But why do girls keep turning down guys that are ready to do anything for them and keep running after guys that would always make them cry? That's how women are wired, they love being treated like trash

dave4rella:

There's no particular way of approaching ladies
But always make sure you're unique, don't always use the regular lines guys make use of.

For me, I'm a reserved person and I can never see a girl on the road and try to hi or talk to her, unless when I know that I might not see her again.
So I take my time and strike, I'm not boasting, I have never lost a girl I tried to woo

There are things that get female attention, especially when it's coming from a guy
For instance, I could see a lady and politely tell her that she should not be offended, but that I'm not sure she's wearing the right bra size, automatically, you will have her attention, discuss abit about that and go to your main aim.

You can also admire her eyebrows, like asking who drew it and all that! You will have her attention immediately.

Never admire her beauty! Don't ever do that atleast for the first time of meeting her

Finally, the most surest way of getting ladies attention is by being successful, have a job or career, business etc and be good at it
Take good care of yourself and watch wonders happen... Stay blessed

this is the best comment on the thread, this method does not fail....my g....I once walked up to a girl and with a bold and disappointed face said, you would have been perfect if you were wearing the right bra size, you know what, I'll teach you a thing or two about the female wardrope, don't look too surprised, I grew up with eleven sisters(a blatant lie)....and without waiting for her to say anything, I brought out my marker(always have one in my pocket, just in case) and wrote my digits on her palms....we fvcked for six months....

Op, you started the relationship on the wrong foot, in every relationship, the party that SENDLESS holds the advantage and controls the other party....you have handed your balls to her, you have given her the impression that you can't live without her....so what do you do? blank her for some days as if she doesn't exist and use those days to work on yourself.....as Harddon will always say, it doesn't matter how far you have travelled the wrong path, as long as you are still on that wrong path, you will not get to your destination.....you need to become an alpha male and watch her start treating you like a god....search out these usernames and follow their posts with your brain intact.... Harddon and his dating drills, Ubunja and his mis-educations, Martinez36.....read their topics and posts, you will see all you are doing wrong and watch how that babe would start running after you with her life.....

Doesn't the story confirms the fact that girls love when they are treated like shiite? A girl can never totally move on from a guy that treats her like crap, fact ......if the said ex was a nice guy, the op would not see him as man enough, perhaps the new guy is a nice guy hence the reason she is very attracted to the ex.....

chenzen:
try ubunja

mad o....

Bytestream:

Tanks bro, I attended David christain center...maybe we could meet on Sundays

okay, I'll pm you later

fayo6059:
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Good morning guys,
What is the best way or method to woo a lady you sincerely love

op, getting any girl of your choice is one of the easiest things, all you need to do is become an alpha male....how do you become an alpha male? just search out these usernames Ubunja and his mis-educations, Harddon and his dating drills, Martinez36, apply their posts to your life and watch women rolling all over you.....that girl would be the one running after you if you are an alpha.....you can thank me later

So sorry for your predicament....if there is any way I can help, all you need do is mention it as I live at igbo-efon too, I can occasionally be dropping by to check you when coming back from work...all the best

Only you one, them charm you, only you one, you keep going back to him. na wah for you o, you no get any other thing wen you dey use your life do? no worry, dey give men ur body make dem take dey play ball, when you don attend Shiloh 2032 dey pray for husband, you go dey alright....

LordOfSamosa:
I'm angry that most advice here are coming from guys
Una dey break Bro Code oo

bros no bother too much, me too no dey happy say dem dey break brothers code but be rest assured, the girl/girls no go take the advice....na so their lives be, the op despite the countless advice on this thread would still be fvcked and dumped by the said nigga.....they can never be logical, never

Martinez39:
Forget about him.

Martinez my g....you are among those that changed my life on women issues, you, Ubunja and Harddon....I've always been trying to holla at you but you no dey ever answer me....

viceddy95:
And there is one guy now,trying his best to make you happy ,loving you the best way he could,even paying some of your bills but look at you now,falling inlove with a player..hope after he chop ,clean mouth and run,you won't say all men are dogs....

Go and be loyal to your current boyfriend ,,so that you won't start attending programs ,where they are sharing husbands in the nearest future...

Shalom.....

the funny thing, after all these advice, she would still be used and dumped by the nigga, she still would not give that nice guy a chance, she would fall for another player and the circle continues till she clocks like 29-31, before her eyes go clear, it's the way they are wired.....I no dey pity them, just apply the same logic and fvck as many as you can....I can bet any amount she will be laid and dumped by the nigga

DenreleDave:
Go to family thread, romance section , every thread about problems in marriage and relationship is most created by guys.
Why aren't women coming online to post their relationship issues?
Are men the victim?
Are women the wicked ones?

Upon Ubunja miseducation, Omar, red pills, Martinez, yet every thread you open about marriage or relationship problems are created by men.

What is wrong? Men are supposed to be strong, why are we this weak?

