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Samantha124:
Just because you've only dated one SA lady, you're now the spokesperson of all SA ladies... Maybe you got lucky, but you still can't speak on behalf of the majority...

I know what I'm talking about because I'm a South African living in SA and I've seen it all... Most of your brothers be bragging about prostitutes.

Did you see the video that I posted? And how do you expect me not to look down on ladies who go for Nigerian guys when most of them are proud prostitutes and not even ashamed?

I'm also sure that your ex was stigmatized after the break up because we know the kinds of ladies who usually go for you guys.

K

Rahkman:
so what about the loads of xhosa women that are married to nigerian men.......I guess they are not in love, they got married and got pregnant for money too right?

No need to banter with her. She has made up her mind not to allow any other possibility. It's like saying every black man is a crook or a drug dealer. Ain't that some overgeneralized BS?

Samantha124:
It doesn't matter what caused the break up because you're not speaking on behalf of the majority.

Do you think she was going to turn down the money if you brought it out and gave it to her?

She turned it down repeatedly!!!🙂🙂🙂

So my case is now not a majority? Do you know of hundreds of others like me who prefer to keep quiet and let people like you misgeneralize? Where did your majority statistics come from, the journal Nature?

Samantha, you lost this one....just go and rest. One more advice, stop looking down on your own women. That's some weird shiit.

Samantha124:
That's why she's now your ex because it wasn't going to last anyways.

She was never going to settle with you because deep down she was expecting you to be her ATM.

Oh, so now you have shifted the goal post? You can't just deal with the fact that money is not what all SA women want from naija men? I just told you she is hardworking, has a job, never asks or give off golddigger vibes but you still think it's because of money that we broke up?

Why don't you stop fishing for info and ask me directly why we broke up. C'mon, I won't bite!!!😉

Samantha124:
She never asked you for money because already she knew you were gonna give it to her anyway... You guys should think again if you think that SA ladies go for you because of genuine love.

Genuine love between SA ladies and Nigerian men is like water and oil, they don't mix.

I'm only thinking so low of those SA ladies who go for Nigerian men because they're the type of ladies who can do anything for money, even if it means going to Dubai to eat Arab men's feaces.

I NEVER GIVE HER MONEY!!! What I ever bought for her were flowers!! Don't you get it? She chose me because she loved me, not for material stuffs. So all SA women can never love naija men genuinely? That's your conclusion? 😂😂😂. Please rethink that stand. Women, even SA women can love any man, from anywhere... I think you say these things to trigger Naija men...

Samantha124:
The title should be "reasons why most SA prostitutes and gold diggers prefer Nigerian men"....🤣🤣🤣

This is so wrong of you to say. The only SA girl I dated wasn't a prostitute and had a good job, good cook and very nice disposition from the Zulu tribe. She never asked me for money or gave me golddigger vibes. She bought tons of stuff for me and just a simple bouquet of flowers will make her swoon.

Why do you think so low of SA women anyways, ain't you one?

Fountainofyouth:
Kunle fi mi le 🙄

Layelaye...ekuro lalabaku ewa emi ati iwo....😛

Fountainofyouth:
The Op said it's real so why should I believe you? Or are you the Uncle?

Naso you go believe if I tell you say I love you abi?

Yinmu!!!😉

Storypot:
It's not But case closed

I didn't ask you shiit!!! You must be joking if one oyibo woman will beat up a naija man in Naija and he won't reset her brain with better slaps. If it was abroad, I'd have said, it's possible but here? I don't think so.

Fountainofyouth:
Lmao, is he not a simp again? Abi simping doesn't apply to white ladies? The COONING though lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣

Yen yen yen...story is fake....🙄

KillahPriest:
get away from my mentions Mr Mumu Over baked advise. Have you seen the op before ? Can you predict when a woman's skoi skoi will start to manifest ? Do you know if she has another love interest somewhere ? You sef obviously no get doings too if not you'll know women get extremely jealous and territorial immediately they suspect their men are getting some attention outside hence my advice for him to get new clothes , toiletries and stay out late more frequently to raise that jealousy into a confrontation where he'll state his frustrations with her behavior, she'll state her own side and then, they'll hopefully settle their differences. Everything na strategy but no be all we suppose dey talk

Your advice is full of shiit!!!

A man who works two jobs is automatically unclean to you? What's the need for new clothes and toiletries? Or you couldn't see that the wife was weaponising sex by telling her husband to EARN the right to Bleep her, a woman he paid bride price for?

