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Akinbahm:
I grab your points bro, at the bolded who should now marry them?

That question when posed by some men ehn I wish there is an app one can use to send serious beating to those men...

Use LumiBeatz!!! It's an APP that delivers premium slaps,at whatever decibel level you like

emmaodet:
You won’t blame that Donny guy.
Bro it is not easy when in such situation.
Reading that thread brought a bitter memory to me and I just let it slide from my brain before I start crying.
Donny”s story is closely related to mine - the love, efforts invested in the relationship,money, time and the promise gotten back by my lady to always love me, never to do anything that will hurt me, promised never to leave me for another man, promised me nobody else will see her unclothedness again till she dies except me. I was feeling like the luckiest man in the world, as if other men complaining about relationship or women are just unfortunate and are not lucky enough to get their real Half etc.
I built my life and wall all around her and our future, to me I thought everything is for better for worse, in riches or hunger.
I never knew I was on my own. When she started messing up - banged her cousin during IT, banged 2 more guys in school during her HND days while I was busy placing her on monthly allowances, bought her laptop etc.
I nearly died bro, I nearly died - I almost had cardiac arrest, my chest was always heavy and couldn’t breath very well, I was dying while my suppose gf was busy banging. Nairaland didn’t even helped matters, it was when I mistaking got to know nairaland and regular threads were being opened by guys who had been heartbroken by their gfs - virtually similar to mine as if I was the one they were talking about.
They jest, badmouthing, toungelashing by some bad nairalnaders compounded my misery.
Since I didn’t die of that incident, I believe I can’t die of women related death again, it will be another thing entirely that will kill me in this life.
Though I am married now with kids and a good woman and I try my best for them in my own little capacity, I don't feel guilty whenever I engage in extra marital affairs because my conscience doesn’t trouble me. Everything just looks normal as if what am doing is right (who knows, maybe it is right) because deep down I know that the only reason why my woman is still with me and respect me is because I can provide and immediately that changes, she will also change it for me. So now that I have the upper edge, I don’t see any reason to play fair.

Bossman....sorry to read about this. The way a man loves differs from a woman's. Ideally, loving a woman like that should make her worship the ground you walk on and her faithfulness is guaranteed but in reality, they see you as 'conquered, boring, just there,unexciting and weak' and these make them lose interest easily. Why? Because you have showed her how awesome she is and how you can't live without her and such level of commitment drives a woman nuts, ego wise. And her contempt of you will only increase the more you keep monitoring, and wailing after her.

How do I know the latter part? Because their cruelty will only increase. You start to wonder how the gentle and sweet girl you knew became so cold-blooded and treats you like disdain. That shows you the evolutionary perspective of a woman's reaction to what they perceive as weakness in a man. I have seen this same reaction in animals(cats,dogs,lions, tigers and apes). You are only guaranteed love(or their version of it) when you show you are in control. Once you lose that, you lose them.

I have seen this same cruelty in so many broken relationships and it bothers me when such men still continue looking for love. The only person who can absolutely love you is YOU.

I remembered fuqin a girl whose bf called her and she promised to always be loyal and faithful and she said 'i love you' like 20 times while I was doing doggy(slow motion style). This same girl hissed after the call and kept promising to always be with me. Is that not premium confusion? She gave me the money the other dude sent her and the pussy too. She washed my clothes and cooked my food. But I dumped her afterwards. Why? Only a fool would believe such love from her is real. Whatever she did to that dude to break him,would be done to me, once she sees I'm soft or weak. Whatever love she felt then was because I was mysterious and not committed to her. They always love to change a hardcore Mudafucker but once they do,they lose interest and consider him weak. Is that not premium bewilderment?

If I were to believe a woman by the number of times I heard the word 'i love you'... It would reach like 10-15 million times. But I learnt as young as 9/10 years old that humans say shiit and can't be trusted. It's what they do, that you can trust.

