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queensmith: I’m curious about a few things,-

No1[b] why are Nigerian men afraid of intimacy gadgets an[/b]d the women that use them? Is it your lack of understanding or are you afraid of being outshined by a machine?

Does it belittle your confidence knowing she can always get it better by herself?

Will you use one with your girl?

No2 how do you feel about a woman that smokes pot.

Do you see it as unladylike?

For those that like to ‘indulge’ in such- what do you think of women that do?

Do you feel it’s unattractive?

Do you have the same views for women as you do men about weed?

Will you jam with your girl and smoke?

I’m just curious, if a group of men can enjoy getting high then why can’t women?

Thirdly, will you date a girl that significantly out earns you?

Will you feel threatened by a woman with her own house, car, and housemaids?

why are Nigerian men afraid of intimacy gadgets
I am not afraid if you want to play with urself

Will you use one with your girl?--I am not sure

No2 how do you feel about a woman that smokes pot. No to any type of drug

Do you see it as unladylike?--Pot head

For those that like to ‘indulge’ in such- what do you think of women that do? --Bad girl

Do you feel it’s unattractive? Yes

Do you have the same views for women as you do men about weed?--Yes

Will you jam with your girl and smoke? Hell NO

I’m just curious, if a group of men can enjoy getting high then why can’t women?

Thirdly, will you date a girl that significantly out earns you? Yes but I am still a man

Will you feel threatened by a woman with her own house, car, and housemaids? hell NO because i have mind own thing

DONkollione: hmm which kind woman be that sef? .. she go need deliverance oo. oloun! call ur pastor!

Call pastor?
Nigerian pastor go start to Bleep the woman

london2lasgidi: My girlfriend wants us to have a baby now, but I don't think I'm ready to be a dad yet.. I want everything to be in place before I bring a seed into this cold world, but she thinks we should do it now; and other things would fall in place with time. I'm in my mid20s, and she's like 23..

What do you guys think?

How soon will everything be in place?
If I have to do it all over again, I will have kids at 30yr
If you have your kids early, they will graduate from college by the time you are about 46yrs
There will be challenges
Does your wife work or have a trade?
You will need the two incomes

dianah: I have heard that a lot of times from people who have just had their heart broken, or people who do not have serious relationships, ladies to be very specific….its all a BIG FAT LIE! No woman truly wants to be alone, it’s all a ruse to cover the pain and emptiness, and some ladies tell themselves this crap for such a long time, that they actually start believing it! Before all the single ladies condemn me to death, I be one of una o, I am single and ready to mingle. LOL

This piece is not to berate the single ladies, but rather to point out the fact that deceiving yourselves or hanging on to some heartbreak that happened some years ago is definitely not gonna help you snag a guy! Some people just sit and brood, and become men haters because of one lame ass guy that is probably not so lame ass anymore, but was just a silly kid who has grown up now, and is happily married with kids! Girlfriend, get a grip on yourself! We have been heartbroken and we have broke a couple of hearts too, so why spend so much time talking about the past that you can do nothing about, while you can actually sit up and do something about the future which is still filled with hope and ahead of you.

I think the truth is that some ladies like feeling sorry for themselves and playing the victim, because it always feels easier to lay the blame on someone else, makes you feel vindicated, well, the last time I checked laying blames is not exactly a solution to anyone’s problem.you snooze....you lose!

In this I LOVE BEING ALONE façade, my all time fave is the so called career girl, gosh! Who ever said having a career means you can’t have a family? I am focusing on my career is just another big fat lie! The minute “career girl” meets a correct bobo, she starts to sing a different tune and before the guy even buys a ring to propose, she is already planning aso ebi with her girls and deciding on wedding colours. lol

I think we all want to be loved and treated like princesses, we want men who will respect us enough to know who we truly are or at least interested enough to want to find out, we want the love, attention and companionship….we want the little things (love, affection and attention) most of the times and the big things sometimes (gifts, vacations …etc) the “I want to be alone” story is just a myth, a myth which only lasts till we find MR RIGHT.

T[b]GIF!, have fun, live right and be that person everyone wants to have in their life, dont be the one your ex bumps into and he feels sorry for you, or is secretly pleased that he dumped you while he had the chance. Be that person he wishes he could turn back the hands of time, just so he can be with you again.
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okay, e don do!, enough with all the serious talk already, I just wanted to share my thoughts and as always, you dont have to agree with me.

I will leave you all with this quote "Better alone than in the wrong company!"

Dont leave God out of your weekend y'all!

Follow on twitter: @dianahsplace
visit: www.dianahsplace.info

Great

Fool
Keep F with me, I know you are a nutcase
I am back
that was a quick fix for me
I am sure the person that just sent me stuff to take care of
is very happy
Back to BS with NO brain dude like you

[quote author=Risky_mallam]*smh* so sad and very pathetic, the mind is a terrible thing to waste. You are an example of the above statement.

*yawns* Your rambling bores me, you can't express yourself properly.
Reading your brainless and moronic posts is like reading a post written by an illiterate indian on a meth high.

