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Crystalqueen:
Applaud For what?? What he did wad irrational and uncivilized

her cheating was rational and civilized..mad generation

Tajbol4splend:
We create positions like working environment huh?

huh? Is working environment position to cheat? Is it not your Flirting and constant communication with the opposite sex in your office that puts you In the position to cheat? So if you eventually cheat you will blame it on working environment abi? Clown..lol

Tajbol4splend:
I think there are two categories of people who cheat. First is the set of people who are open to cheating and the ones who can't help it. I don't think cheating is generally tantamount to infidelity, even though it hurts to be cheated on but I still think being subjected to temptation makes one powerless to stop the act especially if it's with someone you are attracted to. I believe anybody can cheat as long as you got flesh and you can feel but it's easy to say you can't cheat until you find yourself in the position to.

Avoid the position to ...most times we create those positions ourselves

Thinkfree:
you just have to fake the feelings towards him. Tame the true feelings don't allow it grow out of proportion.

why do you have to fake feelings? It is either you are in love or not...You can easily get sex without having to fake feelings...so why go thru the stress to be deceitful?

GrabHisBalls:
I actually thought you meant something more serious. Would you keep playing this game 'till you get old? I don't even have the time to fake feelings.

lol...so you took a robot serious..lol. internet is a place where dummies claims to be professionals

Blisplendor12:
It's not easy though but never be too attached, always prepare for the worse

Do you plan to be attached? If the answer is no then do you control the level of attachment? Love is beautiful thing...You can never be too careful with life so it is with love...If you are hurt because of love just deal with the pain after all ppl did not entering keke or car because of Accident

IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

Too many robot....smh

Foolish post.... Everybody is now love expert ..lol
How is it a mistake to do these things? This are the reasons why you will see a girl that loves her man and she will be holding back all in the name of I don't want him to take it for granted. The point is if both of you hold back , all because of the above "silly mistake", can you say you have a relationship?

tohyorsih:
Always check the moniker before you reply mentions...His moniker says the kind of person he is.


He's not normal

Thanks

enemyofprogress:
dumb?what is dumb her? You and this made in aba English.


Tohyorsih come and see your landlord pikin o

a simple typo error due to auto correct and you running your mouth like your father is the owner of English language... English master kontinue

Preshy561:
You saw what you were looking for.

is it not better to see and dumb her then move on than to be in fake relationship... useless girls everywhere

xendra:
YIMU ....user spotted!
na all this lies una don take trap people sisters for corner while you go out and spend that money she is helping you to save on other women and people who wouldn't suffer it with you when things go bad.

Gold digger spotted

Sage7:
What’s your take??

Have you ever been in a distant relationship??...or perhaps your present woman gets a juicy job offer in another country, you really think you both can stand the test of time??

Share your thoughts!

We have to be honest about it... If we cannot hold our commitment then we should talk about it and break up then you can move on.... I hate cheating and I hate ppl that are not honest

Candiesramah:
You better learn how to cheat. You'll regret staying faithful to these bastards.

so bitter she has values unlike you

Sage7:
There’s a likelihood for cheating to occur in distant relationships.

You can’t really judge. Even the OP must have cheated too.

Humans are bound to fall & fail in such relationships, especially when you’re not married.

The one who has sworn not to cheat or never cheated has not done so because more than half the time they’ve not found themselves in circumstances that warrants cheating.

You can’t judge nobody, except there is a ring on it.

For your sanity, try everything to take her to Netherlands if you eventually walk down the aisle with her. The devil you know is....

If you leave am, na man like you go still marry am.

Try another relationship & travel again, same thing will happen. The distance is the problem.

wrong advice....

Freestainworld:
some men and their childish sef, how can you be asking a girl if she has cheated on you bro? you went out for a year plus, even without telling you, you should have known that something may or may not happen, if you love the girl, you marry her and stop stalking on her till you take her to the alter. if you really want to have peace of mind as a man, you must stop asking a woman childish questions and be a man, unless you caught her red handed or have an evidence. that is my advice because you never pay, you are just a share holder.

so are those that have paid immune from unfaithfulness? If the answer is no then shut up

Kenturkey048:
I pray you equal what you ve written..

That is her values don't doubt it

uruba23:
Body no be firewood na....you left her for a year without a ring in her finger she is still free like a bird Chief.

so why are they begging him? She is free bird na so she should just continue to be free

SpecialAdviser:
The fact that she cheated when you have not married her doesn't make her worse. Is common among women. Marry her if she is good in every other aspect.

Don't married women cheat? Please a relationship starts before marriage.... Marriage doesn't change ppl... If they can decide to cheat before marriage they can still decide to cheat after marriage... Cheating is a process. If you must be faithful to your partner you must avoid certain things...

mrAMG2:
Bros broooooosss brosky.

Please answer these questions.

-Did you put a ring on it?
-Can you comfortably tell us that you did not cheat in all your years of traveling?
-What kind of girl is she? Your circumstances of meeting her? Her past?



As long as you guys are not married, take it that she has all the freedom that she feels she has.

And when it comes to relationships, the saying that “what you don’t know will not kill you” seriously applies.

Stop looking for confessions or going through her phone if you want to live a long life. If you can’t do that then find someone else.

All in all, you suppose dey sharp when e enter woman matter.