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE

Martinez39s:
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Janemena's husband

Martinez39s:
During my correction, he was still claiming that he is an alpha who doesn't take nonsense. I guess the error of thinking virgins are special, in some nawalt sense, got to him. I hope he later learnt his lesson sha. What men will do for love and pùssy ehn. SMH.

I remember this story. It even made front page sef. That girl was cold blooded and in the end, turned the guy crazy. But he doesn't seem to be redpilled though. Why? Because he came online to ask if what he did to her was right. I mean, that ain't really something to ask for anyone's opinion na

Lol

I guess the newest trend to get attention is to shout DNA

siofra:
Her husband posted it too. I just left his Facebook profile

Lmaoooo...you mean you actually went to confirm that story?

Una get time sha

Martinez39s:
My guy, his elder brother is in the soup. Only lesson of hard knocks, brutal hard knocks can humble that one.

I just hope he has the heart to take the knocks and shocks

Martinez39s:
I doubt he will marry her. Ronaldo is one of the few players that have opted for surrogates and have left marriage out of the equation... moves that seem red pill. However, I am not sure if he is really redpilled because any smart man who knows the laws will make similar decisions, though it is rare. I don't see Ronaldo getting married, but you never bank on our gender (most) not to disappoint us in women issue. This love thing lowers the IQ.

Nice submission.

Mercychen:
Thank God. The subject I teach is not something most schools understand or know much about. So whenever I'm called for micro-teachings like that, I'm not shaky because even if I "tabon", no body will notice. .

Sometimes I confuse them with my British accent that they give up looking for faults. Lol..

Luckily for me, I've never made any mistakes.

K

heironymos:
Mr caveadullam your analysis of my brother is so on point almost like you know the situation better than me... I Duff my hat, damn!
On your number 3. He truly has oneitis for the fact that he put her on a pedestal because she let him deflower her. He also never received a gift from his past gfs.. so when this one bought him 2 aba t-shirts she suddenly became his unicorn.

On number 5: she truly is spinning plates. The level of her emotional turbulence no be for hia. She definitely is fucking other d*ckd because of the way she stares at me lustfully when he is not looking.. and she always complements my looks(redpill enhanced) . He is definitely just a retirement plan from the hoe phase.
Finally his oneitis has him tolerating lots of shit, I let him know that "you are what you tolerate" but he believes in bending to his displeasure to make things work but Las las make him go simp... I go still dey foram, but make school of hard knocks work on am first
Thanks for the contribution cave

She looks at you lustfully?
Damn!!! Your bro don enter o

Martinez39s:
It might be that Ronaldo is considering marrying her. Ronaldo seems to like her that much.

He wouldn't DARE!!!

At his age? What dafuq is the benefit of marriage that he isn't getting now? Makes no sense to me.

heironymos:
LOL Thanks Mr luminous(cos I know it might involve beating too)

Beating? That's the practical aspect bro!!!

Your bro needs to learn a cold hard truth. If he isn't in charge of that relationship, he won't enjoy himself.

SOZINN:
Christiano about to get fûcked

How?

She is a successful model in her own right and he is not married to her

Explorers:
Men

Modified bro...check it out

I haven't seen the devil personally, as said in the bible and all that.


But I have seen humans with so much evil inside their hearts. Galactic and Blackhole-sized monstrosities housed in those containers you call bodies. If only you have the power to view some people's minds, you will understand my point.

These are the DEVILS I know.

CaveAdullam:
I screamed when I saw the title of the thread. In fact, I witnessed few seconds raging madness. What nonsense! How I managed to read the nonsense, I don't know. Anger was reigning over me as I read every bit of that rubbish posted by a single digit IQ woman!

Local man can not can. If I have my way I will beat hell outta that useless woman.

You and pansophist tried. I skipped that BS. I only replied to a female who tried to use cryptic pregnancy to justify how babies can have different DNA.

No matter how they spinned it, men of culture knew that the thread has no moral or technical or even spiritual basis.

Like y'all said, they are grasping at straws hoping to catch a bamboo

heironymos:
I have been following this thread for months now and I must say bravo to everyone that has contributed positively to it's growth.
I have never seen people especially Nigerians this coordinated, and that gets to show the type of minds we have here you are all geniuses(whether passively reading or actively contributing.

