₦airaland Forum

UyaiIncomparabl:
Can you just rest sometimes? Like, just pipe low sometimes. The way you go shouting "simp, simp, simp" is getting out of hand. I know your kind. Always trying to sound more red-pilled than who invented it.

Osim put ya foot down and take charge. You think leaving your house when a fight or altercation ensues is simping. Lol. I pity you. Body go tell you. I know say you never marry. Very evident from your comments. Always sounding so naive.

Lol...Uyai calm down na. I'm anything but naive. The funny thing is you don't even know me at all.

PoliteActivist:
See this one. Will you die if you don't quote me? Will YOU?? You take your shiit and go wherever you wanna go and stop talking crap.

See his head, someone alive is out to tell you what happens when you die, because he read some books! He's not even sure what happens while you're alive!
Nobody has ever died and come back (it's impossible, because, that they came back is proof they were never totally dead) - and the ONLY way to know what he's talking about is by totally dying then comming back - NOT by reading any books!

Learn next time not to try to muzzle people in a forum like this. State your own stupid opinion or keep shut!

If your diick work for the next 100 years, make I bend.

Labdi69:
Well said. I’m a male and also not a simp or redpiller. I just am.

Based on the way you’ve broken it down, you’re not trying to block her shine. It’s simply rational allocation of scarce resources. Instead of painting it in such a way that it would seem as outright denial to your wife, you may want to explain the reason why it’s not a great idea at this point in time to wifey so you don’t build resentment for no reason. It’s actually a decision in the best interest of your family at this time so as not to jeopardize your ability to provide (an ability you would not like to outsource as a responsible man).

Let her know that when things become abit stable, you would be happy to. Alternatively, she can try finding a side gig to save up and you may even chip in as well. This I believe is a better way to go about it. If you married a reasonable wife which i know you did, she would understand. It’s all about timing and its simply not the right time.

It all boils down to rational decision making and not a battle of wills.

Labadi....I know say na you go dey type like a drunkard like this...instead of you to read his story from the beginning, you jumped in midway dey type nonsense.

If you had read well, that woman has a master's degree and her husband sponsored her on a data science course that she refused to use to make bread...so how is OP stopping her shine biko?

This second advice of yours ain't better... OP is not interested in sponsoring his wife for nursing...not after her refusing to use her numerous skillsets.

Nice work OP.

You are spot on. I have known these things since I was 21 years old. Good to know I'm not alone.

Please don't mind the eejits who will scream, rant, rave and yell on the thread saying you are crazy... Just do what you are here for

PoliteActivist:
I am not certain of lots of things, but one thing I am 100% certain of is that you can't prove any of this. You can't even prove the world exists as you experience it, or even exists at all!

Will you die if you don't comment? Will YOU?

Take your shiit and go to politics section or your diick won't work for the next 100 years!!!

You didn't even let him explain before jumping upandan like a sex starved he-goat

FireUpNow:
I wish you the same. A bigger simp you are!

K

ojtech8291:
Confirmed story. This is my area. The Man is a Monster. He has been beating his wife until he finally kills her this time around. The Wife refused to vacate the Marriage because her Family and Friends did not support the Marriage from the beginning. She died because of what people would say. Is it not reasonable to choose shame for death? No matter what happens your Family will still receive you. Too bad! According to my Pastor, it is better to be alive and not married than to be killed in marriage.

You know them right?
So could you shed light on why he beats her like that? Mental issues, domestic disputes?

FireUpNow:
I am sure you support domestic violatence

Your case is closed, simp...

Don't quote me again

FireUpNow:
So fighting or beating her is for the non simp right? Now that the husband has killed the woman he is not a simple anymore to you. Violence is not the answer

Lol, so you see how your emotions make you jump to conclusions? How or when did I say beating her or fighting her or even violence is the answer?

There are a thousand ways to make a woman behave without touching her.

Culer:
In a bid to sound 'redpillled', you just made your self look so stupid. Guy you're more than 30 yrs old and you're still this foolish?
Common sense no just dey your head.

