₦airaland Forum

Opiletool:
Don't be a schlepping cretin. Not all men get emotionally attached, and men react differently to emotional issues. Because you are an insecure fool does not make all men to be. Get that into your numb skull. Stop using yourself or male relatives to generalise all men. Arindin. Last time I will have to school you, learn or go argue with someone else.

coward always retort to insult when they can not comprehend simple English....

Opiletool:
And have you made more sense with the gibberish you typed?
Do you think all men reason and react the same?
Not all women you meet in your life can make you feel insecure. You can only feel insecure if 1, you have insecurity in your personality, and 2, if you're deeply in love or obsessed with the woman.

There are girls that you will date and be well aware that they are having other affairs, but still you care less about that. So, your level of emotional attachment matters.

An insecure person is someone lacking confidence. It could be in his relationship or other issues. Confidence is a feeling or belief that you Have faith or rely On someone. Now With all your juvenile gibberish that you typed, can you understand the correlation between your partner making you feel insecure with the above stated definition that I have giving to you?

Opiletool:
Somehow true.

If you're an insecure person, and you went ahead to date a beautiful woman that likes getting attention from men (which is the sad reality), just know that you're killing yourself by yourself.

If a woman give you a reason to feel insecure my dear you will feel insecure so stop this nonsense of if you are insecure person. You will catch a girl red handed cheating...lol she will still say the guy is insecure...smh

Onyi22:
We d beautiful babes don't want to settled down with a poor, frustrated man..... We need money

I guess you are handicapped right?

dedonfranco:
Buhari have my vote.
Nothing for PDP to show 16year's in power.

if you don't see anything for 16 years it means u were born in 2014....This is statement of 16 years nothing is actually an ignorant statements

MissRaine69:
You are the robot. I make my own rules.

That's the problem...smh. You need to do some reprogramming coz this version of your robotics is terrible... Gud9t

MissRaine69:
How do you think we ended up in a relationship if we don’t have the same ideals? Or discussed these things beforehand. Not everyone just falls into relationships yoo know! Some people look for and find their others based on the overlooked aspect called compatibility.
Well be scared if your mindset is stuck in the 20th century.
You are a funny muffin!

lol.. I love 20th century... at least we are not modern day roboot

MissRaine69:
The thing that makes relationships work is you that find someone who shares the same ideals as you. Problem solved.
And what makes you think I want children?

just communicate to him that u just want to date and nothing like marriage or kids on your agenda for life, so he can decide properly if he shares the same value with you tho. I'm getting scared of the way modern day girls think.

MissRaine69:
I have a very good man, I just don’t want to get married. Why is it such a difficult concept to fathom?

lol.... please allow the man to marry o, because u don't want to marry and u are keeping the good man ....lol abi u one turn am to baby papa?

Regiinald:
I believe people (including me) should get married only because they want to have children officially.

I don't think getting married because you want to spend the rest of your life with the person is a valid reason because that is why you are dating such person in the first place and getting married doesn't change that decision.

Why Would You Want To Get Married?

lol... Do we have unofficial children?

PrimadonnaO:
I don't understand...because I can't read again or what?


It's not always about who's chyking you and who isn't...there are certain other things I might want to keep private.

lol we know the things

handie:
There's sense in what this guy is saying. A look into the western Nigeria crises of 1963( A remote cause of the military takeover of 1965 and the civil war of 1967-1970) will reveal that the announcement of fake election results by broadcast houses loyal to the two leading parties in the region greatly contributed to the crises..... In this age of social media where there's no control whatsoever over what is posted and with this tense political situation, a shutdown of the internet is somehow a right call..... Unfortunately, the SCR(Smart card readers) relies on d internet for result transmission and d cost of a total shutdown of the internet (resulting from losses that online Business will record, those who use it for educational purposes and other constructive users of the internet) is just more than the country can afford. I will recommend a shutdown of access to the various social media platform from 8am on election day till the results are officially announced by INEC

why didn't you ppl suggest this same thing in the last election

UyaiIncomparabl:
I haven't bought a phone, but I've given money to a guy I wasn't in a relationship with, not even once. He's married now. What's the big deal to buy a phone for someone? Stop giving importance to trivialities.

my dear guys give money regularly to girls they don't have anything with so it is not news...

UyaiIncomparabl:
They don't need your help either! Save your money. This warped mentality of Nigerian men is really nauseating. I think most of you should be buried alive.

lol...why the hate? Can you buy a phone for a guy that is in a serious relationship? If no, why do you want a man to buy for you?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes I will. You guys/men should learn how to give without strings attached or expecting benefits in return.

