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chigomiced:
Women don't respect men who try harder than them, because they implicitly see them as inferior. This is why they give friendzoned men so little, yet get them doing everything, whilst giving everything to the "Chad" who gives them so little. Women are only genuinely attracted to the men they see as above them, which is why they try to please men they see as superior, but expect the other men to try to please them (the inferior men)

Correct!!!

Vinnie2000:
That's because you are not Banging her Well.

Buy Olive Oil.

Before Pour some on the Veejay for Lubrication
and you take Action Bitters and Bitter Kola before the Fucck.

The Next time she sees you, She will hold your Preek in public.

Werey😉😉😉

TheBTCinvestor:
Your just pained. Truly if u had millions..u won't give to any beggar..na woman u go still carry. I just bleeped a succulent big booty fair lady and gave her 100k. I get two heads? Its small money cos i have the resources. No vex u hear. Hustle up boy.

You be werey!!! 100k for big booty that I fuq for free? Was she even a virgin or even tight down there? Men like you dey shame us biko.

It's your money though ..spend it like you like

Puss360:
Op, how do you define maturity? I don't know your age, but judging from that chat up there I'm not sure u are above 21...

Coz the talk is too long and too unnecessary all because you refused giving her what she asked for...

Someone asks you for something, you don't have, why not say so and close mouth...
Which one come be "I have over 500k in my account that can feed you a long time "... What sort of statement is dat What are you trying to prove?

If you don tire for the girl, why not block her?

Better grow up.. Proving your masculinity doesn't equate Maturity ...

Jesus Christ!! You blamed OP for putting that girl in her place? You can't make this shiit up!!! You leave the girl who is a leech and condemn a dude who defends himself by saying he is not mature?

Many of u go tey for singlehood shelf I swear. Which kain mumu mentality be this nitori olorun?

IbileIfe:
Many Nigerian men fear ambitious women.
Asking for marriage material?

Please, define marriage material?

PS:
My wife is the CEO of an online store. And she is a member of WIMBIZ. She said many of the members are senior executives in banks, telcom and tech companies.

*Sighs*

Another man who comes online to preen about his personal life.

I don't understand why it's always men creating threads about their gf birthdays. You rarely see girls do this online.
Oga even added links to her FB and WhatsApp, hunting for birthday wishes from unknown people online. WTF

advanceDNA:
Only lazy women use that line...God ddnt create u to provide.... so God gave u two hand and legs to bend down and chop peńis from back as a means of support...

.. all i have talked about is gift......even the chat from the op is just a gift from the lady..... just because u are too broke to give ur man a gift, u are dragging God into ur broke parasitic mentality.....

U lazy broke women...what does supporting ur man even mean to you?? U cant give perfume, u cant give boxers, u cant bring business idea, risk management? Zero knowledge....so what does support even mean to broke women like u....?? To come and watch zee world with 600naira/ liter fuel from morning till night.. and spread legs??

You finish work for this .. e complete well well... I'm proud of you

ChemicalReaction:
Luminouz

I hope I got the moniker correctly.

Seeing how you were schooling me on what "real" love is on the other thread, I want to know what your opinion about this relationship arrangement is...

Yeah, I'm here!!!

The guy had complex issues. Na mumu dey use money control woman. I have never used it. There is what's called an Alpha will and frame that mean you are just so confident in yourself and your goals that the woman will naturally defer to you, no matter how rich she is. While women hypergamy is real, na woman who get poverty mentality go think say money is everything in a relationship and she should never respect her man because she has more. Many women are divorced and baby mamas today because of that mentality.

This dude is like dozens of simps who think money can buy women's love and that's exactly what the redpill teaches against. Women are human beings,not objects and no matter how hard they scream for a rich man, their pussies always get wet when they find someone else who is poorer but has her mumu button. That's who they love. What a woman says and what she means/does are often parallel lines that will never meet. The dude prolly came from a family where money is worshipped as the God and the father is the priest. So whoever is in charge of the dough, takes the cake.

