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And so he had to seat near the buffet table!! Chai!

Yes o! Don't u sweat while eating? Lol

happymama:
Merry xmas mamas,pls,is it normal for babies to sweat while sucking..

Lol! D price sef de give headache


The newborn thread is wonderfull! Your tutu tutorial was a sure thing! Its gonna save me loads.

Onegai:
aaahhhhhhhhh!!!! I forgot Team Sebamed o!!!!

Body milk: N5,500, shampoo: N1250, soap N2, 200 even better when your baby starts reacting to Johnson's and your pediatrician recommends Sebamed.

Thanks o. It's learning together. That thread taught me some stuff (especially on local baby food as i would have idiotically been buying Heinz and Cow and Gate Applesauce expensively) and truly we need encouragement (especially when your baby wakes up 5 times a night and clings and you start shaking and crying out of exhaustion, frustration and wanting to give up).

Hahahah. You wiked o! You want him to go to market and come back with a black nylon wondering if pickpockets handled him!! So you want him to bring out every item he bought and crosscheck the prices the 100th time. Chai! You wiked gaan! When he finally realises na 70k de d black nylon, he will swear for plenty people here!
Sista!! You wiked gann!! Rotlf!
Hopefully team sebamed will not come here! Lollz
Merry Christmas! Keep up the good work on baby thread!

Onegai:
Please don't give him sensible advice. Apparently those of us that said things are not cheap are all exaggerating or are troublemakers and he'd rather listen to most people who actually haven't had kids. Let him go and find out himself.

Merry Christmas btw

Baby things are not that expensive but its always better to with uality stuff that will last for a while. That might make the list a lil on the high side.
You can introduce your wife to the pregnancy thread in the health section. The ladies compare prices and also share the best palces to get good bargains.

NORAD:
Thank you. Were good then.

Your hormones are raging!! Just show her where the food is and tell her to cook whatever she likes. Just relax in a few weeks u will deliver. Meanwhile join the pregnancy thread in the health section.

OMG! Please the doc should investigate her case. This is so painful.

tyconcepts:
A lot happened yesterday....Amidst the celebration, a friend who is preggie and Mofe have been looking forward to "senioring" him/him lost the preggie at 7months.

She fell into labour unexplainable and delivered stillborn....She didn't have stress in pushing. Doctor said the baby was dead from the womb and this is the second time this is happening to her. The cause is something she can't explain.

Ahnie !!! Behave yasef!! Lmao!

ahnie:
Are you puttin her under duress?if we may know...why?because something must hav occured btw you boths.pardon my asking.still curious#

Hi Nwarosa, I'm so sorry for your loss. It is well
My sis had same issue, lost her baby same way. She put a cerclage for her next baby, she carried to term. Over cute just de worry d baby sef.
No worries, you will soon announce ur BFP! Hugs dear

Its dutch for baby bath oil ( thanks to google translate)

dv4real:
sabi mama in the house help me,my husband bought sebamed for me. Baby badolie is writen on it,he said is soap but am seeing it as oil because it dnt foam well and look more of oil.pls what is it? Pls tryingg to post the pix

Two Night gowns/ pyjamas
1 wrapper
10 "peants"
Old newspaper to wrap ur soiled pad
Books to read
Daily devotional
Slippers( bathroom)
T shirt and shorts(1)
Phone charger

I usually take lots of pants and cloth cos na 1or 2hrs after delivery I de get heavy flow that soils my cloth and bedsheets. I don't know why it happens. Other mamas can add up

mamadowell:
@ chiwendym my God will do that which no man can do for u, wishing u quick recovery and E-hug to ur lovely son.
Wishing all mamas in the house merry Xmas and a prosperous new year in advance.
Please I need help from experience mamas, apart from hospital list what other things do I need for me and my baby at the hospital.
Teamjanuaryserciouslyeyeingdecember.

My respect for you just trippled! God bless you mightily

ahnie:
@ma'am stadora,pls if you are residin in aba,i can direct you to a school(montessori) that pays well,aldoe manageable..they will also accomodate n feed you.royalties christain schools,around ekenwa avenue,G.R.A,aba.they wil giv you automativ employment,just asked of pst/deaconez charity,amosu.i once taught in dia branch that z in asaba.

