₦airaland Forum

Capricona:
You are just spewing trash 🗑️ everywhere

Disgusting .
Don't even dare engaging me, check my profile first before you think of ever doing that.

Complete Bullshiit!!

Fountainofyouth:
You're becoming a stalker abi what's your problem? There are pictorial evidences on other social media that the husband was an abusive man so what exactly are you implying?

I won't quote you again then.

alphaNomega:
Especially in Nigeria. Money is undoubtedly an important factor in marriage, as it can significantly impact a couple's quality of life, well-being, and the overall success of their relationship.

It is totally unfair for one of the couple to bear the primary burden of financial demands of a marriage and family.

Nigerian women that live by the mantra "his money is our money, my money (that is if they have kobo) is my money" are parasites and only exist to continue the poverty cycle of which Nigeria is now the capital of the world.

Let these women work for their own money before they get into marriages. Domestic violence will reduce, see finish will reduce, the children will get the best of the best when financial support is coming from both parents. STOP MARRYING POOR WOMEN

I second this motion 100%

Powerfly:
What she said is the honest truth.... The reason why some of you guys even see girls to date is because of how hard things are in this country. If the narrative changes and our economy improves, alot of you will only have access to OLosho because most of these girls are already tired of your BS, your unnecessary pride and egocentric mindset.
And most girls know it's easier dating you and cheating with a girl than actually cheating with guy.
Plus, some of you guys are so terrible in bed....some of you be like "babe have you cummed ?"
And she'll be like yes! Coz she knows you're way too dumb ....but a girl will never ask her fellow girl if she has orgasm coz the minute it hits her.... Even the bedspread will testify.... And also a girl can hardly fake moans for her fellow girl... But she can act all crazy and fake moan just not to hurt your ego but deep down she's praying for you to cum quick and get off her body.

Lol.. I know this comment go provoke Una but I no send anybody papa... I gaz yarn you the truth.

Will you keep quiet, mumu lesbian!!!

KarinaSlim:
Let me correct 2 things u stated.
1) She will NEVER end up Single dear. She will still get married to someone better.

2) As for the husband, he will find it very difficult to stay married in life. Why? becos women will keep coming and leaving after discovering his adulterous nature.

His Parents and family will also know that the reason he can't keep a wife is becos of his philandering nature so they will know the fault is from him anytime a woman leaves. After all, the first woman left for same reason.

Even if they can't tell him his truth to his face. They will say it behind him. So he will remain alone in life.

Like u said, Men are Polygamous in nature.

Complete Bullshit!!!

TimiRume:
A white man would marry her for every reason you think no one should. She would get a good one in a western country

Which western country? Shey na UK or Canada that the women are crying of loneliness?


Abeg, shift!!!

IamAsiri:
Please keep quiet. Do you know my gender?

I won't, hermaphrodite

Kobojunkie:
Her story is that the man lied about that.

K

press9jatv:
God Almighty that picked up Tacha calls should pick my calls too. Some people carry God’s Grace seriously.

You are a clown. You are the same as Truth9ja na...who you deceiving?

Angelfrost:
Bro... Look at the evidence up there. I didn't fabricate them.

Mind you, I didn't even make any comments when the man's side of the gist came out. I simply waited for the full gist.

Las las, none of us will ever know everything... But, for the woman to take her kids and abandon the man like that at the airport, there is definitely bad blood somewhere.

Make you reason am.

You have a point but I thought the man sponsored the wife to the UK with his money?

ahnie:
E be like say you dey craze abii ...I think your UseleSS sisters would relate perfectly with the situation.
Anu-pama,I HAVE BN NOTICING YOUR STUPIDITY FOR QUITE SOME TIME NOW.


Fvckterd now you have my attention. Any derogatory word you use on me,I would return the energy back to your mother and fuu-lish sisters.

Be like you want make Ogun kill you like the gutter rat you're this afternoon.

Haaaaaa...you don vex niyen oh...take it easy oh

Luckysbab:
If the reverse was the case, I'm sure you will talk down on the man. There's a name for that "women can do no wrong" syndrome.

