how i can move forward from this mess.

In addition to the advices given, get a piggy bank. Each time you have the urge to go to the bet store, remove that money from your account and put it in the piggy... after two months, come and thank me.

Better still, get new friends and get something to keep you really busy like learning a hand work... the fact that you're free, gives you room to want to head to the bet shop.

Kaiser20:
Ipob is closely studying the ISWAP ,Boko Haram and ISIS methodology.
Ipob like other groups are fighting for power to dominate their people.
They are not interested in Biafra agitation, most Igbo kids don't know this reality.

What has IPOB got to do with Your bandits? You will have sense one day, but it will be too late. E never reach your side that na why

KillIgbohoN0W:
Gumi, Pantami & Buhari's boys dey vex dis January

Kanu has said it that 2022 was their initial plan for the deadly strike but he pushed them to start earlier... they are still intensifying efforts but are limited to the North and Middle belt. See the attacks on Army University and police college. More serious attacks are coming... the north is gone. Waiting till 2023 will be too late to save it. Believe me it is gone and gone for good.

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding. It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife. Again this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do?
My marriage is still young

Bitter truth is that, someone else is singing the music she loves to hear. Your wife is seeing someone else. If she's not, then you guys probably didn't date for long enough. She wants you dead and that's the bitter truth. If you don't have kids, you need to give her a break. Send her packing!

Psalmistproject:
Kidnapping, rapping victims of kidnap and being handsomely rewarded for abnormal slacking of the victims sex organs has become a lucrative biz in the north.

Anytime I hear say dem kidnap person, my pain is only, chei! Alagbu go HA, ma lapia ha alapia!!

So I'm joining my voice to plead with the kidnappers, Biko! Biko!
Don't fvck dem! It's unprofessional doing such!!!

Hahaha!

Guyman02:
The economy is really hard, sometimes a lady will love a man and ready to make any sacrifice for his love but she is broke financially and make requests for simple things.
You should be looking out if she wants to exploit you or genuinely in need by her actions and how much she appreciates little gifts and observe critically if she is generous and reciprocates in the little way within her means.

Not every lady who asks for data or recharge card or little favours is a gold digger, but then the gold diggers outnumber the genuine ones

You've said it all �

DominionGreat:
I will be brief and precise as possible.


So there is this girl I want to marry. Though we met not too long and from all our conversations she seem to be the one for me..
I traveled for Christmas to my state and she happens to be living there.. she came to visit me and as I was about seeing her off I requested for a hug which later resulted in deep kissing and small caressing which she begged me to stop and I did and after seeing her off she doesn't take my calls, nor reply my messages.. I have been apologizing she won't even say a word to me.. Truth is she is very angry cos she said she is a virgin and doesn't want any of that till marriage.


Now I am confused. Pls what do I do?
Please I need any advice I can get cos I truly love this lady and I have been restless ever since..

Thank you

Lala pls do the needful biko

The best thing you can ever do to yourself is to behave as though she doesn't exist... trust me, she will start asking questions and she'll try communicating but still ignore her at least 4 times after she has made attempts. Then you can call her to lambaste her.

After all, what do you have to lose from someone that's has refused to communicate with you??

SayAsSeen:
Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.

My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.


Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?

I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.

NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.

She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.

I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.

I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.

I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!

Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.

I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?

Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.


Wish I could explain better

Well, as the man of the house, I think she ought to serve you first BUT IF HER BROTHER HAS BEEN HER FATHER FIGURE... please, let it slide, it is just for a while and he will leave your house with time. Don't get worked up. Marriage comes with its ups and downs

Godoverevery:
You are very funny and don't know Nigeria law

Newsflash we have gotten police involved and the girl sister had been arrested yesterday....the right she has to sign for the child to be forcefully discharge she is telling them.....even the police told the grandfather that Nigeria law only recognised the father and mother in decision making.
Not everyone is Igbo ooo.......yoruba culture isn't rigid like that.....Marital rite isn't by force here.

Although am not in support of him not paying her bride price but at the moment......let respect Nigeria law.

Yea I guess i narrowed it down to the customary law here... truly the girl's sister had no right though. Well done! That money will eventually finish, I hope your boy will be able to effectively feed the baby and his wife because he just created enemity between himself and his in-laws

Oloniyan:
Tribalism aside, where were they during the whole #EndSars saga? You can't eat your can't and have it.
They made the endsars looks like a southerners affairs, throwing tantrums about being holier than thou.
They should deal with it biko.
They should go on with their protest and we will stand up for then when we hear of maybe Kadunagate or kanogate massacre.
Arrant nonsense!

Stand up for who or what? The North will be worse than Afghanistan and Somalia combined and the South won't go down with it... seems you've quickly forgotten #endsars at Abuja where all the cars parked by a car dealer were torched/ set ablaze... there are videos of destruction of cars parked by protesters... a trailer was used to ram into vehicles (I think that was at Lagos). The northerners clashed with peaceful protesters. Families and individuals living around Lugbe were killed in their sleep simply because they are southerners.

You want to fight for these barbaric people? You'd need to fight alone. They are the problem of Nigeria and they must dance to this Surugede music (music of the dead) they started playing.

EndBuhariNow:
And one mad man from yoruba land is planning and telling his minions how his party apc is planning to take over South East... they don't even care what is happening in Nigeria, they can't even discuss way forward, nah election be their problem now... Igbos are really in wrong geophysical zone

They really are but a referendum will come and they will leave. It is only a matter of time. Others will want to leave after the Igbo has left. There's no word like Igbos by the way.

asanausana91:
when fools think.

Just time! Then we will know who the true fool is.