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berrystunn:

Call her and return the money back .

I see big blessings coming your way , if only you can just return the money back and forgive her and she will forgive you too.

If not... Noting will work oh , she have link with water if you understand what I mean.

Alaye,can you even hear yourself? Make he call a woman who cheated on her husband and returned her money back...his mental state and trauma suffered nko? Can she heal that? Who told you she was angry at all? A woman who still wants him back only if he is willing. And what's the bullshit about water spirits? Are you high on something smokey?

The thread is not about money so why you so pained berrymouse or whatever you call yourself

The way you lots give advice bore dafuq outta me. No logical reasoning capabilities at all.

Naira235:
Hmmm...Mine was a bit weird. I met this man along the road and we exchanged number. We started communicating and I realised he is always happy to call or chat when he is at work and till he is on his way back home. Whenever h enters home it's another story, either no network or no light.
We have met like 3 times and invited him to come and meet my elder sister I was staying with, if truly he was interested in relationship cos he look like a decent christian and also a choir leader in his church.
He met my sister like 2 times and we started the relationship, one day he invited me to his work and I said I won't make it . So later on, he invited me to his house and on getting there he entertained me at the sitting room, I realised he was very tensed, not just himself and we started talking about life in general. I just asked that I wanted to pee, he asked me to wait and quickly went to park somethings out of the bathroom not knowing it was his wife underwear, I didn't even know anything. I saw the house was more organized as a married than a single guy, but I kept quiet. After everything, as I was about to leave, I just said let me peep at your bedroom... OMG!! I saw things ... his wife wrapper, pants, underwear, bra, high heel, ladies skirts, etc. I kept calm and asked him about it, he told me it was his younger sister that was living with him ever since their mom died and her sister also lost her husband, she was disturbed so he asked her to be staying with him. He went further to joke that other 2 brothers of his were living with him, so I just said okay.

I got home and my spirit was disturbed, I told my sister about it and she was like not possible for someone to even come and meet her, introduce himself to her . So I started social media search and I realised he was on facebook... I saw his wedding pictures , his wife picture and recent picture they even took together. I was mad but kept quiet. As usual, another day came and he came to see me again, after some minutes of discussion I asked if he was married again and he said no... I was just smilling and brought out my phone to show him his wedding pictures, he was dumbfounded and left immediately. He blocked my contact immediately. Although I copied his wife contact details from facebook and told her about everything that happened and how her husband brought me home on a particular day and was telling me all sort of lies. I said I was very disappointed in the man, she asked if I didnt see any wedding pictures hung in the sitting room, I said no...she said the husband must have hid it then, The woman was very angry and that was my last communication with him or her.

Fear man...Fear men... Fear them ... always do your research well before going further with them

But some men are still very good and loyal

Lies...you created this moniker TODAY!!!

paulolee:
jezz....berrystun ma kpa mi na...d mentions i don receive for this post don too much na....dm jus de insult me n odas de swear for me...kum de regret Y i post am...nairalanders jus too sabi tackle person....abeg e don do naa

Because you acted all very weak and was apologising to everyone, on your own post. Why dude? You are a man and the deed was done. You think if a girl posted this,she would be blamed? Nope, some of these SIMPS attacking you will be supporting her action. That woman lied to you and traumatised you. Getting some money out of her(that she never minded) was revenge enough for me.

Those niggas attacking you are SIMPs. They never blamed the woman for anything but are jealous about you enough to be ranting like a konjified he-goat. You made it easy by apologising to them too, for what? Na dem get the story or na you? Hypocrisy don kill these niggas die na. This is nairaland, the weak is eaten while the strong rule. Own your shiiit and move on.

joshuaidibia:
They're rapists

Read and understand biko

cucumbae:
you have to snap yourself eating barbecue lizard.

That was you,not me

ikembz:
Like me

Lol..

extremelygolden:
How are you sure I am from Igbo?

In-law mi, let's not derail this post further.
Be good and check your mailbox.

On it!!!

extremelygolden:
Beni, Oremi atata. E try gan.

Damn u smooth with the Yoruba lines...nice..


I suck at Igbo dou.. Na only ewu I fit pronounce well...cuz I eat it most times in form of isi-ewu

extremelygolden:
Brother in-law

Nwanne!!!


Hope I got it right

dulux07:
She has a point though, If you go into a relationship with the wrong person, you might end up marrying that wrong person hoping they will change because your judgement is being clouded by feelings.
Choose whom you are going to date as if you are choosing a wife/husband. Any red flag at the onset of the relationship, just back out. Prevention is always better than cure.