You can work on your reply. Bye turd [/quote]Fool
I am trying to do some work now
Please stop interrupting me
lot of Indian as friend

[quote author=Risky_mallam]This Luckgames Dude has decided to camp on this thread , if that doesn't spell chronic joblessness.

Then I don't know what does.[/quote]Sorry
I have 3 monitor screens in front of me
I have a down time now
So I can BS with dumb sissy like you

[quote author=Risky_mallam]You are so dumb, you don't know when to back off
You have a big head with a big skull with no brain
That is the issue, If you have brain , you would have had common sense
O well common sense is not common
So go to hell and Bleep yourself
Sissy



So go to hell and Bleep yourself

hehehehe .. I know thats what u do in when you are less busy.[/s]


You are so dumb, you don't know when to back off
You have a big head with a big skull with no brain
That is the issue, If you have brain , you would have had common sense
O well common sense is not common
So go to hell and Bleep yourself
Sissy



So go to hell and Bleep yourself

hehehehe .. I know thats what you do in when you are [s] less busy.[s]. You are always less busy. Chronic joblessness.
Away with you.[/quote]I am not sure what you do for living
but I am very bless
Honestly, I have not done a lot today
But I will still get paid top money for what I do
Thank you Jesus
Dude you made me feel bad, So I pick up the phone-- to work more for my money
I tried to reach two individuals but I got their VM and left a message

190: what in the name of 190 is going on!!

190
We have a D head that is very disrespectful

[quote author=Risky_mallam];

You've said dumb-as,s like a hundred times already. Don't u get tired of repeating yourself? Its getting pretty boring and mundane .

Like I said earlier, u are like a punch-drunk boxer.

You just keep coming back only to get more and more punches rammed into your skull.

You are so dumb, you don't know when to back off
You have a big head with a big skull with no brain
That is the issue, If you have brain , you would have had common sense
O well common sense is not common
So go to hell and Bleep yourself
Sissy


Dude, what in Pete's name is this s'posed to mean? Oh, you are beyond remedy

And be as womanly as you right, I think I'll pass .[/quote]You are so dumb, you don't know when to back off
You have a big head with a big skull with no brain
That is the issue, If you have brain , you would have had common sense
O well common sense is not common
So go to hell and Bleep yourself
Sissy

tgirl1986: Speak for yourself bro..i have been living my life that way, and aint no fictional character...what is wrong with this world?

You tell Us
what has change in the world?

silvertuke: Guys if you find out that your Wife and your Brother are having an affair, who would you blame? your Wife or your Brother?

Ladies if you find out that your Husband and your Sister are having an affair, who would you blame? your Husband or your Sister?

And please give reason or reasons

Stay far away from both
If you have kids go do DNA

joanana: Are u serious? You encourage cheating? smh

@Chitos's
"they exhibited humility,patience,commitment, tolerance,understanding and above all FAITHFULNESS
-they basically applied WISDOM
-Be realistic, This is AFRICA, we still av african men"

She didn't encourage cheating
men that cheat don't encourage cheating
From my understanding there are issues deal with it the best way
You know, if you family is your first priority --WISDOW

bin gbagbo: i am not loving this at all, anytime i visit her , her dad would hug and kiss her cheeks. when i complain,she says her dad only does that to prove he loves her.
is this right?
i suspect she is going out with her dad, what do u think?

You are very sick and jealous man
I have a daughter and she get married I will always kiss her on the cheeks
You should go kill yourself "i suspect she is going out with her dad, what do u think?"
You have no class dumb fool

chayooh: I dön't think that a woman's brandin can seriously make a man cheat. I'm married and i believe as young as i am, i should take care of myself but even at that, there are times my hubby says he's tired n stuff. If a man is inclined to cheat, he most likely will. It's usually an ego fn. Sme men v vry young, pretty wives @ home bt still cheat in order to add to their list of CONQUESTS.

Smart Lady
Men are weak and The way some women move it!!!!!!!!!!!

[quote author=Naz~Kels]Yes boys.. Cause really men don't cheat[/quote]Great
Good luck

[quote author=Risky_mallam]Oh , I'm so sorry bro! Are you feeling bad already, don'tyou think its way too soon. I was just getting ready to sink my fangs into your flesh, but I think I'll pass on that. Cos I don't think my previous onslaught left any flesh.

F.Y.I blockhead, spelling does help. Stop writting like an oaf.

Mission accomplished, you are one of 'em "Thread derailers" ...

Off you go son, you can cry later. Make sure its not on my thread aiight![/quote]I do like to derail you dumb ass head
Cry because you are a little sissy
Off you go little girl, You need to have some balls like a real man
Not the puck out B you are

MsDarkSkin: Look here gawdemit!

DOGPILE and that's my final offer.

lol hey sis. Let's move to St. Lucia
I just read on on my Jamo news apps that their island is trying to make
free wifi an island wide thing. Free internet in paradise?!
hell yeah!

