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seguno2:
How did the oyinbos, who were Cavemen like us eons ago, get better basic amenities? Did we ordinary blacks work it for them? Or ordinary whites worked on their own public office holders to get the basic amenities, and they continue working on them to keep up the pressure?

If you do enough community service to focus on free education in public schools, instead of just doing owambes upandan (to cite an example), won’t your LGA Councillor and chairman seat up to their work?

Your last paragraph is dumb to be honest. You are ranting because a man chose to unwind on a boat cruise with his money? You want him to use the money to do community projects while neglecting the useless leaders whose roles are to provide these amenities?

You even made a blunder by saying when private individuals provide community projects then the chairmen and councillors will sit up and work? Lmaoooo...don't be a clown. Those mudafuckers will just have a bigger percentage of money to embezzle.

Say it. It hurts that another man is living your dreams.

TheRareGem1:
Vice President Yemi Osinbajo has hailed the first female captain in the presidential air-fleet, Blessing Liman, in commemoration of International Women's Day.

He shared pictures of himself and Liman on his Instagram page late Thursday, as he shared details of the conversation they both had.

Osinbajo captioned the photos,

https://www.instagram.com/p/CplPtl4ABNy/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

This is good not doubt.


But he over sensationalized the issue. Haba!! He even said "possibly the smarter half" We know equality is good but sugarcoating it like makes it seem way out of line.

debbydams:
epele sir oo

You!!!

Just lemme catch you...I will give you a hiding!!!

FavouredNK:
Thank you if you actually observed right without bias, I appreciate

I did, trust me. I know how NL works...many people will talk rubbish and that might incite you. But if you let yourself go and respond emotionally, sooner or later, you will become like them...till it gets to a point you don't even remember who you were before. So you see, you will become their slave emotionally and that will start seeping into the real world,like your family, friends and workplace.

It's a dead zone, trust me. Just learn to ignore. I always do.

WowSweetGuy:
Are we just going to sit down and watch these idiots in government who are mere human do strong thing to us like this...I think its time to occupy Nigeria

Lmaooo

As if you'd ever come out or protest

FavouredNK:
My dear believe whatever you like and pls get off my back before it turns to the kind of discussion I m not used to. If I am defending the virginity of my daughter it's because first I m her mother and the one who knows and plays her role as a mother which includes defending the honour of her children. Though I don't really expect you to understand this if you are not coming from a real family, moreso my daughter is out of your reach so I don't even see the need for you to keep perching around my posts like a hungry fly around meat

I saw your comment about your daughter and was impressed. Then, like I always do, I went through your profile and earlier posts and was terribly disappointed. Cussing, abusing and cursing people with alternate views from yours ain't what I assumed from a godly mother. Haba!!! You are either fighting because of tribe or party affiliation and I wonder what exactly will your daughter think seeing these vile posts of yours.

You are a mom to a 22 year old woman. Act like it.

rollywise:
Bros I don't advice you cheat. It can break your home. It's a pity you experiencing this even before childbirth. It usually happens after child birth. She may be worst after child birth. This is what I did. I masturbate when I feel Hot. I sleep in my separate room when I feel Hot cuz I can touch her from Friday night till Sunday morning and she won't be wet. I no fit kill myself on top pussy so I go to my room and masturbate and I feel just ok

You masturbate while married and I wonder why did you even marry at all! Why not remain single and get your hands continue giving you joy?

You, akaahs and stevups are really suffering in your marriages and you need the redpill. After all your struggles since you were born, you deserve a marriage of peace and satisfaction. Why suffer like this for the rest of your lives?

This is so sad.

akaahs:
As if we married the same type of women.
I never believed a lady ll denied me sex not to talk my wife. My wife only allowed me sex when she likes when I pursue her. I don't want to force it on her.
Ur only bet now, is to accept ur fate and continue to pursue her or u cheat which is not an option to me.

This is like the 2nd or 3rd time your moniker will moan about this. Yet you didn't do anything about it since then? Why are you so weak? How can a woman you married with your money, paid bride price on, feed,clothe and give allowance to, allow you sex when she likes or till you do fast and furious with her around the house with your diick? Can't you see how insane this sounds?