I will give my own little contributions of my blue and and redpill experiences but for now my elder brother is the issue.
I am quite introverted and don't normally see the need to advice or interfere in people's businesses, but my brother(40yrs) always argues with his girlfriend over every little things. But the one that got me really pissed off to even post this was when he got on a job interview on zoom(which he eventually got). After the interview which he told her will last for 45min she didn't spare a second and called just when he was telling me about the interview, when he saw her call he clearly was pissed off but kept a straight face, not to give away his displeasure because I had once complained about her narcissistic personality.

When they spoke on phone I overheard him telling her that he just got off the interview, why is she calling to ask why he didn't call her immediately after the interview till she called him without even asking how it went, and she kept nagging about him keeping things away from her he was like what if the interview extended after the 45mins and she calls and distracts him. Long story short he ended up apologizing and could not maintain frame, she always makes things all about her and now that he is starting a new job I don't want him getting distracted because of a woman.
He has spent 10yrs no job, and now getting it with an oil company and entertaining a time and emotional leech is my issue.

Finally when ever I try to talk to him he brings in this OG vibe like he knows what he is doing but this b**ch keeps whooping his ass emotionally but he won't simply learn from a wise sage because of ego(he is 40 I am 28).

How do I advice his egocentric Mr know all self in this regard(cos he feels knowledge and experience only comes with age)

I offer counselling for a fee. It composes of theory and practical approaches. I can add some spiritual approach too, for a fee(in case,he ate some Vegetables).

Nice

Romanoff:
Desperation can make these women believe anything.

Cryptic Pregnancy is actually real. It's a situation where a woman doesn't know she's pregnant till she gives birth.

These wicked people twist the real cryptic Pregnancy, made it a scam and are selling it to desperate people looking for children.

Yes, cryptic pregs are real but from my experience,they are outliers. Infact, the name is due to the fact that the situation is more myth than real. Less than 1% of true cryptic pregnancy exists.

I agree with the scammers and the desperation involved

Romanoff:
This particular woman relocate to PortHarcourt, say her specialist doctor is there.

What's cryptic about it? They pump the women with hormones to mimic pregnancy symptoms and keep lying to them till they "deliver".

She is lying about that shiit. She either knows the score or is familiar with it. No woman in this modern era just ups and leaves for something like that for 9 months. It's ludicrous.

What's Cryptic about it? It's that no matter of hormone stuff would make your belly swollen for Pete's sakes, or is pregnancy a hidden feature now? I'm a scientist and no matter how you spin it, pregnancy SHOWS on you.

Romanoff:
I say e dey happen. I get person wey her own story dey similar sef, I just dey use side eye look her.

She say she carry her belle for back, cause the belle no show, boom, she done born.

I know it can happen but at least she would know she don PAY for such,not to be totally clueless about such stuff and suddenly comes home with a baby na. Unless the baby is damn cheap like 10-50k, who pays such antenatal in millions or whatever and the husband won't see any sign of belle? What's cryptic about pregnancy that won't show visible signs? That's a fuqin red flag. The hospital runs a baby factory or is affiliated to one. No family unintentionally just gets a miracle baby this way.

humility33:
Someone shared on Facebook why she is bothered

Damn

Romanoff:
Siddon there.

Things dey happen.

Not to this extent biko....

Romanoff:
I am totally in support of getting DNA test but as you are giving a blood sample, abeg, carry your wife own go too.

Cause with the recent scam of. "Cryptic Pregnancy" in Nigeria, a lot of couples have fallen victim, especially those looking for fruit of the womb.

These yeye so called clinics will tell you that you're pregnant but scan and blood test can't detect it cause it is hiding, that it is only their equipment that can see it and you must only come to their clinic for ante natal.

You will be pumped with hormonal injections that will mimic pregnancy symptoms, as months pass, they will inject you with what will make your stomach protrude.

Obviously, it is not free.

