chriskosherbal:
Hmmm na waoooo 21st century marriages...lack of respect for marital union has been causing divorce like hell Since 1900BC

Well even tho am not supporting the hubby...who knows if the wife is free from this too ...


Just my opinion .


Well next time he try and make certain conversation phone call only and not typing on any social media platform

Is dt hw u use 2 do? Proof of d man's infidelity is in front of u, u leave am cm dey wonder if d wife dey free

As if dt wasn't enuf, u cm even dey drop info on hw not 2 get caught nxt tym ...

2 beat u jes dey hungry me.

Its obviously a joke!

Y do i hv ds feeling dt dude's gna sit tight n still wait 4 aunty 2 propose? Hope shez ready tho

Der's only one way 2 find out....

After i went thru d first page of dt thread,i was ashamed....Its not just dt dey do not read,a lot of dem jes look at d first few comments n reply along dt line....Its quite terrible

Benekruku:
When you tell some men to use there girl friend for money rituals, they will be screaming love at the top of there voice.

A lady that should have been vomitting money in his wardrobe now happens to have terminated his very own life.

U no well.

nnokwa042:
This oyibo culture of man kneeling to woman to propose to her is not not African culture and it should stop,after kneeling she don kill him

So d kneeling got him killed?

Lunagirl:


Please fight for yourself. Which one is that you are fighting for women not to be evil?

Evil has no gender. If you are evil, you are. Don't join men to say generalized nonsense about the female gender.

Thank u.

dingbang:
Infact I am not kneeling down to propose again

Pls don't even propose at all...

anitank:


"... while putting up a decorum to cover it all up because she wanted her marriage to work."

Dey wld neva see those stunts she pulled in dt light(lied 2 mk her husband luk gd in public)...Her efforts r nw used 2 point out dt she isn't 2 be trusted....They nw use it 2 justify not believing anytn she says.

ashjay001:



Nope!?

His interviews are always in response to hers!? And, u get d sense he is trying to set d record straight, no malice!

He paid her 10m since dec, ds is d first time she is acknowledging it, but now claiming it was for d wedding expenses she incurred!? So, why has she been harping on unrefunded dowry since?

Does Tonto look like a lady u can assault n turn ur back on? D guy makes a lot of sense, Tonto is just everywhere, trying to bring a nigga down!

Apparently Churchill cn do no wrong in ur eyes...Its clear u swallow evrytn he says hook,line n sinker wc automatically mks Tonto d liar....Der's no smk wtout a fire...Ds is d 2nd woman he cldn't live with,don't u fnk smtn is wrong smwer?

Isn't it strange dt no one attacks Churchill(telling him 2 shut up n mv on) weneva he grants interviews talkin abt Tonto?

Most of her rants r usually in response 2 Churchill's interviews or in response 2 any1 who carries her matter on his/her head....Smhw people pretend not 2 see/look d oda way wen her attackers strike ,n den attack her wen she reacts.

I feel sorry 4 her.

bedspread:
IF YOU HAVE A CLEAR UNDERSTANDING AND BELIEVE IN YOUR CREATOR... YOU WILL NOT SEE YOUR TITHE AS MONEY GIVEN YO YOUR PASTOR..... a Pastor that Eats people's Tithe is seating on a Gun Powder. Unless you are in a yahoo yahoo church. Your Tithe is used to Expand , Promote and propagate The GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST

Who den tks d tithe if not d pastor

I always look foward 2 Bobrisky's grammar, n he neva disappoints.... "Low service" nko?

Meeloreh:
Simple!
After dishing out, pour water immediately into the pot. If your case is extreme, add little soap

Ah! U want 2 kee smbody??! 4rm what d op described up der,not even soap n water cn stop him

KOPT55:


Let's about slowness shall we:

How come you think a hit song being on the radio for 12 weeks automatically translates to men dropping their self-preservation instincts?

Lord, I can't believe I am typing this: this b*atch is a stone!

Kai! Pls sm1 shld get a wheel chair n tk me away(2 weak 2 mv )...Dt was mean

chiraqDemon:

If na Yankee babe u go sure small. Naija girl go just go ur house to carry ur TV and stuff go sell then move to the next guy. All these b4 ur parents even know say u don die that evening

Lwkm! Lord akant!

Jerryolumide:
cool and you?

I'm good

Jerryolumide:
birthday mate

What's up?

soberdrunk:
Hahahaha!! This just reminded of years back when i went into the ceiling to peep when my older brother and is girlfriend were having 'fun', i got so carried away by the action i didnt know i had moved my weight to the wrong board and came crashing down by their side, i dont know who was more embarrassed, me or the girl, all i kept screaming was "cable wire"!! "Cable wire"!! trying to cover up with the lie that i went into the ceiling to adjust cable wire........

Lord akant!!!

generationz:
Eez well
Op watch your back, be very careful the lady is capable of anything as long as you have her secrets

Things dey happen. Op this thing you have just said is nothing new under the sun, there are thousands of ladies who are engaged or in relationships screwing their best friends, CO workers, boss or some random married man.
it seems ladies cheat much more than guys these days.

