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fairygeh:
Can the match just finish already?
Heart beating fast

Lmaoooo

Small geh

EreluRoz:
Engage them during those period and go close to them, guide them and build their confidence around you.

Seizing their phones won't do anything, I can't remember how many phones was seized from me back then but I had a secret phone for three years and nobody knew about it. You can never be smarter than a growing female child especially if she's the curious type.

There are certain things you can't stop them from knowing, they'll go behind your back to quench their curiosity but your assignment is to make them see the dangers involved and how it may affect their life negatively. Putting fears doesn't work with females it'll only make them smarter. Take my words

K!!!

RickyJesus:
Parents are late, both mine and theirs. I was mostly off and on at home with school, work and all that. But believe me bro them they fear (maybe not to the level I dey reason for my mind though) because I dey show them love normal when I can afford it.

The mum and dad trained them, but after the demise of their dad. We had to take them back into the family house some 3 years ago, that's when I started noticing the normality up close and as a normal guy man I can't just fold my hands.

Is there any manageable approach?

Ok. I get you.

Although, there are now at their puberty and raging hormones phase, you can keep up with the healthy fear stuff. Let them know you won't tolerate promiscuity , bad behaviour or anything that will disgrace the family. No boyfriends till they are in 300L or something (find a
balance that works for you) and there are consequences if they disobey these rules.

Taking away their phones sounds reasonable , at least till they enter the university (this may seem harsh to some other people but it is what it is). That makes them to focus on WAEC, NECO and JAMB. Don't restrict them from having any friends at all but make sure the ones they relate with seem focused on their academics and have good character.

All in all, these are my two cents. I wish you the best because it's never easy dealing with kids at that age, especially with the modern world bullshit going on.

RickyJesus:
Bro, I have got niece 14 & 15 but they know nothing to discuss but boys always. I tried encouraging them to concentrate more in school and don't seat outside the house once it's pass 8.

It would be as if they have heard me but after a week or two when I get a bit busy with my life, they go back to their demented ways which is effecting my peace because I always imagine the worst outcome which if it should come to pass, e go still effect my life financially and emotionally if you know what I mean. I have seize their phones for now.

Would appreciate more insight on how to approach this, thanks. Would also appreciate input from all. Thanks.

The issue is the hand that trained them from birth. If it's you, then, you didn't set the ground rules early enough because they seemed too comfortable around you. A healthy fear for authority is needed for kids/adolescents.

If you didn't raise them, then, what exactly do you do for them? Where are their parents? Seizing their phones is a good measure but doesn't limit them from using their friend's phones but the fact that you at least showed some willpower to discipline them is good

Streak47:
That lady troll up there has been dropping some subtle redpill nugget in here maybe knowingly or unknowingly, hope other guys can read in between the lines. Her submissions further reaffirms all the redpill teachings. Just look at that post she put a smile emoji!

Those lines:
'Why do you want to stop being a man'
'Had to defend him too'
'He was just being a man+smile emoji'

Leave that one. She thinks every man is pussy whipped like the men in her life. Two months with me and she has will learn that there are other breeds of men, who don't pretend and are actually redpillers

Fortuneed:
quite an experience. Though lady are not weird same way some might differ though

They won't tell you what I'm telling you until you show them you are strong willed and dominant. No woman wants a man she can control, it has a bad ripple effect on the kids.

Wotowotoman:
And all women act the same way

Including your mama ?

Even my mom...YES ..

I'm not one of those who fear to talk the truth even if it concerns the women in my family. I love them but I have seen how ruthless my mom and sister can be. Women are like cats that way. Zero chill!!!

N.B: I have noticed how NL feminist or some males like you use the term 'even your Mama' as a reverse psychology tactic to get you to back down or second guess your opinions but not me, not concerning the redpill. Women are the leading redpillers and they ALWAYS PUT THEMSELVES FIRST, YES, EVEN OUR MOTHERS,SISTERS AND AUNTS. DEAL WITH IT

adambeatz:
When you tell men to stay wicked they think, it's just to exhibit wickedness without frame. When a man has taken his sweet time to first provide value, then proceed to get money, who would want to argue with him when the whole world knows he has paid his dues. There are men who one would come across and When they say no, its going to take a gun to their forehead to change their decision, especially when they disagree for the right reasons, makes it hard to change their minds. Women openly criticize such men but would prefer him over a man who is easily persuaded. Stay wicked equals working on yourself to provide value which in turn produces profit for you while at the same time you erect walls as high as Jericho and you make sure you patrol your walls daily with a rifle.