See evidence:
https://www.nairaland.com/5533279/screenshot-experience-hands-terrible-gold
https://www.nairaland.com/5535255/what-could-wrong-girl-serious
https://www.nairaland.com/5536129/seems-lady-more-than-power
https://www.nairaland.com/5535996/how-whatsapp-hacking-saved-me
https://www.nairaland.com/5537245/think-girlfriend-abortion-hiding-it
https://www.nairaland.com/5535499/fiancee-lied-me-now-find



Ladies, are you guys not facing any issue in ur marriage or relationship?

Why are guys the victim on nairaland?

Cc: hamachi Pocohantas Omar Lalasticala and few to mention

most of them are weaklings who are not matured enough to handle relationships talk more of marriages.....just sitting down to think for a moment will solve most of the problems they are crying of....too many sissies nowadays

Lightway:
And ubunja said

That breakup she initiated for no reason

yhur head dey dere jor.....since I started following Ubunja, Harddon and Martinez, my life has changed for good....when you tell people like the op to follow these people and apply what they read to their lives, they would start arguing, just imagine what a girl who is probably his kid sis agemate is doing to him!!! The girl knows he is a weakling and she is taking full advantage of that, if they eventually get married, she will cheat on him countless times, she might even give him children that are not his to raise....what a shame

donbachi:
deputy Jesus...clap 4 ur sef.

Bros this one na mumu, nor be deputy Jesus, bros J no go try that shit....Bros J was celibate from beginning to the end, if he was going to get married, he would have married someone they were on the same level, but our dear op wants to marry someone who is sexually active while he is celibate and at the same time being in a relationship with her....too much stupidity if you ask me

Gaggi:
No sex relationship with you, yet she has unprotected sex with another and you are in love. F00ls will always exist in abundance. Please take her to the alter immediately.
I think the hard core rap of the 90's we used to listen to helped shape us into men. we used the lyrics to help us through heart breaks and the way the rappers talked about women shaped our mentality. I don't understand the category of young men we have now. An embarrassment and a disgrace to real men.

bros, those kind guys dey annoy me like mad, too weak to be called a man, he is still defending the bitch....it's guys like these that will happily raise another guy kids in the name of loving their mother... can you imagine? shame no go even let me talk this kind thing come out....

pocohantas:
Depends on what I am riding,

Car...bike...

Or my man.

Poco, you no well at all

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn

Bunch of substandard dog shittt including itel, Xiaomi, infinix, oppo

Better spend my cash on iPhone, Samsung, Nokia

Huawei is manageable!
Still investigating them sha
Not convince yet

as a real nigarrr, why did you not add real nigarrr to this post?

Duggedised12:
So let me get this straight,you have a lady you met a virgin ,she has a daughter for you ,love you effortlesssly and even kneels down to serve you ,yet she is still your babymama? Wow you see why i said humans are insatiable? You just like every ingrate out there are the reason many women have had to borrow themselves sense and built up a defense mechanism so wicked men like you will not take advantage of them.

A man says he doesn't want a ho yet he cant wife a decent one who respects him, can you tell my why i should not call you a hypocrite ? Men like you are the ones who treat women anyhow because in their minds "she is not going anywhere,she will be waiting for me when i am done having fun with these hoes out here".

I must say you got yourself a perfect prey who isn't leaving your net any time soon ,so enjoy.

were there not decent guys far better than Ubunja trying to woo her? But she chose a bad boy, she deserves every treatment the guy is giving her....it happens everyday, girls ditch men that can die for them to be running after bad boys and start complaining when they get bad boys treatment....that's why a lot of guys are becoming bad by the day....

ubunja:
very understandable.

Myself I have a daughter and when she grows up it's better she be a Gold Digger. to survive. I will train her up that way. Love is a losing game. For everyone male or female.

I so much love this, I would rather my daughter/sister be a gold digger than fooling herself in the name of love.... LOVE IS A LOOSING GAME FOR EVERYONE, MALE OR FEMALE..words on a marble..... although, I didn't understand it like this, but I've always seen people in love as loosers, if you refuse to fall in love, you can seldom be used.....Ubunja, you are da bomb

Amstupid:
d question is not for u,,,,, na village pipu putt hand for ur own matter oo

I he thing no tire me? I dey find am hard to believe the guy sha

rtdCivilservant:
I attended Manchester primary school in uk, attended boys high school Houston in united states and graduated from Harvard in United states with a first class in Engineering, but with all these I am a teacher in God's saviour secondary school in Oshodi. So in all what is my gain? This world is wicked.

I am sorry, I find it hard to believe this your story.....I mean, first class in engineering in a Nigeria institution will get you a good job, talk more of Harvard University....

midnighter:


Lol I dont understand. Which kind best friend be that

the thing no tire me? she travelled for some days, on the second day she called and told me her best friend would be spending some time with me that she just got a job on the island bla bla bla.....maybe she wanted the babe to be monitoring me, I didn't even argue, I just told her if the girl first you carry belle for me or she send you IV for our wedding, no vex o.....na she use her mouth tell the girl make she no near my house.....there is a saying that you can't ask a goat to look after your yam without the goat eating it....I would rather not be in such situation than fighting the temptation....as per the op, he had been eyeing the girl hence the reason for agreeing to the request and falling immediately, but him no come get the mind to handle the guilt....he is a weakling if you ask me.....he presents himself as a good boy, such guys usually have relationships problems .... something as easy as this, he cannot solve

midnighter:
How can somebody use her own mouth to urge their dude and girlfriend stay together...in a self-contained...and she wont even be there to attend to her friend...

