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Wodu89:
There's no shame in love. Only watch out for such behaviors. If people don't match your energy both male and female, withdraw. Don't overspend too. You'll find who values you even without anything

Jesus fuqin Christ!!!

Where do you live? I wanna collect your phone!!!

Wodu89:
Stop leading him the wrong path. We have already way too much 30-45s without marriage or relationships. Stop teaching him to be unemotional and loveless.


If maturity leads, you ought to preach forgiveness, moving on and not leading him to unleash the beast. It's wrong. Red Pilling is about emotional mastery and not suppressing the human soul till it becomes a wood

Shüt dafuq up,you simp-witch!!!

I'm a redpiller and I'm not soulless, but logical. So because there are so many 30-45s out there, men should wife up hôes? WTF!!!

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

Lmaoooooo!!!

Werey!! She took you to the cleaners!!! You spent all this dough on a girl who is not even your gf yet and you drank yourself to stupor afterwards? You see just how weak you look and you think she'll like you?

Join the redpill and thank me later

yinkus6750:
Fame and promiscuity are two different things.
Why is OBO this loose?

Are you a saint?

I'm sure you are also loooose!!?

Wide mouth

TheGift:
Please don't put words in my mouth then insult me on top of it. Where did I say Alpha's where evil or inconsiderate. ?

I would have said what I said,, whether or not she said what she said.

If you have any specific issue with what I have said , address it specifically.

But if you can't have a logical discussion without insults please run along.

K!!

Flets:
Even when everyone knows it’s against the interest of Nigeria, Tinubu will do it….. and this is why

The West has got the President they need to do all their bidding. They've got Tinubu by the balls .... they have all his dossier ranging from the drug activities to fake identitiy, fake education, rigged election etc. The West got their best puppet.

TINUBU HAS NO OPTION THAN DO THE BIDDING OF THE WEST. Otherwise, he loses it all.

All policies implemented by Tinubu are per IMF and world bank recommendations and aimed at further impoverishing the Nigerian people further like they do to all third world countries.

Only Nigerians can save themselves by taking their country back

Very Stoopid post.

TheGift:
I know a Man who says he doesn't let his wife touch His laptop, I asked why. he said She was a bush Woman. I said "so you don't want your wife to advance and have sense, how wil your children have sense.?"

My Nanny's husband abandoned her and grown teenage children to chase after side chicks, for years. Recently he was diagnosed with liver disease and is really sick, no money even for palliative treatment. All those side chicks have abandoned Him. Guess who he called in his greatest time of need, guess who is now sending him small change and travelling from Lagos to Ibadan every weekend to go and care for him.. You guessed right.

The problem with so called alpha male is that they constantly see themselves with reference to other people, thus they can only feel on top, if they are putting others down.

But the most foolish alphas are the ones who put their wives and the mother of their children down. It is themselves that they are doing.

I see myself as a sigma. A lone wolf. I March to the beat of my own drum. I am too unique and secure in who I am to be in competition with anyone , talk less of my life partner.

I treat my Wife and mother of
My child with love and respect and my life is so
Much wiser,richer, beautiful and peaceful for it.

Egbon, shût it. Sigma kee u dia.

That girl set a trap and you fell inside it. She deliberately insulted alphas and redpill by making them seem irresponsible and you just gave her what she wanted. How does being an Alpha translate to being evil or inconsiderate? Then you went ahead with your sigma bullshiiit as if it's guaranteed that your wife won't fuq another man or abandon you when you get sick?

You know nothing, Jon Snow

Reminderz:
you're the only one who commented right... you see that OP up there, is just a self proclaimed clown 🤡 we all know here.... she's just heartbroken, frustrated and lonely...

shey na only men dey get sick or na only men dem dey abandon? your last statement where you said a man and a woman should treat themselves well is the ultimate point because a man can still treat a woman well and end up being abandoned as well... most times, due to the fact that women are unpredictable is the reason why some men marry more than one wife to avoid bullshits like this in the future, at least if one leaves, one will stay...

and please, a man marrying more than one wife and taking care of them and the kids is not an act of irresponsibility... it's not the same as sleeping around or having side chics... in fact, it shows he's disciplined... as long as he carries out his responsibilities...

