₦airaland Forum

Pastoshizzy:
I burst out from the last line from you...you don't even know the half of it. Please sir, on a scale of 1 to 10 how was your parents' marriage? Have you ever been a victim of abuse or broken home?

Zarzah:
It's not as if men doesn't want to cook for their women, the thing is that men doesn't want to be taken for granted.

Now I'm not talking of all woman, but some women, once they find a loophole, they'll capitalize on it. Sometimes that loophole might be cooking, which is why men avoid it from the start, they'll rather take you to an eatery and pay, rather than starting what they can't finish.

Take this Scenario for example :

Guy -- I'll like to cook for you on your birthday

Girl -- That's so sweet of you. Thanks.

Guy does the cooking. The next day this occurs

Girl -- You cooked so well yesterday, I'd like to taste your food again, will you cook again today?

Guy -- Tell your papa to cook for you.

.............

That's why most men won't even start it in the first place.

CaveAdullam:
"Come and narrate your whereabouts. Where you go?

Skepticus jux creep in like that like that. I just dey look baba with one eye like this.

CAPSLOCKED, where are thou? Abi Jesus don finally catch you? Martinez39s, come and answer.

Herbswork I see you. More growth.

Na Tonnyray remain".

Kingcescy:
My Visa appointment for January in Abuja just got cancelled. I rescheduled for Lagos and got a July 2023 date which I can’t work with is as I have spring 2023 admission but I can’t find the tab where i can apply for emergency please I need help. The tabs are all gone I can’t even cancel the appointment or even reschedule it.

SpatialKing:
Is actually correct
December is no longer available for EAs
Best time January 4th
Especially Lagos

MJBOLT:

you need to see the way evening newspapers are fuming over Leonardo DiCaprio dumping ladies after they hit 25, meanwhile the younger ladies are saying "it's his choice"

Calibrator:
Abeg who get Original iPhone cord?

I wan wipe person for neck!

LifestyleTonite:
The truth is bitter and troubling to a damaged mind.

emmaodet:
Aye oooooooooo
Aye ooooo
Ori iya mi ooooooo

LifestyleTonite:
When you break connection with your maker, you start to wonder why the females he made don't find you attractive.

LifestyleTonite:
The above account had to be suspended because he expressed his views in a silly and toxic way, instead of in the mature way masculinity is known for. Those who banned him know he was breeding a generation of young men who will hate women for just being women. His platform was no different from Incel communities on the internet where loser men spend their days bashing women. Google Elliot Roger or check Youtube for his videos. The dude was angry no girl wanted him. He must have graduated from bashing women online to going on a mass shooting spree in the USA. Even though social media platforms have their own agenda, no sensible platform will allow anything that can lead to hurt for others. They will gladly hide under hate speech to ban you once you give them an inkling of such.

Soon, Fresh and Fit and other Red Pill channels on Youtube will be banned. That's why I like Hafeez Baoku of The Roommates. He teaches masculinity, not those BS Red Pill hate for women. He points out the faults in men and makes them see reasons to level up and work on themselves because if you don't love yourself, no one will love you. Sadly, guys of today don't want any fingers pointed at them. They would rather watch women get bashed while their own life sucks. Ever wondered why sensible advice on how to create wealth and success hardly gets shared here at all? That's because Red Pill is a game of Men against Women. Masculinity is a game of Men for men and women.

MrBrownJay1:
you didnt marry the babe and therefore should let her date whoever she desires. what is your issue with who she can/cant date after you?!

MrBrownJay1:
so let me get this straight:"someone is raping you, and instead of screaming and pushing the man away, you instead wake your husband up FIRST so that he can witness whats going on and then stop the rape from happening, abi?!"

Drsnives:
Nawaooooo

MrBrownJay1:
so you live in a country that uses generator and you think you will ever cross path with me?! you need to be biatch slapped for having such a silly dream, lol!

MrBrownJay1:
you quoted me while being condescending to me, and i gave you a taste of your own medicine. take it or TAKE IT!

Divay22:
Oya enter her DM

Divay22:
Lol
It's true na abi?

Divay22:
Is that all

Smith414:
the question is, am I being to harsh or she deserves it??

Zonefree:
You're saying he's a weak man that's why the girlfriend is cheating on him? Why is it hard for women to accept responsibility for their actions? Someone's girlfriend is cheating on him with her Pastor and you're blaming the innocent boyfriend.

Zonefree:
Firstly, I'm way older than you in all ramifications.

I doubt OP is policing the girl. He called severally without a response hence he started suspecting a foul play. He knows the girl more than me and you, so, chill.

Besides, a Nigerian girl can love you with all her heart and still lash your best friend. It's nothing to them.

advanceDNA:
Somehow...its his fault..??...sigh!!!

Smith414:
Hey beautiful people of Nairaland, judge me if I’m being wicked
I’ve been dating this girl for a year plus now, she’s nice, cool and understanding ,it’s been 2 months now since I traveled to Abuja for a business and will be back in a few weeks time, what I’m about saying happened past Sunday, I called my so-called gf after church severally she didn’t pick up, called with a friends phone, same thing happened sent a text no reply, I just felt she would be busy cooking. Later I got a message from her that her phone was silent and inside her bag, I replied no issues, only for her to send another message via WhatsApp that she’s on her way to Lagos with her sister and her pastor to go and buy land for church , someone well known to be chronic womanizer to the core before he( pastor) he said God called him, I did not hid my anger from her because we’ve had little issues in the past due to my open dislike for this so-called pastor because I’ve worked with him both at work and in his house when I was still waiting to get admission, so when I say I know him very well, I really do. My so-called gf, her sister and this pastor went alone to buy land for church..
And she’s been uploading pictures like she went on a date vacation, from shopping to boat cruise to chilling in hotels every minute,
I’ve broken up in my mind I swear, because you nor go tell me say your pastor go buy land but through out the land he go buy na you and your sister he dey with and church suppose get committee about such things??my mind have been made to breakup officially when I get back

My people hope I’m not being to harsh on her??

Screenshot of when she told me about it below

Channah1:
Lol.. I beg no spoil my show. I still dey market I Neva marry o. Only that I'm not ready for marriage now.

Awwnnn... Thanks for craving my food.

Channah1:
Not this generation of men. The way to their hearts nowadays is big yansh. Funnily enough, many of them don't have what it takes to maintain one.

Now, before you come at me saying it's because I don't have, me too I carry, normal.

Divay22:
FOOD and the Food

I come in peace