dbestuncle:
There is a popular saying that women speak from the bedrock of their emotions especially when they are angry. They don't speak about fact or truth once they are angry but how they feel at the moment.
Even if you buy your wife a car now, in less than a week if you have a fight she can say it boldly that you have never bought her anything in life.
This is the way it plays out for most of them and it is not ingratitude na anger.
So if your wife matter na vex dey cause am just look away, discard the plenty talk and move on to better matter.
Sorry it hurts but they are again the most loving if we can make them happy.

This is a selfish one sided statement, I don't understand, is it that it's only a woman's happiness that matters? And men should be cast aside and left to suffer emotional and mental abuse simply cause he wants to please a woman?
I choose to not believe that God created one species to be a fool for the other to suffer while the other basks in their stupidity and gets a pass all the time. What is wrong is wrong lets be guided on that fact.

kkins25:

Knowing what a man's family members can do, my father never bought anything in his name. he also bore it at the back of his mind that he would most likely die before her. So, it was common sense to put stuffs in her name. Not everybody comes from homes where two mad individuals marry each other.

Your father tried, I can never trust a woman wholly like that. What if she disappeared never to be seen with all documents. Men trust no one.

shege45:
if you dad is lifting something heavy in my presence, would I sit there and ignore him?

U head has oil my friend, leave some women to be capping nonsense. This is just common home training. Nobody is forcing anyone but at least offer first, let it be u where not allowed.

No be you go tell me wetin I go do.

Nigerians, we dey see the jokers, yet we recycle the same corrupt men and complain later that we hate the government. The time has come for us to take voting serious. God will not do for man what he can do for himself.

How some people dey reason for this platform I no understand
I cannot buy car for a woman I've not wived oooo.... Except my mama. Wail all u want and call it redpilling not doing it doesn't make the nigga broke (for the broke nigga sermon preacher's) its just ground rules. She go still use the same car drive of when she dey shatter your soul.

You don't need to treat people bad before u help them, trusts me most people who do this have nothing to offer you. Someone who wants to see you eat and grow would not treat you less when you haven't done anything wrong to him or her.

Chelshit, make una donate premium tears

zinaunreal:
Fake. Nigerian man cannot spend his money on useless sexual fetishism. 1.5m for 5 mins of masturbation or even less? Na lie jor. If he had gone lower with the price I for believe because Nigerian bitches would still do it. That's where the lies started

My guy e go shock you how much men dey spend daily on women. I have known people who would use their last savings be it 1mil to chase a hoe and make sure she succumbs to their bidding.

Even the ones wei dey sleep with married men dey talk lol...me I cannot judge cause I do not know the whole story. Only thing I can say is he should have told his wife and not blindside her, that one is an unfair thing to do.
But who knows maybe he had no choice but to marry the woman, no be everybody support the baby mama shit. If she no wan abort.. Wetin the man go do kwanu, being married is better than having a baby mama in some traditions.

Na wa ooo, é Don reach the extent people are now proud to Bleep married people. No be so!!! What goes around comes around sha. I won't do to another what I do not want to be done to me.

Asking for advice on nairaland were frustration Don kill so many people, instead of giving mature advice they come for you with insults. Lots of people are shitty in this country. If you have nothing reasonable to say to the man why not just move on, must you abuse someone. so many people need therapy in this country.

Kobojunkie:
Good you don't want to marry such a woman but the Nigerian society however extols men who marry such women so if you must have an issue with anyone for allowing this culture, direct your attack and venom at society, not the women.

Try dey read to understand, show me one attack on women in my post. I just said what I like. What society thinks doesn't concern me, I know what I want.

Me I will not marry a liability, if i contribute 70percent try bring 30. If two people get then e go choke. My billionaire goal would be more achievable if I have a woman who contributes to our getting there. Any man who doesn't want an independent woman is just insecure. Me and my woman must grow together finicially and otherwise.

Atticusxsz:


Bro... the amount wey comot from him mouth abi qwerty keyboard shock me reach my bone, i swear.

Even me I just dey laugh, 500million dollars dey here. If OBO get that kine money we know say in no go gree us rest. I still dey doubt the 30billion self gan.

Atticusxsz:


You say what! $500 million wetin?
You sure say you know wetin you dey yarn so eh? Even if you remove a zero from the amount you made mentioned, his net worth isn't still up to that amount.
He's neither a Ronaldo nor Messi... so no think am.

Leave that guy, in think say soccer money na beans. What he makes in two shows is what those men make in a week's salary in pounds

Anyone go brag with you when u get money and you dey show love. I'm more concerned with what people do when your not that olowo anymore.

Arsenal na customer dada na, gra gra na their name... But we all know where they belong.

This super story sha go well!!!
Everyone is sha entitled to go with what works for them

Ronaldo Don come back again, baba Don return from in self imposed injury

What is a red flag to you might not be a red flag to another.
Moral : people judge things differently. Some ladies are fine with a man that beats them, some are not. Some men are fine with a woman that nags, some are not. It's just that at a point tolerance starts to diminish, from there the idea of something better starts to take form. Hense they start to complain.