Well, couldnt be me sha..crazy..

Maybe she collaborated with the friend to test you and see if you would fall

I strongly agree with you.....my girl wanted to try that shit with me, my reply was 'if she send you IV for me and her wedding, no vex o'....how a girl would agree for her best friend to pass the night alone with her guy is beyond me. Test or no test, both of them don fvck up....

Omar09:


Oga you are on your daily dose of red pill. Keep it up. How n why should I feel pity for the woman condition ni? Don't she have a home she came from?

Some people no mumu look back at all.

Imagine, the man did not wake n become irresponsible just like that. He has always been. OK look at this scenario, a girl in my street she's doing all she can so that a one Yahoo guy like that will notice her, a guy who has nothing doing but yahoo, is that guy responsible? OK when she gets pregnant and maybe the guy runs away, she will start claiming all men are scum. She saw the red flag oh... But hey I want money n he is cute. Nansense n runs girl.

tomorrow she go begin find gentleman like me wen she wan pour the wahala wen the yahoo boy put for her body on.... anything she see for inside, make she take am like that, I no go pity and I no go help her

Omar09:


That's big time bullshit. For me little things explain the greater you. She should have seen the red flags. And to all those saying I'm complicating the whole issue and blaming the woman, yes I am blaming her. You can't tell me a better guy and nice one for that matter didn't come by her n he would have done anything to please her yet she didn't give him a chance. It's her cross, she should carry it. But putting that little girl in such position, she should be nailed.

chop knuckle my gee.....are you in Lagos? na guys like you I dey like roll with

freda506:

Yes. Let's blame women for men being useless, and let's pretend responsible men are lying around in excess and women are deliberately not picking.

Look at all of you absolving the man of all responsibility and blame. Must be nice.

I am not absolving the man of responsibility and blame, my issue is , he has always been irresponsible and our dear sister despite the red flags chose him over all the other responsible men wooing her knowing fully well there would be repercussions, now she is facing it, I would not want to fight for such a person, they disgusts me.....las las, she go still see you as person wen wan pour sand for her garri like the op is witnessing....

Omar09:


Bro you just said the hard truth. I don't like the fact that a minor is being raped and abused, but the mother should have known better. Her husband didn't just wake up one morning and started behaving reckless and irresponsible. It's been there yet he was the one deemed fit to father her kids. How appalling.

But no matter what the wife must have done, that man should have come to rescue the kid. Some people get mind.

Bros, na so their lives be. It disgusts me really. Get sense, them no go gree.....if you have been trying to get a girl's attention by being nice to her, she would be snubbing you but start treating her like scum and boom just like magic, she would start doing the chasing....like seriously? then after getting whatever from such relationships, they would be looking for those good boys that they never responded to, to come and bail them out, like taking care of them and the child/children they had for the bad boys...it's that not bullshit?

CHoccolaTE:

You dont support irresponsibility but if you were the op you would mind your business?
Women don't seek put irresponsible men that's a lie. Men pretend and lie to get married to unsuspecting women and then start showing their true colors after marriage.

While I agree that some men pretend, the majority of ladies that are single mothers got pregnant for the 'bad boys' with their eyes wide open. These guys didn't just wake up and start behaving irresponsible, the character was always there, but their dumbness won't allow them see it.....look around you and look at the number of girls running after the bad boys in your area despite other gentlemen. When you try to advice them, you become the enemy but when they start facing the consequences and you turn your face, you become a bad person....

CHoccolaTE:


bold, this is what you get when you live in a society that blames women for everything and tells wives to be homebuilders while men are free to do as they please.

In sane societies the man would be forced to pay child support or be arrested but in Nigeria women are like lesser animals that take blame for husbands bad behaviour. Just imagine the comment the he goat made after his own daughter was raped.
The other day another guy started a similar topic to talk about a guy whose kids go around begging everybody while the father is busy denying they are his kids.


Nigeria is just paradise for useless and irresponsible fathers.

As for the topic if you have any way to financially help the woman or get her a job, house whatever I think you should do that. If she lives in abuja she should visit berekete family for the philanthropist ordinary Ahmed to help her. The guy will shock you with how well he can transform their lives, he takes things like this very serious. That is if the woman is ready to cooperate. He can also get the landlord arrested.

When they said girls love bad boys, you people will be arguing, the guy has always been irresponsible but he is the one the woman chose to have children for despite lots of gentlemen that would be asking her out in her time....I don't support irresponsibility one bit but in Nigeria (I have not been abroad), it is these set of men that mostly get all the girls, we see it everyday.....how a girl will be running after an irresponsible man that treats her like scum despite all her options always beat my imagination....I don't pity such girls when they start facing the repercussions, this is one of it....I'm sorry if I am sounding harsh, if I were the op, I would mind my business