Beautiful people are very common these days.... No one is killing you when even the male filling station attendant in their neighborhood is very fine . It kinda appears these days that 90s born and above kids are on the average, good looking.
The more the years go by, the more human genes appear to be smoothening out, on the average.
You didn't read the part where I stated I get enemies for here....I'm protecting them from BP issues if I post my pic...
Which average male gas station attendant fine? Maybe for your area sha
franchasofficia: Once a boy begins to feel that he is handsome, he is completely finished and will most likely end up at the bottom of financial ladder in life unless luck, God and destiny remembers him.
This is one thing that scares me about my son and reason I always rebuff my wife or any other person that calls him "fine boy", I always warn them to desist from calling him such nonsense name, and I will then turn to him and tell him that you are not a fine boy, you are a smart kid and you shall be smart and great, amen.
I thank God for the kind of upbringing I had cos while growing up, I had this girlie, innocent rich-kid appearance plus some brilliancy that made all girls from my classmates to Sunday school to JAMB class, to wherever I went for holiday and even higher institution to always like me to the extent they wanted to spoil my innocent, village boy self. I thank God I escaped those Jezebels then, if not my life would have probably ended up like one of the most handsome boys in my secondary school who became so lazy and spoilt to the extent he ended up as one cult executioner the moment he entered higher institution and today he is nowhere to be found, probably dead or languishing in one prison somewhere.
To all young men reading this, please you don't need any handsomeness to achieve a great life, leave physical beauty for the females and focus on self development, but just try and keep good hygiene and dress well. Focus on your academics, skill, business, trade and aim to be "excellent" in whatever you do and the world will be yours at the end.
placeofallure: By all standards, I am pretty and I have had my privileges. I tend to have my way with almost everybody.
At the Sunday School when I was little, the teacher was sharing Xmas greeting cards according to how we were sitting. There was a girl sitting beside me and it was her turn to get a card, and it was the most beautiful card of them all. The teacher skipped her, gave me the beautiful card and gave her another one. This incidence was the first time l realised how I looked.
My boss where I served couldn't act bossy with me as he did with every other staff and corp member. He has been mesmerized. He later confessed. The same goes for my zonal inspector. Other girls would jump over themselves if he at least looked their way. He begged to date me for the entire year and I used him.
My lecturer in school has a reputation - He's Mr. No Nonsense. My friend and I turned in our assignments late. Normally, he wouldn't collect it. We tried our luck. He accepted mine and turned my friend back. I pleaded for her but he said only me deserved that privilege.
When I showed up at the immigration office to process my passport. The officer wouldn't let people in, in my presence, he was turning people back, he just looked at me and I made sure we had eye contact, he not only asked me to go in, he led me to the capturing office and gave me a seat.
Many privileges really. In school when we want to do things or see a lecturer or some important people, my friends would push me to the front.
It is real and it works for me.
Placeoflies....you are not beautiful jor...Wait till you see me😛
Kipaji: Feminism is a shit test at the global scale. Men should have just ignored it. But many (including myself) took that seriously, which was a mistake.
Egbon, e don do na!!!
You hate the redpill, it's bullciiiit and all that right? We have heaaarrrd you!
What are you still doing here then? Find another place to dwell na....
Ojagun: 1.The way both the males and females were hurling insults at each other was embarassing to watch and signifies the breakdown in parenting and social etiquette in the society.
2.I am not a fan of the presenter.Very unprofessional.Taking sides.
3.Funnily enough,i think many of the males if not all,were intimidated by some of the ladies.So they tried to cut them down to size.Negging perhaps??
4.I found two of the ladies to be very attractive.The one in sky blue with braids is my dream come true
Well, not to burst your bubble but she is not any dream. Check out the post above me and you will see what she confessed to doing.
Dimaya: OP, you have to mend your marriage. It doesn't matter whether you wanted the child or not, the child is here and has to be raised well by both his parents.
I don't care whatever the sidechic tells you, she doesn't care about you or what happens to your family and children. In all likelihood, this is how she thinks about you and your wife:
Women do NOT love men. They see men mostly as utility- an implement/instrument that can be used. If the outside lady sees you finish like your wife has, she too will start to misbehave.
Also, when women have children, they are forced to change. Raising children especially below age 5, is extremely stressful. Your wife will have sleepless nights and she won't get enough rest. Better adapt and seek support of family members in childcare. It seems your wife is experiencing parenting burnout. She needs your understanding. You both need patience.
OP, you can still repair your marriage. Go to your wife, plead with her to overlook your indiscretions. Tell her it was a moment of weakness. And work on getting your family back together. Don't let your children suffer the consequences of growing up in a broken home.
These are tricky love decisions. I wish you all the best.
Don't you know how the women divorce their men over there? Only foolish men would get married in such society and get his fortunes stolen by divorce courts.
zenithgroup: You lost her number! How does that stop you from going to her house to show appreciation? Your naration indicates you knew her house.