OP, go and heal yourself, men are not the cause of your problems, you're solely responsible for the choices you make in life...

I trust you to give her wotowoto....

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

Very rubbish post.

Una no dey ever dey logical.

Lol, see.how people are reacting as usual.
Men have suffered.

Anonymoususher:
Things are too hard. Many men are struggling to feed themselves alone talk more of adding a woman and a child.

As economy becomes more and more men lose interest in marriage and worse of it is that we are in a society where there Is nothing for the female gender.

I feel for my female counterparts Walai. You see them go through same school stress with us men but when they get to the job market they are priced far less than what men earns. I can understand men give more energy to work but what is the rationale of paying a male staff 100k but giving a lady with same qualification 25k.

It's bad and this is one of the reasons most women cannot fend for themselves Or break anything to marriage because the society puts them at our mercy.

Pathetic

This is a fuqin lie. There are no disparities in payment based on gender.

You think female lecturers, bankers, oil workers and scientists are paid lower because they are women? What dafuq is this? Name the job role that pays female lower and I'd burst your bubble real quick.

That you think because females earn less is why they höe around is even more pathetic. Women in all high paying jobs still do side-hustle-hôeing so WTF

Orpazpjr:
Too real.

Too good.

Too apt.

Too much quality.

Had a chat with an oG yesterday and he was just summing it with Men have no business Falling in love.


He deals in females merchandise and said the stories he could and will give me will leave me too shook.

Examples: A lady comes to buy something she will call three (3) homeboys who will finance her buys.

A lady selected N60k worth of goods, showed me same where he had tucked them, believe she paid N20k of course not her funds,then said "which Man I go go rub head now!"? And she was Damm serious!

Say Barnies go buy clothes, strip down to change their clothes and test the clothes but will go stark naked, mess Abit or chill until he can see them, so dem go fit pay kind for clothes!


These women are 💯 looking out for their best interest and are not stupid.

All these ones small. Let okada riders gist you about women innate nature and sexscapades and you go vex lose your appetite

1.That a man who puts any woman on a pedestal, all in the name of relationship or love, while neglecting his own growth is a perpetual loser.
Even women hate such men.

2. All women are like that. Yes, including your precious mother and sisters. That they are not extorting you like your gf does not make them immune to AWALT. Infact, many simps who grew up like that were indoctrinated by their women and sisters by playing the long game of financial benefits and attention till old age. Don't get me started on the girlfriends. This thread go long.

3. YAAYG!!! It sounds like YAAAY and G right!!! But it means You Are All You Got!!! As a man, no one is coming to save you. Your worth comes from your usefulness or ability to provide a particular thing the society wants. You are not only on the lowest rung of the pecking order but also highly expendable. Your resources and time must be guarded jealousy in this regard so you can retire early and live a good life. Don't fall for the 'REAL' man scam perpetrated by women. That's a con technique to swindle you of your resources. There is nothing like a real man. You are either a man or you are a woman.

4. Women are Adult babies. Treat them as such. Don't trust what they SAY, only what they DO.

5. Repeat Points 1-4 and carve them in your heart.

1Sharon:
So it's just you. Not surprised. I thought you said the red pill supports polygamy?

Be like say you no dey hear word or na English no align with you ni?

Do you expect me to list all the redpillers in the world that support polygamy when it's a core tenet of the redpill. I used myself as an example of a redpiller and thereafter told you of other redpillers who are Muslims and Christians that practice it. Managing two or more women is not for simps, but men who are in the frame and exert control.

Aunty, if you still don't understand my shalaye, enter filling station and buy 3 litres of fuel. Tell them luminouz sent you.

Ilekokonit:
Many years ago I met a lady on a dating website and she told me she was waiting for her knight in shining armour and she is still waiting many years after for the elusive knight in shining armour .

Well, here I am....

Her knight in Ankara and swede shoes!!!

Ilekokonit:
That's the new normal in the UK especially amongst those who have been married before and it did not work out. I'm guessing its the same in big cities around the world including in Naija.