The funny thing about the guy is that he admitted that 'she is submissive now' but she can change later. While that is possible and should never be doubted, a lady who is rich and independent and submissive to you( confirmed after several redpill tests) won't suddenly change after wedding and become a virago, so long you retain your status quo as her Alpha. There is a difference between being independent and being innately stubborn, hardheaded and unyielding. The former is an asset while the latter is a problem.

That dude up there is looking to breakup with her and just needs an excuse to do it.

ChemicalReaction:
First of all, what is real love? I'm asking cos I honestly want to learn from you.

Secondly, nobody is saying OP did the wrong thing. Two things are involved. It's either he's not able to afford her lifestyle or it's a problem of wrong timing on the lady's part., which is actually the problem I see, too. Because truthfully, one week is too sudden to ask another person to fund her expensive skincare routine just yet. You can't meet someone last week and you're already asking them for favours when it's not an emergency.

That said, your problem is that she dared asked him for cream when she could afford it, and I ask again, how is asking someone you're supposedly in a relationship with for cream a big deal?

Is it that the money is too much for you? If that is the case then OP, already made it clear she could afford her lifestyle. I mean, he's the one who met her at the airport and knows what he saw that made him ask for her number, right? Person will not be using 45K cream and her skin will not be skinning, or she won't exude elegance with the way she dressed and the manner she carried herself.

You sounded like a broken record with the red pill hogwash for someone who understands the "real" definition of love... If you want to be uncharitable in your relationship, no wahala... But don't come here sounding as though you understand love.

Bottom line is, whether man or woman, everybody wants to feel secure in the choices they've made, and saying "I love you" is never enough. One's ability to provide should also be factored into the equation of a serious relationship. Good thing the gentleman already understands they are not financially compatible and has done the needful

You just validated my stand. Thank you reactor!!!

How many times will they recycle this story na?

It's annoying!!!

ChemicalReaction:
Life is not all black and white, there are some grey areas, too. Sometimes just behave like mumu to get the answers you want. If he could afford it, I don't see how buying the cream for a woman he claimed to be dating should be a problem. No be ordinary cream? Was he expecting a millionaire to be using 5K cream? 😅

It's possible she has gotten the answer she needed, whether to forge ahead with a relationship with OP or not.

It's possible she wanted to do away with OP, reason she asked for the cream few days after they met.
It's possible she wanted to test him the same way "rich" men test their broke babes.

Bottom line is, it is not every woman who asks you for favours that actually needs it, but at this point OP may never be able to figure out her intentions because like the Nigerians we are, we're already programmed to label every woman who asks for favour as materialistic.

Some women, particularly independent women have seen premium shege in relationships, they, like their male counterparts have met leeches and gold diggers in the name of love, reason why they test you before it starts to get too serious.

So according to you and this epistle to the simps, the best and ONLY way to test him was to ask him to buy cream for her? Yet she came to his house and ate his food and he never used that to TEST her as FFO(for food only).

The way una dey reason sometimes for this forum taya me. The other girls up there asked him to date his league as if relationships are about money, class and status and yet these ones too dey find real love.

N.B: To the men out there, you should see now for yourself that your usefulness is never as a human being but what you can provide. You are nothing but a tool to be used. Take the redpill and start prioritizing your needs from now on. OP did the right thing

PstDapo:
25 rules for young men:

1. Know the difference between love and lust.

2. It’s OK to go to movies by yourself.

3. Hygiene is more important than you think.

4. Never date a friend’s ex.

5. Stay informed on what’s going on. Don’t be a sheep.

6. Have a sense of humor but don’t joke about dreams and goals.

7. Study the type of people who upset you and why.

8. Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once.

9. Don’t bully people weaker than you.

10. Learn how to tell stories.

11. Don’t lean on porn to be better in bed. Read the right books.

12. You never marry a girl. You marry her entire family.

13. Don’t complain– you seem helpless. 80% / 20%

14. Be impressed by the right things. Things that matter.

15. When coming across a successful person talk / impress less. Ask more.

16. Have a memorable style.

17. Don’t feel guilty for being ambitious.

18. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones.