Chniwendym my sis, you have overcome. God is still a God of miracles. He will surprise you.
Hugs my darling

@ ahnie maka why na? Y u no take tt na?
Now I can see y our muslim sisters no join prayers yesterday! They were popping babies.
Congratulations @ xeexee1,culturegown and aim

In Jesus Name

Lord we thank you tonight for the prayers that has been said by our sisters. We thank You because as we have spoken so shall our heart desires be met. We thank You because as we are united in one voice, so shall our shouts of victory be heard far and near. Thank You Lord for Your joy adds no sorrow.
Lord we remember our sis Chinwedym, we pray for a total healing for her. We ask that the good work You have started in her life be perfected. We thank You for our sisters that a newly pregnant, we thank You because there is calmness in their bodies. We thank You for we know this 9months course will be smooth and easy.
Lord for our ATC sisters!! Great shouts of victory will be heard everyday in the house. Yes! We thank you for they have been divinely named the Fruitful Vines.

Thank You Lord for prayers answered. May You name be glorified forever. Amen

foreman:
She came into our house at 14. She calls me daddy. Now almost eighteen.

Now shes grown those things, fresh, firm and well shaped. I keep telling myself shes a kid. But my mind will not leave that place.

Madam travelled recently. This "kid" keeps jiggling those succulent things, intentionally or otherwise, I cant tell. Then I couldnt hold myself, I grabbed her when she served my food. I held and suckled like my life depended on them. Funny thing she didn't resist. I managed to let go when my conscience wouldn't let me. I had to visit a brothel to calm nerves that evening. Still throughout the night, my mind couldn't get rid of the twins.

Now, the problem is how do send this girl out of our house without raising suspicion. I am sure if she stays around, what I am trying to avoid will eventually happen.

I'm so sorry for you! P........I......... G
You ought to be ashamed of yourself. Someone that calls you daddy. She is practically your daughter. L.... A.... Z...... Y man.
If you are busy, u won't have time to think of such nasy things. Anumpam

Of course they won't give shi shi without letter of administration. It still helps to put the woman's name there. I still want a detailed explanation about it cos I don't know much on the issue. Lawyers wia una de?

As per signatory to account very important. Many families are living in poverty whilst their millions are cooling in the bank. Case of madam not knowing or Oga hiding the assets.
Abeg everyone should open eye like fish jare. Lol

tchiwinnie:
Congrats @ culturegown. God bless ur lo.
@lovinam, I m nt a lawyer bt from wot I ve learnt abt dis matter, wen a man makes his wife next of kin for eg for his bank acc, it just means if there s any clarifications or so d bank wants to make, its d wife they ll contact. She can't withdraw shishi from d acc without authorization. If a man wants his wife to b able to access his acc, then he shld mk her signatory to his account. I m a signatory to my husbands accts and so can access dem anytime. For d issue of property, its not even enuf for d man to buy property wt d name 'Mr. and Mrs Abcd', for eg. Cos there may b plenty Mrs Abcd out there da cld lay claim on d property.It rather shld be 'Mr. Bello Abdcd and Mrs Bilikisu Abcd'. That way, it's more specific.

Lyndaroyce!! Na ur eye be this?

@ all we need a laywer to interprete this next of kin ish!! Someone? Anyone?

prissyluv:
Aunty Zaynie and Lovinam,thanks for the input, it is just that I have this mentality that ones a man is married whatever properties he buys should be in Mr & Mrs.

My dear, please don't sweat it before your husband think you have something in mind. You are the next of kin and that's a beautiful thing. It could have been worse. One thing I learnt from my older friends is that every woman should be financially responsible. That is not spending foolishly/ recklessly, that way the man will trust you more knowing that his hard earned money will not go to waste tomorrow. Unfortunately most women fail in this aspect.

Men watch our every move down to how many times a month you make hair. Once he feels you are not financially responsible, he starts hiding his assets.

Do you know some women are silent signatories to their hubby's account? They know in and out of the mans finances. (Bliss) How many women can boast of that?

