₦airaland Forum

IMWest:
Men,

Dangerous reptiles have weird colours to warn you about their virulence,

Same thing to women.

If she has:

- Multicoloured nails

- Coloured hair

- Animal-printed clothes

- Fire-hot lipsticks

Save yourself the drama and chaos.

GUARD YOUR FRAME

#MasculinitySaturday/Copied

I get your point but don't base everything on looks...Test and test and test before committing.

Some S.U looking Christians and hijab-wearing babes are worse than reptiles... so forget the looks and apply caution before committing.

NotAWierdo:
I know it's good to help your brothers as a guy but before you lend assistance to any guy, ensure he is worth your time. Some folks are irredeemable simps that if the situation was in-reverse, they would rather spend their last cash on a babe they just started chatting with online a day ago, than to gift a brother chicken-change.

Check out this bro in the screenshots below (obtained from Twitter). What do you think a man/boy like this would prioritize if he becomes successful? His bros or hoes? Well, your guess is good as mine. So not every guy out there deserve your pity or brotherly love just because they claim to be a male. Use your discretion when dealing with anyone irrespective of their gender.

*Sighs*

With rhymes like these, he could publish a poem or a book and become rich or something. Why waste it on a woman?

The funniest thing is that the girl he is dying for is another man's plaything...

God!!! Not again!

This wiitch won't stop mentioning my name ni?

Bfly:
you can aswell create your own pinkpill or pinksyrup with other hosebags frequenting this thread. You are a nuisance here.

You dey mind the mumu wiîtch ni?

She drops my name everywhere on nairaland looking for my attention. It's not by force to date you na...I say I no do, na by force...yet she won't leave me alone.

Acidosis:
Mr Project, keep your yeye co r.k until you finish your project. No kill pesin daughter! You want her to work like elephant at day and still do vigilante night work because you don't want to spend ordinary 25% of your finance to run your home.

Nawa for you oh...yeye advice!!!

JONSYN7154:
Then reduce your sex drive.

One is that don't divorce her

The way una dey advice on the forum taya me sha...so a man should reduce his sex drive by doing what? Cutting off his dick?

Yet you will still be the one to complain if he doesn't do enough to satisfy his wife...

Fahvvy:
There was a time in my life were I was even more passionate than the OP as regards women matters ...

Once I hear a tale of woe of a woman, I gnash my teeth and threaten fire and brimstone on the man ...

"How can a man do xyz?!" I would ask in anger ... But a very interesting incident happened that made me change my mind ... Maybe I'll share it one day ...


But my dear OP, before you threaten fire and brimstone on the man, please hear his side of the story first, cause if the man was as bad as she painted it she would've left already ...

So learn to ask for the full story...
The misunderstanding you talked about may not be as little as she painted it to be ...

Women (in general) always want to play the victim in ALL CIRCUMSTANCE, so what they'll do is they'll downplay their role in the matter whilst magnifying that of the man ...

If you check well, she prolly instigated that misunderstanding and the whipping is just an effect to what she caused ...

One thing people (especially women) haven't come to an understanding is that actions have consequences...

So whilst you're running your mouth and shredding that man's self esteem with your oratory prowess, don't be surprised when he retaliates with the only way he knows how - with his fist ...

You nailed it!!!
Being objective and logical is key

akwesenana:
This is another of that iya ediot's alts. Take serious at your own peril.


I no know wetin attention dey achieve for una.

I saw the comment and knew she was the one.

Attention is like a drug to women. They will crave it till endlessly.

Just ignore

Wotowotoman:
You don’t pay for sex cos you can’t afford to. You no get shishi. So na your hand and soap with porn be sex for you. No worry, when small coins enter pocket, you go understand as e dey go…

K

[quote author=Skepticus post=125568708][/quote]On point

heartofcity12:
🤦‍♂️

This is funny

chukshobayo:
Please I need your advice. How can one handle this issue of a lady giving you green light in the office and she is married. I ask this question because ordinary I may not look her way but since it is office one need to be careful because na were food dey come from considering this economy, and to avoid creating unnecessary enemies at work, I feel I am simping.

Two major red flags:

1. She is married

2. She is in your office

Just be courteous with her and ignore whatever green eye/mumu light she dey show you biko.

My humble advice

Smartb0y:
Body built but mind deflated

Lack of frame brings about irritation.
Too much irritation brings about divorce.