If you've made full payment, after 9 months or 10months, of the announcement of the so called pregnancy, they will tell you it's via CS you will deliver. Again, you'd be put to sleep and given a superficial cut on your stomach and stitched back so it will look like you had a Cesarean, they will then present a baby to you (bought from a baby making factory from the money you paid to them"

They will tell you that you can't breastfeed cause of the drugs you've been taking, so the baby will have to be on formula.

If it takes you two years to complete payment, they won't "deliver" you o. They will tell you the baby would have to wait. When you've balanced up, even if na one year after, they will cut you open and present a baby to you.

Some women know it's a lie but desperation makes them play along, some don't even know it's a scam.

Their centres are common in Imo, PortHarcourt and Lagos.

This is so unbelievable. Haba..

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Who's sponsoring the movies? The underlying excessive testosterone cum scarcity mindset of men especially those at the helm of things encourages the sponsorships just to cater for the viewership of women and to be "political correct"..If you swim against the tide, it is this same current crop of simps and male feminist that will set you up...ditto "#metoo, Bill Cosby, Weinstein, Harry Epstein,that pirates of the Caribbean actor...Is it a wonder a horrible simp of a cunt like Prince Harry is celebrated especially in America? How do we get out of it? Simply, we don't until it becomes "fashionable" to let men take over that time will come when an extinction level event like a nuclear war or worse..Then the propaganda will change..But in the meantime, we adapt with the redpill.[/color]

Nice points

Ichidodo...you have a point. Sozinn too has points. Its just to synergize y'all points.


To all the dudes talking about movies, I dropped comments way back on this same issue. The movie narrative from Hollywood standpoint will steadily get worse. My case study movies were Army of the dead, Coming to America 2, Gunpowder Milkshake, Black lightning, Endangered species and so many others I can't mention. I keep wondering who dafuq sponsor these movies. The fact that most of our popular actors herald these movies contribute to the quick reconditioning of the general populace. I'm a dude who loves watching movies a lot and although I know what's happening and guide myself against it's effects but tons of people, kids and teens inclusive, know nothing of the redpill and will accept such stuffs as the new normal. The next generation males have their work cut out for them. I don't envy those Mudafuckers. The world as we know it is steadily getting fuqed up.

Nowadays, I try to enjoy science fiction movies due to the knowledge I can get from them. Most other genres are bastardized and they just don't make sense anymore

SOZINN:
Laugh out loud Eh.
One of my guys broke up with his girlfriend last month nbecause his girl wants to be going for hook up appointment. She claims that he is not giving her enough money. Chai
If you see this girl for street, you fit swear say she be virgin. I no even get strength to yarn the full story sef.
And it was the decent dressing that attracted my guy sef. He think say Na human being. hahaha

WTF

ObinnaValentine:
Learning and implementing are different..shó get?

I get you

luvmijeje:
I can't marry a guy that's broke and I can't marry a guy that is rich.

The reason I can't marry a broke guy is because he will be hiding his true nature. A broke guy is a faithful guy. Until a guy has money, you will never know whether he likes you.

And I can't marry a rich guy because I don't want someone to bore with the life story of how he got his money and me from nowhere is now coming to waste it anyhow.

I want a guy that has big dreams and knows the means to achieve it. And understand that I am the most important means of achieving that purpose.

Ok

ODJ124:
This money should have been donated to the orphanage and the poor...




Thread seen..

Make yours and donate it.

Don't tell a nigga how to spend the money he makes

luvmijeje:
There is a big different! You are poor and you are still arrogant about it! You needed help, you are still acting as though you are the one helping. You see marriage as a pity tool. If you help me, I will pity your life by marrying you.

If you have sense, you don't tell a potential wife your life story. You only tell people who you you know they won't use it against you your life story. A woman who knows you are nothing will treat you as nothing.

@bigpicture001, nice story and I'm happy that it works out for you but did it really work out? What do I mean?



You are getting married to a woman because she helped you out and not because you liked her. You don't make a critical decision as marriage based on that!

You didn't answer my question. Can you or can you not marry such a guy?