I relocated temporarily to Naija for 2 years some years ago and in a compound off Allen Ave, Ikeja there were around 7 flats there and 3 of the flats were occupied by 3 spinsters with good jobs and I overheard 2 of them affirming to one another around one Christmas period that in the approaching new year they must get married but it did not happen in the 2 years I was in the compound and they were both above 36 years old.

Unfortunately one of them died suddenly of a condition called volvulus where the intestines get convoluted and twists on itself cutting off blood supply etc. etc.

The 3rd spinster had a UK based boyfriend who visits Naija every 4 months or so but things were not too rosy as there were battles of supremacy between them and Baba wey know wetin him see for him UK Ex wife hands was trying to ascertain his supremacy before he ventured taking her to the UK.

A 4th tenant was a European returnee who moved with her kids to Naija without her husband and in Naija she had a married sugar daddy funding her bills including her childrens school fees and Yankee trips for her (all behind her husbands back who stayed back in Europe).

It was around that time that I came to the conclusion that builders / landlords of 1 and 2 bedroom flats will make a killing as Naija men are no longer in a rush to get married especially to haughty prideful women and so its to your tents o Israel and as these women nearing 40 will not like to move back into their parents house, they will rent and populate the 1 and 2 bedroom flats dotted around most cities round the globe.

Stop being so stingy bro. Send me the number of the prettiest of them. I can't, as a redpiller allow them to be lonely. They need warmth and compassion and ermmmmm ..fuq all that!! I'm just gonna fuq their brains out.😊

Ilekokonit:
Gbam.

Once a woman feels she can look down on a MAN, then she will NEVER be able to keep a man for long except those that will exploit her body and finances (thats if she has any finances to point to).

Even if such haughty and proud women get a man, their pride will eventually make the man desert them and drop them like a hot potato.

I know a lady way past 40 years old with a good job in the UK going to Naija to get a younger man to marry in order to shame her mockers.

She succeeded temporarily but eventually her haughtiness, over confidence in her high salary and PRIDE drove a wedge between them and the man has moved out of their house in the UK.

Imagine a wife who should be the one cooking for her husband now complaining that the smell of the food the man is cooking is disturbing her. This is a Naija woman who though born in the UK was brought up on Naija food herself now looking down on her man, his culture and his food.

That woman is under some kind of curse!!! If not village people, you finally got a man to marry, he even agreed to cook and instead of you to be grateful, you said the smell of what he cooked irritated you? That's some bleeped up shiit. That's why they have dogs and cats as bedmates because loneliness is a bîtch!!!

HanisahZuwy:
I'm not looking for a man to sleep with me, if it's that one, I have them in excess here, more than enough. I'm looking for a real man, not a boy.

That's why you never get man na...because your manipulative ass dey look for REAL man, a word used by manipulative females on simps to get them to commit to old, used up hôes!!!

There is nothing like a REAL man. It's either you are a man or you are not.

myyansh68:
Why are you so desperate Lady?
Please calm down, everything with it time. So don't rush you don't know if this moment is your saving grace.

Will you shut it, you simp?

Let her come to luminouz for some nice banging!! It ain't your pûssy, so why you so triggered?

Chochocho on the thread like Ajegunle fowl!!! Iffa catch you when, I'd cut ya little dîck off

1Sharon:
Southern Nigerian men indeed talk about polygamy but hardly practise it. Why are they always remember polygamy after they are caught cheating? Polygamy isn't done behind closed doors

Please what red piller is preaching polygamy.

I'm from southern Nigeria and have seen polygamous men around me. Many are Muslims.

What redpiller is preaching polygamy?😳😳😳😳. I just did, you black wîtch🙄🙄🙄🙄

Chee59:
My body, not yours. Worry for the kids your wife bears for you, if they're truly yours. Let me worry about menopause.

Yen yen yen...proud hen

Better send me a dm and pay my groom price

Chimarto:
They want to suffocate my guy .......more than 5 ladies who are above 30 years are running after him for serious relationship.
Most of my colleagues (ladies) at work who are above 35 years old are single.
The married ladies are the ones advertising those single ladies to men.
What's happening in our society, are we running out of men?

