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Minemrys:
of course n0t. I wasn't even talking abt the rape case bt court cases in general. And by the way, things like these, i am always careful. I am careful with people in general. I dnt want wahala.

Lol...ok bro

Minemrys:
easier said. If s0me0ne wants to ruin u, they'll c0me prepared.

Maybe, but I'm not gonna chicken out like you and do 'out of court settlement ' cuz you too scared to fight to protect your reputation. Or should we all just sit our asses down and take whatever bullshit a woman throws at us?

Eemmmm...is this a gay plot or another person's story?


Ayam not understanding !!!

Minemrys:
exactly what i am sayhng. It often times doesn't follow right or wr0ng the way it should be. Wr0ng can bec0me right as l0ng as the argument is good. That's why i dnt want to get involved in one. I'd rather an out of court settlement.

Not me. I'm accused like this? It's an all out war for me.

richard16:
I never said a drunk man can't be molested too, I don't know if this guy contacted a lawyer before making this statement, He wrote this in defence of the rape accusation and he made a mistake in admitting having sex with a drunk lady claiming he was drunk too! If this issue is to be brought to court that guy will not go Scot free, people are been jailed with any slightest attempt against women in abroad not to talk having sex and claiming you're under influence too...That girl can capitalise on that statement and get that guy jailed take it or leave it, you can aswell ask any lawyer you know!

He was drunk too but she brought the wine. Now, his lawyer can spin that fact too.

Minemrys:
ehen na, we all kn0w she has a sc0re to settle. I mean the court doesn't always follow logic. After all, people who kill people many times often stay out of jail with the perfect argument, and even those in the court kn0w the pers0n killed s0me0ne. But logically, we all kn0w the w0man is on to s0mething.

Lol..the law follows logic bro...but that logic is based on technicalities and what could be proven beyond reasonable doubt. That's why killers can sometimes go scot free.

Gr8amechi:
Whether they are in romantic relationship or not, consent is different from what you guys sometimes see it, this is why I always pity guys who are quick to pick sides with rape accusers.

This same doctor has been running his mouth on twitter since but can't keep what he preaches.

The law gives ladies too much power and if you check what the law really says rape is you would be very scared or having sex with any lady because she can change it for you

Not nigerian law. Whatever power they get is outside this continent

richard16:
You really don't understand law bro...Even in Nigeria here that guy will be jailed by that statement! A good lawyer will twist it that the guy was never drunk or pretended to be drunk and laced the girl with the drink and take advantage of her! the guy been drunk too is not an excuse for rape bro! You read where he mentioned the girl called him and asked him that she didn't consent to the sex the following day? meaning she was not away of the sex, Never you have sex with a drunk lady cause you will end up in jail even if the guy is under influence of alcohol or not! Law court is different from your actual perspective...White is not white in law court be guided!

Don't you still get it? What if he was the one molested and the chick was trying to exonerate herself? You talk as if a drunk man can't be molested or has no rights!!!

BluntTheApostle:
You have not even straightened yourself out

Don't make me laugh abeg.

Anyway, I am awaiting your answer concerning that famous saying.

You are so obsessed about straightening me out that you actually thought you did. I am giving you the opportunity to actually do it now.

K

Minemrys:
u dnt get what the guy is saying. What he is saying is, in a law court, what u say can be turned the other way around. It's like u never go court b4 oh. As in, the way they twist things, u ma go fear. Shey both were drunk? Okay, if the w0man's lawyer argues the man's intenti0n was to get both of them drunk so he could sex her? It's a 2 way thing. The man also has his defense, in that, the lady coerced him into bringing her to the U. K, initiatd getting drunk and it was in her plan to set him up. What the bros is saying is, it dpends how g0od ur lawyer is. And ur argument. According to Annalise Keating, "justice isn't who tells the truth bt who can c0nvince the jury".

I get all that. His lawyer could also claim she molested him because she brought the fuqin wine they got drunk on.
But now,I'm talking based on facts available to me, not a law court scenario. The babe has no case.