Yeah but most times humans dont have the will to walk away...their emotions still rule tjem

She fried 6 eggs and ate all at once, farted while cooking and the gas cylinder exploded!!!

RhemaDavids:
I am a private school proprietor/ teacher, it has not been easy at all.The government should please come our rescue

YOU!!!

WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?

rockstarB:
This is a real man. He knew what he wanted and went straight for it without delaying the lady's destiny.

*looks at her coroblastically*

But you wouldn't want a broke man who is ready naaa...would ya?

icebird25:
Eya

Don't tell me men are still falling for this cheap scam called marriage o...
Spits

They are.....


AND....



YOU'RE NEXT MUDAFVCKER!!!

OBelz:
Am I the only one who prefers dating older man? Well my friends will always say , Constance why can’t you date someone in your peers and I guess I don’t even have a good reason. Or it is the fact that they experience life differently or it is the fact that I love people who have wisdom to share or give out, or is it the fact that they wear trousers up to there waist line not under there bottoms?

The truth is, as much as many people would want to question why I enjoy dating someone 20 years or 15 years older than me? The fact still remain that these men are sensitive in nature, passionate lover , they give you the best advice about life and when you confront problems and most importantly they are ready to be a lover and a father at the same time, they just have this beautiful instinct of protecting you���(which I find quite romantic)

And by the way, am Constance and am 20 and have dated older people all by life. What about you, do you like them young or old?

Hmmmm...no preference so long I like you. Have dated younger(more than 10 years) and older(by some 10 years) and from my experience, women remain women.

Just understand what makes them tick and your clock will run smoothly...at least for a while till time,chance and fate intervenes as they usually do.

rockstarB:
Feelings can be deceptive. You can hardly choose rationally when your feelings are into a person

Most of y'all humans are emotional. Logical thinking seems cold and cruel to y'all..


So what are you to use ma'am?

fortunes01:
We were working in the same office then, every one thought he was single. Not until I started seeing baby carrier and make up purse in his car and he bluntly denied having a child.

Laz Laz his wife posted his family picture on her facebook wall. They wore matching outfits in the pic . I cried my eyes out ehn....
Thank God I am in a better place now

You must have really liked him...

Happy you are in a cool place now

folake4u:
Lmaoooooooo

VenumX:
Swerve!!!

Suave ni....or Switzerland!!!

VenumX:
Take your own advice for once.

Reaaaaad and compreeeheeennnd!!!

Dammylois:
I was on Facebook and his page popped up,It's not even the name He told me.Uncle already has a beautiful wife and two Kids. When I confronted him he started begging that he loves me blah blah black ship.Oniyeye sombori

Lol.....

Pele babe

Blackdeewhy:
mine was in school 2010. we meet in school, things were so hard for me that I could still remember how my stomach was grumbling for minutes in the exam all ( it was that bad). Well I got an hotel job so from school to work, work home. He helped me out with my assignment and one thing led to another we had sex.
Long story short, I went for my 1year industrial training when I realized I was three months gone. I called him to notify him and he told me he was married, he has two kids. He gave me options of dropping the baby for her mother in the village or be his second wife.
I was just 24 then, I have no friend, no guardian or good parent.
In all I went with option C which was to take care of my self and my child. And till today HE NEVER ASKED, CARE OR TRY TO LOOK BACK.
She will be nine on Monday, few months time I will be through with my masters and give Canada a shot. And Settle down someday!!!!

Nice one....

You strong!!

VenumX:
I guess you were just her f*CK boy. You were only dating your self.
Why didn't you just walk away when you found out?
I don't know how you will say you like mature women bla bla bla. ...when it's clear you are after their wallet.
The spirit of gigolo and blackmail is in you and it will destroy you.

Read and comprehend naaa

folake4u:
Hmmm if I start to talk ehnnnnnn, mouth nor go finish .
I met some of them here on Nairaland

Oya talk....


So you wan expose me abi? Over that little thing? I told you that she is my ex-wife na?

extremelygolden:
Thank you, Sir.

Lol..your head don swell gan abi?

bukatyne:
False

The lady committed fornication; yes.
The man committed adultery and deceived the lady that he was single.

So.what's the difference between the two,no be sin?

Metronomy:
No naaa, just type their number for Facebook search.... If there's any record, it'll come out.

I mean if you wanna read their FB messages

Marriage?

Lemme leave this to the ladies

Jesus Christ!!!!


This one deserves a thread again?

Niceguy4ever:
Didn't get your message

Sorry bro...my account balance is frowning at me. Dude is not happy!!!

Niceguy4ever:
Bros pity me na

Lmaoooo...


No vex!!!