₦airaland Forum

MoodyQueen:
Marriage isn't consent.
This old woman should stop promoting evil.

In the context of Nigerian law,it is!!!

BabaJoe001:
I read all the stories on here. And I had to pity the ladies Stop being desperate! Men will never respect you if you are . It doesn't matter whether you are 30 or anything. Those that married in their early 20s are regretting and wished they had chilled down a bit. Because their dreams and freedom are taken away from them seems you don't know that marriage is a bondage. I have a lady that married at 24 got divorced at 32 and said she will never marry again. She has 3 kids already. She said the biggest mistake she made was getting married early. Now she is the happiest woman in the world. Raising her kids if you like Call her a single mother, that's your headache. She is a happy single Mother. living well.. no troubles....Men came for marriage she chased all of them away.. all of them well to do. They will be begging. Because this lady is very responsible.. she has found her voice and found meaning in life within 3 years. But she will tell me she doesn't need Men anymore . The reason why those still married cant leave is because it's their husbands that feeds them. They are scared to leave. am a Man, but I can tell you Most Men are useless. A man go show you love but once u are married, then he changes.. he will be telling you what do you want again.. you are eating .. he is paying bills ..as if that's all marriage is made for
Well thats a topic for another day. so back to our "desperate" ladies ..please it's Rubbish. Don't be desperate.. look for money... Get a skill. Then you will be amazed it's Men that will come to propose. The only beautiful thing I see in marriage is children.. others na scam.. Because Men go show their colour.

You are not a man biko. You be something else.
There are bad men and bad women everywhere. It is never a gender thing bro.

dalass:
The guy just pissed me off jare

Lol..ok

Dalil8:
I'm 100% sure most of the ladies married now that had a long queue of men dying to marry them back then, must be thinking now "I'm not so special afterall."

At the end of the day no one is irreplaceable or indispensable.

Nothing lasts forever

Ur last line is the truth.

Even stars,galaxies and universes DIE, with time.

dalass:
You thought she will just fall just because you think she's old and should be desperate to date you? Beg some more.... She must have seen through your begging... Did you prostrate?

Awww come on! Let me guess...You must be shirt, fugly and low bank account type looking for a beautiful, rich and above 30 to take advantage of... Na wa for you oh... Radarada

Haba...what did he do to deserve this na?

Una get quarrel before ni?

DigitB:
So Reno just fuelled your stupidity and you boastfully posted your rubbish story here.


Women are meant to be cherished, loved, taken good care of. As a man you should learn how to manage her mood swings properly.


You can take good care of your woman without weighing yourself down financially.


Even the richest woman will always demand from her man. Men's money dey sweet, says one of my female friends.

What is this one saying bayi?

Stuff smelt so bad,it peppered my eyes...

Validated:
You are ungrateful. Who told you that she will be eternally poor? God gave you a soul mate to lift that family. He knows ways and means you do not. Go and marry that woman otherwise the next bus top might be disastrous.

He is ungrateful?


Did you read his story at all or just being emotional...

Oh,so he should now marry her as a favour or he will come to ruin? What kind of VALIDATED are you?

Raydos:
Well I have no experience, But my Sister Is going through this right now, She was a Very pretty girl back then in School to the extent almost every guy want a piece of her, But she turned them all down!!

There was even one brilliant guy that really loved her so much that He even went as far as Writing Exam for her, Imagine taking that risk for a lady?? He doesn't even care if he get caught and get rusticated! He loved .y sister so much

But upon all these, My sister still turned him down, The reason For this is not farfetched, She was a very Pretty girl and she feel she can settle down anytime she want, She think guys will always want her cos of there pretty face!!

Fast forward to 7 years later, She's not Yet married now, Depression Has finished her, She couldn't celebrate her 34th birthday last year, instead she just Stay indoors and cry all day!!

I really feel bad seeing her cry, It moved me to tears, She's isn't as attractive As she was when she was 25!!

No one can be as attractive and young looking like they used to be when younger....she is 34 and of course not ugly, let her find comfort in the fact that she has hope ad long as she is alive.

35 years ain't that bad, but she should be more realistic now about what she wants in life. Hope she has her own stuffs(work,business)?

Prettyvirginia:
Damn right sis. I get these kind of pressures a lot too. Heaven knows I'm not ready to marry till I'm 24. I have actually learnt to live the pressures

Yinmu...

Who dey pressurize you?

Oluromantic:
You ignored the word most

You never put most to the girls just the guys

PrecioussB:
Got anything wrong with it?