Pretty sure he's the equality type.
I hope he realizes he was responsible for not just his but his exes attitude.

Men have a heavy burden to uphold and it just doesn't end financially.

That burden of performance is in different phases.

The burden to provide for her
The burden to keep her in her feminine yet chaotic state.

There's no greater challenge a man can encounter than marriage.
He's not just responsible for himself but also his partner.

She knows he's not going anywhere which prompts her to unleash her fully chaotic state without any form of regard.

A man in such position won't survive such feminine force just like this fella.

Sad part is the single mom circle is still in order, breeding kids that'll eventually lack any form of frame to guide them.

No greater curse than a man with a weak mind who gushes over pussy.

He'll be served a cold thin ice of feminine chaos.

What really caused the divorce?

Do you know? So many news versions flying everywhere!!

SPAMBOX7:
I didn't force anything on anyone. Besides I didn't say pay for sex. You read wrong. Unless you see spending on a woman as a way of paying for sex then that's okay.

But If I bought my woman a chain cos she's possessed some kind of good behavior and I decide to reward her.. That's me spending on her but I didn't buy sex. If she misbehaves in some way I don't like I could ignore or cut her off.
The only time I will be simping is if she misbehaves and I still buy her a chain or keep her around. That's rewarding bad behavior which is a simp trait. Aside that I don't see any simping in rewarding a woman that respects you and has the type of energy you need around you.

Your scenario is different from what you painted up there earlier. Because now, she has become YOUR WOMAN, which I interpret to mean your wife. You have tested her and to an extent verified her. A girl will have proven herself to be very very good before she would get any chain from me. This means she would have bought me tons of stuff or shown her loyalty over and over again...to deserve my money. That's exactly what I mean.

I don't reward women for good behaviours, that's like training a dog to sit when you tell it. I give them what they NEED, not what they want.

N.B: I understand your concept but I do have a slightly different opinion. One love though.

bolabizzle:
Yes, but the bitter truth is most times the woman that wants to please you, worship you, make you her one and all, will 99% of the time be unattractive physically to you. Life really sucks. It likes to play strange pranks on humans. It is never fair. Let us learn to be realistic and have a stoic approach towards life if not you'll keep going in a merry go round direction.

The big question is will you be mature enough to overlook what she lacks physically and focus on other qualities that she possesses? Have you trained yourself to a level were you no longer allow physical beauty to turn your brain upside down but rather look out for other important qualities that is needed in a woman? I can bet that most guys that come here to vomit and post quotes for likes have at some point in time met a lady that treated them like a king, but because she doesn't have hour glass shape, big nyash, big breasts and eye lash like cat, they didn't even for a second think of giving the girl a chance.

Alot of men focus entirely on a woman's physical looks and this in my opinion is why there is currently disarray in the manosphere community. Today no one can give a standard definition of the redpill because different sub groups have germinated from it. PUA'S, MGTOW, BLACKPILLERS, INCELS... Some crazy weird groups are beginning to spring up in hidden corners of the internet that tries to hypnotise men to become transgender.

For those that their fingers are inching to quote me and tell me they can never have anything to do wit a lady that is ugly, look let me tell you, during our forefathers days when arranged marriage was very common, the parents of the man focused more on the girls family, their background and most importantly the behaviour of the girl. Looks wasn't considered important and if at all it was, it was definitely the last criteria on the list. Was their marriage back then as short-lived and useless like that of today?

I wish the creators of this thread requested for it to be closed but pinned. The early posts, most especially the ones from ubunja that encouraged men to have a nice grooming and start any form of romance with girls that don't look physically attractive were the best because they were realistic. He clearly pointed out the reason behind the logic. if a girl knows you don't find her Physically attractive and she's head over hills for you, how, just how she go play you wayo? There is this natural dominance, wisdom and confidence that a man has when he is with a girl he doesn't find physically attractive. Let that sink in.

You were making sense before the fourth paragraph. Who told you that in the olden days, women looks are not the primary criteria? It's always been top three on the list, never the bottom. Family, Unspoiled Youth and Beauty are the three pillars for marriage in those days. What are men paying bride price for if not these three(especially unspoiled youth or virginity).