K

FireUpNow:
This is very sad na. As a man if your wife is misbehaving to you, kindly talk to her or better still wear your clothes and go to see a friend to calm down then you can come back to the house. Fighting is not an option. Think about your kids and the good things your have done and been doing. I feel very sad. Say no domestic violatence.

What you say is for simps....

Why leave your own house to cool off...and for how long will you do that? Forever? Because she will keep doing it. You need to put ya foot down and take charge.

placeofallure:
I don't like to read news like this. I just kept doing Hmmmn! Hmmmn! I looked at the pictures, they speak volumes. This kinda death is avoidable. Another female doctor felled! This sect is going to extinction. Why didn't the woman leave the marriage? We don't even know the real circumstances of her death.....scuffle with husband...that suggests violence of some kind....

Women, please know when to back out when it isn't working, please. I always carry in my head a traumatising image of a heavily-pregnant young lady in my big sister's office. As advanced as the pregnancy was, she never carried it to term. Her husband killed her!
Leave so you can Live.

God be with the deceased family. The husband will get his comeuppance.

The husband killed her was the result. What was the process that started that? Think woman, think!!! It's the root cause we should investigate, so we can profer solutions.

I am a Man, who knows just how toxic some people(men and women) can be. In a marriage,with kids involved, such toxicity is not easily assuaged as one or both parties wanna stay for the kids' sakes!!! But sooner or later, things escalate and both parents kill each other. Upbringing, environmental influences, voodoo, even mental issues...all can be root causes of domestic violence(mental and physical types)

Samantha124:
I only fall asleep after midnight.

Witch 🙂

They are beautiful women... Put them in modern cosmetics for 6 months in an ACidified environment and you will see goddesses!!!

N.B: On the offering wives to visitors part, our feminists will cry today...😊

Eyinju112:
Emeka go back and check the part you said one of my baby mama, Before you open your mouth waaaah to cyber bully me

Calm down na...your blood too hot!!!

What a simp!!!

Kneeling down to propose!!!

Will he die if he stood up?

shantti:
Problem no dey finish

Whaaaat....
Nyama

Samantha124:
Already you're getting me worried because I was the naughtiest child at home, I hope they don't take after me...

They will take after you...and you will deal with it, vawulently

UppaZakum!!!

Nice take. Just make the necessary adjustments.

Your wife has a master's degree and already completed a data analysis training YET SHE WASN'T EVEN USING THE LATTER? I know many girls using data analytics to make millions!!!

Yet she now wants you to use premium resources for a nursing degree? Take charge bro...God bless you

UppaZakum!!!

I understand your story only too well, as well as your reservations.

Here is my take:

1. You are a redpiller so why would ALL your financial statements be known by your wife na? She knows you can afford stuff and that would only make her insist on getting a nursing degree. You guys can have a joint account but her knowing all your finances is a no no for me.

2. She can work in the US and earn legit money even as your spouse. The talk of doing nursing for two years and helping you while you are on PhD is not so tenable to me. There are spouses earning good money from home or working outside while taking care of the kids and you as well.

3. Data Analytics is also a good choice for her. She can work from home and earn money for the house. The downside is will she still be submissive when she starts earning money? I leave that to you. Her obvious eagerness to go to the US + her insistence on nursing school gave me cold chills. She even rejected data analytics as a choice. These combinations are recipes for women to misbehave.

4. All your financial plans to save are very very valid. I would also suggest you hide some assets(money or properties) here in Nigeria. Don't sell off all your assets. That's your failsafe in case things go south in the US. She doesn't need to know about these assets. She MUST NOT KNOW.

5. Finally, Who is your wife? How well do you know her? Now is the time to test her. How? Pretend those plans of yours are rubbish and you are not leaving again(but you are still continuing your visa runs) and see her reactions. Go broke for a while, act like you lost your assets and some bad shiit affected your finances. How you do this is up to you bro. Find a way to become less of a provider and jettison the idea of traveling out and watch what she does. Whatever happens next is your answer.