Hairy balls nigga

Oluromantic:
No need for therapist jor. Her own dey her body.
Most girls say they're in relationship, most guys say they're single. But if you observe well, most guys have 3 babes or more, girls stick only to one. Out of those 3 babes or more the guy has, there's always one that has all his heart that he's always serious about. She need to sit down and find out what is making her not that special one..that's all.

I stopped reading after 'Girls stick to only one'....

Where dafuq u been living? Open ya eyes bro or it will end in premium tears for you

Yinmu....


Wey ur pic


That one? I hear you oh

ehmmy11:
Spot on bro "not fine but dark and sexy"

How far?

Well,I try as much as possible to be 100% straight with women older than 30. That way none will say I deceived them

southniyikaye:
you no wan marry dem and you still dey advice make dem marry.
Abeg if you no marry them, who will?

You na!

Zoie:
Shift

Don't be grouchy babe. There is enough love to go round

MoodyQueen:
Lol. She's a myopic one.

There are lots of succesful couples out there with huge age difference; female being older.

Tell her to check up on Megan Markle, Brigitte Macron, Shakira, etc who cared not about age.

Your examples are not nigerians...give us homebased examples na

Zoie:
Fvck him.
That's how one guy kept disturbing me from 100l to 400l that he likes me, want to marry me. Found out in 300l that he's married with a child.

If you want a babe, you'll get a babe, married or no. Why lie? Some ladies don't even care. But these fvckers go for decent ladies, probably virgins, lie that he's still single because he knows she'll not date a married man.
Scum of the earth, I tell ya.

Lol...Oya come here,make I show u true love. I no dey lie ok?

izzou:
[color=royalblue]The ground na cement

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Yinmu...

izzou:
[color=royalblue]PDP fielding Obaseki would be a disaster waiting to happen.

The worst has already happened to him. The only way to get back at Oshiomole is to remain in APC and work against them.

Obaseki is already on the ground. He can't go lower than that.[/color]

Underground?

Preshieben:
nop
He wasn't any of the above
I just got tired after some months
And even pitied him when I left
I really caused him pains

Ehya!

What made you tired though?

Preshieben:
just wine?
My parents wouldn't accept that

Chill out....


How about two big fat cows??

gaventa:
Okay I don't support Yahoo Pele. Oya click the link, learn from my epistle at least

Checked...the link has good points but that is our internal unity. Yahoo draws too much negative attention to us as nation and even south africans who do drugs happily blame us for it because of our nefarious reputation abroad...

gaventa:
Denounced , but make sure you come back and tell me what you think about how Nigeria got the back image Internationally

Ok...will check it

gaventa:
Away from the argument,I pasted you a link to educate you on why Nigerians are being treated harshly internationally.

No need...denounce yahoo and I will click your link

gaventa:
Writing Epistles means I have points, not being able to give a valid point means you are a clueless hater. Just to educate you. Kindly watch this link and let me know if you understand my take on how Nigeria got a bad imagine.

Yen yen yen...so long you support yahoo,I ain't clicking any damn link

gaventa:
Lol just like mompha was released and you almost committed suicide��� hushpuppi will soon be released too but it won't stop the fact that you won't get a visa still and you will still live in abject poverty and you will also bear the consequences of your actions, just ask yourself if your actions would be worth the consequences by then. He pain am

Nope...I'm not the one writing epistles bro

Eulalia:
He can't possibly be lying judging by the beastly and dangerous look of that animal which is very menacing. And its not as if they were caught eating it or something. So??

This animals should be left in the wild where they belong cos I believe conserving them in an enclosed place makes them more ferocious because its not their natural habitat and would get at anything to get out of that cage therefore posing a danger to humans. its really not advisable to have them around, when they are not pets.

You are wrong...leaving them in the wild would have made them extinct. The gorilla was in its habitat,a world heritage site,so the poachers were trespassing and that alone is an offence. Killing the gorilla just made it worse.

Visit a zoo sometime and realize the good humans do these animals. Without such protection,lions,elephants and such would have been long extinct.

Well deserved

gaventa:
And I will be released too and you will still be here pained as ever.

We.shall see,won't we?

Never met one who could outfuq me!!


Yet I have dated Benue,Cameroon,
Yoruba(ondo,osun,oyo),
Igbo(Abia,Imo,Anambra),
Benin Republic, Niger Delta (Itsekiri,Isoko,Urhobo)...


People hype calabar and akwa ibom girls....they are not that bad