Men will forever be attached to a woman's looks. How can you marry someone you are not attracted to? No be juju be that? Since beauty is subjective, even the socalled ugly girls get married to someone. What redpill teaches is to test her character/mindset and attraction cannot be bought. The same way many women reject men based on looks and attraction is the same for men too or are we supposed to just love every girl who expresses attraction for us, even when we don't want them? We should sleep with them, break their hearts, make them baby mamas and still end up vilified for it? It's called ATTRACTION.

Then, you have this erroneous view that all men want the same body shape in women. Men have many preferences when it comes to women. I won't be caught dead with a slim woman, yet I have friends who would kill for one. Big head, eyes, nose, mouth, small breasts, small ass and differing combinations of these ratios have made some girls attractive and unattractive to some and many men respectively.

What we can do is to tell any woman we don't feel anything for the truth because I don't think redpill is about hurting women or being sadists. It would interest you to know that since attraction can't be bought, the same so-called ugly girls are mercilessly rejecting other men who want them too...so why should you be compelled to love them if there is no attraction to begin with?

SPAMBOX7:
Spending money on a woman isn't simping bro. Most of you mistake what simping is.
You may find a woman attracted and just wanna smash and move.
You could spend on her to get what you want. It's only simping when you keep spending when you don't get what you want.
For example she disrespects you, hoards sex or no longer adheres to your standards but you still taking her on trips, buys her some Birkin cos you want to act like a gentleman., instead of cutting her off.
Or you keep spending even when you have gotten what you want.

Since you don't love her, it is very okay to dispatch her once you got what you want.

But you need to understand whether you like it or not you gotta spend on a woman directly or indirectly.
Anyone that tells you otherwise is just some guy who types online and never try to practice what they type offline.

Here we go again with the 'you must spend money on women directly or indirectly' mantra. I find that many men who support this here pay for sex(hookers, oloshos or whatever) and you use that justification to overgeneralize and I don't agree with that. Me no dey pay for sex. You may and I'm not fighting with you, it's your money but don't force that fallacy down my throat biko because I no go ever gree.

AImiron:
@TeamCronaldo on X

It just shows the type of people supporting penaldo, most of them are vile, I wonder if they won’t shoot Leo on sight if they are ever lucky to meet him in person. They harbor so much hatred in the heart.

Dem plenty here on NL too, I don’t understand why they have no boundaries.

It’s not a crime the little boy from Rosario dwarf una fave.

Though he lately apologized giving flimsy excuse, I hope the account get suspended.

He deleted the post but evidence dey, e choke.

Pictures attached including his damage control tweets.

Jesus Christ!!!

What's the matter with you for God's sakes


Are you getting paid for all these promo you dey do? Messi and Ronaldo don't even know you exist. Why yell like this Everytime...

You don chop belle full

Karlifate:
Rufus, if you followed the discourse to the letter, you won't foolishly type gibberish.

I'll advice you to ignore that doofûs!!!

He has nothing going on for him. I busted him way back

Redpill

Redpill

Redpill



Only thing that can save you as a Man!!!

I don talk my own

Kaymicheal852:
Lol , he should ask their mentor , Steven Harvey , after his wife was caught cheating on him with her bodyguard, he filled for divorce and she did too , they are now in a $400million lawsuit

I know she will still take half his wealth in that divorce despite being caught cheating!!!

Kaymicheal852:
You need to explain what’s toxic about abundance mindset and if you think you have lose your relationship because of this Redpill page then you really needs lots of help

You can prostrate and beg her to come back into your life and you can even take her shopping and buy her brand new iPhone 14 pro max for reconciliation gift and if she still won’t take you back yet buy her a new car she will accept you back immediately okay

You dey mind that guy. Girls dey give am wotowoto. He is now taking it out on us!!!

manoflove22:
seun mynd44 i think this thread need to be deleted, it teaches immorality, i know some folks will denied it

The one reasons this thread need to be deleted is the abundance mentality and other toxic subject that it teach,seun, mynd44 look into this cos it just cost my relationship now

Who is this one bayi?

If you don't geddifok!!!

TradingGod:
Money rules the world sadly

If you ain't making money they you are wasting time because the woman you are spending your time and resources with will dump you if a richer dude come in

Even Andrew Tate required money so that he can be so Attractive to the gender that loves sex so much

Confidence will take you far but money will take you to the destination immediately

K

This new species of redpiller taya me oh...

Money money money, no vetting, no genuine desire, just be purchasing women who will leech on you. Women are not things to be purchased.

