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bjprodint:
from my small pikin brain i think your brother is to be blamed.he should have never allowed his wife move in with his sisters.he should have lived only with you and his wife,then rent you an apartment when you finish serving him.

Good advice

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Too bad


We wanted to do rituals because we were tired of being poor. But before we killed her, we decided to enjoy her since she would soon die and no one else would enjoy her again.


Just imagine wetin come out from human being mouth

You wey dey do yahoo yahoo,robbing people of their livelihood,are you any different?

Many of your victims have committed suicide after you swindled them.

YOU ARE ALSO A KILLER!!!

ibkonekt:
this is normal and we are all like that. its primal instinct for a woman to be attracted to a man that is jealous because the attribute usually shows strength in some form and willingness to fight for his woman. its called mate guarding. there is nothing wrong with it. but due to the society that we live in, it is demonized and condemned and they say such a man is insecure. that is why you have multiple influx of emotions. one is nature compulsion one is societal compulsion

You nailed it.

Fake ass story...


From a fake ass moniker

HeavenlyCherub:
I’m sorry that you translated in that way. That’s not what I meant

No need to apologize,I dont need it.



Lemme tell you what I think of you:

Based on my experiences with women offline and on NL, I think deep down,you're not a bad person and you got hurt by a man who was going through some self esteem issues and rubbed his insecurities on you. Your heart is soft and despite what you say, loving someone based on status is TRULY not what you want. You want your man to love and cherish you and you will move mountains for him. I see that quality about you and thats different from some of the other female posters. You posted from a position of a hurt heart and you ERRONEOUSLY thought those exes were like that because they were broke but nope. They treated you like that because they were insecure to begin with. A man who measures his own value based on material possessions is no alpha male.

You could be way richer than me in real life but there is no way I'd feel insecure about that. I have such self confidence it scares women. I have always been like that all my life and I have gone through some real shiits in life(I have seen the dead,ghosts and I survived many betrayals and an attack by a lion), yet,I never lost my core(who I really am). But not all men or women can be like me. I have dated women who had nothing and rejected a senator's daughter who had everything. Decisions purely based on character and mindset because I know one fundamental part, being broke is a state anyone can get out from but your character/mindset is like your blood,its a part of who are. Experiences can shape us in some ways but so long you don't lose that core, you are overcome anything.

I dont value people based on what they have but on who they are and I think you should do so too. I typed all these because I sense that you still have good in you. Dont lose it based on what others use to evaluate men/women. If status is all women want, I'd never be propositioned by wealthy married women,girls and even gays.

One love

HeavenlyCherub:
You are the one assuming it’s on status alone. Did I tell you that?

Then why say to me 'no woman loves a lazy and broke man'... Is that not presumptive that no woman will want me(worthless) because I'm broke and stingy?

How is that not a status definition of what a woman wants?

HeavenlyCherub:
You better get to work as no woman wants a lazy stingy man

*sighs*

You see where I have issues with you?

You automatically assume I'm worthless because you presumed me to be lazy and stingy,just because I told you not to use your two bad experiences to judge all men.

There are no assurances that the men in your social class will make you happy or sad and as a xtian,placing your hopes on status rather than God's direction is crazy.

HeavenlyCherub:
You don’t know me. You are allowed to think the way you want

I don't want to ma'am.

I hope your philosophy works out for you even though I disagree with it

Lovelyn451:
This wan preaching no dey ever pass tithe...tvheew

Even you don vex?

HeavenlyCherub:
You will not guilt trip me into anything I don’t care. I dated broke and stingy men that just took took and took. Never will I ever. I’m not saying one party should be a leach. There needs to be a balance and both people working together. The thing is people should just stick to their level. If you make 30k date someone who makes 30k. Both of you are up to par and one person is not using the other. It is not a crime to want someone who has their life in order when you have your life in order. Everyone has a spec. Just like you men specify the woman that you want in terms of looks. Nothing wrong with me desiring a successful man as I am successful. I will never let anyone guilt trip me. Instead of abusing me online go to work.

Lmaoooo...