💯

Mentholated:
The way women take selfish decisions atimes should be studied as a course in the University. The brutality can be unparalleled, like you never meant anything. You will keep questioning your reality. The man was stranded at the airport for 12hrs confused.

You don't know the half of it. When they don't need you anymore, they drop you like you are watery shiit!! The brutality surpasses mortal Kombat. Yet society see them crying and automatically assume they are innocent. Then, simps that refused to listen will keep getting burnt. How on earth can a 50 year old man put himself as dependant going to the UK? What's he going there to do, wash plates or work in factories? He should have been the main applicant and his family dependants. But we both know who cajoled him to make her the main applicant, don't we?

N.B: A girl I was dating one time told the reason she respected me was that I no send anybody and once I take a decision that I don't go back. Not tears, or begging or threats would make me change my mind. She said since I can't be controlled by her, then other women won't be able to control me and THAT'S THE KIND OF MAN SHE WOULD LOVE TO BE WITH. She said she hated weak men and in her words, 'They are good providers but bad leaders and once you collect all they have, you cast them far away from you. Nothing dries my pussy faster than a weak man'.

I hope the simps on NL would read this and learn but right now, another nigga is using all his resources to train a girl in school, paying her rent and working her papers to Canada.

My philosophy is simple: I put me FIRST!

IAmHim1:
2nd commandment: dont call the name of your lord in vain

i can let it slide if you used the name of your earthly father anyhow

please do share to us all luminouz, whats the name of your dad

You are still not making any sense.

Why don't you stop taking drugs, that shiit is killing you slowly!!!

Mom007:
Oya go and marry the lady before your blessings turn sour. God is not mocked.

So if he didn't marry her, God will curse him or what?

He is already taking care of her and the baby. Wetin remain?

Mentholated:
A man in his early 50s was abandoned at a UK airport by his wife last month. The man is a level 16 civil servant in Nigeria. They sold most of their properties to get a COS care Visa for the wife. He and their 2 teenage kids were her dependent.
She simply told him that she has gotten what she wanted and called her uncle who came and pick her and her kids from the airport. The man was left stranded. He did not resign from his job in Nigeria but is too ashamed to go back.

He can still come back so long he hasn't resigned. Hunger doesn't know shame.

He lost it all when he made himself the dependant. Putting yourself first as the man is both literally and figuratively used. Same also happens to men who train their girlfriends through school.

Anashe:
"I learned long ago never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it."

Mtchewwww!!!

You think I'd wither and cower but I didn't and since you don't have any other cards to play, you now took the moral high ground? Shioor!!!

I was expecting my nudes to fill everywhere na ..abi no be my nudes you wan show before?

Oniranu!!!

Everyone say make you no engage trolls.

Yet, you see so-called male monikers actively engaging the chief troll of the thread.

Will it kill y'all to maintain frame, for God's sake?

🙄🙄🙄

Anashe:
You? Lol. I won't give you the attention you desperately seek. You woke up at 5.18am Nigerian time to type this shows you're either jobless or unstable. I mean with over 26,000 comments on Nairaland and I'm the one to shut up? I dare you to respond and I'll dig up your shit in emails, lol. I've been on this platform for a long long time but deactivated circa 2017. Don't push me.

I dare you. Pull out my shiit and let's see.

Anashe:
Okay

Will you shût it?

Cho Cho Cho....

Bighead

IAmHim1:
Nobody and i repeat nobody should join that whatsapp redpill group. unless you purposely want to ruin yourself in all ways you can ever think of

its filled with mostly breathing piece of adult babies going back and forth with nonsense. soo.much that even those with real value or content are buried deeply or have finally left

the last thing id want to do is quote you. but this message should be put out there.

redpill is improvement as man and woman. anything you can do to improve yourself is redpill: finance, health, family, travel, spirituality etc.

look for the ugly truth about a sector (banking n finance, food, exercise, sex health, spirituality leadership, fasshion, travel, etcetera etcetera)...the part that flies over most peoples head especially. study it and milk it while causing no harm to any1 in the process.

karma is real and so is reincarnation.

but hey, this thead hasnt for once spoken about that yeah
lolzzzz

a whole " reality every guy needs to know" for that matter

https://www.nairaland.com/6908619/good-deeds-life

your journey of a thousand miles...

Your mata dey taya person. You always talk like you are high on some octane shiit. Disordered posts and shifting topic grounds just kill whatever sense you are trying to make. Leave the WhatsApp group alone and face your own shiit.

Kapish?

OgunjimiFengxi:
This isn't trolling tbh....I believe you're mentally unstable!!

Get help biko....please don't dismiss this, I genuinely do care.