Lol...I was a stranger in Abuja then and I stayed indoors throughout. I travelled back to Ibadan and we were together till I lost my phone...The last time I was in Abuja, I knew her area(Lugbe) but not her street. I would have been foolish to try locating her house as the area is big.
Streak47: Well said. Find Oge; the only reward to kindness is more kindness. In my entire life, I've only been gifted the highest amount by a lady.
Infact your male counterparts may see you as more of a competition than a friend. Not all. Cause some have the heart of gold. But many would see you as a competition especially when you tend to be achieving things more than them.
That said, I have a theory the same cheerful givers and easy going girls that y'all condemn to be loose in this thread: Most times, from my experience and observations are one of the most kind hearted. Likewise, chubby girls....But, you see those ones that will make you work ur ass 4d cooooochie r, one of the most wicked! hiding their wickedness as guise of chastity.
See how Oge take care of my nigga! Altruistically and bedmatically.
Lol, I don find her taya. Seems she deactivated on NL and the last time I went to Abuja, I don't even remember her street or house number. If I had known her house, I would have also blessed the prophetess for her kindness. You had no idea how messed up the situation was for me. God has blessed me since then and it's nothing to appreciate them or others, as much as I can.
We were together for a while but it was the issue of tribe that broke us up. Her mom disliked Yoruba people with passion and what she says goes in their house. I had no issue with the geh at all. She is very very very beautiful.
N.B: I don't hate women but I don't love them(as the Hollywood version portrays love). I just try as much as possible to be real with them.
geedot: If I were you, I wouldn't be too sure. Never trust the loyalty of a man without money, same as a broke lady too! I treat both male and female strangers accordingly, no special preference whatsoever.
Let me drop one last tip: As a man, if you're really stranded, and really need help, a female stranger is more likely to help you than your average male! I've been stranded without funds like thrice in my lifetime, and all those three times, I was helped by a lady after severely turned down by different men. Women are not that cruel as you may think, you just need to understand them.
I've had same experience as yours. That's why I laugh at people who said redpillers hate women. I don't hate them but understand them. I have been helped severally by women when my own gender turned me down. Not to say men never helped me at all. But I've received help from more women than men. If not for a lady, I would have died in 2016 in Abuja when my classmate(who was married) suddenly decided not to host me after previously agreeing(said his wife disagreed) when I already got to Abuja park. I knew no one in Abuja and I was turned down brutally by 3 different churches(after talking to their pastors).
I called Oge who I met online on NL and had never seen and she came to my aid. She called two yoruba guys in Abuja and they rejected me. She tried to take me to her house but her parents refused because I'm Yoruba (just by hearing my name on her phone, even though I look like Ibo). Oge kept going from house to house in that area looking for where I would sleep, ignoring her parents' calls to come home. I later found refuge in a church owned by an ibo prophetess around 1am. She took care of me till I left for my interview that day.
I finished late at the interview and Oge sneaked me back into her parents house when they were at work. I was in her room for three days , eating good food and fuqin good pussy. I was notified after 3 months that I passed the interview (a scholarship) and my greatest regret was losing my phone with Oge's number and not repaying that prophetess for her kindness when I went back to Abuja. That is just one of many help I've had from people/women and other tribes/races, which is why racism/tribalism is dead to me.
Smartb0y: Literally everything in life requires moderation in order for there to be stability.
Too much love for women or sex is detrimental.
Find that balance.
I get your point and I agree on moderation. But then libido differs!! What's 'too much sex' to you is warm-up Chronicles to another. What I can agree on is there must be a measure of control.
zenithgroup: It's true brother, if you couldn't control your lustful desire for opposite sex; such men always end up trapped in woman web.
He says 'love sex too much', not women too much..
You can actually love sex too much with just one woman or a few women(1-3). I don't see anything bad in that but what's bad is loving and having sex too much with different women(100-20000)... Shows a lack of comtrol
It certainly does not help that the vast majority of this wave of Nigerian emigres are grads and working class.
Second generation Nigerian American men do not have this problem. Through middle, junior high, and senior high, you'll have dated a smattering of gals and become attuned to rituals one must perform to become visible to the respective demographics. College years with all the spring breaks, random trips, 7/365 parties offer plenty of opportunity to get all the adventure out of your system and find your tribe.
With your blue passport and first draft picking of jobs, immigrant Nigerian women would not even be on your radar, especially if you are a teeny bit cute.
You cannot just make your entrance in middle age and think you'd be strolling through the vaj isle with your cart and just reaching for whomever catches your fancy. Who the hell do you think you are? The minority of non-Black women who are open to committed interracial relationships have had plenty of experience. The best specimens have been snapped up and you're left with basket cases.