Advertise me to them!!!

They must buy me a car and gimme monthly allowance

heartofcity12:
...

Lmaooo...

Mumu just have thought she loved him when he had money. If we dey advise am that time, he'd think we are haters....

Now, he is about to experience hot breakfast on top joblessness. Then, he will learn women don't give two shiits about your past, or future just the mudafucking PRESENT.

heartofcity12:
SMH 🤦‍♂️.. I hope this is just clout, coz wtf 😂

She is not for the streets and she dey ask for half plot of land and weekly salary?

She is not only for the streets, she is for the fuqin galaxy😡😡😡😡

1Sharon:
Lol. That's why I asked questions

We just said the same thing, perhaps you need to read my comment again.

You talked like most men are cheats who never practiced polygamy but talked about it. I'm just telling you not only does redpill supports polygamy but also that I have evidence that MANY men practice it successfully.

1Sharon:
Lol does the red pill talk about marrying multiple women?

Polygamy may not be everybody's cup of tea but it's not a crime.

Why are the men that claim to be polygamous always married to one woman?

Sneaking and cheating is not the same as polygamy.

If you claim to be into polygamy they either marry multiple women from the get go or marry another woman as time goes on.

But they never do this why?

They should walk the talk or keep quiet.

You know nothing about the redpill or even polygamy!!! Just say most men around you cheat. But that is not polygamy. On my end, polygamy is polygamy and I have dudes practicing that stuff.

Karlifate:
Advance level of see-finish

🤣🤣🤣🤣

That's not the most painful part bro.

Did you see his Twitter moniker? He used my NL name to spew such disgusting simp rubbish.


How can you call yourself lumynous and behave like Scooby-Doo?😡😡😡😡

Philosopher1979:
I have my money allready. In fact im a lecturer.
I dont even need pussy. I work hard 24 hours a day.
Im working on a lot of things.
I don't know why u are insulting me.

We don't quote IT.

You didn't observe no one responded to his rants?

Let IT be

PDJT:
-I know you're quite opinionated, but it's sad you're a tad myopic at the same time. I bet you didn't marry with your god of marriage intact. And I wonder why. 🤔

-Anyway, polygamy is part of my African heritage and cultural identity, and therefore has absolutely nothing to do with the functionality of the prefrontal cortex. Those who need to evolve are those who sleep around or marry with many body counts.

You are arguing with that one?

Everyone here but you knows she is a lûnatic on her antidepressants meds.

The day you wish to waste your time or lose some brain cells, start arguing with her.

Almost all the commenters are female yelling 'monogamy is the way forward bla bla bla ' because they are scared their potential husbands will take another wife

Any discerning dude can just confirm the redpill by reading female comments on NL.

A man without the Redpill is a finished men. Amen

SenatePresdo:
Withdrawal method done the right way will almost never get any girl pregnant.

But many Guys have falled victim of botched withdrawal method, which they ended up impregnating the lady.

If you are a 2-3 rounds man, after the first withdrawal don't make the mistake of entering her back even if it's after 2 hours later.
There are still residues of sperm cells resting in your penis, once you enter her back, pre sperm fluid will gladly convey them into her womb
If you like do withdrawal method the second time, you are at risk already.

Best way is, anytime you are done with the first round, make sure you Urinate so that the left over sperm cells would be killed or washed away.
If you want to go for 3rd round, make sure you urinate again.

it's better to cum outside than to cum inside when you are not ready to take her inside

You mudafucker!!!

You have away my secret!!!!

Gadafii:
until he learn to free himself from the bondage of kpekus, nobody go free am

He makes the same mistakes all the time, he has refuse to learn or mature, too randy and reckless, he’s a celebrity for God’s sake, his life is in the open and people are seeing it, you can’t tell people to free him when he is the one that practically put his life in the open

Look at all the dumb evidence he’s leaving behind, paying a hooker from his personal account, chatting her up from his verified page, how dumb can he be

I have always said this, people around Davido no mean well for am, they are just with him to enjoy the perks, unfortunately he’s yet to understand

And how is his life your business naaaaa?

Face your own life, aproko