Anyways, enough of their troubles today. Make I face my front

angelfallz:
There's nothing to fear from women, only men that don't know how to handle women, go about shouting "fear women"

Cool talk

BluntTheApostle:
The concepts of Capture-bonding or Stockholm syndrome can be used to understand historical events from the Rape of the Sabine Women to the accounts of Europeans who were captured and assimilated into Native American tribes.
https://psychology.wikia.org/wiki/Capture-bonding



Explain to me this saying: The law is not logical but it is legal

If you can't, I will gladly explain it to you. There are so many things you need to unlearn, if your arrogance will allow you, though.

I'm done with you bro because once again, you are trying just too hard to impress me and deviating off course. Nothing concerns me with that link or the debate topic you shared,I'm no more in literary and debating society hommie.

Next time,you feel like spraying grammar to confuse the issue on ground, I'll be here to straighten you out

Laterz!!#

BluntTheApostle:
Your opinion.



Capture bonding is just one case where logic is defied. It is to tell you that logic does not strengthen cases all the time. There is not always a reasonable motive for all our actions. Some actions are driven purely by illogicalities.



It is the same thing. I chose capture bonding because I feared that Stockholm syndrome would go over your head. So, concerning getting an education, you should take your own advice.



I wrote that the law is not always logical

Learn to read.

Awwwwnnnn...the apostle shooting outta the blocks,gun blazing,eye red and glaring, trying to take luminouz out!!!

Wrong again! You assume a lot of shiit and that ain't good for you. You write a lot of grammar and assume a guy like me won't know shiit. Capture bonding in place of Stockholm syndrome so that I won't faint? Lmaooooo!!! Why not hydrogen bonding or Van der Waals forces?

You have no points bro. Logic is simple as fuq.... and the law is based on that. Technicalities are what differ. That babe has no case. But then the doctor is a glaring simp. So they deserve each other.

richard16:
Reading some people's comments here amuse me...That guy has already implicated himself by saying they had sex when both were drunk! In a law court anywhere in the world that guy will be jailed for rape! Be you drunk or not having sex with a drunk lady without consent is rape! Even an amateur lawyer will turn this case against this guy! It's always advisable to contact your lawyer before making any statement..now this guy just shot himself on the foot by that statement alone!

Wrong!!

They were both drunk. Does a man's consent not count? Who first initiated the sex,what if it was the geh and he was the one actually molested?

Think niggas,think!!! Unless the law the world over(including) Nigeria, thinks a man is worth nothing,but even his own consent

BluntTheApostle:
Even a woman in a kidnapper's den can sometimes fall in love with the man that kidnapped her. Ever heard about capture-bonding?

You people are so stupid, I swear.

It is people like you who rush to the police thinking you have a case figured out. They start screaming, "I want to go to court". The police will beg and beg for an out-of-court settlement, but no, they think they have the better case. Then, they go to court and lose woefully.

My friend, the law is not always logical.

What do I expect from the apostle? Your antics are well know here. Unstable as water and unreliable as quick sand.

What is the correlation of capture bonding to the case now, did the doctor kidnap her? By the way,its called Stockholm syndrome. So be educated bro.

Did you say the law is not logical? I give up on your case. You remind of the doctor himself. Bold and brush online but meek little lambs offline. Men who rely on a woman's appraisal to feel good are simps.

wisdomiskey:
I went to Mayflower sec. sch with the idioot.
The dude ain't shiit trust me.

Good. This one will make him sit up.

No woman stays with me for 4 months and lives on my income gets just 2 rounds from me. Two rounds is like appetizer. She puts up attitude, the very next day,she is on her way back to whatever hole she came out from,all expense paid by her.

Na men like him dey make women think they can do shiit and get away with it

olisaEze:
See why Nigerian girls abroad should be avoided like they’ve got corona virus on overdrive!

Just imagine the so called Dr. Bola way dey sell bleaching cream! Its like that her MBBS degree stands for (Ms Bola Bleachingcream Seller)!

You don't craze at MBBS meaning

wisdomiskey:
I just laugh when I see folks defending that dunce of a doctor.

Someone that is so unremarkable when you see him in real life: he's a very effeminate, petite, frail-looking twaaat who suffers from short man syndrome.

