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Martinez39s:
To buttress and emphasize CAPSLOCKED's point on such excuses, have it mind that a female, for whatever reason, might tell you that she cannot date/marry you due to religious differences, tribal differences, parental disapproval, negative utterances of her pastor or any other yen yen yen. When you hear this, just smile inwardly because her words are not to be taken seriously. All you need do to see things clearly is ask what excuses she would give you if you were Otedola, Elon Musk, Bill Gate, Ned Nwoko or any other money bag. Do you seriously think any excuses will come up? NO! Will tribal or religious differences or divergence personal beliefs matter to her? NO! Even If her parents disapprove (which they will not ), she will defy them. Even if pastor saw a "vision" and adviced her against it (which pastorpreneurs will never do), she would still go with you.

Even if you were a native doctor in addition to being the best money bag she could find, she will still date and marry you even if she is a Christian. Even if you are a brutal drug lord/yahoo boy and you are her best financial options, she will still marry you as long as she is convinced you will provide for her and keep her safe long-term; as long as will cash out in anyway or for any period of time, no problem for her. Leave it women to know how to rationalise their choices and decisions. Hypergamy doesn't care about race, religion, tradition, culture, morality, nationality or political beliefs. Just be her best financial option and let no higher bidder come along, you will get her hand in MARRIAGE even if you are the most pathetic simp. MARRIAGE to women is a matter of financial security; it doesn't care where this security comes from (whether it comes from a redpiller or simp, an alpha or a beta, a moral champion or the morally depraved); this is reality.

Even if you are a redpiller whose red pill awareness is through the roof but you are struggling financial at the moment, a rich simp will easily snatch your girl for MARRIAGE... this is a red pill fact. The girl will readily leave you for that rich simp (though the riches of the simp won't save him from female nature and its games). Highest, after marriage and settling in well, she can still come back to you for sex if you are readily available as one of the few men she knows that can lay the pipe well. In some instances, not all, she will use you to play "Alpha fùcks, beta bùcks" on the husband and make him a victim of paternity fraud with your seed.

So, never mind the excuses. Also, if you want to have value in the MARRIAGE market, you must have the paper. To any woman you want to marry, know that you are the best option to her, one she has selected. As for the excuses, when a woman is give you such excuses, it usually because:
(1) she doesn't consider you (though it won't stop her from enjoying or milking any benefits from you),
(2) she is still testing her options,
(3) a higher bidder came along and she needs an excuse to monkey branch. Usually, her parents, especially her mother, will support and connive with her in this.
(4) she still wants to explore her youthful hoe phase as a single lady and you are not valuable enough in her eyes for her burden herself with serious plans of marriage. Maybe you can check in when she is used up or about to hit the wall.
(5) others can add their reasons.

Thanks!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Bastard Chelsea. Small Southampton won over you guys.

May you guys perish in Valhalla for 1000 years for perishing my ticket. Ekwensu.

aomine:
We really need to learn how to help our fellow men please men are suffering with no one to turn to except god

Herbsworks:
During the weekend I went to visit my elder sister. As I sat down to watch movies, my little niece of 10 years old came to me and asked me to please help her draw some things for her assignment. I refused and told her to do it herself. The next thing this little girl did was to start crying hoping to manipulate me to help her

I was shocked cos as little as she is she already knows how to manipulate emotionally. I got angry and told her to shut up. To my amazement she stopped crying, picked up her pen and began to draw. She stopped crying cos she knew that her manipulation couldn’t work on me.

Apart from some men falling prey to women manipulation, they also fall prey to their kids manipulation which is why a lot of father are under the control of their kids. This generation will keep churning out irresponsible children cos parents (mostly fathers) have lost grip and control over their children.

When men slept, women came and sow tares in the heart of their children against their fathers. Wake up fathers and take charge.

Love & Light

heartofcity12:
Men have been simping for ages. See this

ubunja:
that's what you see. Continue man.

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.

I'm seeking to get married soon, so I recently got into a relationship with this lady I've been talking to last year. I helped her get a job in Lagos and she came over. Her parents paid her rent and thanked me. Since I've always wanted to date her (good girl, virgin, and beautiful) I used the opportunity to ask her out since she now has a job here in Lagos.

She accepted but have me a tough time accepting because of difference in church denomination. I had to assure her that it won't be a problem when we get married, though she had always made her stand clear since we first met.

The issue now is this - yesterday she was telling me how some guy from her hometown got her number and was trying to ask for her hand in marriage and all that. She went on to tell me how he's old and can't put his words together bla! bla! bla! I began to whyne her that she's a hot cake and everyone will always want her and I fully understand that.