The funny thing is in your helplessness, you are still advising OP to follow that same fuqed up path you took? To pursue his woman or give up as cheating is never an option? WTF!!!

Solve your own issue first egbon. Make your wife see you as the leader or na she dey feed you? Why on earth would you marry and still be this miserable? Isn't it better to be single and free than this torture? That woman knows you are weak and women hate weakness in men, they punish you for it severely. How long will you continue like this, without redpill to save you? 10...20..30years? To think, you toasted, married, paid bride price and all that only to be treated this way in your house dey pain me.

Egbon save yourself na. Join the redpill biko. So HBP won't kill you laslas

kween01:
Why do you think they circumcise in those days, simply to make the female urge for sex minimal in order not to be sleeping around. If it works then why do you think it doesn't now.

So you believe mere kissing can make a woman give in, except she is in the mood. Sex happens down there, if you do nipple and all that , if the v is not responding or dry, no game nhaa.

Besides you talk like ladies have done you some damage. Cos, even when you said Op's wife didn't marry him for his resources, you still added maybe it's for age or to heal her heart . You got me cracking there.

Fact is , only about 50% of ladies actually enjoy sex even in marriage, if not, how many times do you hear of women cum/ squirt. A woman can enjoy the pre-intimacy, doesn't mean she enjoys the sex. The nipples and all falls under the pre-intimacy.

Talking about resources, do you think men with resources are only good in making money, a lot of guys that make money are likewise lovable and enjoyable too even without their resources. So marrying them is a double advantage, so their ladies have nothing to look for outside.
And , please, don't say cos a lady doesn't enjoy sex, she's been with all available men, or she has a motive for marrying the guy, and dats the reason she doesn't get turned on, it's not a nice thing to say. There are loose babes and expanded V o, but generalising when in the actual fact we should seek and find solution to individual challenge in case like this is not progressive.

First paragraph: That's the notion but I'm telling you that it doesn't work like you claim it does. Have you fuqed a circumcised woman before? Nope because I assume you are female. Are you a lesbian? I guess not! So stop arguing with someone who have dated several of them. You are arguing from dem say dem say level while I give you practical experience. Case closed.

Second paragraph: Didn't you just validate what I said about INTEREST? if she is not interested in you, her pûnani would be dry. But if she likes you but maybe tired or stuff, she can still be stimulated. So when you want to have sex, na your pûtani go just wet without any pre-intimacy from your guy? Pele o...fountain of gushing. When I look at a woman, it's not her pûnani I see getting wet firsthand, it's her INTEREST. You brought up circumcision as a reason and I countered you. Don't shift goal posts biko.

Third paragraph: For God's sake, will you stop being emotional!!! Talking about me having been damaged and stuff. Does my post even hint at any negativity on this issue. Kindly stick to the topic and don't try to use reverse psychology BS. When a lawfully wedded wife wasn't dripping for her husband and it had been so before he married her, how many options are there? You asked a question and I gave you possible reasons. I have seen it countless times from women who don't love their husbands. They are either marrying because they are old or they had some mental and emotional trauma to deal with, the latter even greater than circumcision. So again, I gave you experience while you gave me 'cracking'. Never knew I was so fuqin funny. Why is it so hard for women to argue logically? *Rolling eyes*

Fourth paragraph: Fallacy of generalisation without backing. 50% of women don't cum? Show me your source or journal that said so. Secondly, what are you insinuating, that they don't cum because their husbands can't fuq or they are circumcised? What's your point here? Because it sounds like for whatever reason, men are still to blame. Another BS.

Fifth paragraph: I just told you I didn't think OP'S wife married him for resources so your point is invalid.

Sixth paragraph: You already agreed to my point about loose pûtanas and dìck mileage affecting marriages, so why this point again? You think it's not a nice thing to say? But I just told you the reality, no sugarcoating involved. These things fuq marriages up. On OP's wife's case, it might be a combination of all these factors but I will only pick natural low sex drive if OP says he met his wife a virgin. Case closed

N.B: I think I have explained enough. This is my last reply to you.

kween01:
Well, I never said they don't enjoy sex , I'm only trying to say, there are spots that can get her on, the clit doesn't fail, although in this case, it will be almost invisible. And , kindly note that they don't get easily turned on and more reasons you'll need to do more. In most cases, a guy has cum when they are about to start. If this trends continue, guy, she won't look forward to sex.