He "enslaved and brutalized" her but somehow still allowed her to japa to a brighter future abi?

It's a good Nollywood script, I admit.

I already called him out too

Angelfrost:
I don't know the full story, but there can be no smoke without fire.

For a woman to take such a drastic action or hatch such a move, she has certainly left the marriage a long time ago.

There are a lot of marriages in Nigeria today being held by pretense and limited options on the part of either couple, more often than not the women.

That's why they never hesitate to break free once they enter nations that allow women exhale!

You fall my hand!!! So all the naija women that divorced their husbands did so because the husbands were wifebeaters?

I can give you 10 instances this year alone of men who cherished their wives and were dumped after getting to the UK

ahnie:
I said it in the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

Pele o....soothsayer

Fountainofyouth....

This is for you

Babathanks:
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God punish u luminous. You are mad

God has blessed me and still blesses me everyday. I'm trying to bless you to avoid your death.

Goalminded1:
Umm...in hell fire, I guess...🤷Still being fired up and heated with the highest of temperatures, to get it ready for...you know the rest. Oops.
Lol... jokes aside, you cannot screw lesbians and make their sexuality change. It's beyond physical sex. It's psychological and spiritual.
There one of them below viewing the thread. Her moniker is @EmpressOne . Go check her current profile pic and you'll see she's trying to attract her kind.

Luminouz, wa, abeg come and be going jare. Let me face the main targets here.

Sure thing boss!!😊😊😊

Goalminded1:
Sure, the vitriol is intentional, and it's my pleasure you and others noticed it.

As to the emboldened texts, you are simply part of the greater problem. You encourage them ladies to think it's permissible for them to be lesbians, since some men find it a turn on. It's all in your minds...all lust.

Well, I intend to make them straight by fuqing the shiit of them. So you should be thanking me for converting them to heterosexual mindset.

Now, where is my gold medal?

There is nothing stopping you from making your own money, leeches

mariahAngel:
Of course, God is absolute.
In God, all things consist.

Without God in one's life, there will be a major emptiness(within one's soul) that nothing and no one can fill permanently.
One would just be existing, but not living.
It is not judgment, it is the truth.

And I repeat, she knows she has a problem (she feels it), but not sure what the exact problem and solution is.

God is absolute ...TO YOU!!!! That's your truth. But you make it seem that it's the overall truth. Have you seen God? Why should I believe you when you don't even know how God looks like?

I'm not hating or arguing with you oh, I'm just speaking from a logical perspective....I'm just saying people may not share that opinion, same way some people think the muslims are fanatics.

On that babe issue, forget am, she dey use una catch cruise

Goalminded1:
That was how I used cleverness to unravel a lesbian girl on this Nairaland some years ago. She was hiding it , but I was on her trail, sniffing for clues, which she was leaving behind.
She created a topic in family section complaining of how her parents, especially her mother, is so overprotective of her and doesn't let her go out to socialize with friends.
She said she was bored and needed friends..

That was how Nairaland boys and men (trust them na) smelled blood as the sharks that they are known to be and rushed in for the kill (disguised as wanting to help her break free from the parents strictness)

I read comments and I was just observing. Observing her own replies mostly. The girl was about 20 years as of the time.
Some men gave her sound advice, to see why her parents were doing a good thing by keeping her indoors.
Some others told her they could help her with ways to break free. Some even sent her their phone numbers, saying they will take her out and show her a good time (lmao...men ehn!)
I also chirped in my two cents, and she replied me by dropping her phone number. I saved the number. I believe other guys did too. Maybe she was trying to get us to each out to her. So we live in the same city, it turned out to be.
When we eventually talked (I called her ) the first thing she said was ' ah, finally! Finally! You ehn...the guy who won't let me drink water and keep cup done on Nairaland! "

I laughed...hahaha. Then we got talking. I already knew my aim. She knew it too, partly. I wanted to unravel her completely. And I eventually did.
She said to me " but mehn, you ehn...you were just attacking me with style, back-to-back, on Nairaland. Accusing me of being a lesbian. "
" But how did you know ? "
I laughed and responded saying, " I saw the signs nau. I followed your comments on sexuality section, especially on post or topics that have to do with lesbians and gays, even though you weren't outrightly saying you were one in your comments. Plus you are following (her followers) two known lesbian older women here on NL. It means you already see them as a senior sister that can guide you in the " ways of the sisters " 😂
By this I meant, showing her how to get more lesbian experience (hookups and such).

