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Oshokhai69:
Lack of toto and chronic masturbation don dey touch this one brain. Abeg o no be my fault say Baba God make you broke and ugly. E go better..in your soapy dreams

K

advanceDNA:
now I'm not logical...lol..u have not heard women that that strip in front of men, send their nudes online??...a woman doesn't have to pay....as long as the man isn't fvcking her physically..they are just doing virtual/ electronic erotic things


U are condescending and evasive...and to big to admit ..instead u are twisting like earthworm they pour salt on......I never asked u about toys...I asked if ur wife is seeing men online and sexually engaging them electronically......its the same men do with only fans...just that payment is involved with men..

I said what I said. Women don't pay for shiit like that. Whatever else you feel, is up to you buddy!!!

Oshokhai69:
Please who get time to read this epistle? Una go dey talk vet vet. Like say una be saints. If women say make dem sef dey vet una, una go dey vex. Nobody holy. You are bad. Woman is bad. Una go link up and take anything wey una see for road. Finish!

But if you be saint, then continue to dey vet to find the chosen one. God help you!

You bald headed mudafucker!!!

Just shut dafuq up and go scratch your craw-craw nutsack somewhere else.

PinkNature:
Can you be with someone you like and not want to spend a few thousands on drinks, food, checking out a place etc?

Something is definitely wrong with you if all you can think of in same sentence is 'like' and 'not want' followed by money.

Dem use this thing curse una?

Yes.... I can be with someone I like and NOT WANT to do anything. What's making me or pushing me to want? Y'all are so conditioned to spend money by force as show of love to vaginarians that it sickens me.

Goodlady:
If dog nor bite ya yansh dz weak make my bf serve me breakfast. Ndi ara.
See his poverty head below!

Lol...you lost that bet because there are no dogs where I am.

So prepare for your breakfast, basketmouth

advanceDNA:
I don't know if he has a problem fvcking his wife...the story did not say??

U have still not answered..... Will u be cool as u are expecting her to be cool if ur wife is striping in front of men online and paying them to make her cum?? It's just fetish??
As long as she's a "good wife"....??

Your question is not logically/realistically placed. Let me help you. You are looking at it emotionally.

First offs, women don't pay online for anything sexual like that, men do. Secondly, women have toys. They will rather use toys.

So, your question should be, 'will you be comfortable if your wife uses toys in your presence?'

My reply: Of course I will be. Toys don't threaten my manhood. If she feels she needs more orgasm and I'm tired, she can go ahead and satisfy herself. I don't mind😊😊😊

In both cases, nobody cheated on anybody physically but you can make a case for emotional cheating. So you see, OP's wife may feel cheated on emotionally hence her rants but most women would rather their men watch porn than have a side-chick, or financially irresponsible or violent to them and their kids.

advanceDNA:
Did she complain of masturbation....what's are u even saying?? Will u take it if ur wife pays men online that make her cumm??

U don't know what is called compromise... U are just out of point and feel like throwing back what u saw

Lol..to be candid I guess I am not seeing it from your perspective. I am seeing it from a fetish angle. He has no problem fûcking his wife right...or providing for his family? He has a fetish he needs once in awhile. What you can say that's not proper is if he spends so much time and money on Onlyfans that it affects his time and providing for his family.

immortalcrown:
Hakimi's friend.

Please, what is red pill about?

Oh you know red pepper? Ata gigun....yes that's the redpill... Just stick it into your butt and immeasurable wisdom will flow through your ass to your brain.

advanceDNA:
Nigga if u self-service ur dick and pay women online and ur wife says she's not cool with it....tell her to fvck off that she doesn't have point...

And if ur wife does same...I hope u'll be happy

Exactly my point!!!!

Women masturbate and we don't kill them do we?
That woman should let her husband have his fetish. So long he sleeps with her, take care of kids and all that. At least...he is not fucking some random ass woman outside. It's called compromise too

Rizzputin:
I went through again so I'm not sure which one you're referring to. BUT this is the one I took note of:
"I'm referring to a gf situation. A properly vetted woman is who you call your wife"


The thing is, a properly vetted woman is who you call your gf and/or wife

You don't want to be entering a relationship with a woman that is not properly vetted whether as a girlfriend or a wife.

In fact, a significant portion of vetting occurs BEFORE she becomes your girl.