If you are not loyal in relationship you cannot be loyal In Marriage... Marriage only makes it official but it doesn't change your attitude or character over night. The foundation of a relationship starts months before marriage. If you are a honest person and fill you cannot put all your eggs in one basket then you have to be honest and tell your partner the truth. Just say it in simple terms I will not commit to you and you alone until we are married.... simple as ABC

martineverest:
it's 50-50..the man was also sleeping with female corpers too

when I see male type this rubbish I just smh...oya 50-50 make she carry her baby go na...lol

Kobicove:
Van the guy swear that he too did not smash girls will in camp to hi NYSC?

are you sure you are a male or a male in pussy clothing...lol

millomaniac:
Betting companies should be banned

it is easy to identify idiots...you can even open the post to read

UyaiIncomparabl:
This is so spot on, OP. Don't mind these misogynists. Their double standards are just so nauseating. All that I know is, I won't kill myself to please a man neither will I tear my skull because I want to show support in the home. This is why women should set standards for themselves. I'm very attracted to homely and family oriented guys, for me, if he can't cook or do basic chores and even match my sanity or atleast help to maintain the cleanliness around the home, then I'm just so getting outy!

Don't marry men who will see chores as a taboo because society says their gender is kingly and then we should treat them like eggs, sorry, you don jam one chance. They will always say 'you can't tell a man to do chores'.. How so stupid that sounds! It's also same way you can't tell a woman to provide. You all will expect us to share bills, do all the chores, be submissive 100%, do not counter your opinions, cheat and tell us that 'Men are polygamous in nature' and expect to carry on like our lives revolve around you all.

Blurdy misogynists and sexists!
Take away kids and money from the table, and see that you all really have nothing to offer.
Where did they even evolve from? I wonder.
Until women start voicing out, these sexists will not give us peace!

marriage is not for everyone....you can just stay without getting married plus you can have kids too so don't break ur head for a man ok

Sandrazima:
I'm not married yet. I'm just of the opinion that if I get married my husband should also cook and do chores and not just me.

lol...keep your opinion to urself ok....when you see the man you want to propose to just give him the time table for house chores

Sandrazima:
The culture of women cooking and doing house chores was created at a time when women didn't work and just stayed at home all day as their husbands brought home food and money. Now that women also bring home money why should they be the ones to cook and do chores?

Why should a woman go to work, get home in the evening and still be the one to cook and clean the house while her husband who did the same amount of work as she just sits and relaxes? I think men should also cook and do house work.

lol....don't think just look for the man that will accept to share house chores with you... Idiot

OgbanjeProphet:
Me I no get time for accusations and counter accusations. But if 100 billion Naira can make them to stop the killings and bloodbath going on all over the country, give it to them. Human life is more precious than 100 billion Naira.

How can Nigeria move forward with this kind of foolish statement

GalaxyTrends:
Women are scum, this girl that I pay her house rent, school fees and take care of her parents, I decided to play a fast one on her and told her that I lost my job , meanwhile I went on my annual leave and told her I was scaled from, not up to 2 weeks her attitude changed , she stays often in my place cause it’s close to her work place but as soon as I post my job she moved to her place and I loved with her, telling her that my house rent has expired . This my girl did not allow me touch her, not even kiss, or anything, just 2 weeks and she started misbehaving, insulting means calling my names .
See the food she gave me , it was so funny .
A girl I feed and clothes.
I just want to wait here for the few more days remaining so that I move to my house , I am just waiting for the best punishment to give her, I will so mess her up . I will keep this picture as evidence, even my dog can’t eat this

Why did you lead her into temptation...lol.? Well she is also tempting you just the way you are tempting her na

Katier00:
I totally condemn the act. I am not a "modern day people" as you said. I strongly uphold values and morals passed to me by my parents. Yes she slept with another man. It is a taboo, yes she committed an Abominable act, so what can we do now? what is the way forward ?my point is let her move on with her life and don't do it again. she won't kill herself, one thing I pointed out from the story said is that she is sorry ,she is guilty yet another part of her wants to do it and that is the flesh speaking. so my own point of view and my advice to her is that she should resist the temptation and also find a way to keep her home if she truly believe in the sanity and the institution of marriage . if telling her husband will cause more harm than good then don't tell him. we talked about being honest, yes but there are sometimes we will choose to do with things that are right for that situation . when I find myself in such situation because I know the kind of man i am married to, I would rather not say than to say but I know one thing for sure that I will not do it again or put myself in the position of doing it again. Thanks

The best is not do it at all because if you don't tell him funny enough it will also reflect in the relationship...The man may not pin point what's happening tho but if one day by chance he finds out the marriage is dead... Advice to ladies including those that say their husbands cannot go thru their phone...flee from adultery don't even flirt at all or chat inappropriate chat because that is the beginning of cheating

IamD18:
Under no circumstances whatsoever should you owe your faithfulness and loyalty to anyone who you are not legally married to.

The simple truth is an unfaithful partner will not change just because you ppl went to church to announce officially what you have been doing previously...get that into ur head

Saffi:
You cant demand faithfulness if you have not married her. More prick to the babe.

the way you ppl think will never cease to amaze me...lol.

zexy2030:
it's not about my ego,or trying to feel better, it's simply real, I, swear kill me, if I don't make u cum during penetration... atleast twice..

empty vessels make loudest noise... probably 1 seconds guy...lol