Nawa o...just because you achieved some success in life made you seem better than those exes? When you had nothing,I bet you were humble in church. Now,God has blessed you and you suddenly remember that others were broke and 'took,took and took from you', segregating yourself from them. I wonder what God thinks about that.

HeavenlyCherub:
You will not guilt trip me into anything I don’t care. I dated broke and stingy men that just took took and took. Never will I ever. I’m not saying one party should be a leach. There needs to be a balance and both people working together. The thing is people should just stick to their level. If you make 30k date someone who makes 30k. Both of you are up to par and one person is not using the other. It is not a crime to want someone who has their life in order when you have your life in order. Everyone has a spec. Just like you men specify the woman that you want in terms of looks. Nothing wrong with me desiring a successful man as I am successful. I will never let anyone guilt trip me. Instead of abusing me online go to work.

What do you term broke? Different translation to that one word. Why not ask what I meant?

Lol...so according to your faith,when looking for a husband, he must be successful abi? What if God wants you to marry bro. Jude the hustler instead of bro.Tunde the rich guy?
God sees the future right and he knows best for you but according to you myopia, you will think Tunde is better than Jude cuz he is more successful and there goes your marital happiness.

The topic ain't even about broke till you added it,its been about stingy men and entitled women. I still maintain my stand. That you spent on your ex(for how long exactly) and making all this noise shows you hated being their destiny helper yet men do that and way more for women. I bet you never even paid your ex's house rent or school fees before and yet you no wan let us hear word

I blame those exes for being lazy enough to depend on you though.

lexy2014:
Bro, am glad u made d observation u made. I was also seeing it that way. D lady sixfeetbelle made nothing less than five posts. And in all d post she made on d subject, it was only about what her boyfriend is supposed to do for her. At no point did she even make d mistake of stating what she is supposed to do for her boyfriend. So as far she is concerned, a relationship is an avenue for her to meet her financial/material needs. D relationship exists because of her financial/material needs.

Take a look at d following reasons y she is or wants to be in a relationship:

"Dates, hangouts and meet ups at cinemas, etc. calls, car rides and texts, birthday messages and celebrations, random gifts and cash".

She can't go to the cinema to catch a movie on her own. She needs a man to do it for her. She can't do her b'day without a man's money. She can't buy herself a gift without a man's money. She can't enter a taxi without a man's money. Infact, her whole life revolves around provision from a man.

D most ludicrous of them all is d cash she put on d list. I had asked her several times that if she says she has a means of livelihood, y would she still depend on a man for cash if she isn't d epitome of an economic liability?

D problem is that she feels she is entitled to all manner of financial, material & pecuniary gain from her boyfriend just because she is dating him. That is just a predatory mentality meant to suck d man dry. In all, she says that is a relationship even when she has no idea what she ought to contribute to enhancing d life of d guy

You nailed it bro...

Runjozi:
this life is just so messed up. how can you buy a cow for 1.2 mill why not just dash that money to humans if you don't know what to do with it. well maybe he may resell it for a higher price later I don't know his motive sha.

Entitlement mentality is disturbing you.

You are questioning how a man spends his money as if you were the one who made the money for him.

He made his money and deserves to spend it as he wants.

Make.yours and dash it out to humans.

Sixfeetbelle:
Like I said, I'm tired of giving you examples.

Bye Felicia darling...

Sixfeetbelle:
It's funny how you assumed all I wrote there is meant for only him. But I don't blame you. You already have your mind made up


To humour you, I'll elaborate. The "enjoying each others company" shebi we'll do it in your house and when we are done, we'll eat your food and sleep on your bed? The project we'll embark on, is it your money we'll use, abi my boyfriend won't bring his own share? The dates we'll go, won't he pay for his own meal at least, even just once? If he has a car, won't he at least drive it to wherever we'll have our date for the day? Will you fuel it for him? If we agree on cinema, since always staying indoors can't suffice, won't he get there somehow abi he's an edo witch? If I get him something on his birthday, won't he reciprocate the gesture at the very least? If he's coming to see me, maybe after travelling out of state, will he show up empty-handed abi do you visit people empty-handed?

I'm tired of giving you examples

No guy can convince me he went into a relationship and didn't spend extra kobo cause of it no matter how prudent they were in spending. The little gestures I listed above are the snippets of what being in a relationship entails.