As much as I agree with your points, I however do not admit that when a lady doesn't enjoy sex, it's cos she doesn't find you sexually attractive.
What if the guy isn't living up to expectations.
Lots of guys make mouth, but not all really know how to go about this thing, you just be pounding somebody's daughter, you cum and be saying I can't kill my self.
You won't need to kill yourself if you study your partner's body. If she enjoys sex, you won't have problem with having sex with her.
Do you even think that the lady in question married op for his resources. I doubt.

Your first paragraph is still lacking some truths. Who told you circumcised babes don't easily get turned on? I just told you they do because her clitoris is not in her mouth or forehead. It's down there. So you have her mouth and nipples to start off with. Bingo, she is activated. Besides, the clitoris is two-thirds hidden in her body so even if you cut off the obvious part, the remnants can do wonders. I'm a man and I know these things because I have tested them.

2nd paragraph is also suspect. Purhleaaase! Do you know how many women are with men because of their resources? Many women marry who is ready,not who they love. Why dafuq would they even feel the need to satisfy who their hearts are not beating for. Yet, there is an ex somewhere who can call and she will start dripping wet. I know these things.
Now, to the issue of sexual performance. When a woman has been fuqed beyond some elastic limits of her pûnani such that it has changed to Punjabi, no one can satisfy these mudafuckers. Admittedly, some men perform below bar because they are weak or uninformed but their wives if chaste before marriage tend to at least endure small. But those women with backlogs of exes will always compare your ass with emeka, biodun and nasiru and meeennnnnnm...how dafuq can you measure up with 26 or 50men that had access to her pûnani? It's a losing game.

Nope, I don't think OP's wife married him for resources. She is a doctor. She might have married him because she was either getting old or using him to heal a heartbreak, if she's not a lesbian. No woman who loves you dearly will starve you of sex because she would want you too.

#lumiredpillnuggets

OChimex:
Stupid sex maniac, sex is not all and all in marriage, more things to worry about. He doesn’t even think of planning for the pregnancy, Delivery, newborn baby, na sex be him problem. All these problems can make you lose erection for months.
Sex doesn’t make a married man happy. Actually doesn’t make a man happy. Money and comfort do
You are a Very useless sex criminal

I don laugh taya...

Thank you for the comedy melody darling

Omo...

See wetin my eyes see today o. For him to say it out means dude has been suffering for long. Lord in heaven!!! Men dey suffer for marriage o.

Me wey get high libido go dey tolerate all these? Never!!

OChimex:
Them carry sex swear for Nigerians? yet most of you can’t even give a good sex to a woman.
The truth be say, the sex no too good, you no sabi do; truth be told. If you sabi do, your woman go dey chase you, na you go dey run sef.
On a more serious note, any man wey get plenty dreams/ideas/plans wey full him head and him dey pursue, sex go be unimportant to him.

He is married, you mudafucker!!!!

Sex is not important in marriage abi? Dey play

murphyung:
I will not advice the use of aphrodisiac on your wife.

Bla bla bla....

Is it not a solution or aphrodisiac na for animals?

EkoErrands:
Lol bro the fear of cheating and bringing home infection is the beginning of learning massage therapy

Lol...I hear

alizma:
Now I understand you better. People like you pick offence when asked " are you alright" ? A simple question that demand simple yes or no.
Sorry we are not in the same page, please swerve.

K

Xturf:
She's a doctor. Just forget it. God saved me from this very bullet. They are mentally traumatized. Just forget it. They don't feel it. Its part of the profession. Emotionally dead. Go for a nurse next time. Those ones are addicts

Wrong again!!

Profession has no role on sexual interests. It's the nurses that should even be celibate based on your reasoning but nope. Those ones are workhorses and then sexhorses. Nothing sexier than a nurse who just covered a dead body at the hospital coming home, washing all that grime,blood and death off her body and snuggling close to you, starting a B.J.and fucking your brains out. They see life as meant to be lived, not endured. That OP wife is a doctor has nothing whatsoever with her sex drive.It is who she is, not about what she does.

alizma:
From my post, did you see any blame on the guy? I only asked him question as a guide to my advise.
Anyway, I guess you are still single and do not understand certain things as relating to the issue at hand.