After all the praises I was giving her on how people live things of value like her, she sent a VN telling me stop it that she was just telling me how late marriage affects even men too and I should stop making her the subject of the discussion, that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

I played that part like 5 times already. We are in a relationship, why would she say that. Am I not what she wants physically? I've just been asking myself since yesterday. Throughout our friendship, I've never bothered to ask her what her ideal man is but she has said how she dated cute guys previously but couldn't move further because they lacked in character. Sincerely, I'm just an average guy physically, calm, introvert and funny.

I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

Smartb0y:
she don wash the guy brain finish.
whats her username?

azammi:
I read it bro and I know what I read . I still don’t know y u guys glorify sleeping with people wives

Martinez39s:
SMH. What the hell is this?

https://www.nairaland.com/6818137/body-count-means-nothing-body#107018223

azammi:
Why do you people take pride in sleeping with married woman?, what joy do you guys derive in it?

Meedon:
She fit colonize your gbola na.

chikasnight:
1m Na the popular ones now other ones still Dey way dem de run with the least amount

Martinez39s:

Meedon:
No reason am oooo, some girls no get level oooo.

Meedon:
For real, I have heard the stories about kayanmata too. This girl's can be diabolical sha.

Andremalan731:
I have a very close friend who knows a lot about the red pill
He talks about the red pill all the time
He post about it every day on his WhatsApp status
But this my guy is aggressively simping for his girlfriend
He is investing a lot in this girl even with the fact that this girl has been showing hoe tendencies.
This girl still goes out on date with her toasters even with the fact that this my guy is paying her school fees in a private university
Bought her an IPhone
She is in one expensive catering school
Na this my guy still pay for the registration
Phone sub
Monthly allowance etc
He has literally taking over as her father and this girl is still misbehaving and my guy still continue to invest

I don follow am talk tire, the thing almost cause fight between us
The guy said he will continue to invest in her whatever comes out of it he will take it like a man
Can you imagine ??

How can someone know a lot about the redpill and still continue to simp this hard.
No be juju be that

SKhanmi:
To exist is to consume. Is life fair to the plants & animals you have also consumed, did they consent to being harvested/killed/eaten by you? This world follows a template, fair isn't one of its attributes.

AsiwajuV8:
Where is your location?

On the mainland, I can do Ikeja or Maryland.

If it's on the island, we have to make arrangements.

AsiwajuV8:
Well, 15k is the price Xiaomi Nigeria sale Mi Band 5.

If you're interested and price is a concern, I did suggest you go with the 12k person.

Cheers

AsiwajuV8:
Finally got a brand new Redmi Note 10 Pro today.

Now I have Mi Smart band 5 for sale because dey force me buy Mi Band 5. They all claimed you can't buy Redmi Note 10 Pro without Mi Band 5.

I already have 3 different smartwatch and fitness band so I have no use for Mi Band 5.

Jessepaid:

fattprince:
Guess what? Nobody saw anything wrong in that. Those guys are far gone. Asked me if my wife or mum is sick and I can treat only one who would I treat. Said well I will split the money let me family find half for my mum let her family find half for her. The idiot told me what if my mum dies after treatment? I asked what if his wife left after treatment? He was telling me if I'm praying for my wife to leave. I told him if he was praying for his mom to die. Oh I forgot he is deep shit in the matrix. I only said I will split because I didn't want another bashing because I wouldn't have a wife to split the bill for in the first place. My happiness first my family follows.

Martinez39s:
SMH. Did his parents maltreat him? Why would a sane person say such nonsense?

foreman:
A new low, damn.

fattprince:
Made me remember how I was almost lynched by some bitches and Simpsons just because I said I can't put my wife above my mum. Then when I ask how one of them bitches would feel when her son places his wife above her foolish lady said she wouldn't want to be in a situation where her son would place her above his wife. Bloody liar, sophism at work. But what really broke my heart is a foolish simplistic simp said he would appreciate if his parents dies before he marries.

UyaiIncomparabl:
They won't confess now.

All of them will suddenly turn redpillers. I can give you a 10 pages story of a guy who used to constantly beg me just to put the tip. I told him no. He said if he doesn't have me, he will commit suicide and die, I said fine o, good riddance.

Last time I saw him at Raddison Blu, he was with an entourage of 6 ugly looking girls. I just acted like I never knew him. I would have spat on him if he dared called me. Thank God for my life, I am now with my rich Alhaji who cherishes and adores me. As I come tell am say I be virgin nko? He come finish work by always crediting my account.

We are going to Zanzibar in December. I'm so happy. God bless you, my Alhaji.

LilMissFavvy:
Dear African men, if you do not have self control, pls do not marry. Stay single, because if you cheat on your wife, it will hurt her deeply and can make her develop HATRED for you. She should have divorced him than kill him. Take a look at the pretty young wife that a man has, yet is still looking outside, what do men really want?