I didn't assume darling,what you said that I responded to,showed only him,not YOU.

You still didn't talk of going for night vigils, prayer and fasting and mountain retreats or is your relationship based on physical bills alone. Spiritual bills are necessary too

sharone21:
Oga, relationship IS NOT a MUST... Go hustle first as one guy suggested to broke guys....Even father Adam who should be your mentor was taking care of gardens before the arrival of Lady Eve....Broke guys like u have no business with relationships.... Please, lazy Nigerian youth stay off my mention!!!

Lmaoooo...

Nope,I won't Darling since you refuse to have some measure of self worth. You are a human being, not an object to be purchased and bargained for using gifts and money. You have a mind and soul of your own. Dont be a victim of laziness. Thinking any human being must cater for your needs as a grown up is pathetic.

Sixfeetbelle:
Is it that you guys think you won't ever spend in a relationship or what? Cause I'm beginning to think some of you don't know what being in a relationship mean.

Dates, hangouts and meet ups at cinemas, etc. calls, car rides and texts, birthday messages and celebrations, random gifts and cash, aren't they all part of dating? Are they done for free?

Lmaoooo...

See your life. So all these make up your own concept of dating and yet you expect HIM only to do all these for you? Chai,men don suffer oooh. Everything you put up there centred around just YOU,FOOD and MONEY. CANT YOU BLŌÓDY STAY WITH HIM FOR A WEEKEND AND JUST ENJOY EACH OTHER'S COMPANY?

What of prayer and fasting or mountain retreats to build your spiritual lives? That one no matter abi? Or pulling funds together to execute a project? Or you supporting him in a business deal and he does likewise? Jogging with him early morning nko or gym classes together?

You know nothing about relationships, LADY SNOW



Cc lexy2014

HeavenlyCherub:
I’m not entitled at all and I said what I said, I’m the type of woman who will do anything for my man by God’s grace if I have the money. Why should I settle for any less. A lot of people can say what they want on this blog I don’t care. I used to apologize or feel sorry for God’s grace and blessing over my life but I will not, sorry. You can never guilt trip me into doing so. You my dear are used to women who aren’t confident and can talk down to. Not me. I’m God fearing confident and I’m a good woman. I will not settle for someone sent to drag me down in life.

Please,stop yapping with the religious tone. It further strips whatever dignity is left of your stories.
If you are that good or will do anything for your man,surely,praying him or helping him to succeed is not too much? Demonizing someone cuz he is broke ain't part of the agape love una church dey preach? Since you enjoy grace and your successes are not by your own handiwork,why make it seem dating a broke man is hell.

Surely, you remembered that dream Paul had,of him refusing to eat certain animals he deemed unclean yet God told him all animals have been certified clean. The restrictions you place on status is all in your mind.

Funny that you quickly turned the route of a virtuous woman when I called out your moniker

HeavenlyCherub:
Oh sweetheart I am the table. I love God, I’m hard working, everything I touch prospers, I help those I love by his grace, I’m humble. I will do anything for the right man. Anything I touch prospers. That is because I try understand other people’s perspectives first on why they think how they think before bashing them. I totally blame myself for dating men like that once upon a time, I was foolish. a relationship is about give and take. You give and take in love, support, respect, commitment. Word of advice. Sow into your loved ones you won’t regret it.

I still maintain that being broke is a state,not a crime.
Why dont you practice your last line and reap the fruits then?
You love God yet you condemn someone based on his perceived present state?

sharone21:
I am NOT the lazy type which u easily seem to tag Nigerian ladies.....FYI, Nigerian ladies do not & will never fall under the category of lazy women in the world.... I'm sure you saw your dad not spoiling or pampering your mum in anyway, so no one to take a cue from.... Abi before wife, no be girl friend? Local man....

Lol...

Emotional manipulation doesn't work on me.

Work for your own money and stop frothing at the mouth

Where dafuq u mofos get these ideas from?

I don laugh taya.


Use love charm on the girl who breastfed another men with your money?