She was surprised how I pieced together the puzzle and identified her as a lesbian. But she said she was bi (I don't see them as that. I call you what u are as at when you are doing it .

To cut the long story short, I got this girl to start telling me about her stupid escapades with her lesbian roomies and other ladies in that their NSUK yeye university in Nasarawa. She even started sending me nudes (photos and videos) of her self-servicing, and twerking at times too. Even twerking naked with her female friends, who she says are also her lesbian pleasure partners She was almost going to make videos of her sleeping with fellow girls fro me to see, but I stopped the whole game I was playing and that moment and started torturing her with preachings and psychology. After like two months of getting to know ourselves (as well as she inviting me for hookups, which I tactically avoided and didn't show up on the agreed day) she eventually started claiming she felt dirty and regretful for all her lesbian days. She said she wants to quit and that she doesn't want to live a double life, when her father (who she says is always advising her) thinks she is a good girl and a virgin. Not knowing she gives it to both guys and girls in the university they sent her to study at.

She's still a member of Nairaland today. But she's not really the noiy type here. If she reads this, she'll know I'm talking about her, and she'll know who I am.
She Is an Edo girl, living in Abuja with her parents.

I hated her secretly, until I developed a soft spot for her when she eventually started taking steps to change her lifestyle. It's something I can't control, or pretend to like. I just have a natural dislike for them, no matter how I lie and pretend to make them comfortable enough to trust me. Inside of me, I wish the ground could open up and swallow them right before my eyes. Especially because they look so innocent outside. Those she-devils.

As for their male counterparts in the game of gay, those ones are just on colos. I don't like even imagining thier own stupidity. But I dish them the same dose of homophobia that I dish their lesbian counterparts. Maybe just slightly less tho...maybe. And that's cuz I'm a guy, and I barely focusing on their silly activities.

Hmm... if you've noticed from my comments since this post was opened, you'll notice how I carry this lesbo matter for head like say na me be deputy Jesus Christ. 😁🙄
I'm not even denying this. Unapologetic about it.
Heck, I hate them to bits, oh. I can join people to lynch them in public if and when caught. Sadly, we live in a simp society where the females are hardly ever publicly embarrassed for being caught with another female being Lesbos. Only the gay males are publicly lynched. It should be the same for both genders. Since these females think they are so clever and crafty with what they do.

Lots of vitriol in your post. I don't care about the lesbos. I just get two girls for the price of one. I can fuq both and be happy. It's the gays I don't understand their pattern. But it's well

mariahAngel:
Religion is not the solution to her problem.
She knows she has a problem, but the question is does she know what her problem is, and what the solution to her problem is?

You see, that is where people get it wrong.
They practice religion (to keep up appearances), but most don't have a spiritual (one on one) relationship with God, so the soul (within them) becomes empty/void, and yearns desperately to be filled, and only God can fill that void.




She has.
There's more to life than natural food.
Spiritual food is even more important, for the soul.
Without it, you will find it hard to enjoy the good things of life.
You can have everything, but they will mean nothing to you if you feel empty in your soul.
Only in God can one find true contentment.

Your last statement is absolute and many will ask you what made you the sole judge and jury of contentment to make such a claim.😬😬😬😬. Some will even call you a fanatic.

I repeat that she doesn't have a problem because her story is full of contradictions. That's how logic judges.

mariahAngel:
God is what is missing in your life.

Really? After everything she said, you think religion is the next opium to boost her spirits?

Her solution is not religion and she has no problem.. she lives comfortably and has food, she has a fiance. Yet she was moaning about no job, business or husband or any stuff...YET SHE has a good life. Don't you see the contradiction?

