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dayokanu: You can say that again. Go to any affluent neighbourhood in America if you find a blackman not a rapper or an athlete chances are that he is Nigerian


Data shows that African immigrants, Nigerians in particular, are far wealthier and more highly educated than many Americans of any race. In 2000, when the median household income for African Americans was about $30,000, the median income for Nigerian immigrant families was more than $45,000 (PDF). Where education is concerned, in 2007, African immigrants were likelier to have obtained a college or graduate degree than any other immigrant population, and 20 percent likelier than the U.S. population as a whole.

http://www.good.is/post/ivy-league-fooled-how-america-s-top-colleges-avoid-real-diversity/

Lot of Nigerian in this neighborhood
In my subdivision, I know over 10 Nigerian
The median income for a household in the city was $73,274, and the median income for a family was $93,136

nene1: @ queensmith: I think Mrs. Chima since she is a black american, is confusing the problems of her black AMERICAN men with AFRICAN black men. How many AFRICAN men in america are unemployed or in jail? Seriosuly, most are married and have stable families and work hard. Of course there are SOME who are not, but they are the minority.

Anyway, I can't answer the OP's question as I am not an african man, however I guess that cultural compatibility might play some role when a Nigerian or other african man is choosing a woman to settle down with. That is if he is someone who cares about his culture and is not completley westernized.

Mrs Chima is a Nigerian woman between the age of 23-30 yrs
Live in the beltway area

queensmith: Why am i not surprised? Black men don't like to hear the truth- keep teaching them Mrs Chima, they go listen by force!

they strut around as if they are the top of everything, the only thing they top is prison and bas.tard baby rates.

Queensmith
We are the real deal
Go to hell
No Nigerian man will marry you any way
Go Bleep yourself

moderattor: US ladies wont love to live and work in Nigeria.
So we guys are wised up.

You are very correct
But guess what lot of Nigerian men are not coming home to stay
Some Nigerian women are not coming to Nigeria to work too or stay

niddamugu: Culture will not prevent me from Loving and Marrying America woman. I am looking for is a good woman that share some of my values.

In other words: you are single and still searching. I don blame you jo. American woman, this is your dream man.

Sorry Bro
I am not searching
I am very happy with my present relationship

Atreides: WhAAAAAt? Edo men do NOT have potbellies. I kid,i kid,of course they do. Once they hit 30 and above they start packing on the pounds,but the most scary part is my agemates/young Bini boys are starting to have potbellies. I'm talking 18 and above. . Scary ish. .

You are sick
I have two older brother, One has potbelly
Me and my younger brothers don't have potbelly and we are all over 35yrs
Keep looking
Last week , I look at my wife and I took off my shirt
I said look girl I got it
In the past, If I want to get women mad that is what I said

Orikinla: Believe it or not, but this is a fact since I have been observing both single and married Nigerian men and women.
I have seen that there are more good looking Nigerian women than men.

So, the ugly Nigerian blokes have to make sure they make money to bribe or buy the attention of the pretty and sexy Nigerian babes and women.

You see many short and ugly Nigerian men with tall beautiful Nigerian babes and they really look odd.

My cousin's wife prefer me to walk with her on the street, but I had to stop when I was mistaken for her husband.

I see many pretty Nigerian babes who either walk ahead or behind their ugly Nigerian boyfriends or husbands and the pathetic guys bending backwards to be seen and noticed as the "owners" of their beautiful women.

To get  pretty and sexy Nigerian babe, you must be well connected, have regular cash flow or handsome.
But if you are poor and ugly, only God can help you.

I have heard and seen how ugly Nigerian men beg and plead for pretty Nigerian babes to agree to date them to boost their self-esteem.

The population of ugly Nigerian men keeps increasing with the downturn in the economy or are parents now breeding more ugly male children  than females?

To get the pretty babes, the ugly Nigerian guys use many sharp practices.
The poor ones use either cultism or sheer INTIMIDATION or what the Yorubas call "IGBOJU" to frighten the babes into a relationship.
They simply bully them and even violation them into relationship.

Other poor ones claim to be hip-hop artistes and use dark glasses to improve their looks and only remove them when they are about to go to bed.

Others plait their hair and wear low rise jeans and canvas shoes to look hip.

Others claim to be footballers and lie to the pretty babes that they will soon get million dollar soccer contracts in Europe or Asia.
After-all if Yobo can hook and marry the beauty pageant queen Adaeze, they too can make it and get their own WAGs.

And they frown whenever a handsome dude comes near their pretty babes.

The rich ugly guys just use their cash power and connections.
They simply advertise for female secretaries and thousands of unemployed female secondary school leavers and graduates apply for the elusive jobs and as they interview them, they can bamboozle and hoodwink the poor pretty girls into submission.
They just flash the cash and she is hooked with the juicy bait of the good life.

That is why you see handsome and successful Nigerian guys being harassed by many pretty and sexy Nigerian babes, because there are only few good looking Nigerian men in town.

Lot of them fail to take good care of themselves after having kids
Get real
You need to star looking Hard

tiniyata: @amu-igwe and co,why are you people attackin ms chima na?thats not fair o! she was only tryin to convey a point and u people want to kill her with grammar,now she's speechless,not heard from her in a while. i just hope she has not done somethin terrible to herself. pls try and make peace with her,for she's just a lady. you people should tell her sorry now or?