Dude is so lonely and cannot attract a woman in the real world hence why he fell victim to an online hustler

He flew her out to the UK as a desperate bid to finally get laid - the chick stayed with him for 4 months and only put out twice (first one had to be under the influence), that's to tell you how unattractive the guy is.

You summed up my submission about him. Men like him litter NL,jumping up to defend points so women could see their tailights. They fail to realize that women desire strong men or alphas. Or else,they will turn round to bite your ass when they know you are weak.

I haven't seen him physically or even on SM but I trust your judgement

BluntTheApostle:
He has no evidence. He told a friend about the romp.

Was the friend an eyewitness? Of course, he was not. No one was there with them when they got drunk and had sex.

The two times the doctor claimed that they had sex, there were no eyewitnesses. The only way there could have been eyewitnesses was if the doctor's friend was watching them secretly, something he would not want to admit for fear of a charge of voyeurism.

All the chats they had also do not mean a thing because they do not suggest that the sex was consensual. The lady said she didn't give consent. The law can admit that.

You have no point.

Logical reasoning not emotional thinking is needed here.

How in hell did you think a woman who was raped will still stay in the same house for 4months,eating free food and all that,battles me.

In your bid to come across as a women defender ,you came across a tad unrealistic.

Ibunkun1:
I think this applies to a situation where the guy is sober enough. But since the two of them were drunk can this point also stand

That,and the fact that who is there to determine who initiated the sex. What if the woman did initiate?


Sassysure is always emotional on issues like this. Anyone who disagrees with her version of judgement is always a rape apologist

tony9k:
Oga the case happened in the uk. The fact that both of you were drunk does not exonerate rape. The important issue is if she gave consent which she couldn't have given when drunk, Also all the statements that she came from Nigeria. lived in her house and didn't report early are no excuses in the UK

You are still emotional. Reason logically bro. UK is not another galaxy. How do you define rape when both parties are drunk? Who initiated the sex and who is sane enough to determine who did what? Is there a CCTV in the house to judge this?

Even if the first case is rape(according to you), the second nko? Or the multitude of witnesses(his friends and brother) who knew of her BS? Be clear cut in your responses and approach.

I heard the guy is a hard core unbalanced nigga who outrightly condemns accused rapists without caring,listening or judging their own n part of the story. That,and the mere fact that he couldn't chase away a leech for four months and being subjected to abuse in his own house gives me no sympathy for him.

He is a simp,who thinks being a very nice guy and women defender on SM, makes him invulnerable to women wiles and gets him premium pussy. HE IS SO WRONG!!

Dobson43:
Brother, I am glad you agreed with the other paragraph. If the case centered on just the sex scene after their alcohol intoxication, and the lady cried foul and took the case up immediately after submitting herself for medical evaluation and filed a case in the police station. Brother, that man would find it hard to get out of that matter. It seems like an injustice here but it is what it is.

They will both undergo alcohol test. If they both carry more than the accepted limit in their bloodstreams,the guy goes scot free.

But you may have a case where there is video or cctv recording of him COERCING/FORCING her to drink,then sleeping with her afterwards. But in the doctors case,they got drunk together and no evidence of foul play or coercion was found.

Dobson43:
My dear, learn to comprehend. I mentioned that a smart lawyer can turn the case on its head since it's debatable how drunk both parties were especially the guy. Guys can get a lady drunk and pretend they too were under intoxication too. That way, he could have his way. But his case can be blown to pieces by a competent criminal lawyer who knows his onions.




My guy, we both know a lady cannot travel from Lagos to Abuja to see a guy without sex already been on the table talk less of travelling from Nigeria to UK. And we also know she didn't come visiting to play Ludo with the guy nor did she spend 4months alone with a man who is neither her father nor her brother just for the sake of visiting. We also know that under usual cases of rape......the assaulted party runs and seeks redress immediately.



I am just pointing to the fact that the excuse that they both got drunk that the doctor gave is not a enough.