I don't want IT to be healed. I prefer the madness. It gives me hope that at least we can concentrate on the sane ones.

caesymore:
my cousin thought it was a joke when I told him to come to my work place a hospital and look for someone that we had beautiful,intelligent, single and God fearing nurses here . He got married and is in uk as the wieves dependant.

Be positive and go hunting bro. You fit start from your church

Start from the church? Are you kidding me?

The girl's mum is a deeper life member(prolly a women leader) and her character is like that...what makes you think the church is a good hunting ground!!! The church is a place for hypocrites and chameleons to hide and strike at unsuspecting men.

Did you say nurses too? I laugh in pure water satchet!!! It's not about profession or church bro, that's where you are wrong...it's about individuality and character. Let him hunt everywhere but keep vetting. The good ones always turn up sonner or later!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Indeed, Benefit boy.

Will you stop?😡😡😡😡

UyaiIncomparabl:
What I could deduce from your story is that you are a BENEFIT BOY A.k.a A BOMBING BOY A.ka. A YAHOO BOY. Else, what did you mean by "my clients' accounts and many Instagram accounts? What do you use them for? What do you do as a job? Stop whining and get over yourself, abeg. At least, get a genuine job for starters.

Also please ehn, next time, consider dating women from 25 years and above. Leave the under 24-year-old girls to enjoy their youths and maximize their potentials. But, no. You men are always looking for fresh bodies, tight holes and young girls to colonize and train.

Get a life, abeg. Serves you right.

What are you saying bayi? Iffa wooze you!!

Brokendad:
Cc

Ishilove
Luminouz
Seun
Originalsly
Maasoap
samwillyco1
sulakishop
occfx
Foodqueen
almarthins

I remember your story and you have done well bro.

Leeches belong in ditches!!!

Next time, don't ever get manipulated and vet your woman very well

sweetTai:
My life is very good. I don’t go around telling fake prophecy. It is morons like yourself that allow this kind of disdain in our society. Oloshi!

Werey

Na why you come online to denigrate a whole country because someone decided to take two wives..

Oponu Omo

sweetTai:
Who asked you to castrate him? Did you read the article? Can all the nonsense he’s saying be coming from a man of God? Shut up guy!

Coman shût me up na...efulefu

If someone checks your life now, you are worse than him

TINTINABULATION:
You just revealed the type of home u come from and your extremely shameful upbringing.

Of course, I wasn't talking to ghetto people like you who have no shame, integrity or decency in life. For you and your type, anything goes!

Your father can even sleep with your maternal great grandmother and their pets. Its just a pity. Too bad! SMH

K!!!

EreluRoz:
It's not true, I attracted all form of men and very decent ones inclusive, I was just enjoying the attention and all but was still naive in all I was doing.

K

sweetTai:
This is a symptom of a sick and unstable nation. When a man like this can say all these nonsense and still have followers and church members? Nigeria is really a mess.

Una go just open ya mouth and say rûbbish.

So one man decided to marry more than one wife and that makes Nigeria sick and unstable?

So we should do what, castrate him?

TINTINABULATION:
I indeed pity the poor & innocent woman i.e the wife.

She had just been betrayed by the two strongest & most important pillars any lady should have in life.

For the sake of her sanity & mental health, the most courageous thing to do, is to walk away.

You no just get sense.

Make she walk away because her blood dey naack her husband?

You really think I'd walk away from a girl my dad introduced to me, who has been a good wife and mother to my kids, just because I discovered that my dad dey naack am when he is a widower after 20 years? You dey mãd

My dad is my blood... Sure, I'd feel bad but to thrash both of them? Nah ...

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??



The more a man simps, the less a woman respects him and thus the less attractive she finds him.

But the more a woman simps, the more she endears a man and the more he likes her.

Men appreciate submission, women don’t.

I don’t make the rules, I merely note and observe them.


👍

And you are absolutely RIGHT!!!

LordIsaac:
In the closing line lies her true intent…it was said with so much emotion. We represent the greatest simps under heaven. Infact, it’s obvious we love it!😍

Not me. I ain't no fuckin simp

Kennyfancy:
See state when them say educated People full, Fool******** everywhere

So one man is a representative of a whole state?

Now who is sounding fóôlish if not you!!!

etrange:
No, sir. A good team is a well rounded team. CV cannot be said to be the better team when their penalty skills are non existent. SA played well enough not to concede any goal during regulation time (proving CA isn't necessarily better) but most importantly, they showed they're better at penalties than CA. So yeah, I think the better team won.

Mumu analysis..

Go sit ya black ass down jor...