#LongEpistle

She is settled. If ann in law is the next of kin then wahala de. If you are the one keep calm no need to tear pant. Lol(no need to even tear peant over material stuff sef. My eye don see tinz jare )

prissyluv:
God evening mamas. Abeg make una no vex. I know this is not the right place to post this but I will be glad if the issue can be looked into.

My question is,what is the fate of a wife whose husband buys properties in his name only but uses the wife's name as next of kin.

Congrats lizzy22.

@ lizzy22 congratulations. God bless her real good

Hi all, I trust everyone is doing great
Ifffffy how u de?

Lol! Just get the right materials and ur tailor can make it.find where they sell sample materials, that's where u can get the best stuff for it.

mimzy:
Pls can u make for me. What's d cost. Alongside d tutu. I want two dfrnt tutu

Faithfulwife! God is indeed awesome! What a testimony! This is the begining of mighty works in your home. You will testify tilll Jesus comes!

Yup!! I made one recently

mimzy:
Good idea. Thanks mam. Il possible get a plain bodysuit and customise it too

You can make one @ tutu

mimzy:
Good evening sabi mums. Pls is there anyone who knows Whr I can get a bodysuit and tutu skirt for my baby's first christmas. She is 11 months. Most of the ones iv seen online are for 0-6months. Awaiting your kind response. Thanks

Pls go to the hospital tomorrow o! Its possible you are one those that don't labour at all and baby comes.

faithfulwife:
Hello mamas, please how long after you see SHOW does labour start? I have been seeing it in bits today but nothing else, no contractions. I will definitely go to the clinic in the morning but don't want to go tonight unless I start having contractions.

No need to fear! Its a pretty simple and straight forward procedure. I had it twice, just that I didn't like the fact I gat to be on my bed. Lol. I love moving around when in labour. The most important thing is Baby and mother alive in good health. So go ahead and do it.

lizzy22:
@ all mamas... pls wotz ur take on induction coz my Gynae is already talking abt it! said I will be induced dis coming week if I Dnt fall into labour" @dis point I av no oda choice coz d labour tin is not just forthcoming" am even tinking of taking castor oil without my gynae's consent just scared of d side effects.. mornin @ all

Awwww dear! It is well.
Can you cope? I mean not seeing your baby everyday? If you can then by all means go ahead then when you get a stable home you can take her with you. Its not easy moving to a new environment with a baby( I did it and nearly lost my baby. She got very sick). If your mum can cope too then go ahead.

bisiswag:
Gudm to all our lovely mama's,both old and new. Please don't judge,naija economy is pretty tough nowadays! Please need you honest advice,can I leave my 3months old baby with his grandmum(my mum) permanently permanently for a couple of months while I resume work? Mum in lagos,job @ Abj. He would have had 3month exclusive BF b4 dropping him off to continue on formula. Real confused Cos am just so scared of nanny and househelps. Thanks for all your honest and non judgemental opinions and advice.

Chinwedym, when I read the thread today and saw ur post the song that came to my mind " He who has begun, a good work in you, He shall perform it until the day of Jesus Christ" that's your testimony! Hugs sis

CynthiajayOmo that slap go set wella. Rotfl!
Thank God for safe delivery

Are you home now? You can lie down for sometime and hopefully he will change positioin

ifyjip:
@all mamas o, pls HELP ur sister...my baby hook me for almost 6hrs now after driving to n fro a long distance. PLS WEN WILL DIS HOOKN RELEASE COS I CANT STAND STRAIGHT OR WALK NOW..WAT SHLD I DO..

My dear, na prayers carry us during our time o! I kept shouting it but nobody wanted to take d lead so I dropped it. It is well.

Mam's pls you can't go thru 9months without fortifying yourself with prayers. There is power in agreement prayer. During our time we took turns to lead prayers. Christian group and muslim group, nobody was left behind. Trust me we had 0.1% negative news. The enemy is prowling and looking for who to devour but he has failed. Let's wake up and do the right thing.
To all the mama's that lost their babies. God will give you double for your stress and we decree that affliction will not rise in your home again. God bless you all
I love you my wonderful e- fam!

beedam:
I support your suggestion. My able seniors Lovinam and tchiwinnie have always been advising that even while I was preggy.