Why ask him if he lasts? Na compliment?

Pele o...marriage counselor because you don marry!!

kween01:
Based on your description of things, I guess she was cirumcised.
So, you'll really need to study her body language, also, try and play with her clit... Don't try to rush sex. Take it mildly, say sweet things. Follow her love language if you know it. And now that she's pregnant, research on styles that will be comfortable for pregnant women.
It might help.

I've been with circumcised women and saying they don't enjoy sex is fallacy developed by many women to weasel their way out of pleasing men they married for their resources that they absolutely detest.

A woman has more than 5 erogenous zones in her body. Apart from the clitoris, she has the center of gravity and A-spot. Don't let me get started on places like her earlobes, her neck(throat region) and her neck nape. Or the rib region or is it the nipples?

In my experience, women without clitoris have other weak zones that get them up and firing. Their nipples are very sensitive and their earlobes too. And once they get wet, it's now left to you to make sure you reach their G- and A-spots to get them to cum. They are as active as other women.

Mental and psychological trauma are more likely to affect women more than circumcision. And INTEREST.

ONCE A WOMAN DOESNT FIND YOU SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE, A BOTTLE OF COKE WILL FREEZE IN HELL BEFORE SHE ENJOYS SEX WITH YOU

stevups:
Your own is better...I used to beg my own seriously in the middle of the night...to the extent that my neighbor will be laughing.

And you are here opening your mouth wah wah with no iota of shame? A woman you married, prostrated for and paid bride price on, house and feed everyday, dey dribble you on top your entitlement to the extent your neighbour used your night cries as comedy melody or AY live Ojuelegba series and you still no get shame? WTF!!

Haaaaaaa...God of heaven!!! When we say get the red pill to save you, you will say *make money o* as if money makes a woman love you. I won't be surprised that another guy, her ex, dey lash her brutally while you do night vigil of begging.


Men, Wake dafuq UP!!!

alizma:
Quick and private question, how long do you last? e get why.
Your wife actually has issue and it will take your wisdom to keep that marriage. Most girls who act like your wife actually like sex but it takes long time and wisdom to put them in the mood. Unfortunately in most cases, before they could surrender to the game, the man who had been in the mood and had been struggling to put them in the mood, releases and this worsen the case because they decide to withdraw their interest since the game usually ended when they are just beginning to show interest. This is why In the beginning of my post, I asked how long do you last because husbands of such women need extra time to remain in the game to enable them bring their partner on.

Kuki tell him to spend 3 hours on top pussy. Instead of you to tell the woman to up her game, na still the man you dey blame....

Abeg, shift

yeyebrity:
Nah...sex doesn't feed the union. Animals have sex. Mad people have sex. Prostitutes have sex. In the end, there is no commitment because sex is just sex. Marriage thrive when couples have deep communication and understanding. There comes a point when couples become too old to have sex. Does it mean the union will eventually die?

You know nothing, Jon Snow

EkoErrands:
pre-intimacy doesn't work on those type of ladies. The only way out is to give her a full body massage. She will be naked and face down while u give her a professional full body massage from her shoulder area, her back, her hips and bums and down to her thighs and legs...do this for good 10 to 15mins and inspect her v from time to time for signs of wetness...

Then when u finally penetrate, make sure you put her thumb 👍 in your mouth and suck on it ...the sensation on her thumb will keep the juices flowing like tap in her V. You will be surprised she will even thrust her hips in response to that her thumb that u are sucking.

Try this and give us feedback. I hope her baby bump is not yet too big for this massage thing sha. This is what works for me as I was and am still in your shoes like this.

All this trouble for one round of sex?

Kuki kill him na

Femmyfamous4u:
She made it known to me when I first met her that she doesn't like penetrative sex but I thought it will change. It is not about me. I can spend 2 hours on foreplays. I think it's her oestrogen that's low. I once saw that she bought evening primrose which is a hormonal balance supplement but she is not used to taking drugs.

She told you and you still married her then come here to complain?