Una no go kee me ohhhh

Funkyswagzz:
Bro I was prepared to loose that money already..
I have deleted some of the crazy pic she sent to my fone and the girl was tripping big time if not I won't make such mistake. I just sent her the usual amount for her to come. It was left for her to make up her mind and she did. Later she came crying someone scammed her. I can tell its true cos she's emotional and jealous type. The babe come loyal by force buh me I don't want issues I just jeje respect myself

Ok

lisa286:
His loss
I have been a blessing to all I meet

Says only YOU!!!

sharone21:
The Op is 100000 percent right.... It is OBVIOUS Nairaland is filled with boys who type rubbish and get 1billion LIKES and think they have said something worthwhile BUT aren't in touch with reality.... Same people will not give to God citing reasons they listed for not giving to women.... Men of these days are not like our fathers, if u can't shower & spoil your woman when there are no kids no matter how small, is it when u now have kids and responsibility that u will now spoil her when u already have such bad stingy habit....Your wife will just be looking like your mum( lol) ? You see y many marriages lack fun & quickly withers? Promiscuity has also increased among married women who would normally out of fear of God not engage in it but because of lack of love, care , stinginess & selfishness of their husbands-- some with same mentality will not go the extra mile to provide for their families( cuts across all tribes).
Anyway, God will bless us with people based on our desires..... Is it not best to be a lady with your own money and with a guy who is NOT stingy and if only stingy ones come your way, be ALONE?

It is best since you can't work to even afford the most basic of necessities.

HeavenlyCherub:
To add to my comment above. Better be with someone who has less and gives than one who has plenty and refuses to add to you.

I’ve seen this play out with some men.. one babe I also knew.. her guy always looked amazing in the best of the best but could not sow into his girlfriend. If you saw them together you would never believe they’re dating.

Some of you men admire women who are not your girlfriends because they look good. Someone is taking care of that woman if she is not doing it on her own. The grass is green where it is watered

Another useless comment...

Shame no dey catch una ni...
Is dating synonymous to motherless babies home that someone must just carry your bills.

Yet your moniker is heavenlycherub? You think those cherubs have this annoying entitlement mentality in heaven?

HeavenlyCherub:
I’m going to share with everyone on this thread something my cousin shared with me this past week. She basically said this quote describes me. Ladies please never ever make the mistake to date a stingy man. I myself give in a relationship, I give a lot. I will not date a stingy man or broke one ever again. They will drain your soul. Also don’t entertain men that invite you over to cook for them instead of them taking you on an actual date when you’re just getting to know them. You set the standard for how they treat you for real. My cousin was right. This quote truly describes me and trust me if you are not willing to compromise to take me on an actual date where you will spend your money I will not do it...

https://www.instagram.com/p/CCoAXEMJIMw/?igshid=hp85ah2v0xyp

in case you’re wandering what my fragrance is. It’s creed love in white $500 a bottle. I refuse, I refuse to entertain stingy men. I’ve done it twice and I will never do it again. Learn from my lessons

Will you keep quiet

You dated broke men and stingy men too? Na only you waka come ni?

You keep meeting irresponsible men and as usual you put the blame on stingy or broke.

Stop using emotional manipulation and terming it fried rice. Its a relationship,not a means to satisfy your material wants. Funny enough, women who bring nothing to the table are always the first to shout 'broke men'

Funkyswagzz:
It's not a lie bro.. a girl actually told me to send her 12k to travel from Calabar to Owerri. We spoke for a while b4 I sent her 4k and the bitch lock up. She tried so much to convince me cos of the pandemic I just respect myself and left the money for her. Next thing she told me she got scammed..

How in hell would you send 4k out of 12k and think she would come? She billed you 12k cuz she doesn't wanna come at all. Girls are cashing out on y'all mehn!!

Rozz...


I.want you to have this kinda Sexy build

happybee:
Na your dick go suffer am. Las las make you self get rupture dick like the one on front page days ago.

Bad guy

RIP to her sha...



Imagine having a gf with this build and her favorite style is cowgeh

lefulefu:
u need to be flogged thoroghly
no doubt she and her elder sister planned it together and just scammed u
chai Randy91 wetin be ur solution to this matter
anyway op take am

You dey mind that liar...

11k from akungba to Lagos?

Na flight she wan take?