There is no good person, we all have some demented, dark, part of us that is being suppress for two reasons
We are naive on how to release it or
We are scared of how society will see us.

To your topic,


What if you release the evidence and they later reconcile and get married, the thrill of revenge would have died and you'll end up looking stupid.

You shouldn't leave your husband but you can brilliantly use what you have to blackmail him and even cash out on it(maybe buying you a land or car) because at the end of the day you'll still forgive your husband at least get something from the guilty feeling while it lasts. You are a God right now, your decision can make or Mar destinies take advantage of the situation to be appeased.

You can also blackmail the lady for your silence ( if your mind reach that one), after all what's the guarantee that the fiance won't forgive her.

Blackmail is a vry dangerous game...U mk urslf a target, n der's no way of knwing d length a persn wld go 2 protect his/her secrets.

Guitarlife:


Your assumption that the distance caused the infidelity is fallacious.

We have countless men working far away from home and are faithfull.

Its not everyone that is married that has that priedge of staying with thier families so try to expand your horizon.

People work offshore and are transferred to different locations and its normal so lets not excuse the mans infidelity.

Now to the OP. Stop listening to some fools here who wanna ruin your home.
Some of the women here asking you to divorce ypur husband take far more bullshit from their huabands to secure thier home.

From ur write up, your husband is apologetic so just be wise. This is the time to win him over. Let him know the implication and negative exposure his infidelity causes.

Do not leave your home after 3 children , that will be very stupid and the other lady would have achieved her aim if you did that.

Lastly some people will argue that if the tables were turned people would have advised the ma to leave the woman . YES! I would not hesitate to advise a man to divorce his cheating wife. Its not chauvinism its simply nature . A married woman cheating has far more dangerous repercussion than a married man cheating like risk of fathering a bastard because when multiple men sleep with a woman it becomes difficult to know whom the real father of the child is also men are not as emotionally vulnerable as women.

So OP be wise.

@ last paragraph....2 slap u jes dey hungry me

Immatex:
If I should lend a voice.

Your husband living apart from you and your kids provided good grounds for infidelity.

Those moments he returns home from work with no one to talk to, no warmth, affection and properly no strength to do himself a nice meal.

Those times you had to care for your work and kids in your other residence, he would surf the net, think of the attractive soft spoken ladies all around then his defense gets weakened every passing day.

He begins to see nothing wrong in a having a friend less busy as his wife. He presumes a little hi won't hurt and so sow the seed he is now harvesting bringing devastation to his home.

But woman, you share in the blame even though innocent for now. You must accept to make more sacrifices before giving up on him. You must also forgive him if he shows true remorse and repentance.

I recommend you live at the same home as your husband- the kids will keep him busy and you will keep an eye on him.

This act of he's should not make you forget the past from the beginning. You have kids, so think of their stability before reaching a conclusion.

I will also advice you against becoming the judge on the ladies relationship. Just mind your family and drive her away from to where she came from.

Hope my advice would meet you well.

Its funny hw d tune changes once its d man cheating....I jes dey look u

AmoryBlacq:
life!


please report the Lady to her man, no one deserves a cheating partner!

some men are so careless, how dare you bring your mistress to your home!

Single! should I ever get engaged and decide to cheat on my partner it's going to be in a far away place, I mean if she's in Nigeria at the time I will cheat on her in Macedonia, eliminating the possibility of her ever finding out! No one deserves that pain and anguish they feel when they discover their partner is cheating!

Op I sympathize with you!

Oh,so its ok 2 cheat as long as u do it @ d right location(far away 2 reduce d risk of being caught)?

Ah!! I'm weak...Morals hv gone 2 d dogs....God help us all

FemiEddy:
I am not married yet, so am not fit to give you an advice, but at least I can reason well and have seen things so this is my opinion
Firstly, Leave the lady and her husband alone, Karma always comes back to hunt it's victim, she will reap the fruit of her labour, mind ur business and give ursef peace of mind.
Secondly, ur husband, u know his weak point, maybe pounded yam, or one food, or maybe d oda room, give him a good treat, after he is calm and relaxed, confront him, just ask him why he did it, he will tell u , don't raise your voice o, u already have three kids, those are ur treasure. If you indeed love ur husband, please try, it's hard, but try for the sake of the kids
My opinion

It would be really nice if u would gv ds same advice if it wer 2 be d oda way round.

Its nice 2 look at,bt irritates my skin wen i get in contact wt it...Hence, its a no 4 me

Awww! They r cute...Happy birthday to them

I mst hv identical twins o,it is a must!!!

Lwkm... Ds woman has got no chill!! Pastor,over 2 u o!

Apparently,der's ds new unwritten rule dt says "wen eva a man proposes 2 a lady, she mst cover her face/mouth wt her hands"..
Lemme gaan practice ,so i cn obey ds rule wen he pops d question

D guy's itembe is very strong.

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