Because while she's your gf... you'll spend time, money, energy and resources. And anything that requires such level of commitment should be a to a woman that's properly vetted.

One of the differences between a gf and wife is the level of commitment you're willing to give. Meaning she can't be treated as a wife when she's a gf. This is something I'll talk about later.

But vetting (a significant part) starts long before she becomes your gf.

It is assumed that before you made a woman your gf, you should have properly vetted her.

As a gf, she'll under go a few more vetting plus more investments, tests and commitment on her part

I added another reply after the gf part.

You vet always as a redpiller....everyone in your circle. What I talk of is making sure the woman you marry has been thoroughly vetted and even that alone isn't enough but helps reduce the chances of shiit occuring. And never relax after marrying her and lose your frame.

advanceDNA:
Ur argument is way off point....No person can be be comfortable with their partner sharing time and money with other people online or offline....nit even you......so i dont get what ur argument is about calling it his money....

Wateva u are doing that is affecting ur home and partner needs to be reviewed if u want the relationship to stand...weda its dildós or porn, or only fans.......that's what's called compromise in relationships....not blaming the other person....

Nah!! You are the sentimental one here. Dude has absolutely nothing to apologize for. I'm sure the wife uses Fleshlight too.

Goodlady:
How do women reason?
Those women with bastards, no be ya fellow man do them?
Men are the only scum!

Exactly like you.. that's how they reason

So because you got fûcked and had a child from the tryst, I, as the husband, should pay for the upkeep and everything of the child, as a penance for your cheating ass?

How dafuq does that even make any sense, mudafucker😡😡😡😡

superintendents:
I swear this shit would break long term peaceful families.. Is better to boycott this for your own sanity..

Why am I not surprised?

The SUPERINTENDENT OF SIMPS have spoken!!!

Watch how they come and give bullshiiit excuses like

'DNA test affects mental health and men shouldn't do it'
or

'All children are to be cared for, whether yours or not'

Mumu people!!!

@Rizzputin

How is your submission on vetting different from mine?

advanceDNA:
Her husband is technically cheating with women online and wasting family resources but you are blaming the victim...ko proper naa.....

So when women use dildos and toys, ain't they cheating on their partners, TECHNICALLY? shebi you wan form say you get talk ni..oya na..let's go there.

Family resources? He spent his own money and nowhere in the story was it told that he lacked in his duties.

WTF?

Longdon1:
I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 20. Now I’m 25 and he’s 26 and we have two kids (5 and 3).

Four years ago, while I was pregnant with my second son I found out he had an onlyfans account and it really upset me. I made my boundaries clear and explained that I was not okay with this because he’s paying them, but I was still okay with porn. Then a couple months later I found out he was still using onlyfans and on top of it had subscribed to one of my friend’s onlyfans. I talked to him again and explained that I would leave him over this. Another couple months go by and he’s STILL using onlyfans. At this point he had spent like $500 on it and I was obviously upset. I ended up leaving him and moving out with my two kids. A year went by of coparenting and eventually we talked it through and ended up back together. A couple months into being together I saw he had made on subscription to onlyfans, so I confronted him. He apologized and I was so confused because I literally just moved back with him so I ignored it that time.

It’s been one year since then and earlier this week I found out that he got an email from onlyfans. The email said his subscription was ending so I ended up changing the password and getting into his account. Turns out for all of 2023 he’s been subscribing to onlyfans. When I confronted him, he was just kind of listening but had nothing to say. I told him I needed to think and have no confronted him since.

The issue is in all other ways he’s a pretty decent partner. He drives me everywhere because he knows I don’t like to. He cleans, takes care of the kids, works. But I just can’t understand why he has to keep doing this and at this point I feel like I almost have to leave bc he clearly is not respecting me or my boundaries. On the other hand it would suck to leave because he’s my bestfriend and I love him and I’ve never really had to do life without him.

So with all these good qualities, na onlyfans be your problem? At least he is not cheating outside. Women have varieties of toys and men have to stomach that but that he spends his own money to wash some nude girl pisses you off?
He didn't stop fucking you or taking care of the bills or whatever and you still have an issue with his fetish?

WTF?

Negroid001:
Guy i like you. You be real gee.

Lmaooo... I no dey pretend oh...What you see is what you get.

Wawelexy:
Free who? Can't you see the age difference between those two, that girl is still a teenager. Why did he choose to bring her to a bush if he is actually proud to date her, why not take her to a hotel, even if he's broke, why didn't he use his room cos I can hear the guy recording them saying he left his room and came into the bush.