Consequently, you'd still find your way around to the Nigerian women. Unfortunately, those ones don padlock their brains. They believe they're God's gift to mankind and chiseled, blue-eyed, Aryans should be in their DMs reciting Shakespeare. Barring that, where are the Black athletes, entertainers, and white collar professionals? Okay, Oluwa, I no greedy, mk e get passport.
Nobody don reason your break light for like 3 weeks, but you dey add new checkboxes to your wish list. No b ment? With your rubbish accent and frame that's an affront to Western beauty standards.
After all, they have vagina. Nigerian men in Nigeria have spoiled them rotten.
See G, on this abroad entanglements subject, everybody go dey alright las las.
This is a uniquely Nigerian problem. The Indians, Koreans, Persians don't have this problem. They prioritize members of their nationality and any hard-headed woman will be pressured by family to accept whomever is available. In fact, the family will do the screening themselves and share photos to choose from.
If you want to marry outside your ethnicity, the catch better be an over-achiever.
E get why sometimes when I write finish, e go b lyk say I get beef with Nigerian women. Home and abroad their matter dey irritate me.
1Sharon: Fvcking idiot, where do you think I live?😂 you think I'm in a village somewhere?
If I'm a low budget feminist, you're a low budget red piller.
Kai...nawa oh ..so because you dey UK now, we won't rest or is UK Andromeda Galaxy? See how you even insulted your Nigerian roots by calling your country a village?
Why is it that when women like you dey abroad, you go sha wan make everyone know say you don arrive? Why Sharon?
You are too aggressive Sharon. Be calming down, UK resident feminist
1Sharon: I'm not buying that! Just because he said he wanted to doesn't mean he would have.
Did his actions follow through from his words?
If that was the case, she wouldn't have left him.
Most women desire marriage.
I agree she should not have come back, it reeks of desperation. If this story is true.
Jesus Christ!! All your submissions on the thread na to bash men. Argumentative,aggressive and stubborn as hell. Is that not the typical UK- born or based Naija woman type people are complaining of on this thread?
Someone told you a story of his own friend who he will soon be the bestman for, you still screamed at him that he is lying.
Mama Sharon, shey dem break your heart for UK too ni? Your mata taya me oh
pansophist: I have this friend that lives in Germany (lets call him John). I connected John with a Nigerian girl in the UK in 2019. They matched and vibe well but as soon as she knew that he is not a German citizen or with PR, she just jilt the guy.
I was in the UK last summer and met with her. She was still single. She asked about John, and I told her that he is fine, done with his masters in engineering and works for Bosch. He is also a German citizen now.
It was few weeks later after my holiday John told me that she has been disturbing him since for a relationship, citing all kinds of excuses as reason why she suddenly cut off. Excuses such as mental health, dealing with personal and family issues etc.
But John is not an idiot. Anyways, John already moved on and will get married soon to his Ivorian/French fiance. I will be a best man for sure on his wedding. Na my sure paddi.
What I've seen in the UK few times I was there is the need to outsmart the other. The girls won't be with a guy that is just coming up. They date/marry for interest. That's the story of most.
They don't think ahead. If you do Uber today, then in their mind, you'll do Uber forever. It's either a ready-made or nothing. Working together with a guy and build up is almost an abomination. They don't build, the move in.
Whatever.
Professor Pansophist...I'd like to 'save' the girl from loneliness. Tell her a Nigerian guy from Ekiti state loves her. 🙂🙂
logicalhumour: The thing you all should know is that IF you love sex toooo much (even as a "redpiller", you'll pay for it in the end. Mark my words. And the payment go heavy. If you know, you know
MetalJigsaw: The simping urge in a man is a very strong force, my guy. It takes a few seconds for a redpill aware man to backslide and return to his simping ways.
And you know what that means when as a matter fact, women are one hell of a source of distraction to nen, especially those who are still struggling in their lives.
Moreover, we've stated here several times that this thread isn't for woman hating, but for learning about the female nature.
How is this so hard for some of you to comprehend, may guy?
But one thing I know for sure is:
If you lack the thought , You'll surely bear the wrought
You have said it all ..no need to add anything again.
Growth comes with practice and taking the pill everyday. #Luminouznuggets#
Samantha124: I supported her when the whole gender issue was happening, but when I heard that she got married to a woman, I was like "okay"
But when I heard that the wife is pregnant, I too started questioning her gender because she looks like a man, sounds like a man and now she impregnated the wife.
Lol, of course you supported her, because you,like all women, are emotional beings. I didn't support her because I knew right off that's a grown ass man with saggy balls claiming to be a woman. The amount of testosterone pouring off Semenya can power a spaceship to Mars.
Romance › Re: What’s Your Pretty Privilege Story ? by luminouz(m): 7:43pm On Jul 29, 2023
, you'll pay for it in the end. Mark my words. And the payment go heavy. If you know, you know