How dafuq do you know her oestrogen is low...does she look like a man? Or her boobs/ass are like a man's? She get beards or excess mustache? Because lower oestrogen levels equates most times to higher than usual testosterone levels.

Why did you marry her?

sisisioge:
Ofcourse, na naija you dey. For where I dey, na you go pack out go look for ashewo and you go still dey pay me inside your struggle

So you even dey outside the country?

Ok oh

Kingkolaq:
TRUE SECRET ABOUT WOMEN

1. When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says. If possible always hug her to calm her down.

2. The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed.

3. It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

4. A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

5. Your wedding certificate with her is not a " Driving license", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her.

6. She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always.

7. A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always.

8. A woman can be highly secretive. Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and cry to friends. Make your woman your best friend.

9. All women Love to be begged. Men often miss out on this. Yes please handle them like babies sometime its all they want.

10. All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

10. If she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

11. If you don't take care of her, she will find someone who will. They are always there only that she chose you.

12. If a woman truly loves you, even to ask money from you she will be shy, but as a gentleman don't wait to be asked and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily. That's what makes them special.

If you have a good woman in your life, don't take her for granted. They are expensive jewelry. Only matured mind will understand what I'm saying.
In every man success there must be a good honest Woman behind.

All this epistle no need. The last paragraph is the gold point you needed to pass across.

Incognito21:
If you check well you’ll see that she has undergone FGM(female Genital mutilation) where her clitoris have been removed, her vagina is only meant for urinating and childbirth, in most cases the vagina is stitch up leaving a tiny hole for urine passage. Anything urge for sex. Is a fairy tale to her, she won’t feel a dime…

Will you geddifok!!!

heartofcity12:
Same ho some dudes will be chasing, education doesn’t even stop them from being prostitutes. More reason you shouldn’t chase any girl coz you don’t even know if she’s a hookup girl to some little boys and men somewhere. 🤷🏼‍♂️. Do not chase even if she’s a virgin, it’s high interest or nothing #trp

She dey ask for garri and soup to make eba...on top 20k.

I don laugh taya

Agelastus:
It butresses the point that the church might be the worst place to pick a wife. Lots of retired hoes in church these days.
Imagine claiming she prayed to God to refresh her memory. The effrontery!

Not refresh, erase the sexual imprints of all the men she had sex with.

Haaaaaaaaaa!!!

40 years or what dafuq did I just read?

What's there to enjoy again?

I won't say it...I don't want to say it...but but....my mind is pushing to shout the actual name of this man...I don't want tooooooo

But he is aaaaaaaaaaaa.....siiii...

chikasnight:
Treat a lady special, she thinks she’s really special

Don’t treat her special, she thinks you’re special.

Mudafucking hot, this pill is

Swallow it yet, I must

Ofejiro20:
Guys, I need your advice. I'm the type of guy who loves to have sex frequently especially with the woman I'm attracted to and I informed my girlfriend about it. She came to stay at my place for about a week and this is the 5th day ...


Just this evening, she was doing something which I don't understand. Previously, she said that I injured her during our last s_x so she's going to do a water treatment. She sat down on a boiled water which contains salt and detoil for about 10 minutes or so....


We started a conversation shortly after she has completed her procedure and then she Futher concluded that "man nor fit Bleep her everyday"... directly to my face.


I felt insulted because she's laying down rules which I can't cope with at the early start of the relationship...I don't know if she's trying to test to see if I truly love her but that's not a good sign . I'm still new to the redpill so my leaders should throw some advice if any. Respect!

That's bullshiiit!!! Women have the innate capacity to fvck everyday unlike most men.

She is testing the waters to see how you will react. Because she is just staying one week with you na. So how does the *man no fit fvck her everyday* yarn apply? Is she staying with you for 12 months or what?

If she is really injured, let her heal. Otherwise, let her know since she is staying a week, you are just maximizing her presence, so to speak.

N.B: What kinda sex you giving someone's daughter that tore up her pvssy na? Take it easy with the gangster sex,unless she is a fan. I have seen a dozen women complain of tears and weirdly seem to enjoy such self, calling you names like *bad boy, tiger, you-no-go-kill-me*

Women are funny creatures