I pity simps like you sha...una go suffer die.

KillahPriest:
there's a high probability that you don't have doings my brother. Work on your physique, your looks and your toiletries. Also work on your romance game but don't bring up matter of sex again, just leave her and be coming home late sometimes

It's like you didn't read the post. He works two jobs to provide...what is the issue with his physique and looks na? You know na before ni?

Una go just dey give half baked advice on this forum

Men dey suffer sha..

You bought goats and cows, paid bride price of millions and you pay all bills in the house and still get denied?

She even said....he has to do enough to arose her in the morning. A woman weaponising sex should be dealt with early enough but will men learn how to do it? When we try to teach them, they label us bad and call us names.


I just dey Waka pass

[quote author=mosdii post=126575791][/quote]Cool cool🙂

Men are the only creatures who spreads their wealth to benefit everyone. A man comes into money and the first thought is to get married, have babies, build a legacy. So wealth flows from him to everyone around him. It's the same even for politicians and public office holders(even though they embezzle).

Most women believe they don't need men once they have money. They equate a man's presence to source of living or nourishment and once they are richer, they believe,he is useless to them. This mentality has made so many households barren of joy and laughter because later in life, these women come to realize that money will never be equal to the presence of a man. Money gives you comfort, companionship gives you life. Two different things but women erroneously think they are the same.

Now, back to the topic. It is only a very few percentage of women who have superceded the level of mentality I mentioned above, either by experience, pain and a critical self-check, coupled with repentance, to arrive at this truth: That you are richer than your husband doesn't mean you don't need him. Infact, that's when you need him the most. You are the wife, the queen, the princess, you make the HOME. You need to be humble, follow his lead(even though he is poorer) and love him like you did(if you ever loved him at all, maybe like sha).

Personally, I have seen just three women since I was born, who never let money change them. One of them is from this website. Any man who marries them will enjoy that marriage because they see their money as nothing compared to the joy of having a good home. The rest? Make I no just talk but the consequences are dealing with them sha.

Summary: Money gives you comfort; Companionship gives you life.

mosdii:
Kill or you get killed.

Stay ruthless, merciless and pitiless to these farm tools.

Lol, mosdii, is that you? You a redpiller too?🙂

1Sharon:
I'll leave you keep playing dumb. He wouldn't have made that comment if the child was fully black.

If Nigerians can believe a baby can be born holding a quran. I won't be surprised if they believe they can be born with dreadlocks.

K

1Sharon:
When he said their hair grows fast, you didn't see that or you want to be disingenuous?

Dada means dreads, yes and so? How can you be born with it?

I can't even tell if you're trolling or being for real.

*Sighs*

How does fast hair growth correlate to long hair tori Olorun? Slow hair growth can't give you long hair or what? Your case is not casing today abeg. Your logic is consistently flawed.

I was born with dreadlocks... And in your ingenuous mind, you imagined it was a full hair of dreadlocks? 😳😳😳😳.... I even came out with a full set of teeth sef ..🙄

Just go away biko....your ignorance is affecting my brain cells

1Sharon:
He mentioned the length, go read again &

Listen to yourself. How can somebody be born with dreadlocks.

He said FULL AND SILKY....is full and long the same? Full has to do with thickness, not length.

If you are yoruba, you'd know dreadlock is called DADA. Sharon, I dey use God beg you. Just GET LAID!!!

1Sharon:
Will he gave the same explanation if he sees a dark skinned boy with braided hair

Why won't he?
I was born with dreadlocks and I braided my hair till I was like 6 or so...it reached down to my shoulders!!! So blacks do have long hair.

He talked of the silky texture and structure,not the length. So where did all your talk come from? You see shadows at midnight and it ain't good for you.

Sharon, seriously, GET LAID!!! It helps!!

1Sharon:
Black people can have long hair. Let go of that misconception. It's their self-hating practises that don't let it grow.

Denrele's hair is no different to any other black person's

You don come again ma'am

He never said blacks don't have long hair. He said silky and full. He just explained why the hair was plaited ohhhh because it grows fast being a quarter-racial.

How you misinterprete such a simple stuff is beyond me? You need to get laid ASAP.

Padipadi:
I v answered you. No dey borther me. Get me a sensible atheist to come and run mouth here and let me roast him or her.