St Lucia is a beautiful place
It is all surrounded by water
I like St Maarten better the water is very blue
I have never seeing any blue sea water like that

pd piper pippen: All nigerian women cheat, to add insult to injury the pretend to be saints like we all are presently seeing on NL. Most men today are fathering children that are not theirs. Any lady who says I am lying challenge me! The economic woes of our country has made cheating the sole preserve of women and late marriage that of men. The average guy in nigeria today marries at 40.

What about women in the developed countries that cheat?
The number are growing
All Father need to do DNA

[quote author=Risky_mallam]Just when I think your ish doesn't get worse, then "bam" like a train you hit again with your asinity .

Your witless remarks just keeps accumulating

Ok meathead, Surprise me with another moronic post ... I'm waiting in anticipation.[/quote]You are waiting for me to insult you?
You really a fucker
Listing fool, you need to go to hell
I am done with your dumb A??

joanana: Please dnt insult me. May God ve mercy u.

God have mercy on you too
If you disrespect me, I am not going to come soft at you

joanana: n how long do u intend to keep up with d lies? 5 years? 12yrs? If u dnt understand the word married my advice is remain single n continue with ur deceit bit dont it when u r married n commited cos.it will.defintely bite u in the a.s.s. gerrit!!!!! For ir info any mariage or relationship built on deciet, lies n ur two can play d lies is destined to fail
gerrit!

What are you lying about fool
Sorry, I am married
You think you can manipulate the world dumb B
Deception is keeping secret
Agreed that lies, manipulation and deception will lead to unhappy marriage

booqee: @slimyem. Fine, they aint married but they would soon be, since they've even done their introduction already.

@luckgames. Well, its not a small company. And its d same branch, but different departments.

That should not be an issue, if it is different department
Good luck and I am happy for her
There should be some Rule
NO eating lunch together
No bring home issue to the office
Treat each other as a co-worker at work
You can date and go out for lunch some time
But keep it down

[quote author=Risky_mallam]You must be punch-drunk, cos you keep coming back for more.

Now run along with your tail between your legs kiddo, your A.s,s has been sorely whooped.
b[/quote]Jack ASS FOOL
YOU CAN PUT YOUR d IN THE BOTTLE
RUN AWAY FOOL WITH YOUR DOG HEAD

sosomi: hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I am very blessed and lucky too
Thank you Jesus

joanana: Playing? you think marriage is all about geting the ring, change if status and certificate? Many couples today dont know the true meaning of being married. Its a way of life filled with
commitment, understanding, tolerance, patience n faithfulness to your partner.

I do agree with "commitment, understanding, tolerance, patience n faithfulness to your partner."
You miss the other factors that make marriage work
What about the lying who that think she can lie her way out
Selfish me, me
No Respect and No consideration type of person
The secretive type too
The one that don't know how to say thank you
Stop playing game
Two can play the game

pcicero: I'm sure you already know that I am not in your league. Even if you have mansions in Lekki, VGC or Asokoro. I don't care! So, why should I tell you my profession? But of course you are right, I am a professional and not a common rogue like you.
I know people like you who come to NL to steal peoples information and then send them phony emails. By their actions, you shall know them.

What will you do with your life when 'Maga' stops paying? Keep popping the champagne now and expect to suffer later ( here and the after life)

Great comment
Carry on
I am in support of you all the way

[quote author=Social46][/quote]You are not a man
Sorry

MsDarkSkin: Exactly. In fact most men find their counterparts begging as a sign of desperation.
You think any sane man wants a desperate woman? And if he does take her back..he will play the HELL out of her like an XBOX console. The guilty men on this thread who like to play with women claim it's tradition. BULL. If it were tradition and African women heed to it as "law", there would be no reason for this thread. But as you can see, most sensible African women see right through the bull. Cooking for, nurturing and being a wife to your man doesn't and shouldn't mean being a damn fo0l.

Cut the BS
Women from developed countries beg , White and black
Read Mrs Chima posting carefully

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Begging and being two matured adults conversing to improve the condition within the relationship or marriage ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. What the OP's original statement was begging a man not to leave the house as if it is something women should do to keep her man.

If the conversation was about maturity and being sane adults then my comments would have been different.

I am all for having conversations with my husband to ensure all communications are good and that we are on the same page. I don't support closed mouths because closed mouths do not get fed period.[/quote]Love you girl

[quote author=Risky_mallam]Hmmm, I understand your suicidal tendencies, and I don't intend on granting that wish anytime soon. But must you also show everyone how inept and marginally stu.pid you are?

We are all given a choice to air opinions, you my friend; abuse that privilege.[/quote]Fall off the cliff
The world will be a better place without you
So have a Bleep up day B

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Wise women would rather be single than to beg a man that doesn't want them.

Lets keep it real.

And even if all women begged and stayed with the men. There are more women than men....
SO THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SINGLE WOMEN. [/quote]It's not about begging but making things work
I am sure we know the type of person we can beg or not beg
You beg some people that will give they the advantage to step all over you