She no get problem abeg. Some people haven't eaten today and no hope of eating tomorrow.

IamAsiri:
Kindly speak to me with decorum. I don't know you from Adam and don't care to. I wasn't responding to you and didn't have any interface with you that warranted this insult. Know who you will insult anyhow on this platform. You can act like an uncultured fellow to anyone you feel but kindly please avoid me. Thank you.

But I won't. I will call you out because men like you are the bane of every good thing men like me are building. You will say anything and do anything so long a woman says it's true. I'd have thought you'd use logic but then what do I expect from a simp like you. Wake dafuq up.
I don't know you but I'm checkmating you right now. What you said was really illogical

Babathanks:
Na WA ooo. Give me ur digit, I dy Naija now, anytime I lap state we go align together. Na Illinois I Dy stay

Egbon, you no just like yourself at all. Not only did you disgrace us all by putting this info out there, be ready to die soon enough because that character go surely kpeme you with arguments

Fountainofyouth:
Why is it that you men are very quick to think of sèx when a woman does something you never expected? With all what she said the man did to her especially while pregnant, are they not valid reasons for her to do much more than what she did? Instead of you to advise your fellow men to always treat their wives right, you're trying hard to to look for ways to blame the wife? Truly Nigerian
men deserve the country and society they made for themselves, they prefer to blame others for their misdeed instead of themselves,

Fyi he can't fight for anything, his visa will expire next month, except he wants to become illegal when fighting for custody, he should better go back to naija and start afresh, then go back to UK on his own terms.

The woman is lying. I can bet it with you 100%. She is playing the emotional card. Her husband was so bad and yet she didn't divorce him abi? A bad husband that sold all his properties to send her to the UK? FOY, you sef think am nawww .... KO make sense at all!!! Anyways, na the man I blame. Somebody go follow me try that nonsense? Lol, na to put her name for babalawo shrine na. She go crawl come back from UK ni. A lot of women in the UK were sponsored by their husband and did this exact same shiit. I know of 10 simps who I had to counsel if not, dem go don run mad. None were wife beaters but victims of a system heavily skewed against them. You think the women will say their husbands are good men when it reached social media? Lol. You are a woman, you know the better how emotional y'all are and how you weaponise it very well.

IamAsiri:
If it is a lie, then I am sure there will be counter-stories flying around. Plus, that allegation is weighty. One does not lie that she was beaten while heavily pregnant. And believe you me, a woman doesn't forget, no matter how the man believes that he has been forgiven.

Abi learner ni e ni?

What kind of mumu thinking is 'a woman cannot lie that she was beaten when heavily pregnant ' . You mean you say down and typed that shiit like you meant it. Anyone can bloody lie about anything and any scenario

ahnie:
Maybe he was a lion husband/Toxic and abusive when he was in Nigeria and the wife endured alot, really took her time planing all these.

Revenge is a sweet meal best served COLD.

If na loving husband I nor see any reason why the wife would zonk out on him in the UK.

So all the ones that divorced their husbands in the UK were maltreated too? You know nothing. I can personally tell you 10 stories of women who abandoned their loving husbands, just to collect free UK allowance and all that.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo

Some of this a*ssess look disfigured to me.

As a man with experience with ladies with large bosom

Some of this A*ss look only good inside their dresses, but very ugly to steer at when they are naked

Some of them lack softness and tenderness when pressing them, meaning some are so hard as a rock

Some are already saggy with stretch marks and what look like bumps or wave lines on it

Some ladies don't know how to wash their a*ss properly after having a shit, therefore leaving remnants of little shits in their a*ss

Note: If you don't have a long d*ck just avoid d0ggystyle with this type of ladies before you will disgrace your Family name.

Mumuuuuuui

saysoo:
Toilet seats will be a good buisness in these countries.

Jealousy don kill you finish

georgetemi:
To be honest, this revelation baffled me in the sense that I've never thought of it. When you look at the percentage, it's very alarming. It cannot be 💯 % lies 🤥. Where are we going from here? How did we get here?

Blame feminism and wokeism