Answer, cōward!!!

heartofcity12:
See them hos trying to glorify simping just to manipulate other men viewing their statuses to start simping, like it’s the only way to get them. “He never gets tired” until he get tired. The hustle is real, bunch of leeches 😂

You get time to dey check statuses sha. I never BOTHER!!!😉😉😉😉

@ Eyinju112

You be JW? You should told me all that to forestall this unnecessary shalaye na. I never try to debate anything with JWs...it's a futile task.

God bless you sister and have a nice week.

Padipadi:
Actually you are the real cursed one. Cos no be everything you expect to be written in the bible. You for say make bible write how you go dey fûck, chop, etc.
If you v common sense, you ll know it's easy to manage one person than 2-3 people.

You didn't answer question oga!!! It's not common sense to answer na...just answer him...shebi you dey quote bible ni?

Eyinju112:
He is God. I am not God. He said fornicators will not enter into his kingdom. Even in law, law doesn’t permit two wives, our Nigerian law says you must divorce one before you can marry the other. So if you like carry cow and dowries to 9 women houses after your legal wife na nonsense you still do. God doesn’t regard those, you’re still fornicating. I’m not forcing you to accept what I’ve said, they are bull shit to you, you can disregard it and don’t mention me hence. T for thanks

God never specifically said MARRYING TWO WOMEN IS A SIN. that is my point. Which Nigerian law na? Muslims no dey marry two women? Our forefathers that married multiple women are in hell abi?

I'm putting it to you that you are not still removing that religious fog clouding your mind. Be logical for God's sake!!! How humans claim to know God amuses me sha? Can't you see the illogicality in everything you have said?

Abeg, e don do...bye bye...I should have known trying to get a woman to be logical na impossibility.

Eyinju112:
I don’t believe bad people go to hell. And yes a man who marries two wives is seen as a fornicator in the eyes of God because to him the second wife is invalid. Either he takes good care of her or not, that’s his decision and choice. He is fornicating , And fornication is among the 10 command God gave. Thou shall not fornicate.

Sorry but this is bullshiiit. A woman you married legally through customs is still fornication to you? Then all muslims are fornicators and would go to hell then.

You see how religion twists you up and makes you look a bit messed up? How can a benevolent God send you to hell for MARRYING two women and taking good care of them? Makes no sense!!! All the great men in the Bible are fornicators then and are now yelling in pain in hell abi? Lol.

Madam, wake dafuq up and remove the religious wool covering your mind. There is no God who will punish any man for marrying many women. It makes no absolute sense. That you even equate marrying two women legally to fornicating, tells me you know nothing about God...just that you don't want your husband to marry a second wife...which is jealousy or envy.

Eyinju112:
I don’t argue anything biblical online. Because many just read some parts and judge with it, they don’t read deep and see what had transpired or will transpire before a certain quote was made. If only Christians can believe that we ain’t under the mosaic law. The mosaic law is the Old Testament, when jesus came, there were things he put straight and as Christians we are the followers of Jesus Christ. The New Testament is where jesus footstep is and that is what all Christians should follow. The account of 1 Corinthians chapter 7 states that polygamy is unlawful; and that one man is to have but one wife, and to keep to her; and that one woman is to have but one husband, and to keep to him and the wife only has a power over the husband's body, a right to it, and may claim the use of it and so as the man only has power to his woman’s body.

Dey play you hear? Does it make sense to you that a man will go to a place called hell because he married more than one woman? Women he took care of, sired children with and was happy with? Check nature and see the harem-mentality of animals everywhere.

You are saying polygamy is awful because it doesn't favour you to have a cowife and I get you. But there is absolutely nothing wrong in a man talking multiple wives that he can take care.

Slaveman343:
A woman with many body counts is a bonus and a flex? Women are the ones always on heat?

You cannot say women who sleep around are useless and still not pay them for daring to useless themselves with you.

Are men not valued for their sexual conquests anymore, which other gain are some of you still looking for?

You gain with more sex, women lose with more sex. So what's the problem when they seek their benefit? Why are you pained that they want to benefit too?

Continue swallowing pills that mess up your thought, while some of us mature into men.

And this is what you call mature?😳😃😳...

I blame myself for replying you. So you never even mature into a man and yet, I, a man, is advising you and you are behaving like a dōnkey?

I rest my case. When you mature finish, your eye go clear. YOU WILL LEAARRNNNN!!!

Slaveman343:
You will grow old and bitter alone. Let's bet?

For giving a fellow guy a piece of advice that will make him better?

Who is the bitter one here? You will suffer wotowoto with this your mumu mentality oh... Women advocate oshi

Sure .let's bet.... 1 million dollars each. If you no get am, just go and hide your blôck head!!!