19. Always have some cash,
and a power bank.

20. Be aware of your level of sensitivity.

21. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best. Effort + Attitude matters.

22. Always beat your prior best in everything you do.

23. Acting “as if” all the time will eventually require you to become who you’re acting like.

24. Work for a great leader to shadow and duplicate. The right leader matters more than the right industry.

25. Don’t have too many rules. It’ll overwhelm you..💡

Nice one!!! You're dripping pills back to back bro!!!

Labdi69:
How does someone look like ibo? You’re still a tribalist but just that you’re detribalised

K

SF123:
My girl friend is saying that she wants to know my stand, i don`t actually apprehend what she meant by that. To be frank, i don`t call, text nor chat her always but i do check up on her maybe via chatting or calling but i don`t always do that frequenty. She has visited me twice but on her second visit, i tried to play the game but she decline. Base on what she`s pinpointing, please guys what does it entails and what will i do?

Why don't you ask her what she meant? It's really simple... I could give you three meanings to that though but I prefer you ask her

Look at how everyone is advising her to leave him...not even trying to advise her to work things out using family or pastor or counselor. Yet when she does and becomes a single mom with kids, they will still abuse her and says no man deserves a single mother.

It's funny how the first solution to these issues from women on NL is to 'LEAVE HIM'. Yet many of these women have worse relationships offline and they never leave their men.

Make I just Waka dey go jejely.

PoliteActivist:
He's still talking! SHAMELESS BRAINLESS OLODO!
I could have said water or eba or anything - what is the
smallest visible part of those?? As old as you are you've never heard "an atom of..." to denote very small. You don't have an atom of sense!
And you don't know curses return to you! Curse anyone, you're actually cursing YOURSELF! Is there anything you know all?? OLODO!!!

K

PoliteActivist:
You really wanna be insulted, don't you?
OLODO, we're not talking of counting anything. We're talking of making the smallest part of rice appear by thinking. I could have said yam instead, or anything, then it'd have been "you can't make an atom of yam appear by thinking". OLODO!!!

Insults make my dick hard!!!

The smallest visible part of rice is a grain. And a molecule is not smaller than an atom....OLODO, so where does the smallest part of rice come from? There are psions, archons, positions, nucleons and more that are smaller than even neutrons and protons. Update yourself nigga!!

N.B: I will curse you if you derail this thread again...This is my last reply. I have entertained you enough. Sorry OP

PoliteActivist:
Stop making a idiiot of yourself, thinking you're fooling anybody. insulting your old age and old moniker. How can you be the only person who doesn't know that molecule is the smaller part of matter. I could have also said an atom of rice which is smaller than a molecule.
Seriously, I'm FLABBERGASTED you don't know these things!

Na why you dey argue with everyone on this thread be that na....you don't know jack yet like a typical lazy yoot, you don't want to learn... If a grain of rice has trillions of molecules, how would the dude you are arguing with see one molecule of rice then?

You don't count rice by molecules, you count by grains. At least, know that and stop disgracing yourself.

PoliteActivist:
CHAI!!! Oga even if you are uneducated you are too old not to know just from the streets that all matter is made of molecules!
See the number of molecules in a grain of rice below

So your English teacher taught you to count rice by its molecules?
if a single molecule of rice were to exist, would it look countable? What shape would it form?
We are talking of counting, you are taking of weight...
I guess you will count sand and beans by their molecules

You see your life bayi? Just leave this thread!!!

PoliteActivist:
A more appropriate quote is "If you have no argument insult the plaintiff".
Someone, based on his quite limited and superficial knowledge of QM, writes that thoughts equal matter.
Which begs the question, why then if you sit in a room and think about rice, a single molecule of rice would not appear. Not only are you not thinker enough to ask that or any question at all, you insult someone who does!

Still arguing blinding about molecules of rice? Kai...see as you insult your English teacher, bush boi

It's called grains bro...