Very disrespectfully, unacceptable
Stop generalizing Mrs. Chima

tiniyata: @amu-igwe and co,why are you people attackin ms chima na?thats not fair o! she was only tryin to convey a point and u people want to kill her with grammar,now she's speechless,not heard from her in a while. i just hope she has not done somethin terrible to herself. pls try and make peace with her,for she's just a lady. you people should tell her sorry now or?

She is very disrespectfully to have generalized
It's unacceptable

Mrs..Chima:
Koyoke and SAFO are African professionals in America and they represent their people with high standards and joy.

Thank goodness for the good and happy ones.

What do you represent?
Young lady mad at all men for not get marry?
Young lady under 30 yrs with undergraduate degree that know it all.
You need to move out of the beltway to meet nice Nigerian men if that is what you are looking for.
You really need to do self check
I know lot of Nigeria professionals
Yes , I work with Nigerian Auditor and Engineer
29 yrs old with a PHD in Chemical Engineering, Doctors and lawyers

N/A

Sorry

queensmith: Of course! Angry bitter Nigerian men have made it about themselves! Why not? They are faultless and blameless in their affairs? Thats why there's no prostitutes in Nigeria spreading hepatitis to married male professionals in the capital.

Enough of that, the woman is foolish no doubt but most of you guys are loking for an opportunity to vent your anger, abeg don't do it here we are talking of a serious matter that the OP wants to resolve. At least she has approached her problem, most of the men here will simply go looking for their ex and start an affair. Don't even deny it everybody knows how you billy goats behave.

Really
You have being misused by men
Sorry
Tired of sucking D now you are hell mad at all men

Mrs..Chima:
Hmm. I guess many of them aren't reading the fact that many higher positions are held by Black women. White men and Black women collectively are dominating the workforce. It doesn't matter what his reasons are, in America and few other countries all Black men native or foreign are considered bottom of the totem pole. I can see why the male haters would be threatened. If I was a man, I wouldn't marry a successful Black women who earns more than me either because of my fragile male's ego. So Papsmeartosibe has a point.

Mrs.chima
I don't you know but I know for sure I make more money than you. I am not a lawyer or Doctor
I am a strong black man, and I am not a nurse working 70 hours a week

Agybabe
“but i know those who have endured more than the word endurance.”
Good that you know Nigerian woman who have endure the challenges of their husband loss his job
The issue here is will you get better support from a Nigerian woman compare to white or AA?
Take that to the street in U.K, Canada, Ireland and U.S.A come back with the result
Talk is cheap
Doing it is real

Agybabe
“but i know those who have endured more than the word endurance.”
Good that you know Nigerian woman who have endure the challenges of their husband loss his job
The issue here is will you get better support from a Nigerian woman compare to white or AA?
Take that to the street in U.K, Canada, Ireland and U.S.A come back with the result
Talk is cheap
Doing it is real

Agybabe
“but i know those who have endured more than the word endurance.”
Good that you know Nigerian woman who have endure the challenges of their husband loss his job
The issue here is will you get better support from a Nigerian woman compare to white or AA?
Take that to the street in U.K, Canada, Ireland and U.S.A come back with the result
Talk is cheap
Doing it is real

Agybabe: but i know those who have endured more than the word endurance.

Good that you know Nigerian woman who have endure the challenges of their husband loss his job
The issue here is will you get better support from a Nigerian woman compare to white or AA?
Take that to the street in U.K, Canada, Ireland and U.S.A come back with the result
Talk is cheap
Doing it is real

Agybabe: but i know those who have endured more than the word endurance.

Good that you know Nigerian woman who have endure the challenges of their husband loss his job
The issue here is will you get better support from a Nigerian woman compare to white or AA?
Take that to the street in U.K, Canada, Ireland and U.S.A come back with the result
Talk is cheap
Doing it is real

OK2NVME: All of u critisizing shuld shut dah hell up!

Chics get married 4 several reasons these days and its not all about luv.

I pray u never get put in that impossible position

You need to shut the Bleep up
She can walk away

~Killz~:
Lmao @ "help" a woman married less than 4 months to escape back to her ex. Chineke!

Help to do what exactly? To carry your cross? To bear the consequences of leaping before looking?

Are you fccking kidding me? When they read you "for better for worse till death do you part" were you pinging?

Were you smoking when you said "I do?"

She was stoned out

Dude you need third woman
You are going to break somebody heart
Stop play

Dude you need third woman
You are going to break somebody heart
Stop play

Evil lady
You will cheat with your ex very soon
I hope your husband find out and kink out your black A??

Ejaisky: Please help me. I got married last December and I can't stop thinking about my ex. I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband.

You are evil and you will cheat with your ex
Just question of time fool
I hope your husband find out and kick your black A??

You are not cook but Chef

careytommy: Any female looking to marry a male cook?

You are chef dude not cook

Agybabe: can you please hear yourself speak? Nigerian/african ladies are the ones who endures most. Whites no get time. They dont care. Why not let your name speak instead of yourself? Haba!

Men are better off with white and AA women if you have a job and loss the job
Trust me in the develop countries Nigeria women doesn't know what is called endure.
You are not making it

Do you have university education?

U better look for a very good lawyer you can call any time if need be
That should not be an issue

If you sent the girl to University before the marriage
will you get discount?
I think the family need to pay you back what it cost you to sent their daughter to university

Sick Man
Need help, if you call it love , I called it act of madness