₦airaland Forum

Crown Prince: My inlaw who is responsible for my education has caught me red handed with a lady in a hotel room as we made out after fulfilling our desires.
He shouted on me bitterly and threaten my education as i have previously collected money from him the past week for my upkeep.
The snag is that he also came into the rendeavour with my sister best friend.
I dont know how to handle this because i live with them if am not in school.
Advice plz

Your sister best friend will likely ask him to back off you
Call your sister for information

marshpearl: THANKS FOR THE LECTURE

BUT LIKE I SAID EARLIER I ONLY STEPPED IN TO HELP. . .I HAD NO INTENTIONS TO COVET HIS GIRL. . . SHE CAUGHT ME OFF GUARD. . .AND NO...I'M NOT PROUD OF IT. . .I'M ONLY HUMAN AND I'M BOUND TO MAKE MISTAKES. . .

Up front dude
You have my respect

One of the reason Pastors are taking advantage of people

Inked_Nerd: Simple explanation sista onila. If Nigerian women are gold diggers, then Nigerian men are visa and toto chasers.

Some true
I like the "TOTO chaser"

Apples don't fall far from the tree
Family background is very important in Nigeria ( research the family)
Like mother like daughter
You better do your home work

ZUBY77: She lived with me for just a month. Ordained by my mother to be my wife. Throughout the one month she stayed with me, she never mopped the floor tiles for once. She only cooked once and it was indomie. She washed the dishes once and i stopped her from doing it again because she was using one of my phones as torch in the dark kitchen and threw the phone into the sink full of water. The first time i asked her to wash my shirts, she said she injured her finger the previous day while eating a chicken wing. She scatters her room like a ten year old girl. The only thing she did very well was going out to eat fresh fish and ice cream and no amount of money is big or enough for her. Well after four weeks, i told her to go home because i was going to China. When i returned, i didnt call her and when she called, i told her i returned over two weeks before the call. She was furious and told my mum. Well the day mum called a meeting, i took a new girl along with me for introduction to mum.
Almost one year after that ugly meeting, she called last week to tell me that she has changed and that i made a mistake by going for the other woman. She is the daughter of a very rich man from my village and i think she wasnt trained well.
Now her father called me for the first time ever and asked that i visit him in Lagos. What could this meeting turn out to be ?

Please don't attend any meeting

Dondav: Guys! I'm curious... I want to lead a good christian life with my partner! But how do I keep my relationship romantically stable and emotional as a christian? What are my limits? Are we suppose to have a sex life?

These things are bothering me severely...

Sorry
You alone can't make a relationship work
Both of you need to make the relationship work
Be open minded
Treat him like your best half as you like your brother be treated by their GF or wife
Will having sex make you a sinner?

Ronnie's World:
In a marriage, extra marital affairs is one thing dat is difficult to overcome especially for the party who is at d receiving end. Question is: how does one get over the hurt of an affair by one's spouse and rebuild d trust dat once used to be in d marriage. How easy or hard is it to forgive? Hard but achievable. Comments pls

The evil has be done
Look at the man/ Woman has a whole
List 10 things you want from a marriage
See If you have 7 things keep you marriage, below 3 things
You need to really think hard, Don't stay in a marriage for the kids
If he/she is a good provider
The grass isn't greener on the other side
If you are calling it off
Get yourself together to put yourself in the market
Your Hair, size, Cloths --NEW YOU

buildelicool: I have been in a relationship with a lady, but after one year of communication and contacts i feel like calling it off due to her attitude and manners that i think i cant cope with. The girl loves me so much, and i imagine the heart break. can somebody please tell me how to tell her am quitting with less impact?

It's all about your happiness
short and long run
Go marry her and be unhappy

Mrs.Chima:
Gold card? You got a Rush card like a fool?

My Swedish hookers will love you long time just as long as you can provide that daily dark chocolate. I may have to charge you a little extra cos maintaining blonde hair isn't easy!

One of my Sweds just had a breast implant and she is available for service in two weeks. As a token of my appreciation, I will throw in some peanuts and pretzels.

Mrs. Chima, you lose your mind FOOL
I said I have a gold that cover North America, I meant that for sure
You need to cover the cost
Throw in a ticket

xynerise: A lot of friends told me they fell in luv with their advisers after giving them hints on how to maintain a good relationship.

Been very carefully
Don't any person take advantage of your at the time you are very vulnerable
Tell you what you want to hear BS

aleroo: I had to create a new ID for this purpose.

My ten year relationship is finally over and I know  not why.

The news is he still want to be friends.

Wants me to still cook for him.

Calls me out of the blues to ask where i am and gets upset when am not home.

Am on leave and mentioned to him that i had to travel and he said theres no need for that.

He comes to my house and looks around to see if theres a guy somewhere around.

Says the reason he still cares is cos ten years is a long time to throw away without making an effort to make it easy on me.

Am confused about the mixed messages.