N.B: While I know some Nigerian women act right when they get to the US, the statistics of crying husbands show that majority of Nigerian women, especially who came to the US and studied Nursing, show their husbands shege and ultimately clean them out, house and children alike.

I'm a virgin....

So no comment...

dhiqson:


This wench had to open another acct
So as to get access to the group
Brooooooo obsession on serious steroids



Hope y'all know "its" initial monicker was banned for life
Hence it opened another

You saw it too?

The little wîtch was banned and opened another account just to troll, now it is desperate to gain access to that WhatsApp group so as to cause mischief....

Guys, open ya eyes....iya.ebe is Rozz is Iconic.R

If women can divorce Bill Gates and Canadian Prime Minister, these small NL boiz think their wealth can keep a woman....I laugh in AGBADO.

The Redpill is the only thing that can save your ass as a man, especially in the western hemisphere.

Learn or Perish, mudafuckers!!!

Smartb0y:
They don't know how to dress at all.

Wearing baggy clothings, nothing feminine about it. Clothing that are not even the least bit contemporary; they put on clothings that are completely outta style.

That won't get anyone's attention.

There are clothings that'll highlight a woman physique. Those natural curves that gets everyone taking a second glance.

Most complaining are out of shape aka fat ass.

Let's face it, it's always gonna be attraction before interest. There'll always be something physical that gets your attention about her.

Saying stuff like I like how she thinks blah blah blah, basically having high intelligence is never enough.

It's an organic drive that requires organic impulses.

These women are just lazy fat asses.

What makes a man wanna protect,lead and provide is that organic drive between his legs.

Testosterone is a beast,we tend to underestimate it.

It does wonders in a man's body.
That sex they're all complaining about in reddit is the same sex that drives man to protect and provide. The same desire is what drives a man's urge to protect and provide.

They're just poor at vetting ergo why they end up with men that just use and dump their scrunny asses.

Women will never be realistic to the truth or accept taking responsibilities.

Life's not balanced,some people work their asses off just to achieve little while some work little just to achieve alot.

It is what it is, everyone can't have the icing on the cake.

Just take that piece that works best for you and move along.

Life's too short to be complaining.

I agree.
Leave that kipaji dude to be acting like he is having menstrual pain or some shiit

Can someone on the thread help us shut this dude up na? Abi which kain wahala be this on a Sunday naaa?

DissTroy:
Nothing to see about the comment. Just an insecure Facebook flirt who has said good night a thousand times but is still replying.

Count yourself lucky I'm not the screenshots type. I knew this day would come.

Go hit the gym. Your protruding stomach doesn't help matters.

I don't like to drink from public cups. I'm not interested in you, or any of the females here on Nairaland. I never have been.

I've got enough females to last me 5 lifetimes. The least of my worries. Let me be. I don't want to message you on Facebook, Uyai.

I'm already with a woman I love too. If I want other women, I just need to reply messages on Facebook.

Go leech on men and fight other women like the late Victorian over men. You are infamous for being slutty on Nairaland and Facebook pages. Let me be, daughter of Eve!

Bro...I don't even care about your beef with Uyai but mentioning the late Victorian is a no no for me. She was one of the few hardworking and good women I know on NL and she is dead. Let her rest in peace biko

Greatdober:
.here is my WhatsApp, I can show you a thing or 2 for a start.
WhatsApp 0"9"0"5"3"2"0"9"8"7"6
Call 0"9"1"6"2"0"8"3"7"1"3
Check my signature too

Thanks bro...

UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't know you.

You are wicked!!!!

Karlifate:
How does your foolishness correlate with the post you quote

🤡


Keep looking for attention like a lil boy deprived of his toy.

No quote that guy again biko. The way he is zigzagging upandan on the thread is confusing my testosterone.

Greatdober:
Been on it for 4 years.
It's worth the stress and all you need is the drive and s shoulder to lean on when you feel like giving up...
More like a mentor

Thanks boss.

Alexgeneration:
You need to go to YouTube and search for forex beginners videos.

Go to babypipsdotcom and read up.

Thanks bro