Some men and how they allow their third leg controls them is the reason why most of these ladies with empty skull hurls insult on the male gender.

I just hope the idiot used condom on her.

Nawa o...see as you wan die on top of matter wey be consensual and of legal age

Sapiens3:
True. Most of them have virus in their brain. I see them on Facebook often. Always dancing and shaking like earthworms. Foolish people will give them likes.

Earthworm dey shake?🤣🤣🤣🤣

Karlifate:
LMAO!

The boyfriend will SIMPly save up again to buy for her, so as not to 'lose' her.


Death to simps, abeg!

He loves her. How dare you make fun of him?🤣🤣🤣

Dannnn:
Anytime I hear 'vet your woman', I keep asking myself; have these people forgotten that All Women Are Like That(AWALT)?

Or are my missing something?

Women go always nack you akpako if you no stand fit, dem no dey follow you play o

The key is for you to be on your game always, even if AWALT is a rule. Women will bend for you, when your frame is strong. Lose that and you lose them. Of course, being humans, anyone can fûck you up but at least you minimize that risk by vetting, setting boundaries and letting her know there will be consequences. That's what our forefathers did and that's what I do.

Oshokhai69:
See wetin konji dey do this one. Man go just wake up dey vex for nothing because of lack of toto. Omo, why did God make some men rich and fine and others broke and ugly?

K

Oshokhai69:
You really think it is possible to ‘properly vet’ a woman that you marry?

Will you fuq off my mentions?

I don't do men....

Valwezzy:
Will you also tell your wife you’re not her father? I don’t understand

Of course not

I'm talking of a gf situation. A properly vetted woman that you married is one you can call a wife.

MetalJigsaw:
MONEY HAS DIFFERENT NAMES ...

In Church it is called Offering,

In Marriage it is called Brideprice,

In school it is called fee's,

When you owe someone it is called Debt,

When you pay the Government it is called Tax,

In Court it is called a Fine,

In Hospitals it is called Bills,

Tenancy - Rent,

Competition - Prize,

Government Retirees call it Pension,

Boss to Workers - Salary,

Master to Subordinates - Wages,

When you borrow from bank it is called Loan,

To k!dnappers - Ransom,

!llegally received in the name of service - Bribe,

In The Police Station - Bail,

The Question Is: What Is It Called When A Man Gives Money To His Woman?🥴🤌🙄😎🙄🙄

To simps it's called Love, Allowance, Bone Straight

To redpillers: Entitlement mentality, No shi-shi for anybody, Stingy boy association, You no be her Papa

Negroid001:
Don't like stressing my woman. No one is lazy, nothing bad with having a helping hand.
Gone are the days women work like jackals. Na soft life i want for my baby girl.

Why you dey reply that girl na?

She is like a meandering stream, no solid base but shifting banks. Now, she leapt from 'you are both guilty' to 'if I employ a maid,you will call me lazy'

Which kain reasoning be that na?

1Sharon:
Invest in extra gadgets. There is no need for maids.

Both of you are guilty if you sit back and do nothing.

Damn....you are some kind of dûmb ain't you?

danvon:
It's now he's the head of the house? What happened to equality and feminine power (responsibility)....

If he interferes it would make things worse for the maid, it would be implied that he has some sexual attraction to her and that would worsen her situation, besides the maid would become a woman one day and if she has anyone working beneath her she will most likely replicate the cruelty.

It's a feminine cycle of cruelty

Thank you. That babe na Naija babe wey dey UK, so her reasoning is affected by UK cold. She always muddles up shiit and thinks she is intelligent. How on earth will you absolve the woman of blame and transfer all the issue to her husband? Make the husband beat his wife and get accused that he is sleeping with the maid or what? Whatever happens to common human decency for a woman to behave normally.

Let's face the facts: Women don't love themselves and like cats, this vain fact is the reason they will never love men

1Sharon:
Why should you have other people's kids living with you? Why don't these so called head of the households put their foot down?

Shut ya ass up.
See how you subtly changed the blame from the woman to the man... Face the facts and stop with your meandering reasoning. The women who treat maids like slaves should be sent to prison. Final.

That's how logic dictates. That boy wey dey reply you don dey loosen his grip too...but not me. No gaslighting here.