TradingGod:
You can be an Alpha and still get divorced

No woman love you for who you are but what you have, if not 99% of relationship will still be active, but guess what, same babe that 'love' you for who you are will still cheat on you whether you are a redpiller or bluepiller or whatever, all women are program to love only themselves so if a woman is dating you it is because she is benefiting from you and the momet she find someone that will give her more benefit, she will forget that she 'loved' you for who you are and discard you immediately like a used Pad

Beside woman don't chose man, man choses women, change your mindset abeg, you be King
Imagine make maid chose King

Bro, I think your own version of the redpill needs a separate group. You are blackpilled!!

I mean, since all you talk of is money, just marry your money then and be happy.

Money doesn't make you Alpha, your mindset does. If you don't understand this, then we got nothing else to talk of.

TradingGod:
Your first line is wack because even alphas suffer from paternity fraud, because paternity fraud is just an advanced level cheating and you know that every girl is guilty of cheating on their guys whether the guy is game or not

So my guy shine your eyes
All women are the same, all women are natural gold diggers
Ask yourself why will a mother respect her rich last born over her poor first born, that is the gold digging nature manifesting in her life

Look, when you make a woman your priority you get scammed by then

especially when the girl was with you when you are broke, she will be using the 'I was with you when you had nothing' to scam and trap you.

Just have many options and enjoy yourself first of all

Have zero love for women because none of them love you for who you are but what you have, no woman is faithful to you, know this know peace. so if any girl ever disrespect you immediately you move on to the next option, no time to check time

And this is where Money come in, because money gives you many options with zero stress

Meanwhile a broke guy will spend all his valuable time and energy trying to sweet talk a woman to fall for him because without money your game is medicore except you dey chase small children wey never sabi body

No reasonable man makes chasing a woman his priority in life, because your success in life is never tied to a pussy, so stop focusing your game on the gender that loves sex so much and start focusing on your hustle. Because your hustle is your game.

No man will celebrate you for gaming woman but every man will celebrate you for raking billions


P.S Your hustle is your game while relationship is the game for the female folks, don't play their game but be the game of their game by Conquering your hustle first.

A TRUE ALPHA FOCUS ON CONQUERING MONEY, beta males focus on Conquering women

Today is another productive day to do something great
Drops mic and continue grinding

Your submissions are muddled up. You need to get your facts straight.

One part says True Alphas focus on conquering money yet you think it's ONLY money that makes a woman show interest in you. Yes, you can have more options with money but every woman with you will be because of money. Doesn't that tire you? If you are a blackpiller, then I understand.

Redpill says a lot about self-development. You are working on yourself to have a better life. But you don't use money to attract women, you use genuine desire. You test and test any woman until you have some idea that she chose you, not your money. Hypergamy is real and AWALT as well, but the odds are greatly reduced when she chose you while you are on your game and you vet her thoroughly before letting her in your circle (life).

You attacked the dude you quoted claiming he needs to make money. Sure, we all know that. But what's the use of being rich, when you are still slaves to leeches? Redpill is about your mindset, not your pocketset

N.B: True Alphas are not the richest ones in town. Otherwise the Top 5 richest dudes in the world won't be divorced by now.

Smartb0y:
Simps shame men more than women shame men.

They have more estrogen than women 🤣

Correct 💯

heartofcity12:

*Sighs*

Simps never learn!!!


Yet at this very moment, thousands of other guys going through this thread/site see this and YET they refuse to stop leeching by their gf, believing their girlfriends are special or NAWALT!!!

Body go tell them soon

Alchemy528:
Why can't it rank 1 or 2,,
Black people can't be first in anything why

What about you? You can break the jinx na!!! Abi to be rank 1 no sweet your destiny?

Always complaining like a little bitch!!!

See werey wan use reverse psychology enter group...And of all people you want to manipulate, you chose me?

I've been trained by the most ruthless manipulators of all, mothers!!!

You will not get healed on this thread seh!!! You no go get cure, Olorun gbo!! Las Las, na me go impregnate you and turn you to baby mama!!!

Stalker oponu oshi!!!

As usual guys, kindly ignore the femrangutan dancing a few posts up there!!!

There is no sexually satisfied female(if it's even female) that I know that continuously stalk men like this. It's usually the sex-starved, reality-deficient types who stalk men endlessly and rant tirelessly.

Your wahala no go get cure!! Amen!!