Nigerians!!! You all can be brutal with your replies. The lady in question ain't perfect, how many of you have your shit together all the time??

My dear lady, life is too short to waste it on people who try to take your peace especially if you had put in a great amount of effort to make it better. I say stick with the new guy but think with your brain too cause love in the early stages can be fleeting. Take a good time to think about what you really want from a man and set your pass mark. A realistic one.
Nobody can be perfect. In the end go with what you know is good for you and what u can handle when the going gets tough. So u have no complaints later.

Una dey make noise here, baba Don cash out organise maybach and one nice rolex watch to celebrate in money. Cry in peace. OBO still great kpa

MangekyoAlt:
I'm not advocating for war. But the thing is, what Britain and USA are doing, wars have been started for far less.
Me personally, I hate fighting. But someone will not just come to where I am and maybe does something very provocative to me and expect me not to fight him. Even the russia that you see have invaded Ukraine, they hate wars too. But when their red lines was crossed, they signaled the US and charged them to pull back immediately otherwise they will have no other choice but to do the unthinkable. USA refused which is why we now have this crisis which even russia does not want

yes, allies from BOTH sides would be involved! What makes Britain great? It's on the same level with France and Germany.

so did the Soviet Union


Are you legit asking me this? Sure, what Russia is doing is morally wrong. But the USA did FAR FAR worse before like Invading Iraq for some shit ass WMD intelligence. Or invading Syria and killing gadaffi. All these and much more were morally wrong. But Americans and some fools on nairaland wouldnt criticize these moves by US. I also will not criticize russia because USA never got any criticism when they invaded countries for dumb reasons

Agreed usa was wrong to invade some countries but you have to know that many of this countries were involved in unspeakable anf unprovoked acts of terrorism. If they didn't do what they did at the time, who is to say terrorism wouldn't have been rife right now. Ghadafi being an exception. His part I think they where threatened at the power he was gathering but do not forget he admitted to the lockaby bombing. The single greatest act of terror on the British.

MangekyoAlt:
So happy to see Britain and US on their list.
These two Anglo-Saxon countries need to be thoroughly dealt with immediately and I just can't wait witness it. I'm itching to see the downfall of the USA. Britain is pretty much a silly lapdog to the USA so they will follow their masters to the ground, where they belong.
Meanwhile, what is "Great" about Britain?
Imagine Biafra brakes out of Nigeria and then few decades later, Nigeria becomes a lapdog of Biafra, answering yes sir to Biafrans and doing their dirty biddings. That's how fućked up the so called "Great" Britain is right now. Britain is Just a fućked up third world shithole riding on past glory. By the time the Russians are done with 'em, they will find themselves in the stone age. Can't wait for it

My friend please Don not advocate for war, when this countries go to war it never ends well for the rest. Every ally would have to be involved and not matter what u think Britain is a very great nation. They contributed more to ww2 than the US. Do you support what putin is doing??

I know the feeling bro when you experience something so good and different that it's so hard to stop. But you must understand that women like that gal would always be around expecially when your succeful. So take a moment to consider what a relationship might do to your family, and if your willing to go through all that cause of the great sex.

All that glitters ain't gold bro, if she was such a good lady she wouldn't Bleep with a married man, you never know the plans this school girls have. Your wife can always learn to Bleep like that, do not let a pretty face and good pussy ruin something beautiful you have. Consider the consequences of keeping such a relationship and ask yourself if your ready for anything that happens afterward. Peace be with you

This is how Hitler started by annexing territory around him under the guise of liberation and propaganda only to never stop there. What is to stop Russia from doing the same to their neighbours if they win this one on Ukraine, what is to stop China from invading Taiwan if Russia is successful, more reasons Russia must not be allowed to succeed.

YellowMayor:





At the bolded, can you provide any evidence for this?

Of course I wouldn't have the evidence, but it was one of the reasons the U.S wanted him gone. Though I would admit if ghadafi had been allowed to continue in his path, probably we would have had a greater africa from the ideas he wanted to implement. But who is to say the African wouldn't have let their greed take over. After all it was his people who ended him!!!

YellowMayor:




At the bolded;
Propaganda by USA in order to get public sympathy/support. Can you tell us the country that Gaddafi/Libya invaded? Or what were his sins

He funded terrorist cells secretly, ghadafi also gave boldness to idiamin the tyrant with his all Islam support.

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Kingcalls:


So u are saying modric is better than iniesta and xavi cos he won an individual award that they dint win ....ok

My brother dey try read to understand.

Kingcalls:


Awards don't determine the best just like elections dont determine the best... but u are not smart enough to know this... so in ur analogy, modric is better than iniesta and xavi

in the year he won, he was the best, performance and trophies. He may not have sustained on that form but He was the best midfielder in the world at the time he won. If xavi and iniesta did more, then they should have claimed the award too, I recall xavi coming 3rd once to show he was recognised, but he was beaten by messi cause messi did more. So if u tell me Ronaldo is best and yet the other has more ballons than him then! , I think you should pray to God for a better sense of judgement.