Change your phone number
Tell him to stop all contact with you.
You need to move on
Please don't open the door to let him in
Good 10 years
If you are going to work it out , there have to be a rule
Give him 6 months to marry you
Or tell him to go F??K himself
Emotion will not change things you need to stand your ground
I am sure you know what you want from the relationship
Let good bye be bye

Food
cook different types of food
goat head, oxtail

Crown Prince: Nairalanders,this month marked a year i seperated from my ex date. Though she propose the breakup,she has continuously bombered me with insults almost every week uptil this minute. I have try to appease her yet she wont buy it. I have equally reported to her relatives yet no reprive. She has resorted to insulting my new girl even when she claimed she is now married and pregnant. How to i get her off my back.
Note:she is a nairalander too and might be reading this,so offer the best solution without bias or fear of favour.

Stop communicating with her
If she call to insult you hang up the phone
If you are having a bad day bomber her with insult too
If you have Kids, Make it clear to her if the phone ring, she should pass it to your kids
I hope you are financially supporting the kids?
You have to do your best to support the kids

omo harry: Tell me; sexually wondering eyes of a nigerian man.

All men have wondering eyes ( Clinton, Edward, Stanford and Schwarzenegger)
Sorry

onila: nigerian men change! change!

What about the women
Generalizing
There are good men and Women
Pray you meet the good person

If you meet a very good Nigerian Women
She will make sure you have peace
She will support you
She will be there for you come rain and sunshine
But guess what?
These kind of women marry bad Men

20% of Nigerian women are taking care of their husband- Lot of Good women out here
Why the other 80% are not willing to do the hard work of struggling
I know a dude who lost his job went back to school the wife was mad as hell
She didn't help him but gave him hell, YES HELL
so his dude struggle to finish school
Dude got an engineering Job today
Now my husband is Engineer

Lying
Secretive
Hiding Information
My family first, not my husband and Kids
My money is my money; my husband money is our Money

Nigerian Men
Big Cheat -------Nigerian women cheat too
Not helping with house chore
Going to Nigeria to get Marry not telling the women what they do for living

Unacceptable
Complete disrespect for Nigerian women
We can't keep generalizing

Mrs.Chima:
The American you have married, she found her a White man and kicked you to the curb?

Let me look at my referral database for my next customer, I mean friend. You want Swedish or German chick?

I have quality chicks and they are able to have Green Card babies.

Mrs Chima
I love to mess with you
we need to do the Swedish, I am covered in North America--(Gold)
The Swedish will give me a Europe pass
What about that?

Bastiger: Hmmm,women?wahala dey o

Like P Goodluck?

Mrs.Chima:
Yes.

Suga Mrs. Chima
I need green Card -
Please help a boo out

studio43: Liar

Nigerian women in Nigeria or in foreign countries
Yes men and women lie
secretive
Hiding things
It all about my family
Not My kid and husband first
Nigeria Men don't want to help with house chores
Drink
Cheat, The women are getting better in cheating and not hiding it

Latrice699@gmail.com:
U guys should stop fighting now, I posted this Sunday and it's still going on...should be over now...

Lady
Mission accomplished

Mrs.Chima:
No, I would not. I wasn't desperate nor in a hurry. What is truly for me will always be there when the time is right.

Suga Mrs Chima
Sometime you think you know the person wait after marriage pepper!!!!!!
Some time you can meet somebody online, Who is will to work and develop a relationship thing might work out
For me I am against any long distant relationship
No one size fit all in meeting men or women- (Take it to the lord)
Protect yourself, nobody will protect you

coogar: ding!
epitome of a cassava background.



speak for yourself, old man
who are we? i refused to be classified in the same echelon as you lots.

Coogar
we had a good run yesterday
Thanks for calling me old man
Have a great day

Coogar
Can we stop this mess
All please let us cut it out

We all can learn to agree to disagree, and respect the other's opinion even if we don't share it.
Please all hold fire

Serpentine: We don't pay bride price in the UK. In the past, the bride used to have a dowery she took to her marriage, this was money and goods from her parents to her husband. If the marriage didn't go ahead or the couple split up, it was expected that the dowery was returned to her parents.

In more recent centuries, the tradition has been that the man presents the bride with a diamond ring on proposing, which should represent approx. 3 months of his income. Traditionally, the bride's parents paid for the wedding, but nowadays, it is more common for the costs to be split among the couple and their families. Most white women here in the UK would be horified at the idea of their father selling her to a husband as it implies she is property.

3 months income = 20% of yearly income
If you make about 80K to 100k a year so you need about 16k to 20k Ring
I think it about getting something nice,
don't go break the bank
In Nigeria the women are not sold to the husband
I am sure in UK you have lot of Indians
Are the men sold to the women?

Dalcy: Since my ex disappointed me, i have decided to marry a lady whom i‘ve never known before and may be from on-line dating sites. Although i haven‘ t meet any for now. But i need advice from every body to help finalise my decision. Thanks.

Life is risk
Take a chance
If your have assets try and protect yourself
Luck good