I'm tired of Nigerian guys, ask them for something now, they'll refer you to your boyfriends. Give without attaching strings, that way both parties will be happy. Be a giver today.

lol...how many have u bought for ? To whom much is giving much is also expected

funmisticqueen:
bravo! i feel like hugging you. you just conveyed how i feel and what allthese small boys refused to understand

clap for your self...15th century analogy... These days we men also want value.

LightQueen:
For your mind I am used to calling my friends dear, darling, sweet, both males and females. That does not mean I friend zone them

lol read your post very well madam or don't you know the meaning of friendzone

Richdad50:
A good news but I fear inflation.

how do ppl reason? You fear inflation because of minimum wage but when it comes to jumbo pay for politicians there is no fear of inflation.

omooba969:
And who's talking about APC here?

Can you see how you're politicising the issue of corruption?

You must be out of your mind.... seriously!

You are just like your party leader.... hypocrite...it is political

omooba969:
Why hold any meeting in the face of blatant & brazen corruption?

Our politicians fathers have now institutionalised corruption in Nigeria. Onnoghen's case shouldn't be contested as there's an admission of wrongdoing by the defendant (Onnoghen), therefore he should be facing prosecution with expectation of a custodial sentence.

In the same light, the executive arm has violated rules & flouted laws with regards to due process - arbitrary use of power.

The judiciary is twisted, the country is....

Phew!

we talk about corruption as of APC is not corrupt... Selective justice is not fighting corruption get that into your skull

BeansAndBread:
Stupid set of corrupt eddiots, imagine a guy with $1million dollar in his account in which he didn't declare, he admitted by claiming forgetfulness and you expect us to accept it. Stupid people, this is how God would continue to expose y'all, rubbish!

why can't we hear of the one of APC? Selective justice is not fighting corruption...

pocohantas:
All this talk because a woman buys a property in her name? Don't married men buy properties in their names everyday? It is a regular thing that making a topic about it would be very absurd.

Every time, don't marry. Are you the one that will tell me if I should marry? Or you think every man reasons like you? shut the fck up.




The topic isn't if you will tell the man or not. Maybe you should read the topic again. That said, whether he agrees or not, I will make investments I deem necessary.

U can have kids without having a husband. Marriage is not for everyone

Toks2008:
This is the 21st century. There is nothing wrong and you don't even need to take permission from your hubby.

lol...this is the 21st century you don't need to get married.

martowskin1:
Hope u know this marriage thing is over rated, is not by force to marry, u can just focused on your life and achieve your dreams.... A man doesn't need to be part of it

Since it is over rated then there should be no need for this topic after all she can focus on her dreams and buy all the properties in the world

Philpham:
You are nothing but a greedy thief, I pity your wife. She don enter one chance.

lol....na you no just get sense. The person say him no like surprises say him prefer discussion...how is he greedy? Otondo come and explain

pocohantas:
I wonder why all these topics of what women should do or not do. Like women are not humans capable of making decisions.

There will be properties in our names.
There will be lots of properties in my sole name. Any man that thinks I will buy every thing in our names is highly delusional.

You can buy the world in your name but discuss it with your man and agree before proceeding.... simple

Divay22:
Nah.
Just tell him when deal is already done.

it is too late... Trust me it can lead to the end of our marriage

delpee:
There's nothing wrong with that. Every human being has a right to invest in properties just like stocks and others.

In a good relationship, her husband will know about it and even assist her in every way.
Usually, when there's no trust, if a man has other wives or mistresses and if a man spends recklessly, a woman may become secretive about such ventures to safeguard her interest.

you ppl will always put the blame on the man.smh

keepingmum:
Women please buy as many properties as you canin your SOLE name. , buy in your full names please. MRS titi Abubakar not Mr and Mrs Abubakar.....they may be a second Mrs Abubakar in the future, like Jennifer is also Mrs Abubakar.

Whether the man you are married to supports, agrees or is even aware is irrelevant. Buy it ohhhhh.
I have been married for almost 15years to a truly wonderful man who is also VERY imperfect in many ways!!!

Dont buy in your brothers name cos you areonly enriching your brother and his own immediate family.

I have seen and will see more to validate my views. I have assets in my name alone and infact, only tell hubby after purchasing. But i also have a will that indicates all my estate to my children.


Dont listen to any inlaw, pastor or Imam that says otherwise rather speak with wives who have atleast a decade of marriage lessons in them.

If you are married to an egoistic dream killer that believes you acquiring properties will make his blokos shrink, please buy without his knowledge, take your documents and keep in the bank for storage!! Keep buying and preserving the docs in the banks vault.
Dont allow him pressure you to add his name to your property, if he so desperately wants a propertt he should buy

You don't have a husband...lol you are just leaving with a man

obembet:
Guys I believe many of you have experience this and handled it with maturity. How do you end call you're tired of without sounding rude?

pls can we talk later I have to do some stuff...