Reason well. The excuse is good enough. Why should he be prosecuted for his actions when drunk.and the lady not questioned too? THEY WERE BOTH DRUNK. stop with the shalaye stuff. Other logical men have called you out.

You made good points in your 2nd paragraph

J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.

Read well,they were both drunk,so no one had control over shiit

Abeg,talk another thing biko. This is not a case of rape,just bad blood between two people

adanny01:
I was so much in love with my girlfriend during my uni days. The problem was that she wasn't a beautiful girl and I had no plans of making it official.

The very first time she slept in my room and we unsuccessfully tried to have sex was the day I broke up with her for being a virgin.

I broke her heart but she gets to keep her virginity while I walk away without any guilt. The only issue was that I immediately started dating a girl in our circle of friends. I am not sure if she has ever recovered from the heart break cos she was the snr nurse on duty when my wife delivered my second child. She let junior nurses handle my wife and kept away. She is in her late 30s with no serious relationship.

You little cat!!!

Oya gimme her number, Lemme fix her with a man.

Confirmedzombie:
Now tell me why lockdown is not necessary. The virus is now spreading increasingly day by day.

I urge the FG to have a rethink and lockdown the country for Three months.

Reverse the lifting of interstate travel and close down all airports.

Shutdown all markets and places of wirship.

Everybody must stock their homes and not wait for pallatives

With this measures we shall defeat this virus.

Lmaooo...u be clown

chudez0147:
Mine is still cursing me up till now... I left her over 6years ago because she's a cheat!

Even though I still feel sorry for leaving her , but I think I took the best decision ...

Wait up,why would she curse you if she cheated?

nuggarito:
I really wish I could keep her

Then keep her!!

nuggarito:
I'm about to, m 27 she's 25, been in a 6yro relationship, no job no money, I think I should forget her.

Why
.she stuck with you for 6 years bro, despite the joblessness and no money issues. Unless she is possessed or a serial cheater or some shiit, a woman who sticks with you like that,is a keeper!!!

landforeast:
What about the people they broke their heart
There you will see me. Poor me, I gave her everything, I mean everything any Lady will dream of. I was not bouyant yet comfrocomfo and doing all my possible best to make her happy. I never knew I was dealing with the devil's first daughter, I never knew all the smiles was fake, I never knew that deep inside her heart I am the Maga on whose back she climb for sustainance while she secretly keep dating another guy in Warri. She always told me she want to visit her elder sister in Warri then not knowing he was visiting a guy. We were all together in Benin, Ikpoba Hill to be precise. Can you imagine that I heard from a friend of mine who happen to come from her village that she got married in December that year. I was like "what are you talking about" but to convince me that he is telling nothing but the truth, he showed me the pictures he took at the traditional marriage. He was like "didn't she tell me". Instantly I started having running stomach, You need to see me, my eye balls was turning and my hands was fidgeting. My nerves was quivered and bitterness and agony engulfed me, how can Ebube do such an evil to me. I reached out to her Sister and she was surprised that she did not tell me. I called her and till today she have never picked my call, one day I called with another line and she picked and I was like "so you are now avoiding my calls" I sent her a powerful message and look for a way to heal from the wound. It was really very hard for me, I can't believe the whole drama was not a dream but a reality. Ever since then I started seeing women as evil creature, I will slightly get provoked at the sight of a lady. Till today I am still living with that scar, recently I heard she is having serious marital issues which I will not like to disclose here. I don't know Why women always think so weirdly. This is a girl I am ready to make her a happy all though her life. I posted a picture on Facebook the other day with my latest ride and she was wowed.
Maybe she taught I will never be rich
Fear women
Fear women
Fear women
If not for Children
I don't think I have any business with any b**ch any more in my life.

Yen yen yen....get another pussy and Bleep yourself to stupor.

There is nothing so special about you or any guy that you can't be jilted or cheated on. She is human,as are you. Humans are fickle mudafvckers. Love(at least the one I'm seeing around here) is all about self-interest

Onyi22:
Is she your mom? Abi u r the boy?

The question is 'is her behavior right?'

I can imagine what you will say if a man poses with his 7 year old daughter like this?

Be logical biko