PoliteActivist:
My man, have you totally lost your mind?? From your profile you were there at beginning of NL so you must be an old guy. Respect your old age if you don't wanna chop insult from someone half your age. You've already been warned that in a forum like this you state your own STUPID views not try to shush anybody unless u wan chop insult - especially when a post is not directed at you. You are too old to not know better. Respect yourself. Do it again and you’ll chop major insult!

Little diick nigga!!!

Go ahead and insult me...I love insults, they make my diick hard😁

Derail this thread again and I will curse you

PoliteActivist:
I've read the article. You're a funny guy, like most NL people - just because something is in print makes it gospel! Did you ever ask if this guy has a degree in Quantum Mechanics or even Physics at all? He says he is a journalist and entrepreneur yet he's making all sorts of major claims based on superficial understanding of QM! Why not ask him why when you think of a plate of rice, it doesn't appear - no matter how long you sit in your room thinking of it!

You this guy again!!!!

Will it kill you to just sit down and drink beer and leave us alone?

Yes, you don't believe OP,then why spend so much time trying to disparage his thread! No be juju be that?

emmaodet:

Boss man!!!

I see you

lordnkem000:
Wow that's really good.. Weldon to you women.
You are so cool and down to earth, pls don't let anyone change u okay. I like u alot this way

Haaaaaa...simp leleyi ooo...

See toasting!!!

lordnkem000:
Do you even know who is really a Simp?
We have 6women days in your father's house I think, idiot. Do we have a national holiday for women? No.
Abeg who invited u in my discussion with her? Are u her boyfriend or brother or father? Idiot. Go look for something else to occupy urself and let us breath. I don't have time for ur type

Lol...e don pain am

Angrygoat:
Idiot

K

lordnkem000:
Nigeria is so hot, people aren't happy, there's so much grumbling because of the hike of food prices and little or no money..
God is in control
U mean there is a public holiday for women there? Incredible!!
Tell me about it plz dear

Simp, e don do!!! Leave her alone...

What's incredible about women day in SA? We have around 6 Women days in naija na...

Tell you about kini? Have some shame na...

PoliteActivist:
😄It's amazing what people will come up with - as long as they don't have to prove any of it!
Another person said earth is heaven, that you're already in heaven where you're like a god and your heart's innermost desires are manifested "so take time and enjoy your time in heaven"!

Me, I say:
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence!
And what's asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence!

K

ttime:
How then do u explain global population Growth?

By this theory, mortality should equal natality on a global scale. Since each death is accounted for in new birth. So how come more births than death is d current reality?
Are ur reptilian scientists also creating new souls?
D truth is simply in front of us, but we would rather go to great lenghts believing lies.

Of course not!!!

It's really simple. More souls are being reincarnated into earth from other planets/dimensions but aren't allowed to leave when the bodies they inhabit die by the reptilians. So the earth is more like a prison planet. You get in...but you don't get out. I know he will explain more on this

PoliteActivist:
There are so many empty-headed buffoons on NL.
Who said movies don't portray real life. ALL movies have to relate to human experience otherwise why would people wanna see them?!
The God Father was accurate portrayal of mafia life, yet it was entirely dreamt up by Mario Puzo in his study in a bid to get out of debt - he wasn't interested in writing about the mafia, but that was the only genre of story his publishers were willing to pay an advance for!

K

PoliteActivist:
Wow! You're a real movie buff.
But these are MOVIES. A story some fiction writer dreamt up in his pajamas, then bought by a studio, who hired a screen writer to turn it into screenplay, then hired a director and producers who went for funding, then casting, etc - all these towards one objective - to make a huge PROFIT - MONEY!!

You know nothing, Jon Snow...

The mere fact that you don't even know movies can be portrayals of real life shiit...is disappointing. Just stick to politics na...you are embarrassing yourself

PoliteActivist:
You must be psychic. My diick is doing some work right now!

E dey work and you dey type on NL?

Dey play.